Why would I pay $ for 15 min of you 2 fumbling around when I could book you both back to back $HH?
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Why would I pay $ for 15 min of you 2 fumbling around when I could book you both back to back $HH?
I had something on my mind and this section is for ranting, so why not vent and share it with the board?
I hate how random and fluctuating the economy is for mongering and I hate feeling like a simp and taken advantage of when things go sour.
I mean seriously, these providers can decide to charge 100 for a Qv one day and 60 the next or even 500, whatever they want to do and someone will pay it.
Now I am a young guy who is not very wealthy at the moment but I earn enough income to play around a few times a month, sometimes more. So I guess you can say my monger funds are very valuable and scarce at times.
For instance, if I take one for the team and choose the see a provider for a 40, or 80 Qv and I end up being scammed or rushed out within 5 min with no release; I immediately feel like complete shit or a worthless simp.
I think as I get back into my car, damn if I would have just stuck with Shelly I could have had a whole HOUR of GUARANTEED bare oral pampering, complete with cim and swallowing in a safe and comfortable location. If I just had spent 10 more from the 40 session, I would be driving back home relieved with a big smile on my face.
Or if I had just stuck with Shelly I could have saved 30 from the 80 scam session to see a reliable Utr SW later on AFTER a guaranteed pampering session from Shelly or another reliable provider.
Or if I had just divided the 60 into 3 Jacksons, I could have gotten slurped up good by 3 different SW and it would have been almost guaranteed because I know many SW who consistently do their job good.
I also think of the other tangible things I could have gotten like a new game, laptop or shoes that I could use REPEATEDLY over and over for months / years.
Though instead I am driving home with a frown on my face and a hard the, feeling like crap and wasting gas as well as exhausting my limited monger funds.
It really sucks to feel used and tricked. Especially when there is nothing you can do about it.
Coulda, shoulda, woulda but I did NOT! Ah the pain of regret, regret, regret, it.
Never ends!!
Well there is my rant for the day.
My question to you mongers is: how do you rationalize being scammed or taken advantage of in the game? Do you shrug it off? Are you sooo rich that the waste does not matter? Or do you just get back to your life and try to forget the experience / experiences?
Let me know, I'm interested in knowing your individual philosophy when dealing with such issues.
When I get shitted on, I take how much I spent and save that same amount, and sacrifice something I wouldve bought until I save X amount so that I don't feel like I lost. If I fucked up 60, I make it a point to save 240 by any means necessary. That mcdonalds I get on lunch break, cancel for 2 weeks. That dinner I was supposed to go to, cancelled.
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2857436]I had something on my mind and this section is for ranting, so why not vent and share it with the board?
I hate how random and fluctuating the economy is for mongering and I hate feeling like a simp and taken advantage of when things go sour.
I mean seriously, these providers can decide to charge 100 for a Qv one day and 60 the next or even 500, whatever they want to do and someone will pay it.
Now I am a young guy who is not very wealthy at the moment but I earn enough income to play around a few times a month, sometimes more. So I guess you can say my monger funds are very valuable and scarce at times.
For instance, if I take one for the team and choose the see a provider for a 40, or 80 Qv and I end up being scammed or rushed out within 5 min with no release; I immediately feel like complete shit or a worthless simp.
I think as I get back into my car, damn if I would have just stuck with Shelly I could have had a whole HOUR of GUARANTEED bare oral pampering, complete with cim and swallowing in a safe and comfortable location. If I just had spent 10 more from the 40 session, I would be driving back home relieved with a big smile on my face.
Or if I had just stuck with Shelly I could have saved 30 from the 80 scam session to see a reliable Utr SW later on AFTER a guaranteed pampering session from Shelly or another reliable provider.
Or if I had just divided the 60 into 3 Jacksons, I could have gotten slurped up good by 3 different SW and it would have been almost guaranteed because I know many SW who consistently do their job good.
