Suppose we could do this job
[QUOTE=DarkRoomDaddy;6931211]Well how would we feel doing this same job? We all love a good session. So what if MMS said that we could get a job. Every Asian woman who came in, we had to flirt with her, and get turned on, and give her an orgasm. Most assuredly, these customers are not going to be 25 year old super models. They are more like 50 year old plain janes packing a dozen or two extra pounds. Half a dozen of them come in a day. And if we are not nice and flirty with them, they might give a $20 tip or even a dine-and-dash. How much do you think we would enjoy that sex? And now imagine doing it for years. Maybe never having any woman we were actually attracted to. And feeling guilty that we are selling our bodies rather than doing honorable work. How much job satisfaction would we have?
I knew a woman who dated a gynecologist. A guy who inspects pussies all day long. Well he had a hard time getting aroused. In his particular case, he liked slapping this girl across the face during sex, and probably some more serious S&M. She didn't find out, because she called me to pick her up and help her get out of that situation.[/QUOTE]How many mongers visit the grannies in Westminster and pay up to $200 for FS? If those same mongers did the job that Dark Room Daddy describes, they would be paid for the same experience.
BTW, I have not yet seen a 25 year old super model in any of the parlors in OC.
My first rimming experience
[QUOTE=Blake37;6931740]Like some other people have mentioned, in the early days you were at the mercy of classified paper ads and trying local massage parlors until you found one that had service and that you liked. There were early advertising sites like Thatmall, City-Source, and CV. TER was the first prominent review board, but there were local ones like Desperado's Blue Board, the two "Trooth" boards, which eventually morphed into HX.
Before those review boards appeared or even before you knew to try the online advertising boards, the whole dynamic was scam city. Orange county was all about cash and dash, no real services, and scam phone banks for "escorts. " There was a whole thing where the cops were ok with these agencies existing and scamming people. So, without boards a lot of people went through the experience I did where they got scammed out of money for basically nothing the first time they tried to see someone. Once you hit '99 the dynamic got better with board advice.
There was a period in the late 90's where there were some really nice massage parlors in the Costa Mesa / South Coast Plaza area. The standards of service were different then, with BBBJ being rare, let alone anything else. But the girls were SMOKING hot at the the time. It was expected that most Korean girls were actually in their 20's and most were her on tourist or student visas and were really chill. There was always a fun tension when you waited in the room not knowing who would come in, until you met favorites that you would request. My all time favorite girl at that time was Minku, was a little 5'0" girl with a gorgeous face, super skinny, with natural DDs like a living anime character. She was super cute and fun and I was a dumbass at the time and didn't pick up the hints that she wanted to hang out with me outside of work, since I was a late 20's kid at the time, including her giving me a personal e-mail address.
That same place I saw a girl who was also pretty hot and clearly raised here. Fun, snarky, and foul mouthed. Imagine my surprise when I used Thatmall a few months later to see the infamous Miss K and it turned out to be the same girl, who was also a porn star who went by Mika Choix. I was a regular for several years. She had this whole thing where she wanted to just try all aspects of the sex industry for fun. Probably my all time favorite for a mix of service, personality, and looks. A typical session with her at her place was hanging out, a massage, and then her edging me with a BBBJ for well over an hour. Those were the days!
In the 2000's the OC review boards grew through the "Trooth" boards until they finally turned in HX. That's when I started making a bit more money and could see more of the porn girls who were on HX and in other places. That was a fun time vs now. There were more personal connections and some of the dynamics were borderline like the modern sugar feel, where there was less rushing and more of a casual connection.
The above is not meant as a "brag," because I think that was a pretty common experience for guys at the time. You hobby a bunch and there were some real gems. I think maybe it's easier to find good experiences these days, but harder to find great experiences, if that makes sense. I wish I could take the girls and attitudes from the 2000's with modern menus to get HOBBY VOLTRON.
Everything kind of consolidated in the 2010's to now. The Korean girls went to a better setup with the apartments, but for various reasons the younger girls stopped coming to the states, so you have the more MILF vibe now. There are still some indies in HX, but most girls have consolidated into a bunch of agencies, some of which are still pretty good. But that all ended up pushing me to mostly deal with the sugar girls. A lot more work, but when you find one the dynamic is great![/QUOTE]In the early 90's, there was a Korean AMP on Baker Street in Newport or CM. I went there at midday. My masseuse was a 20-something, slightly overweight Korean angel. While I was supine on the table with my face in the hole, I felt this delightful sensation of her tongue flicking my anus. Wow, did that feel heavenly? My introduction to rimming.
