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This isn't a courtroom, you are not Perry Mason and you have no need to cross examine guys about their posts.
If you think somebody is full of shit just put them on your ignore list (he is now) and move on. There is ZERO reason to do ever do this.
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[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3600761]I was on SA a while ago, started to be too much work for too little success. Got back on a couple weeks ago, wow, things have gone downhill (at least for me, maybe I need to change things up).
More TS's, more girls with blank or min profiles, more flakes, ghosting, etc. I have only met one person and she wanted me to buy a bunch of clothes at the mall and perhaps at another date we would get together. I told her, I would pass on the splendid opportunity, plus a good 50 pounds heavier than pics. Told me she had a previous SD you who did not expect any sex. Was suppose to meet one today for dinner. She initially asked for 600 per once a week meeting. I replied 250, she stated fine. I get a text today asking if I will pay before dinner, I say no, so she asks after dinner, I say after we spend time together. She tells me that is not part of the arrangement WTF is going on. I did an email from SA with a discount, perhaps business is hurting, I am not renewing. I know my game sucks, but not this bad.[/QUOTE]Sounds like GPS.
[QUOTE=Kellster;3601040]If anyone tries to extort you for money I'd respond them that's blackmail and is a felony with fines and jail time.[/QUOTE]Was just sharing as it may help others if they run across this scam. The police are aware of it happening at other dating sites like pof and match. While this person was actually living in the surrounding area, some of this type scam are a team of people no where near the area, sometimes out of country.
There's a current promo code 33HALLOWEEN for 33% off any subscription, expires on 10/31, so now would be a good time to join as this is the first time I've ever seen a promo code offered.
Was very open about what she provides. $$$ per hour $$ overnight.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c8bbf75c-2c31-42cd-82e5-e90e2db00b77[/URL]
Also very open about her arrangement. $$.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/61991d78-1da8-48c1-ab9d-4ee9041bc570[/URL]
Would appreciate messages privately for other info.
Seeing way too many platonic or just crazy wants.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b156250a-a6ed-4a1c-b033-cd96705882eb[/URL]
About Me.
I am 19 years old. I come from a big family and I'm a bit of a tomboy. I love figure skating and french fries and sushi! I also love dying my hair crazy colors! So if you don't care for blue or purple hair it probably won't workI am 14 weeks pregnant.
What I'm Looking For.
I'm looking for an old fashioned sugar daddy. Not the ones that want to turn me into a prostitute, but the ones that actually want to get to know me and care about me. I live in Joliet in my own apartment, working full time and trying to keep up with bills while saving enough to take college classes when I can afford it. I would really like an allowance to help out with those things so if you are willing to do that please send me a msg. **I have a boyfriend and am not looking for anything sexual** please don't msg me if you're looking for sex or anything physical. I'm not a prostitute. I'll be looking forward to hearing from you!
Wow. This is just deluded.
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3605943]Seeing way too many platonic or just crazy wants.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b156250a-a6ed-4a1c-b033-cd96705882eb[/URL]
About Me.
I am 19 years old. I come from a big family and I'm a bit of a tomboy. I love figure skating and french fries and sushi! I also love dying my hair crazy colors! So if you don't care for blue or purple hair it probably won't workI am 14 weeks pregnant.
What I'm Looking For.
I'm looking for an old fashioned sugar daddy. Not the ones that want to turn me into a prostitute, but the ones that actually want to get to know me and care about me. I live in Joliet in my own apartment, working full time and trying to keep up with bills while saving enough to take college classes when I can afford it. I would really like an allowance to help out with those things so if you are willing to do that please send me a msg. **I have a boyfriend and am not looking for anything sexual** please don't msg me if you're looking for sex or anything physical. I'm not a prostitute. I'll be looking forward to hearing from you![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3605943]Seeing way too many platonic or just crazy wants.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b156250a-a6ed-4a1c-b033-cd96705882eb[/URL]
About Me.
I am 19 years old. I come from a big family and I'm a bit of a tomboy. I love figure skating and french fries and sushi! I also love dying my hair crazy colors! So if you don't care for blue or purple hair it probably won't workI am 14 weeks pregnant.