I also think of the other tangible things I could have gotten like a new game, laptop or shoes that I could use REPEATEDLY over and over for months / years.
Though instead I am driving home with a frown on my face and a hard the, feeling like crap and wasting gas as well as exhausting my limited monger funds.
It really sucks to feel used and tricked. Especially when there is nothing you can do about it.
Coulda, shoulda, woulda but I did NOT! Ah the pain of regret, regret, regret, it.
Never ends!!
Well there is my rant for the day.
My question to you mongers is: how do you rationalize being scammed or taken advantage of in the game? Do you shrug it off? Are you sooo rich that the waste does not matter? Or do you just get back to your life and try to forget the experience / experiences?
Let me know, I'm interested in knowing your individual philosophy when dealing with such issues.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=StnmtnHunter;2857837]When I get shitted on, I take how much I spent and save that same amount, and sacrifice something I wouldve bought until I save X amount so that I don't feel like I lost. If I fucked up 60, I make it a point to save 240 by any means necessary. That mcdonalds I get on lunch break, cancel for 2 weeks. That dinner I was supposed to go to, cancelled.
.[/QUOTE]Good philosophy, if you stay in st Mtn maybe I can scoop you up and go bird hunting one day, LOL!!
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2857436]I had something on my mind and this section is for ranting, so why not vent and share it with the board?
I hate how random and fluctuating the economy is for mongering and I hate feeling like a simp and taken advantage of when things go sour.
I mean seriously, these providers can decide to charge 100 for a Qv one day and 60 the next or even 500, whatever they want to do and someone will pay it.
Now I am a young guy who is not very wealthy at the moment but I earn enough income to play around a few times a month, sometimes more. So I guess you can say my monger funds are very valuable and scarce at times.
For instance, if I take one for the team and choose the see a provider for a 40, or 80 Qv and I end up being scammed or rushed out within 5 min with no release; I immediately feel like complete shit or a worthless simp.
I think as I get back into my car, damn if I would have just stuck with Shelly I could have had a whole HOUR of GUARANTEED bare oral pampering, complete with cim and swallowing in a safe and comfortable location. If I just had spent 10 more from the 40 session, I would be driving back home relieved with a big smile on my face.
Or if I had just stuck with Shelly I could have saved 30 from the 80 scam session to see a reliable Utr SW later on AFTER a guaranteed pampering session from Shelly or another reliable provider.
Or if I had just divided the 60 into 3 Jacksons, I could have gotten slurped up good by 3 different SW and it would have been almost guaranteed because I know many SW who consistently do their job good.
I also think of the other tangible things I could have gotten like a new game, laptop or shoes that I could use REPEATEDLY over and over for months / years.
Though instead I am driving home with a frown on my face and a hard the, feeling like crap and wasting gas as well as exhausting my limited monger funds.
It really sucks to feel used and tricked. Especially when there is nothing you can do about it.
Coulda, shoulda, woulda but I did NOT! Ah the pain of regret, regret, regret, it.
Never ends!!
Well there is my rant for the day.
My question to you mongers is: how do you rationalize being scammed or taken advantage of in the game? Do you shrug it off? Are you sooo rich that the waste does not matter? Or do you just get back to your life and try to forget the experience / experiences?
Let me know, I'm interested in knowing your individual philosophy when dealing with such issues.[/QUOTE]Sometimes I look at BP for hours and can't find anything I like. So if I have a bad experience I will mostly be more cautious about picking the next girl. I now enjoy stripclubs more.
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2858322]Good philosophy, if you stay in st Mtn maybe I can scoop you up and go bird hunting one day, LOL!![/QUOTE]I find shit all the time but I aint whippin, so just say the word and we can make somethin shake.
[QUOTE=Trojano;2790460]I call "clown" and YOU answer. ROTF LMFAO![/QUOTE]Are you saying inchlong is the guy with multiple I'd's?
