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Bonita22
[QUOTE=AnomBox;5708073]Greetings my Philly brothers. I am chatting with this one and thought one of you might have interacted with her even though her profile is fairly new. We've chatted on the phone and she sounds quite sexy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dceaa79e-0068-4c8c-8b5c-418d9df6a37a[/URL][/QUOTE]That first picture looks familiar but I can't place her now. Going to look through some old pics I have saved.
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Same here, I like her profile, but there's something sneakily familiar. Not saying that's a red flag, just saying the hairs on the back of my neck tell me I know her somehow.
[QUOTE=PinHead11;5715525]That first picture looks familiar but I can't place her now. Going to look through some old pics I have saved.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=PinHead11;5715525]That first picture looks familiar but I can't place her now. Going to look through some old pics I have saved.[/QUOTE]Nope, can't find one, I tried.
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Alana
[QUOTE=Fireball25;5674499]I reached out to this one. Quoted $$ then went to $$ just to watch her eat / drink. Said men pay her that amount but was willing to "work" with me. Lectured me on the definition of a hooker. Hard pass.[/QUOTE]I talked to her after your post. Tried and tried to meet but she wouldn't bend unless I would to pay her 200 for at least our first platonic meet. She expected the $ before our date began. No guarantees after that. I suggested multiple options and got shot down every time. Got hours of phone time and umpteen texts.
She was 100% focused on not connecting the help to sex. Too bad because I really like her look and if she could get past that point....I just couldn't see taking the chance on one or more dates and it never progressing.
PH.
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Worthwhile SBs
With all these scammers and flakes on SA I can guarantee that the few who are worth anything and ask for reasonable payment can get as many hookups as they want. For instance, if you find an attractive young white woman on SA with a good attitude who gives a girlfriend experience for say 200 to 300 don't think because you keep her to yourself she is low volume. Even though she may tell you she is looking for one regular she might just be as busy as escorts advertising on certain websites.
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Brightseductress
[QUOTE=PinHead11;5715823]I talked to her after your post. Tried and tried to meet but she wouldn't bend unless I would to pay her 200 for at least our first platonic meet. She expected the $ before our date began. No guarantees after that. I suggested multiple options and got shot down every time. Got hours of phone time and umpteen texts.
She was 100% focused on not connecting the help to sex. Too bad because I really like her look and if she could get past that point....I just couldn't see taking the chance on one or more dates and it never progressing.
PH.[/QUOTE]Sorry you had the same experience. I'm surprised I haven't seen this one on here.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d842174e-dbbf-43c7-aa9c-622e6a3f5680[/URL]
She is on and off, but couldn't establish a connection to ultimately meet. I would have liked to meet her.
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[QUOTE=Fireball25;5716044]Sorry you had the same experience. I'm surprised I haven't seen this one on here.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d842174e-dbbf-43c7-aa9c-622e6a3f5680[/URL]
She is on and off, but couldn't establish a connection to ultimately meet. I would have liked to meet her.[/QUOTE]Seriously- I would take the day off work in the blink of a eye for that.
Interesting how she is a dancer so she could get any number of guys from her job in after hours play but she specifically mentions she doesn't want to escort. So if I am reading her profile right she is looking for more than a quick FC. More traditional SB- hang out, go places and do things together then fun after.
If that's the case she already knows her 'value' I wouldn't touch the money subject until I met her and got a good feeling of what she is truly looking for. She might just be that true SB with a real kink.
PH.
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Value
[QUOTE=PinHead11;5716593]Seriously- I would take the day off work in the blink of a eye for that.
Interesting how she is a dancer so she could get any number of guys from her job in after hours play but she specifically mentions she doesn't want to escort. So if I am reading her profile right she is looking for more than a quick FC. More traditional SB- hang out, go places and do things together then fun after.
If that's the case she already knows her 'value' I wouldn't touch the money subject until I met her and got a good feeling of what she is truly looking for. She might just be that true SB with a real kink.
PH.[/QUOTE]Like anything else, your value is what the market will offer. I see guitars occasionally and know that what I think and what is offered as a fair price is dependent on the buyer. Too many of these girls brag that they know their worth, when they don't even know the competition. Usually it's the mediocre looking ones with the worst attitude. Just like a girl wearing 50 $ of Walmart clothing telling me she likes the finer things in life. When she probably can't tell the difference between champagne and dishwasher soap.
