Rants and Raves

[QUOTE=FairFight;6597248]Another friend that I have has girl issues too. He makes 180k a year and no girl looks in his direction. I told him he should hire promoters to get people to come to his house parties and he never followed my advice. Instead he would always send me articles about how being asian and short do the worst in dating. I eventually blocked him because he lost his mind being single for so long.[/QUOTE]This reminded of something that happened to me around 2012. I was dating this 23 year old woman at the time, I'll just call her MaryJane for this post. She's a statuesque redhead. A young Drew Barrymore lookalike. With blue eyes as clear as an Azura sky of deepest summer, and a body made for sin. I was blinded, at first, by her inhibition, or rather the total lack thereof, we did it everywhere, and every which way this side of Valhalla.

We did it voyeuristically in my stealth-out van; in the park, to the chagrin of a smirking park ranger; on the mean streets of Bawlmer, watching the nightly hedonistic carousel turn while MJ has her tongue up in my bunghole; a savage plowing session in Georgetown, across from the steps where the movie, the Exorcist, was filmed; a 5 course anal romp within eyeing distance of the White House, etc, etc.

But, I digress.

As exciting as MaryJane was, our break up was just as inevitable. And while the sex with MJ was beyond reproach in every way possible, our incompatibility as a couple was also as clear as day. And when the time came for me to call it quits, she went crazy - - the more I'd pushed her away, the more MJ clang-on. A few weeks later, an eternity as it seemed to me at the time, MJ found this guy on a dating site. Eerily reminiscent to the description of your friend. He has a great job, making big money as some sort of tech engineer, owns a big, expansive home in Northern Virginia and a stable of fancy cars in his over sized garage, etc, etc.

That being said, I was genuinely happy for MaryJane, but mostly, I was relieved to be rid of her. This guy was so smitten with MJ, he went and bought her a $60 k diamond engagement ring (probably worth up wards $100 k in today's money), along with a periodic allowance, and the use of one of his fancy cars. Anyway, when the dust had settled (boy, some dust storm, I tell ya) this poor sap was out a few hundred grand. A small portion of that, with his consent, went to me for my pain and suffering after she'd broken my left index finger in a fit of jealous rage. That's another story, perhaps for another time. While together, MaryJane played the part of an antebellum belle. Being paraded around by him as a show piece. To a tee. And poor fool, acted the part of a man of principle and chivalry - - BTW, they never copulated during the entire time together. Which they'd both confided to me, in subsequent to be true.

There is a lesson in here somewhere to be learned, I think, but it's beyond my ability to grasp. Perhaps, one of yawl here can cipher the moral to this story?

Aiite, Dog, out.

[QUOTE=SyntorX;6600192]No truer words were spoke on marriage. I was in line at the commissary in Germany many years ago. An older lady tried to cut the line. When a lady objected, the older lady said I am General Wilson's wife. The lady said you make your living on your back just like the rest of us. Get to the end of the line. The older woman sheepishly got in line behind me.[/QUOTE]Exactly right! She summed it up nicely! Your post gave me a little bit of a chuckle! Thanks for sharing!

[QUOTE=DogPound99;6600328]This reminded of something that happened to me around 2012. I was dating this 23 year old woman at the time, I'll just call her MaryJane for this post. She's a statuesque redhead. A young Drew Barrymore lookalike. With blue eyes as clear as an Azura sky of deepest summer, and a body made for sin. I was blinded, at first, by her inhibition, or rather the total lack thereof, we did it everywhere, and every which way this side of Valhalla.

We did it voyeuristically in my stealth-out van; in the park, to the chagrin of a smirking park ranger; on the mean streets of Bawlmer, watching the nightly hedonistic carousel turn while MJ has her tongue up in my bunghole; a savage plowing session in Georgetown, across from the steps where the movie, the Exorcist, was filmed; a 5 course anal romp within eyeing distance of the White House, etc, etc.

But, I digress.

As exciting as MaryJane was, our break up was just as inevitable. And while the sex with MJ was beyond reproach in every way possible, our incompatibility as a couple was also as clear as day. And when the time came for me to call it quits, she went crazy - - the more I'd pushed her away, the more MJ clang-on. A few weeks later, an eternity as it seemed to me at the time, MJ found this guy on a dating site. Eerily reminiscent to the description of your friend. He has a great job, making big money as some sort of tech engineer, owns a big, expansive home in Northern Virginia and a stable of fancy cars in his over sized garage, etc, etc. .[/QUOTE]The moral of the story is; some people are just glutton-for-punishment, and are nothing but a "Tool."