What I'm Looking For.
I'm looking for an old fashioned sugar daddy. Not the ones that want to turn me into a prostitute, but the ones that actually want to get to know me and care about me. I live in Joliet in my own apartment, working full time and trying to keep up with bills while saving enough to take college classes when I can afford it. I would really like an allowance to help out with those things so if you are willing to do that please send me a msg. **I have a boyfriend and am not looking for anything sexual** please don't msg me if you're looking for sex or anything physical. I'm not a prostitute. I'll be looking forward to hearing from you![/QUOTE]She has been around a long time, even before she got pregnant. I guess she has not gotten any takers!
I sent her a message a while back: "Do you really expect to find a sugar daddy who is going to support you and your deadbeat boyfriend and for nothing in return? You should only let the guys with a steady income to dump sperm between your legs!"
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[QUOTE=SugarDaddyX;3607313]She has been around a long time, even before she got pregnant. I guess she has not gotten any takers!
I sent her a message a while back: "Do you really expect to find a sugar daddy who is going to support you and your deadbeat boyfriend and for nothing in return? You should only let the guys with a steady income to dump sperm between your legs!"
SDX.[/QUOTE]LOL! You savage asf!
How do you pay for it without using cc? I do not want my name with sa or anyone stored.
Hello friends,
Can someone tell me how this site works?
If I purchase a subscription, I can send messages to girls and do other things, I understand this part. What I want to know is if the girls can respond to me even without having a subscription. Say, there's a lady that I really like, and I send her a message. If she doesn't have subscription, can she not message me back? Or, since they're the receiving end, they don't need to purchase the subscription? If former applies, I am willing to try for a month to see how successful I can be.
Thanks in advance, and stay safe.
GG.
[QUOTE=GreatGatsby;3607533]Hello friends,
Can someone tell me how this site works?
If I purchase a subscription, I can send messages to girls and do other things, I understand this part. What I want to know is if the girls can respond to me even without having a subscription. Say, there's a lady that I really like, and I send her a message. If she doesn't have subscription, can she not message me back? Or, since they're the receiving end, they don't need to purchase the subscription? If former applies, I am willing to try for a month to see how successful I can be.
Thanks in advance, and stay safe.
GG.[/QUOTE]Basically, girls have free access to the site as far as I can tell. They can message you back, and they can message you without you messaging them. I've been pretty successful this month, four girls lined up at this point, all DTF.
[QUOTE=ASandler007;3607398]How do you pay for it without using cc? I do not want my name with sa or anyone stored.[/QUOTE]I get a one vanilla card and load it with $80. I then have to go to [URL]onevanilla.com[/URL] to update a zipcode to that card you just got. Then go to SA, sign up and make sure the billing zip code matches. You can use a fake address in that zipcode. Have fun!
[QUOTE=DaddyOne23;3608786]I get a one vanilla card and load it with $80. I then have to go to [URL]onevanilla.com[/URL] to update a zipcode to that card you just got. Then go to SA, sign up and make sure the billing zip code matches. You can use a fake address in that zipcode. Have fun![/QUOTE]Thanks! I will give this a shot.
[QUOTE=ASandler007;3611420]Thanks! I will give this a shot.[/QUOTE]I've had problem with prepaid cards. There's some small print about not being valid for purchases outside of the USA. Since SA's non-USA at least for payment purposes, prepaids, including Vanilla Visa, have been rejected.
If your card's refused, contact SA customer support and they can run the card via a USA processor, which is what they've had to do for me.
Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.
Good you got out ok.
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3611806]Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3611806]Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.[/QUOTE]Are you sure it was deactivated? Maybe she just blocked you. You should post any pictures of her so other guys can be safe.
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3611806]Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.[/QUOTE]Do you have any pictures or a description that would be helpful in case she pops back on the site with a new profile?
You can make an anonymous tip to the police that a thug is walking around the complex waving a gun and then give the condo address. Pretend like you are a concerned neighbor.
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This is the pic she sent me. It is not her, but similar, short Hispanic, probably 5'0 130 lbs. SA name DollFaceBaby123, number (312) 897-6336.