[QUOTE=LuvAsnwmn;2860754]Are you saying inchlong is the guy with multiple I'd's?[/QUOTE]You would have to ask him, and massageperv, and redpanda, and DOZENS more.
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2857436]I had something on my mind and this section is for ranting, so why not vent and share it with the board?
I hate how random and fluctuating the economy is for mongering and I hate feeling like a simp and taken advantage of when things go sour.
I mean seriously, these providers can decide to charge 100 for a Qv one day and 60 the next or even 500, whatever they want to do and someone will pay it.
Now I am a young guy who is not very wealthy at the moment but I earn enough income to play around a few times a month, sometimes more. So I guess you can say my monger funds are very valuable and scarce at times.
For instance, if I take one for the team and choose the see a provider for a 40, or 80 Qv and I end up being scammed or rushed out within 5 min with no release; I immediately feel like complete shit or a worthless simp.
I think as I get back into my car, damn if I would have just stuck with Shelly I could have had a whole HOUR of GUARANTEED bare oral pampering, complete with cim and swallowing in a safe and comfortable location. If I just had spent 10 more from the 40 session, I would be driving back home relieved with a big smile on my face.
Or if I had just stuck with Shelly I could have saved 30 from the 80 scam session to see a reliable Utr SW later on AFTER a guaranteed pampering session from Shelly or another reliable provider.
Or if I had just divided the 60 into 3 Jacksons, I could have gotten slurped up good by 3 different SW and it would have been almost guaranteed because I know many SW who consistently do their job good.
I also think of the other tangible things I could have gotten like a new game, laptop or shoes that I could use REPEATEDLY over and over for months / years.
Though instead I am driving home with a frown on my face and a hard the, feeling like crap and wasting gas as well as exhausting my limited monger funds.
It really sucks to feel used and tricked. Especially when there is nothing you can do about it.
Coulda, shoulda, woulda but I did NOT! Ah the pain of regret, regret, regret, it.
Never ends!!
Well there is my rant for the day.
My question to you mongers is: how do you rationalize being scammed or taken advantage of in the game? Do you shrug it off? Are you sooo rich that the waste does not matter? Or do you just get back to your life and try to forget the experience / experiences?
Let me know, I'm interested in knowing your individual philosophy when dealing with such issues.[/QUOTE]1) get a better job.
2) jerk off more.
(smile emoji)
[QUOTE=InchLong;2861361]Yep, that's what he was saying. I only have one log in and password. I already talk enough shit on this one, why would I talk more shit in another LOL.[/QUOTE]That crazy dude accuses you of being Me!! Haha.
While I have many times wished I was "inch" honestly, MANY MORE Times, I wished I had his Wallet and "play $$.
I do ok and keep myself happily occupied but dammmm if I Had "inch's wallet", my to do list wouldn't be a Long!
#MongeringinanOldWhiteCamper LOL!!
[QUOTE=Bmat84;2859808]That's a damn dude bro![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NitroAlco;2859753]That is a dude homie. He she has been talked about on this forum before about not letting men know up front that he is a transsexual.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2860978]LOL, what is the truth? Is it a man or not? I guess when in doubt, I'll just pass. No homo, if it is a chick. Nah nevermind, I'll pass LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LowKey69;2861009]Uh LOL. This is about to get interesting.[/QUOTE]Don't listen to those haters Greeklover6. She's definitely a 100% natural born female! Just remember to bring with you a jar of vaseline. She's gives and receives (wink wink). Your gunna need it. LOL.
[QUOTE=Steak404;2861423]1) get a better job.
2) jerk off more.
(smile emoji)[/QUOTE]That doesn't sound like a philosophy, more like an insult. Having more money doesn't decrease one's chance of being scammed.
Remember the question.
And yes, I could do with more cash for sure, but that won't stop me from being disappointed in a lying, cheating and stealing provider.
I swear you guys get off on insulting me or something. Very childish.