That said, is MaryJane still around? LOL.

I have noticed that I see red marks on a some providers legs in some of the ads. Is that a sign of drug use (injection) ? Most women don't have those marks. Seems to be abnormal.

It seems to be very noticeable in our region.

[QUOTE=Mpduration;6612468]I have noticed that I see red marks on a some providers legs in some of the ads. Is that a sign of drug use (injection) ? Most women don't have those marks. Seems to be abnormal.

It seems to be very noticeable in our region.[/QUOTE]Either track marks from injecting or bed bug bites.. Shut crazy right. A dope fiend injector asking for 150 for a HH. But unfortunately it's a lot of that in Bmore. Hahahahahah got to weed through the bs to find sumn nice.

[QUOTE=BlkDodge;6635039]Steve: some of us are looking for videos because we've already seen the ones on ccp, and a lot of it is 3 years old. Just looking for NEW material.

Headluv: some of us take care of the SWs because we actually give a fck. The addicts are still people and I don't think it's that much of an issue to give cigs, food, a hoodie, whatever.[/QUOTE]Ima say to you what I said to the other guy. If you care so much, stop helping them kill themselves. It's real simple. You spend a few bucks on little shit as charity to make yourself feel good. But that's after you give her "standard" so she can go buy vials of fentanyl mixed with heroin and horse tranquilizer and roll the dice on an OD. I see through the bullsh%t, dawg.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6637702]Ima say to you what I said to the other guy. If you care so much, stop helping them kill themselves. It's real simple. You spend a few bucks on little shit as charity to make yourself feel good. But that's after you give her "standard" so she can go buy vials of fentanyl mixed with heroin and horse tranquilizer and roll the dice on an OD. I see through the bullsh%t, dawg.[/QUOTE]I've been clean for over 40 years so I know what the fuck I'm talking about.

Couple things to keep in mind.

1. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix. I don't give a shit if your jones is opiates, gambling, food, hookers, it doesn't matter, junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

2. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

And lastly,

3. Junkies in active addiction are always going to get their fix. ALWAYS.

Your idea is to remove the simple, risk free way for them to get enough money to do what they are going to do REGARDLESS of what happens. I'm not saying that having to suck dick for the money for a fix is a good idea, it's a fucking tragedy and it's fucking sad. I'm saying that sucking the dick of a steady customer to get the money for a fix is 10,000 times better than getting shot holding up a corner market because your steady customer listened to some asshole who didn't know what the fuck he was talking about say that he shouldn't give you money anymore.

Junkies will always get their fix, I would rather they get it sucking a dick than breaking into a house.

You're welcome.

A2.

[QUOTE=Admin2;6638018]I've been clean for over 40 years so I know what the fuck I'm talking about.

Couple things to keep in mind.

1. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix. I don't give a shit if your jones is opiates, gambling, food, hookers, it doesn't matter, junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

2. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

And lastly,

3. Junkies in active addiction are always going to get their fix. ALWAYS.

Your idea is to remove the simple, risk free way for them to get enough money to do what they are going to do REGARDLESS of what happens. I'm not saying that having to suck dick for the money for a fix is a good idea, it's a fucking tragedy and it's fucking sad. I'm saying that sucking the dick of a steady customer to get the money for a fix is 10,000 times better than getting shot holding up a corner market because your steady customer listened to some asshole who didn't know what the fuck he was talking about say that he shouldn't give you money anymore.

Junkies will always get their fix, I would rather they get it sucking a dick than breaking into a house.

You're welcome.

