Wasn't trying to stab at you
[QUOTE=VerySlowly][QUOTE=Blondehound]Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.
I have no problem with getting a call from a provider now and then, but if she gets pissed because I won't come see her then I have a problem with her.
Alot of High Quality ladies if you are their regular will call if they haven't heard from you in awhile. I get calls asking how have I been and making sure I am ok now and then. They don't even ask me to come see them, they know they just put themselves back in my thoughts just by checking on me. I also tell a lady I am interested in that she can call me anytime.
So it may be that its never ok for your girls to call you, but for alot of us thats not the case.[Quote]
There is nothing to be gained from a provider calling you. F.Y.I. several providers call and text me all the time BUT I'm on a different level than you. Trust me on that I'm not going to prove it to you.
It is never appropriate for a normal provider to call a John, even with all the bla, bla from several of you that think it is all right, many of you must be very young, this rule has been in place since Methuselah got his first BBBJCIM. It is there for a reason, this is a business transaction breaking the barrier is not cool they are not your girlfriend , it is almost as bad as you stopping by their place unannounced, try that sometime and see what happens!! Write all you want, it is a stupid way to do business, a girls performance, reviews and web advertising are all that is appropriate and necessary.
Your first paragraph says a lot, she's your GIRL but apparently your not her MAN because you'd just put her in her place if she got insecure and wondered who the hottie was that hugged you in the mall---how immature. Your GIRL has feelings why insult her because your getting a little on the side--are you starting to get the picture why you call the provider, they never call you unless it's to return a call. Why do I think if a stud came up to your girl and gave her a hug and squeeze in the mall you would do more than casually ask her who that was. NO you would go ballistic I know because of your comment about others being "whipped" or married, rather an insult to the rest of us.
I hope you came to the board to contribute and learn and not to run your mouth about what's good for you cause it's all about you. you, you.
These are general rules that work for the majority and not the exception.---VS[/QUOTE]
The married and whipped statement wasn't meant to hurt anyones feelings.
I was stating that not all of us are married.
And its a fact that alot of men are whipped, which means to me they have to walk on egg shells around their ladies. Wasn't trying to state that married means whipped. I should have put them in two different sentences.
As far as the hug goes my girl would have left me a long time ago if that kind of thing bothered either of us. You see I have been hugging women and men as a greeting since I was 13. So my girl has seen me hug people daily for 10 years now.
Of course she would ask me who was that, but she isn't going to be insulted by it. I didn't come to these forums to post all about me and I never stated that. Was just commenting that what works for you doesn't mean we all abide by the same rules.
I don't care how many posts you have or don't have, we all come here to contribute, help and we all learn here as well.
I added my 2 cents to your post, if you don't like then its your option to post a comment about it as well
We have no way to know how old someone is here or if they have been mongering for 32 years and really it doesn't matter. Yes I have come to the boards to share whats been good for me me me. Because whats been good for me can be good for others.
My post wasn't meant to bust on you in any way, sorry you took it that way.
Bully away I am here to stay and I will write my posts my way.
BH
Very easy solution -fight bullshit with more bullshit
[QUOTE=Gemini407]Hello fellow board members,
I have pondered this for quite a while. I am a "Nice Guy" and a hobbyist when it comes to gfe hunting. Occasionally when I am feeling adventurous I place a call to a new ad. I typically spend in the $2 plus .50 tip, if I enjoy it, range. I have on three occasions been baited and switched and keep in mind I am very particular, after all if I wanted a 5 I could just go to a bar. I usually just go along with the "new" girl in the situation, to avoid hurting her feelings, give her the $2, no tip but I think from now on it will be a deal breaker. I guess what I want to know is how you fellow hobbyists handle the bait and switch and am I going to be wrong for leaving immediately upon site in the future? What do you all think?[/QUOTE]
"Excuse me, I must be in the wrong place" If she says "aren't you Joe who called me for directions 10 minutes ago?" You should lie (after all she did about her description) and say no you were just "passing through"
"Wasn't trying to stab at you"
Interesting choice of words. Stabbing ,Hmmmm.
[Quote] My post wasn't meant to bust on you in any way, sorry you took it that way.
Bully away I am here to stay and I will write my posts my way.
BH [Quote]
It seems the two sentences are in conflict, why do you think I'm bullying you? I'm just trying to teach you something, if you have already got it all figured out than good for you!
Stay here and write your posts your way, actually I don't see how you could write them any other way since you are you thus you must write them your way.
The sharp guys on here can separate the wheat from the chaff.--VS
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[QUOTE=VerySlowly]People who get their knowledge from fortune cookies are among the intellectual giants of the world.
Try this: "There are none so blind as those that will not see".--VS[/QUOTE]
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In re: The Ol' Bait-n-Switch
Whether you're buying a car or a kilo, you always need to be able to walk away from a deal. The minute people know you will pay regardless of how they screw with the terms after they have been agreed to, the only person that is going to get fucked is you, and not likely in any way you would enjoy.
If anyone complains, or claims you need to pay for services not rendered and tries to make you pay out of fear for your safety. Shoot them.
Better yet, do good research, have some rules and standards, and stick to them like they were handed down to you on clay tablets by your ol' pal the Burning Bush (STD pun NOT intended). Find a few ladies that work for you and stick with them. Better for you; better for them.
Pink spooning your way through the Internet, while sometimes fun, tends to be the root of a lot of the stories I hear about rip offs and disappointing services. Personally I'd love to see a well managed Provider Whitelist and Blacklist. The "hobbyist" community (personally I prefer patron, but I digress) then needs to adhere to shunning anyone on the Blacklist. Take away the financial incentive to do that crap, and they will leave Orlando, or change their ways (hopefully the former).
I know people try to do something similar on the forums from time to time, but it isn't a well managed enough effort to really track aliases, etc. They way they would need to be. So alas. The games continue.
Need for a "stimulus package"
[QUOTE=Vino 7373]Hi Tinaa,
I believe that everyone is a victim of the tough economic times. A lot of people are flat-out broke and worried about just paying bills right now.
My business is way down. I have $70 in my checking account right now. I know all my friends in the service industry are hurting big-time. This town feeds upon tourism and conventions. It doesn't matter if you don't work directly in those businesses or not, it's a trickle-down effect. Supposedly, things are supposed to pick up in the fall. I know there's good convention business that starts at the end of Sept and the rest of the fall is booked solid. I just hope we all make it until then.
I'll try to see you when I get paid, though. I'll PM you. Good luck to all of us.[/QUOTE]
Tinaa
If you will just cum over to my oval office, I'll whip out my Presidential pen and I'm sure we can draft a stimulus package for mongers like Vino. Add a second girl, or a second pop, or an all you can eat Wednesdays and the buffalo herd will eventually return. How about Unlimited intern dictation Thursdays? I like the sound of that! :)
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