[QUOTE=LuvAsnwmn;2860754]Are you saying inchlong is the guy with multiple I'd's?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sampson50;2839314]Son, don't let that shit scare you. I seen it all and been to every country in the world 5 times. When I ask a question I expect and answer. Don't give a shit how many post little dick has. It's just fuckin typing I do it for a living. Would you like my other 5 handles?[/QUOTE]Don't forget to ask Sampson50 as well.
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2861729]That doesn't sound like a philosophy, more like an insult. Having more money doesn't decrease one's chance of being scammed.
Remember the question.
And yes, I could do with more cash for sure, but that won't stop me from being disappointed in a lying, cheating and stealing provider.
I swear you guys get off on insulting me or something. Very childish.[/QUOTE]Maybe stop putting yourself out there as some thirsty young black dude with no money who is always fiending for the perfect encounter and will choke a girl out if she disrepects his money. I swear you and the other stonmtn guy. That dude is seriously talking about "I have no car or money, but I like to talk to these chicks to see what they will do" WTF is that??
[QUOTE=StnmtnHunter;2857837]When I get shitted on, I take how much I spent and save that same amount, and sacrifice something I wouldve bought until I save X amount so that I don't feel like I lost. If I fucked up 60, I make it a point to save 240 by any means necessary. That mcdonalds I get on lunch break, cancel for 2 weeks. That dinner I was supposed to go to, cancelled.
.[/QUOTE]I've very rarely been scammed since I tend do through research on the ladies I visit. Result, I've probably been scammed two or three times in my 20 year hobby career. If you are scammed, suck it up and keep moving. It's not worth it creating a big scene, you want to survive to fuck another day. What you've got realize in this hobby is that there is a price point for every wallet. Just stick to your niche and you should do okay.
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2861729]That doesn't sound like a philosophy, more like an insult. Having more money doesn't decrease one's chance of being scammed.
Remember the question.
And yes, I could do with more cash for sure, but that won't stop me from being disappointed in a lying, cheating and stealing provider.
I swear you guys get off on insulting me or something. Very childish.[/QUOTE]Think of it more as a pointed poke that hopefully gets your attention. But there's a lot of truth in there. Maybe fishing in a different pond (price wise) would help your level of satisfaction. Having more money might help you do that. Servicing yourself manually may minimize your frustration, not drain your wallet and involve fewer women scamming you. I think here in rants and raves we get a little more leeway with our posts (continued below).
[QUOTE=Svtcobra;2861956]Maybe stop putting yourself out there as some thirsty young black dude with no money who is always fiending for the perfect encounter and will choke a girl out if she disrepects his money. I swear you and the other stonmtn guy. That dude is seriously talking about "I have no car or money, but I like to talk to these chicks to see what they will do" WTF is that??[/QUOTE]Building on what cobra said, man alive you should read the stuff you write. I like to err on the side of my fellow monger and give them the benefit of the doubt but you come across as so extremely adversarial with these women. I can only imagine that your attitude comes across and leads to a great number of disappointing "dates".
Seriously man, I've tried to be helpful in the past and still wish you nothing but success in this game, but maybe a little reflection would be helpful.
[QUOTE=Svtcobra;2861956]Maybe stop putting yourself out there as some thirsty young black dude with no money who is always fiending for the perfect encounter and will choke a girl out if she disrepects his money. I swear you and the other stonmtn guy. That dude is seriously talking about "I have no car or money, but I like to talk to these chicks to see what they will do" WTF is that??[/QUOTE]I've been scammed before and never gotten physical unless for self defense.
Not sure why I am under attack here but I'm not the horrible person you paint me to be.
I will always defend myself but the question was:
"How do YOU rationalize being scammed or taken advantage of in the game? Do you shrug it off? Are you sooo rich that the waste does not matter? Or do you just get back to your life and try to forget the experience?