A2.[/QUOTE]I'm sure you have a unique, personal perspective as a recovering addict and congrats on your sobriety. However, it's evident that sobriety and reading comprehension don't necessarily go hand in hand. To deduce from my comments that I'm implying an addiction will miraculously disappear is clearly a miscomprehension jaded by the bias of what you assume I am saying. Nowhere did I state that or imply it. My point is that understanding someone is going to do what they want anyway and to be complicit in those doings are two different things. I know my uncle is going to get high regardless of what I do or say, but I cannot say I love him while giving him $$ to feed his addiction. I am not going to even attempt to rationalize that BS to myself. It simple. I care about you, so I refuse to actively help you harm yourself. I know you are going to do it anyway, but it won't be with my assistance. How you get from that clear point to me assuming I can stop a junkie's addiction by removing my funds is beyond me. I assume while you were in the throes of your addiction, you really appreciated all of the loved ones who helped you harm yourself slowly out of pity.

And for the record, since we are in "Rants and Raves", I could give three fucks about your opinion. You can use your bully pulpit as the forum admin to censor posts and chime in with your bullshit two cents but just understand you aren't altering my worldview / perspective and if I truly had an extra fuck to give about the essay you wrote, I probably still wouldn't donate. How I see things serves me all and no ex junkie using his "authority " as a forum admin is going to change my opinion. While you felt compelled to chime in with your dope-cured opinion is beyond me, but just know that you wasted your time. Maybe spend more time learning to properly understand what the fuck you read instead of trying to lecture me and you might be better off.

[QUOTE=Mumford1;6660152]Saw a face I haven't seen in years today out walking around the circle, triangle, busybees. If you guys remember Tracy from a few years ago. She was blonde, athletic, sexy white, late thirties. Well she was out today, been clean for 3 years and Way thicker. She was walking around with a tight white mini skirt. Anyway, I used to be a regular of hers back in the day. This girl gave great head and would Polish the balls really good too, just don't come in her mouth she'd say. Anyway I picked her up and asked her if she wanted to go to Tim's. She said sure. I wanted to explore that phat white ass and boy she didn't disappoint. Sucked on them balls just like old times and I started playing with the pussy. Inserted two fingers and I started massaging the g spot. Then she starts moving her hips, moaning and asks me to fuck her. I hold out for a while still doing this until she begs me to fuck her. She put on the rubber and I went to town and boy this woman acted like she hadn't been fucked in a while but she was always like that no matter how much cock she got. Anyway I had a good time, BBBJ attention to the balls but she only does covered full service and no cum in mouth. 70 beans a little high but she's civilian now. Has a real job, apartment, and car. Only out to make rent money. If you see a fat ass blonde civilian walking around Wilkins dressed sexy, that's who it is. Grab and go for it LOL. Oh it was mid day early afternoon.[/QUOTE]You paid $70 for a BBJ with no CIM? And you actually admitting that shit? Come on, dude. The rate for a BBBJ is $20. Why in the fuck would you just give that away and not even get to cum in her mouth? That's the fuck shit that messes it up for everybody else. You could have kept that to yourself. A ***** ain't never getting more than 20 from me.

And why pay more for a civilian anyway? If someone who normally doesn't walk is walking, that indicates a level of desperation. Why pay more then? That's like going to a clearance sale where they have lowered prices to move inventory, and you walk in offering more than full price. SMH.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6660610]You paid $70 for a BBJ with no CIM? And you actually admitting that shit? Come on, dude. The rate for a BBBJ is $20. Why in the fuck would you just give that away and not even get to cum in her mouth? That's the fuck shit that messes it up for everybody else. You could have kept that to yourself. A ***** ain't never getting more than 20 from me.

And why pay more for a civilian anyway? If someone who normally doesn't walk is walking, that indicates a level of desperation. Why pay more then? That's like going to a clearance sale where they have lowered prices to move inventory, and you walk in offering more than full price. SMH.[/QUOTE]Called disposable cash for a reason, don't shame others since you don't have it. Step your game up to get it. Personally, giving them a little extra always has them coming back with A1 service, and a friend in tote. I have a couple dozen messages weekly of ladies trying to link up because of the. 10,. 20, . 30 tip. If you diverted that passion for hatred on others, you could possibly make some dough. Throwing shade post after post exemplifies how much you dislike your own situation.