She quoted me 400 cause her bd died. Not sure what to take of this one [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8fb1e92e-8836-4ada-94eb-5e6f3fb61848[/URL].
[QUOTE=Chad213;3613424]She quoted me 400 cause her bd died. Not sure what to take of this one [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8fb1e92e-8836-4ada-94eb-5e6f3fb61848[/URL].[/QUOTE]I saw her yrs ago. Known to have a BP ad. She quoted me 150 BBBJ and 300 GFE. When isaw her BBFS was on the menu.
[QUOTE=Zimbler;3612638]Are you sure it was deactivated? Maybe she just blocked you. You should post any pictures of her so other guys can be safe.[/QUOTE]What was her profile name and any other particular details you can remember about her text? Z may be right, she could have just blocked you, and her profile is still active. One of us can look for her.
Another M&G time waster to avoid.
This one wants $150 each for her and her friend just to show up for a M&G. She was very clear that no action could be had on the first M&G visit and went silent as soon as I challenged that $150/ person B. S.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13f5b202-7bcd-4e06-86e0-b1b5c803d49b[/URL]
Is seeking arrangements really the only one you guys use? Has anyone used secret benefits with any success?
Thanks.
This one demands you send money to her via Western Union or PayPal before she will M&G. I have send a report ticket to SA. The pictures she sends via text have darker skin than the pictures in the profile and the age switched from 19 to 21 while we were talking, so things just don't add up. It might be a guy behind the profile trying to get a payday.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a62c3b5b-6cf3-4c3a-bd31-e83d1b8e0117[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b640a545-b339-44e3-ab93-ec081050d430[/URL]
SugarBabe 2 x: Nice so far, young, seeking 500 per visit though and will not discuss anything in detail online prefers to meet first. Some red flags raised. May pass unless someone here has a positive experience with her (she claims to be a newbie, only one SD in the past).
As a side note, did SA stop allowing nude or explicit photos in the private pics? Seems like fewer profiles have them since I came back on and getting harder to see the cow before buying milk. If I come across any profiles with t or a I'll update here.
[QUOTE=Rileym;3622017][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b640a545-b339-44e3-ab93-ec081050d430[/URL]
SugarBabe 2 x: Nice so far, young, seeking 500 per visit though and will not discuss anything in detail online prefers to meet first. Some red flags raised. May pass unless someone here has a positive experience with her (she claims to be a newbie, only one SD in the past).
As a side note, did SA stop allowing nude or explicit photos in the private pics? Seems like fewer profiles have them since I came back on and getting harder to see the cow before buying milk. If I come across any profiles with t or a I'll update here.[/QUOTE]She is full of shit. The picture is not her. It is a model from NYC named Melanie Iglesias. Another time waster.
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The site was a bust for the first few weeks, but finally got a few hits! Have two meets for coffee today with potentials looking for an arrangement. Indicated that I'm looking for mostly physical, so hopefully they feel the same. I'll report back on how it goes. Wish me luck!!
I posted this a couple of weeks ago on Milwaukee board when I was up there in town.
Anyway, Lexi Belle showed up and so I messaged her. We swapped texts and I was a little skeptical (for obvious reasons!) it was really her. She indicated she wanted 500 PPM which was more than I wanted to do. She adjusted to 400. She is in logan square, but I got a hotel room in the Loop, on a bit of a leap of faith. Heard from her 15 minutes before our meeting time saying she was running late, and I was like, oh boy here we go, she's going to flake.
30 minutes later I got a knock and it's her. She's as cute as in her vids. A bit heavier and clearly a bit down on her luck. I rather enjoy a desperate ex porn sugar baby, but maybe that's just me. I'll spare the details but suffice to say it was all I hoped for. I've seen her again since, though I've ratcheted down her PPM for under 300 with no complaints from her. I think she just needs cash bad so if you're thinking of using her, I'd low ball. But that's just me.
PS she's super super super submissive. like super submissive.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d8b19d72-4f5d-e284-a385-4531fdbe42cf[/URL]
[QUOTE=MnCuckold;3624143]I posted this a couple of weeks ago on Milwaukee board when I was up there in town.