The question is about YOU, not me. I repeat, I want your PERSONAL philosophy. YOUR philosophy.
I did not ask to be critiqued or disrespected. I asked about your personal philopsohy.
Please answer the question directly. The only one who has given an answer is stnmtnhunter. The rest of you are jumping all over the place and attacking me.
Stick to the subject guys!!
[QUOTE=InchLong;2861871]Don't worry about half of these folks on here, ignore is best solution[/QUOTE]Thanks, at least you gave me an answer unlike the rest.
To ignore the users that aren't your cup of tea. Everyone has read some post that probably got on their nerves. I know for me, I always notice the same names that always post looking for "any info on so-so" and rarely review anything (some are "senior" members). At least Parrot does share his experiences, but I do agree there is a more tactful way to express it.
[QUOTE=Svtcobra;2861956]Maybe stop putting yourself out there as some thirsty young black dude with no money who is always fiending for the perfect encounter and will choke a girl out if she disrepects his money. I swear you and the other stonmtn guy. That dude is seriously talking about "I have no car or money, but I like to talk to these chicks to see what they will do" WTF is that??[/QUOTE]Stonemtnguy is good guy. He just likes to window shop. I think 50 cent came out with a song just for him:
Stonemtnhunter, youza window shopper mad as fuck.
I think I know why.
Stonemtnhounter, youza window shopper.
On the internet looking at pussy you can't buyyyy.
I am a heavy window shopper. I'm in the process of extreme saving so I just keep my eyes and ears open to what's goin on until I make my return. In exchange for me not participating, I give all the info I can. Sorry if I come off like I'm a bitter guy who expects perfect service LOL, I'm just searching for that 1 fantasy encounter ill never forget. Thats my goal.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;2862257]Stonemtnguy is good guy. He just likes to window shop. I think 50 cent came out with a song just for him:
Stonemtnhunter, youza window shopper mad as fuck.
I think I know why.
Stonemtnhounter, youza window shopper.
On the internet looking at pussy you can't buyyyy.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2862194]I've been scammed before and never gotten physical unless for self defense.
Not sure why I am under attack here but I'm not the horrible person you paint me to be.
I will always defend myself but the question was:
"How do YOU rationalize being scammed or taken advantage of in the game? Do you shrug it off? Are you sooo rich that the waste does not matter? Or do you just get back to your life and try to forget the experience?
The question is about YOU, not me. I repeat, I want your PERSONAL philosophy. YOUR philosophy.
I did not ask to be critiqued or disrespected. I asked about your personal philopsohy.
Please answer the question directly. The only one who has given an answer is stnmtnhunter. The rest of you are jumping all over the place and attacking me.
Stick to the subject guys!![/QUOTE]When you save x amount, you'll be able to look back and laugh at it and look back and thank the lord you lived to play another day and recovered your loss $$.
[QUOTE=ParrotReborn;2862194]I've been scammed before and never gotten physical unless for self defense.
Not sure why I am under attack here but I'm not the horrible person you paint me to be.
I will always defend myself but the question was:
"How do YOU rationalize being scammed or taken advantage of in the game? Do you shrug it off? Are you sooo rich that the waste does not matter? Or do you just get back to your life and try to forget the experience?
The question is about YOU, not me. I repeat, I want your PERSONAL philosophy. YOUR philosophy.
I did not ask to be critiqued or disrespected. I asked about your personal philopsohy.
Please answer the question directly. The only one who has given an answer is stnmtnhunter. The rest of you are jumping all over the place and attacking me.
Stick to the subject guys!![/QUOTE]If you are really asking yourself these questions about being scammed or ripped off, you need to get out of this game. If you haven't learned by now how to avoid rip offs then I don't know what to tell you. I'm not attacking you, I'm talking to you like a man, but some will take any criticism as an attack. I used to like your posts from the old handle, but now you just act thirsty and pissed off.