[QUOTE=PitMan187;6661404]Actually I see three or four women. Two to three times a week. I'm not married and I have the extra cash why not. I think what you spend with a provider is between you and the provider. If you don't like their prices you can always negotiate. If I into the person that I'm trying to see I will see them more than one time a week that's giving me discounted rates because I'm not the once a month guy. I hear several of these guys paying high rates. I understand the first time you may pay a high rate but then after that if you choose to see that provider more and cannot negotiate your price down then that's on you. But what I'm not going to do is have one of these people say well I'm not going to pay that because this guy said he only paid this much. To ruin the deal that I have going on with a provider. It's always a guy on here that ruins it for the next one. Because they cannot keep their mouth shut. If you get get a lead on something good and pass it on to the next one you'll deal with that provider is your deal. It doesn't matter what the next man pays a provider. Don't worry about my pockets I'll definitely will not overpay.[/QUOTE]You say what a person pays is between them and the provider, and that mongers talk too much and it's bad to go back and complain about your personal rate based on what another is paying, yet you have done that and indirectly encouraged it to happen. You may not have given a price, but you told the world you get a discount. So any monger naturally knows she will accept less than what she is asking for. You also blatantly indicated she doesn't charge you for videos, etc. So there you explicitly indicate something was free. She may charge someone else for that. It seems like the post was just a thinly veiled way to "humble brag ". The entire point was to seem like an insider and brag that you pay less, then play the "what I pay is private " card. You gave this entire board enough info to do what you claim you don't like. Approaching a provider with info regarding another monger's rates. If that was truly how you carry it, you wouldn't have mentioned shit about price or any reference to what you pay. Just tell the man what the discount is and what you pay. SMH.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6661895]You say what a person pays is between them and the provider, and that mongers talk too much and it's bad to go back and complain about your personal rate based on what another is paying, yet you have done that and indirectly encouraged it to happen. You may not have given a price, but you told the world you get a discount. So any monger naturally knows she will accept less than what she is asking for. You also blatantly indicated she doesn't charge you for videos, etc. So there you explicitly indicate something was free. She may charge someone else for that. It seems like the post was just a thinly veiled way to "humble brag ". The entire point was to seem like an insider and brag that you pay less, then play the "what I pay is private " card. You gave this entire board enough info to do what you claim you don't like. Approaching a provider with info regarding another monger's rates. If that was truly how you carry it, you wouldn't have mentioned shit about price or any reference to what you pay. Just tell the man what the discount is and what you pay. SMH.[/QUOTE]Wow! 238 posts and none of you having any information to share on interactions with an actual female. Like I've said before. Let your next post be of an actual encounter with a female. That's what this forum is for. All you do is cry about people making it difficult for you to get pussy. Stop finger wagging and start contributing.

[QUOTE=BenDhover;6661478]Called disposable cash for a reason, don't shame others since you don't have it. Step your game up to get it. Personally, giving them a little extra always has them coming back with A1 service, and a friend in tote. I have a couple dozen messages weekly of ladies trying to link up because of the. 10,. 20, . 30 tip. If you diverted that passion for hatred on others, you could possibly make some dough. Throwing shade post after post exemplifies how much you dislike your own situation.[/QUOTE]Step my game up to get it? You think $20-$40 dollars breaks me? It's the principle behind it. WTF? Can't be serious.

I had a whole post addressing this but admin chose to not post it. Didn't even move it to Rants and Raves, he just completely censored me and didn't post it. I guess folks can take their shots at me, but I can't respond. Anyway.

You all like to act like this is some type of fraternity. Sharing info and looking out for each other, right? Well market interjections affect everyone. The general consensus here is to not overpay. What's the mantra?? "You messing up the game!" But individuals always get defensive and rationalize when they do it. Artificial market interjections disrupt markets. That's what your overpayments are. You create issues of entitlement and poor service for other mongers. How often have we heard a SW remark about required effort for "only" $20. It's "only" $20.but she doesn't have it and is sucking a dick for it. Ok. This attitude carries over if they are getting above market rates. We all acknowledge this, we all know this. Yet some clowns like to justify the bullshit when it's convenient. I don't offer $5 for $3 milk. It's simple.