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Facts
[QUOTE=Mg995;5712308]There are a lot of thieves on there. I learned the hard way and was ripped off twice when I first started and was naive. Besides hiding your money or not leaving it unattended when you go to the bathroom another thing is don't ever pay up front even at your place or in a hotel. They can always take the money, get ready to leave, and say they will scream and accuse you of something if you prevent them from leaving with the money. If they insist maybe show them you have the money and tell them you were ripped off before when handing money over at the beginning. It's better for them to leave without you getting any action than to risk being ripped off.[/QUOTE]Love this advice and used it last night. Had a girl that wanted me to come to her place last night. She added new pics and she looked about 25 lbs thinner than her first group of pics. So, I'm thinking chemical demons. She also kept telling me up about how great I was and that she was there to make me happy. So, another warning sign. Starting to sound too good to be true.
I go to her address and it's really a bad area, next to a bad town with very high crime rates. I was like, this can go real bad and my inner voice was screaming that I need to get out of there. I also have a relatively expensive car and didn't want it stolen. I text her that I wasn't going to leave my car there and if she wanted to see me, will get her and go to a hotel, or she can meet me. She responded that she didn't have a car and was not just getting in mine.
I thought with my head, not my dick and I'm worried she's setting me up. I blocked her and went home. Enjoyed a night with my medical weed from the NJ dispensary and later, got a message from a girl in Philly that wants to meet tonight. So, alll good in the end.
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Good move
Overkill418 that was a good move getting out of there. It's probably better she didn't get in your car. It might have been hard getting rid of her. For instance, I met someone at a seedy hotel in bad area and told her I would take her so someplace else. She got in the car and said she owed money and needed to bring it in the hotel first. To make it short, I ended up giving her $20 just so she would leave the car. I got out of dodge and a few minutes later she texts saying she needs more money. That was the last I ever heard from her, thank God.
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Money
[QUOTE=Mg995;5720271]Overkill418 that was a good move getting out of there. It's probably better she didn't get in your car. It might have been hard getting rid of her. For instance, I met someone at a seedy hotel in bad area and told her I would take her so someplace else. She got in the car and said she owed money and needed to bring it in the hotel first. To make it short, I ended up giving her $20 just so she would leave the car. I got out of dodge and a few minutes later she texts saying she needs more money. That was the last I ever heard from her, thank God.[/QUOTE]Hooked with a cool girl from SA who lives in South Philly. Today, she asks me to send 125 $ for groceries. I told her that I don't use any cash apps and can't help her until next week. Obviously, have meets with two others before I'm supposed to see her again.
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Asking for an Advance
Seems like many of the SA dates think that once we have been together a time or two they are entitled to ask for an advance at any time. I make it clear upfront that I won't do that LOL. I recently dumped a great long term regular for that bs. Now she's asking to get back together.
Runner.
[QUOTE=OverKill418;5720412]Hooked with a cool girl from SA who lives in South Philly. Today, she asks me to send 125 $ for groceries. I told her that I don't use any cash apps and can't help her until next week. Obviously, have meets with two others before I'm supposed to see her again.[/QUOTE]
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So PHL
[QUOTE=OverKill418;5720412]Hooked with a cool girl from SA who lives in South Philly. Today, she asks me to send 125 $ for groceries. I told her that I don't use any cash apps and can't help her until next week. Obviously, have meets with two others before I'm supposed to see her again.[/QUOTE]Does the grocery money request off-set her coolness or will you go back?
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Control
[QUOTE=Runner8;5721446]Seems like many of the SA dates think that once we have been together a time or two they are entitled to ask for an advance at any time. I make it clear upfront that I won't do that LOL. I recently dumped a great long term regular for that bs. Now she's asking to get back together.
Runner.[/QUOTE]I honestly think much of it is a control game. I did have one that I was seeing a few months, she asked me to cover her emergency dental bill. I did, thinking after a few months, why rip me off now? I also just lost my mom and was kinda distracted and thinking what kind of degenerate would try and scam me now? Well she ghosted after that. Another lesson learned. She actually called a few months later saying that she was sorry and felt so bad. She wanted to come see me and make it up. Then asked for 400 $ to cover her college tuition. I said no and blocked her. She started messaging me on Facebook, calling me from burner numbers, calling from her work phone ect. Begging me to take her back and that she learned that she needs to make amends and be a better person. All bullcrap.
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Cyn
Anyone have any info on Cyn? Seems relatively new but has been in this game before.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87a8fc77-75a0-4bde-825f-471adea64718[/URL]
Have been chatting recently but nothing finalized. Will report back if I get more but looking for ppm and wanted some concrete numbers if anyone knew previously.