[QUOTE=Illy515;2862365][URL]http://liveescortreviews.com/large/atlanta/440-450-3507/4/1031258[/URL] anybody saw this one.[/QUOTE]Sir, we are still waiting for the reviews you promised per your past posting.
[QUOTE=Illy515;2856145]I know you creeps want some reviews I been meanin to put a few up been busy tho ima put a few of my A list girls up for yall this weekend even tho I really don't want to LOL anit no fun of the homies can't get some to huh? Until then ✌.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NuGuy36;2862587]Sir, we are still waiting for the reviews you promised per your past posting.[/QUOTE]I just posted 2 yesterday give you a few more later.
[QUOTE=GsuFan07;2861984]Wondering if anybody has any experience or thoughts with this girl:
[URL]http://backpage.com.atlanta.listcrawler.com/post/14418595/-phone-7703832300[/URL]#.
Her thing is that she does massages and what not. That's fine by me. The "and even sexy time" bit suggests that she does what we all look at girls on Backpage for.
And then you click on the "see more pictures" button, and let's just say a few eyebrows were raised. She has some straight up porn going on in those. Same girl considering the piercings match up and all.
Now I don't mind porn, but when you're putting pictures up of you doing a customer as your advertisement. Let's just say it makes me wonder firstly how discreet she is, and secondly, if it's not "too good to be true". She does have advertisements going all the way back to last September, so odds are, I *think*, that she's legit enough.
So. As I mentioned. Thoughts and / or experience? Thanks![/QUOTE]Have why'all been on this board only for 5 minutes? Brandy has been discussed numerous times on a few of the topics here. I'm sure a simple search would of provided info, because she has been well discussed in many of the forums. Yanno those writings on the walls that you see in public bathrooms? She has no less than 20 usaguide members literature on hers. I'm pretty sure by now she has accumulated a bucket of cum worth. The chick doesn't believe in rubbers. If you can get down with that, knock yourself out. Have a blast.
For new members, it pays to do a little research. I myself scroll back on the pages to catch up and read the info I may of missed. Forgot who it was, but they said we really should make a Twitter version of this. He said it would be called Twatter. Can you imagine what those live feeds would look like?
[QUOTE=GetUrRollOnMan;2862677]Have why'all been on this board only for 5 minutes? Brandy has been discussed numerous times on a few of the topics here. I'm sure a simple search would of provided info, because she has been well discussed in many of the forums. Yanno those writings on the walls that you see in public bathrooms? She has no less than 20 usaguide members literature on hers. I'm pretty sure by now she has accumulated a bucket of cum worth. The chick doesn't believe in rubbers. If you can get down with that, knock yourself out. Have a blast.
For new members, it pays to do a little research. I myself scroll back on the pages to catch up and read the info I may of missed. Forgot who it was, but they said we really should make a Twitter version of this. He said it would be called Twatter. Can you imagine what those live feeds would look like?[/QUOTE]This post made me chuckle.
[QUOTE=GetUrRollOnMan;2862677]Have why'all been on this board only for 5 minutes? Brandy has been discussed numerous times on a few of the topics here. I'm sure a simple search would of provided info, because she has been well discussed in many of the forums. Yanno those writings on the walls that you see in public bathrooms? She has no less than 20 usaguide members literature on hers. I'm pretty sure by now she has accumulated a bucket of cum worth. The chick doesn't believe in rubbers. If you can get down with that, knock yourself out. Have a blast.
For new members, it pays to do a little research. I myself scroll back on the pages to catch up and read the info I may of missed. Forgot who it was, but they said we really should make a Twitter version of this. He said it would be called Twatter. Can you imagine what those live feeds would look like?[/QUOTE]Twatter?
Hmm.