And let me address this nonsense about service and prioritization. Often hear about the service being better and being selected over other mongers. Not true. I routinely get seat squirming, toe curling service for standard or less. I NEVER overpay under any circumstances and will drop their ass back off in a heartbeat. Moaning, squeezing my leg, swallowing. All into it. For $20 or less. I think it says more about the guy when he has to overpay and tip heavy for service level another monger gets for "standard". Think about it. You would fuck a model for free. But you may ask the fat ***** to kick you out a Benjamin. Let's not forget that they are addicts but still women by nature. If they find you attractive or drawn to your personality via interaction, they will not require as much. I'm speaking from detailed, personal experience. Once had redhead Nicole come to my car after heading to another. When she got in she commented that the guy was a regular and would be upset, but she enjoyed dating me becasue "we don't get many lookers out here". She specified that the other guy usually pays more, but wanted to get it in with me. She said he will "Still be there". Your overpayment s can make you seem desperate and get you taken for granted.

And for the record, I ROUTINELY pay LESS THAN STANDARD. I'm talking $10 or $15, usually $15. And don't give the crap about the bottom of the barrel. Going back to SW Idol Crystal, Ellie newer ones like MILF Melissa, Bubbles, Layla, Goldie, even your infamous Special K. Too many to name them all. Every last one of them has sucked me for $10 or $15 dollars. I can promise you all that. I have never overpaid any of these women to earn a "discount". NEVER. I just don't simp for them. I'm pleasant, fair and firm. None of the extra shit you guys do, and I still get same level of service and prioritization. That justification you all use is a fallacy.

And also, who gives a sh%t if they got addicted SWs lined up to deal with them?? Really? This should be a complimentary outlet to our sex lives. I could give 3 fucks if Inhabe a handful of addicts "on deck". A handful of successful, accomplished women. Yes. Be proud of that. This bullshit?? Naw. And if a SW goes and gets other SWs, dude that doesn't make you a player or pimp. It just solidifies you are the sucker that overpays. They go get their friends to use you, not because you are some stud. Can't believe I have to spell that out.

And thanks for the psychoanalysis! Pretty sharp to gain such insight from a few forum posts. LOL. Just consider me the deveins advocate. You all bounce the same shot off of each other without a differing opinion.

[QUOTE=Apache12;6663879]Yes she is definitely doing much better right now and hopefully she stays in Columbia for a good while longer, but like you said she does have more energy and stamina. I saw her earlier this week and had a great time. Yup and gave her a Franklin plus. Oh yeah and her phone was cut off but hopefully she will get it back soon.

Apache[/QUOTE]Keep feeding her "Franklins". It will be back on soon enough! LMAO!

That is unless she gets high with the $$. They never do that, though.

You eight mongers let her rest up and get well, and stop freaking her out and giving her $100+ to get high, since why'all care so much. And when she is revitalized and back on the stroll and zooming toward zombie status with the assistance of your plentiful reviews, her shared digits, overpayments, and complimentary "jelly donut injections ", what next? When she breaks all the way down and takes that final break from the life, why'all going to come here and eulogize her? Reminisce on all the cooperative exploitation and semen transfers?? LOL.

I am laughing my ass off at the "she needs to rest, I just slutted her out, but don't ask me for the number, I just slutted her out" post. This shot is pure comedy. Aw man, you clowns are laughable. I'm in tears. LMAO!

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6663999]Keep feeding her "Franklins". It will be back on soon enough! LMAO!

That is unless she gets high with the $$. They never do that, though.

You eight mongers let her rest up and get well, and stop freaking her out and giving her $100+ to get high, since why'all care so much. And when she is revitalized and back on the stroll and zooming toward zombie status with the assistance of your plentiful reviews, her shared digits, overpayments, and complimentary "jelly donut injections ", what next? When she breaks all the way down and takes that final break from the life, why'all going to come here and eulogize her? Reminisce on all the cooperative exploitation and semen transfers?? LOL.

I am laughing my ass off at the "she needs to rest, I just slutted her out, but don't ask me for the number, I just slutted her out" post. This shot is pure comedy. Aw man, you clowns are laughable. I'm in tears. LMAO![/QUOTE]Well that's exactly why I threw that out there so you could have a good laugh. But while your laughing I'm having a great time, and that's why I pay good so that I can enjoy my time with no rush, she never asks how much are you paying, never asks for anything up front, does anything and any position that I ask, I could keep her out for hours and never hear any complaints. This also goes for other regulars that I have. I've been in this game for a very long time, there's probably only a less than 5 on this board that's been doing this longer than me. So go ahead keep laughing I'm glad I can give you a good laugh, but in the end I will have the last laugh.