"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3695744]Yeah, you are heavily outnumbered for one thing. I don't even like to do doubles unless I've already seen one of the girls before and I know she's cool.[/QUOTE]They are real. Actually they used to be 4, but one dropped off. I have met some of them, but even if you want to meet just one, another would tell you her friend needs to join in or wait while you are together. They use that tactic to rush your meets. I have seen where a guy is having dinner with one and the remaining two are sitting in the parking waiting on you, then driving behind you while you go with one. That is if you have not been convinced to take all three or two. They are students, they are real, but I don't think they get the concept of sugaring. They act more like BP girls without the finesse.

Feel free to ask for more details.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3695766]Sorry if this is a dumb question, but what is "GPS" in this context? I looked in the abbreviation reference on here and couldn't find it. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Golden Pussy Syndrome.

So I have plenty of experience with CL and BP girls, etc, but new to this SD site. I used a prepaid card to sign up on SeekingArrangement so no personal info there and also connect with a VPN.

I am not really into uploading a pic of me on there. It just seems like a bad idea and are many of these women really not going to respond if they don't see a pic? I figure I can always text them one, but maybe they wouldn't want to give out their number without seeing one.

And of course going to use a burner phone or textnow / google voice acct, but I wonder how many of them would be cool with installing Signal? That is encrypted texting with no paper trail and you can have the messages auto destruct. I don't want them to get weirded out by any of that, but both the right wing and left wing is going after all manner of consensual sex between adults, so may not hurt to be extra careful.

I have chatted with this one she is in the Henry County area. She eventually agreed to 200 per meet. But after chatting a little bit I got the vibe she is just trying to get a quick buck and would not be worth the time. I asked if there was a time limit or would there be multiple pops. She says yeah if you can nut twice in 45 mins to an hour. At that point it sound like pro behavior and I would be rushed. So I never met with her. That was a month ago. She text me out the blue yesterday wanting to meet up. I just laughed she must need cash. If you are on the south side and need desperately to catch a nut. Here you go.

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Hey all I'm from Birmingham, but thought I would post my question here since ATL has an active SB group. Is anyone else experiencing problems with SA? For the past week I cannot get message or use the search function. I have not noticed any mention of this and we curious. Oddly I had a friend that has a account but an expired membership log into his account from my device and it loads just fine. I've emailed SA with no response. Just wondering if I'm the oddball here? BTW I envy you Atlanta guys with your goldmine of ladies SB and escorts. Thanks a lot.

[QUOTE=MansRuin;3696043]Hey all I'm from Birmingham, but thought I would post my question here since ATL has an active SB group. Is anyone else experiencing problems with SA? For the past week I cannot get message or use the search function. I have not noticed any mention of this and we curious. Oddly I had a friend that has a account but an expired membership log into his account from my device and it loads just fine. I've emailed SA with no response. Just wondering if I'm the oddball here? BTW I envy you Atlanta guys with your goldmine of ladies SB and escorts. Thanks a lot.[/QUOTE]I've been noticing terrible lag on the site for a few weeks. I noticed it a few days before my premium expired, as well as after it expired. Its not always laggy, but it happens a lot.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3695717]I can vouch for Shelby as well. She used to place ads on CL from time to time and I met her where she dances once and she gave me BBBJTCWS in the VIP room and then had her to my place and got FS with pics / video, etc. She also got vid of the cumshot for her SO in my case as well and I was fine with it. I'm glad she is still around and may have to see her again.[/QUOTE]She's great looking. Where's she dance.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3695854]So I have plenty of experience with CL and BP girls, etc, but new to this SD site. I used a prepaid card to sign up on SeekingArrangement so no personal info there and also connect with a VPN.

I am not really into uploading a pic of me on there. It just seems like a bad idea and are many of these women really not going to respond if they don't see a pic? I figure I can always text them one, but maybe they wouldn't want to give out their number without seeing one.

And of course going to use a burner phone or textnow / google voice acct, but I wonder how many of them would be cool with installing Signal? That is encrypted texting with no paper trail and you can have the messages auto destruct. I don't want them to get weirded out by any of that, but both the right wing and left wing is going after all manner of consensual sex between adults, so may not hurt to be extra careful.[/QUOTE]I share your worry about sharing pics, etc. I suggest finding a pic (google, etc) that's similar to yours and using that instead. That way you're preserving your privacy without catfishing someone. You can set it up on your profile as a private pic which you have to give someone permission to see. As far as contacts, If you're using a burner phone and a texting app, you're as safe as reasonably possible. It's hard enough getting someone to give you any way to contact them that you shouldn't make it too hard on them. Check out the Kik app as well.

I've been a contributor on Massage Reports and had a stupid question about this forum, perhaps.

I signed up for Secret Benefits. (the one that pops up every time you click on this site).

Why are they're no post about the girls on that site? Anyone else use that site? What are the differences in the two?

I've met one girl and it didn't go all that well.

I'm thinking I signed up for the wrong site.

[QUOTE=Harley32;3696300]I share your worry about sharing pics, etc. I suggest finding a pic (google, etc) that's similar to yours and using that instead. That way you're preserving your privacy without catfishing someone. You can set it up on your profile as a private pic which you have to give someone permission to see. As far as contacts, If you're using a burner phone and a texting app, you're as safe as reasonably possible. It's hard enough getting someone to give you any way to contact them that you shouldn't make it too hard on them. Check out the Kik app as well.[/QUOTE]That's my one word for you. The Richmond sugar thread is the archive (even a separate archive!) of how to do this safely. You Atlanta guys just need to read that for about 3 days straight. IDK about VPN, I do all my communication on the Tor browser. Note the headers on emails include the IP address of the originating node.