Anyway, Lexi Belle showed up and so I messaged her. We swapped texts and I was a little skeptical (for obvious reasons!) it was really her. She indicated she wanted 500 PPM which was more than I wanted to do. She adjusted to 400. She is in logan square, but I got a hotel room in the Loop, on a bit of a leap of faith. Heard from her 15 minutes before our meeting time saying she was running late, and I was like, oh boy here we go, she's going to flake.
30 minutes later I got a knock and it's her. She's as cute as in her vids. A bit heavier and clearly a bit down on her luck. I rather enjoy a desperate ex porn sugar baby, but maybe that's just me. I'll spare the details but suffice to say it was all I hoped for. I've seen her again since, though I've ratcheted down her PPM for under 300 with no complaints from her. I think she just needs cash bad so if you're thinking of using her, I'd low ball. But that's just me.
PS she's super super super submissive. like super submissive.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d8b19d72-4f5d-e284-a385-4531fdbe42cf[/URL][/QUOTE]So this is really Lexi Belle? I have a hard time believing this, but am all over it! She's one of my all time favs and this would be a dream for me. Bucket list worthy!
[QUOTE=SeanStyles;3625536]So this is really Lexi Belle? I have a hard time believing this, but am all over it! She's one of my all time favs and this would be a dream for me. Bucket list worthy![/QUOTE]The ad has been taken down. Can you give us more info? How can we contact her?
[QUOTE=AlBundy78;3625559]The ad has been taken down. Can you give us more info? How can we contact her?[/QUOTE]The ad is back up.
Can also verify it's her. Based on OP's message below, contacted Lexi. She was prompt in response, and gave me a cell. Texted her and she responded quickly. She only does outcall and came to my place in Edgewater via uber. I arranged uber and so could track her making her way. Wanted 400 and I offered 250 and she went for it.
It's her. She's cute and bubbly. A bit chubbier than in her day but thin by any normal standard. She's clearly desperate for cash and she worked me over. It's a bucket list for me, since I've rubbed off to her probably 100's of times. She even took load in face, and allowed me to call her names. My advice: she needs the cash; she'll start at 400-500, but I bet she'd take 200.
[QUOTE=MnCuckold;3624143]I posted this a couple of weeks ago on Milwaukee board when I was up there in town.
Anyway, Lexi Belle showed up and so I messaged her. We swapped texts and I was a little skeptical (for obvious reasons!) it was really her. She indicated she wanted 500 PPM which was more than I wanted to do. She adjusted to 400. She is in logan square, but I got a hotel room in the Loop, on a bit of a leap of faith. Heard from her 15 minutes before our meeting time saying she was running late, and I was like, oh boy here we go, she's going to flake.
30 minutes later I got a knock and it's her. She's as cute as in her vids. A bit heavier and clearly a bit down on her luck. I rather enjoy a desperate ex porn sugar baby, but maybe that's just me. I'll spare the details but suffice to say it was all I hoped for. I've seen her again since, though I've ratcheted down her PPM for under 300 with no complaints from her. I think she just needs cash bad so if you're thinking of using her, I'd low ball. But that's just me.
PS she's super super super submissive. like super submissive.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d8b19d72-4f5d-e284-a385-4531fdbe42cf[/URL][/QUOTE]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b66984ea-dcd5-443f-bd4c-08ece9d11507[/URL]
The one above was a classic. We texted back and forth a bunch in summer, she laid out that she was not looking to do anything physical but would drop hints of being open to do so. Toward the end of the month she wanted 1 k in money for her rent, to show I was serious. LOL. I did not partake, but did get her to give me the address of the apt complex she lives. I did not verify it to be true or anything, just seeing what her deal was. After I didn't do this, she came back with wanting 2 k a month just to hang out, but again wanted the money without actually meeting. She does have a fb from what I saw and all that, so again, one to avoid. Probably a very clever scam, or she legit just wants to be paid to do zero.