[QUOTE=Svtcobra;2862580]If you are really asking yourself these questions about being scammed or ripped off, you need to get out of this game. If you haven't learned by now how to avoid rip offs then I don't know what to tell you. I'm not attacking you, I'm talking to you like a man, but some will take any criticism as an attack. I used to like your posts from the old handle, but now you just act thirsty and pissed off.[/QUOTE]Don't really think he comes across as thirsty or pissed off. I think his bark is worse than his bite when it comes to reading sime of his adventures. He definitely does treat SWers like shit though. Not like I really care about how he treats them. I just think it's funny when you treat them like shit, pay them like shit, and expect 5 star service in return for his coins. LOL I missed that lesson in school.
[QUOTE=StnmtnHunter;2862547]I am a heavy window shopper. I'm in the process of extreme saving so I just keep my eyes and ears open to what's goin on until I make my return. In exchange for me not participating, I give all the info I can. Sorry if I come off like I'm a bitter guy who expects perfect service LOL, I'm just searching for that 1 fantasy encounter ill never forget. Thats my goal.[/QUOTE]One fantasy encounter that I'll never forget? What does that exactly mean? Get your man hole plugged or ate out?
[QUOTE=GetUrRollOnMan;2863283]One fantasy encounter that I'll never forget? What does that exactly mean? Get your man hole plugged or ate out?[/QUOTE]Thats level 10! LOL I'm not on that. A big booty chick I can pound, eat her pussy / ass, kiss, cum in her mouth, and she enjoys it! .
[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;2861496]Don't listen to those haters Greeklover6. She's definitely a 100% natural born female! Just remember to bring with you a jar of vaseline. She's gives and receives (wink wink). Your gunna need it. LOL.[/QUOTE]Quit trolling man, some of these guys can't seem to grasp the humor and are getting confused LOL.
Philosophy.
My philosophy on the industry is that when you're blowing money but having fun, the fun justifies it. When you blow money then feel like you got nothing out of it or worse, that you got taken, it's not fun and I don't think it matters how much money you have or don't have. I look at seeing a girl I haven't seen before as a gamble, whether or not she has reviews. I go into it like I do any other bet, or loaning money for that matter; I only use what I can afford to lose. Now, of course I attempt to stack the deck in my favor to minimize the BS by doing my due diligence, but inevitably if you're out there long enough you will run into that girl that's just not going to work out. Basically, if it works out in my favor, cool. If not, I was already using lost money. It's really the nature of the beast when hunting for something new to put on the roster instead of sticking to your known sure fire live wires, it's like the lotto where you got to play to win.
Just for clarity and to make sure we're on the same page Parrot, which I think we are, let me tell you what I see as being taken. Some examples of getting taken would be dead fish, paying for 30 and being rushed out at 15, stinking ass crotches, advertising or saying one thing then when paid and both naked saying another, etc. Getting taken doesn't have to go as far as the chic coming to your car for the dough to pay the room fee then going out the back door, if that has happened to anyone, then yes they are a dumb fuck and need to get out of the game, I don't know you at all Parrot, but I know that's not what you're talking when you say getting scammed. Again, I think we're on the same page as far as that's concerned and say don't beat yourself up, just take it as the hazards of hunting something new, chalk it up to the game and keep pushing, lost money.
Some other ramblings.
InchLong-I've been accused of being someone else before and as Wleakr said, while it's best to ignore, reputation means a lot to some, in real life and here. Like Marlow said in the wire, "my name is my name". When it happened to me I wrongly assumed that the admin would be able to do an IP search or something to silence the accusations, I asked and was told that it's not that simple. The platform and architecture of the board, and the internet in general, is more involved than that. The issue as you pointed out is that the accusers have absolutely no proof whatsoever, they're just flapping their cock suckers and it's usually the same few that do it, then their jock riders come along and add on. When I really look at it a little deeper I come to another realization. Let's just say someone did have multiple accounts, the person that comes on and says something about it amounts to nothing more than a snitch, a fucking rat. Makes me wonder what else they're telling. Informers like to behave as if they own the board and they don't, boy stop, watch out little bih.