I travel to Birmingham on business and have had very good success on SA there. Last week I was there and banged 4 women while I was there (the 5th woman was very young and beautiful but was not getting intimate on first meet). The best was VanessaAL on seeking arrangements. Very beautiful face but was bigger than her pictures revealed on the site. As soon as she walked in my hotel room her tongue was in my mouth and we did a great round of DFK. She was all about pleasing and she did! She had a look about her that was very sultry and definitely made my motor run. Her pussy was very wet after our DFK and the clothes came off. She was very responsive and had the first orgasm from foreplay. Her nipples are very sensitive and that helped the orgasm come prior to penetration. The sex was we, t hot and wild. If you are ok with a tall, bigger and really beautiful woman then she is perfect for you. On the other end of the spectrum I met with Haleylake from SA as well that week. She is a very small thin spinner. Not as pretty as Vanessa but her body was rockin. Nice set of enhanced boobs and her pussy was small and tasty. She sat on my face and guided her pussy on my mouth and tongue to her pleasure spots and was shaking and convulsing in no time. She then put on a hat and was on my cock without hesitation. She really takes it well. Her down sides are no kissing (until she gets to know you LOL) and was not very snuggly. She seemed to be mechanical in the that department. The condom requirement was a bit of a turn off for me. I struggle with condoms and have had great success on SA with BBFS. All in all great sex but no real closeness. Allowance was right at 200. Will definitely repeat when I return to Birmingham though. I get the sense with repeat meetings and maybe a little extra allowance the hat requirement can be waived.

PC.

[QUOTE=MansRuin;3696043]Hey all I'm from Birmingham, but thought I would post my question here since ATL has an active SB group. Is anyone else experiencing problems with SA? For the past week I cannot get message or use the search function. I have not noticed any mention of this and we curious. Oddly I had a friend that has a account but an expired membership log into his account from my device and it loads just fine. I've emailed SA with no response. Just wondering if I'm the oddball here? BTW I envy you Atlanta guys with your goldmine of ladies SB and escorts. Thanks a lot.[/QUOTE]

How many have experienced this?:

I am now getting women that send you permission to view their private pics WITHOUT me asking. One woman did that, there was no way I'd have requested them (don't want to be rude, but certainly wasn't my type) and I responded by saying thanks, did not realize I had requested.

I guess it's one way to get you to look at their page.

[QUOTE=PConnoisseur;3697247]I travel to Birmingham on business and have had very good success on SA there. Last week I was there and banged 4 women while I was there (the 5th woman was very young and beautiful but was not getting intimate on first meet). The best was VanessaAL on seeking arrangements. Very beautiful face but was bigger than her pictures revealed on the site. As soon as she walked in my hotel room her tongue was in my mouth and we did a great round of DFK. She was all about pleasing and she did! She had a look about her that was very sultry and definitely made my motor run. Her pussy was very wet after our DFK and the clothes came off. She was very responsive and had the first orgasm from foreplay. Her nipples are very sensitive and that helped the orgasm come prior to penetration. The sex was we, t hot and wild. If you are ok with a tall, bigger and really beautiful woman then she is perfect for you. On the other end of the spectrum I met with Haleylake from SA as well that week. She is a very small thin spinner. Not as pretty as Vanessa but her body was rockin. Nice set of enhanced boobs and her pussy was small and tasty. She sat on my face and guided her pussy on my mouth and tongue to her pleasure spots and was shaking and convulsing in no time. She then put on a hat and was on my cock without hesitation. She really takes it well. Her down sides are no kissing (until she gets to know you LOL) and was not very snuggly. She seemed to be mechanical in the that department. The condom requirement was a bit of a turn off for me. I struggle with condoms and have had great success on SA with BBFS. All in all great sex but no real closeness. Allowance was right at 200. Will definitely repeat when I return to Birmingham though. I get the sense with repeat meetings and maybe a little extra allowance the hat requirement can be waived.

PC.[/QUOTE]Very nice and I was thinking of doing similar with some of the cities around ATL. I used to get a few women lined up from CL and do 3 or 4 in a day sometimes (I didn't get off until the last one). But most were non-pros and some were free, some were not....good times and wish I still had that libido from a few years ago.

So when you say "allowance" are you giving them $200 a week or is that just the amount for that session / meeting?

How much did you give VanessaAL? She sounds excellent and thanks for sharing your experiences with both of these?

Ok new to SA, but been mongering for many years, so just trying to figure out what is normal etiquette in this new SD realm. When you guys are moving things forward, at what point do you ask how much they want for a session? And is it called a "meeting" or I forget the proper term.

And do you ask this on SA chat or do you do that via text with burner phone, etc? I'm not sure if I should bother getting their # if they are asking more than I want to help them out with, but then again, maybe not great to be discussing $$$ on SA. Then again, as long as no sex is mentioned, the not sure if it matters.

Thanks for the help and I need to read that entire Richmond thread and read this one from the beginning for some additional tips.

Saw this profile pop up on SA yesterday. Reached out to her to see what she would be willing to accept as an arrangement. Then I noticed her occupation. I will report back if it goes anywhere.

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