Had success with another, equally as attractive girl on there, who didn't mind doing per meet visits. I told her about these negotiations, and her response was "do their pussies shoot fireworks or something" LOL.
[QUOTE=RealDealxxx;3626185]Can also verify it's her. Based on OP's message below, contacted Lexi. She was prompt in response, and gave me a cell. Texted her and she responded quickly. She only does outcall and came to my place in Edgewater via uber. I arranged uber and so could track her making her way. Wanted 400 and I offered 250 and she went for it.
It's her. She's cute and bubbly. A bit chubbier than in her day but thin by any normal standard. She's clearly desperate for cash and she worked me over. It's a bucket list for me, since I've rubbed off to her probably 100's of times. She even took load in face, and allowed me to call her names. My advice: she needs the cash; she'll start at 400-500, but I bet she'd take 200.[/QUOTE]Kinds seems wierd the only guys vouching for her are newbies with 1 or 2 posts ever.
[QUOTE=RealDealxxx;3626185]Can also verify it's her. Based on OP's message below, contacted Lexi. She was prompt in response, and gave me a cell. Texted her and she responded quickly. She only does outcall and came to my place in Edgewater via uber. I arranged uber and so could track her making her way. Wanted 400 and I offered 250 and she went for it.
It's her. She's cute and bubbly. A bit chubbier than in her day but thin by any normal standard. She's clearly desperate for cash and she worked me over. It's a bucket list for me, since I've rubbed off to her probably 100's of times. She even took load in face, and allowed me to call her names. My advice: she needs the cash; she'll start at 400-500, but I bet she'd take 200.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I call bullshit. She was in ohio during the weekend so unless she can be at two places at once, this didn't happen.
[QUOTE=Jabroni307;3626541]Kinds seems wierd the only guys vouching for her are newbies with 1 or 2 posts ever.[/QUOTE]I would like to find out if it's really her. I don't have a SA account, but I might sign up just for the chance.
[QUOTE=ItsHowdyDoody;3626223][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b66984ea-dcd5-443f-bd4c-08ece9d11507[/URL]
The one above was a classic. We texted back and forth a bunch in summer, she laid out that she was not looking to do anything physical but would drop hints of being open to do so. Toward the end of the month she wanted 1 k in money for her rent, to show I was serious. LOL. I did not partake, but did get her to give me the address of the apt complex she lives. I did not verify it to be true or anything, just seeing what her deal was. After I didn't do this, she came back with wanting 2 k a month just to hang out, but again wanted the money without actually meeting. She does have a fb from what I saw and all that, so again, one to avoid. Probably a very clever scam, or she legit just wants to be paid to do zero.
Had success with another, equally as attractive girl on there, who didn't mind doing per meet visits. I told her about these negotiations, and her response was "do their pussies shoot fireworks or something" LOL.[/QUOTE]In my experience, the profiles that are very terse, like one sentence in About Me and one sentence in What I Am Looking For, tend to be women who are not too serious about finding an arrangement and meeting. I would guess the young lady in the profile you posted is hoping to get lucky and find an extremely desperate, gullible guy who will send her money. Even if she has a. 1% success rate, it was worth her effort. Think of it like those phone scams that are going around nowadays. Someone from India calls and says they work for the IRS and they need you to give them your bank information or credit card information. They have a high failure rate because most people realize they are a blatant scam. But if they can successfully scam just 1 person out of every 1,000 or 2,000 calls (ie. an elderly person who is not all there), then the paycheck makes it worth their time.
You can report any member that is asking to be sent money before meeting. Take a screenshot of the conversation of her asking to be sent money and attach that to the report you send to SA. SA is trying to keep its image up and will delete profiles. In the last year or two, I have traced profiles that were asking to be sent money or asking to trade pics / vids for money to either men in the US or West African scammers. Word has spread on the internet that there are some really gullible, pathetic men on SA, and now it is becoming a playground for scammers and catfishes. If conversation is in British English (ie. colour vs color, holiday vs vacation) and the person does not know the local geography and customs, they might be some dude sitting in an internet cafe in Nigeria or Ghana. The West Africans have also learned how to use burner internet phone numbers.
SDX.