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I gave her some more thought since I posted this and remember she used to say she does dom and sub but prefers sub. None of that is my thing so I was oblivious. But I am firm in what I want and expect and don't take any crap from these girls. I am thinking she may have just assumed I was being a dominant and was doing everything I said. I mean the calling me only when she was allegedly not using and actually bringing me a test that she was clean. She would do anything I asked. Would say treat me like your personal ***** and ask me to slap her ass, slap it harder. Huh, I guess I was playing dom to her sub and never knew it. Worked out well for me anyway. If she pops her head up again I will let you guys know. Should be a good call if you are capable of taking the lead. If you are wishy washy you may be eating some other guys cum out of her ass. The world is funny.

Anyone have any positive experiences with sugar babies in NJ? I'm at least curious, especially in CNJ. I'm on SB and want to see if it's worth it to upgrade my membership there (or on any other site). I tried using the search function here, but that wasn't helpful. TIA.

My apologies if I double post. I tried a few minutes ago and got an error message.

[QUOTE=DocTego;6125779]Anyone have any positive experiences with sugar babies in NJ? I'm at least curious, especially in CNJ. I'm on SB and want to see if it's worth it to upgrade my membership there (or on any other site). I tried using the search function here, but that wasn't helpful. TIA.

My apologies if I double post. I tried a few minutes ago and got an error message.[/QUOTE]I had luck with SA if you're looking for a real sugar baby type deal. Though last time I checked it out it seemed full of working girls. WhatsYourPrice is a waste in my opinion and never tried SB.

[QUOTE=JerseyJames;6132904]I had luck with SA if you're looking for a real sugar baby type deal. Though last time I checked it out it seemed full of working girls. WhatsYourPrice is a waste in my opinion and never tried SB.[/QUOTE]James is correct. More providers than real SB's. Join for a month and if it works for you, your ahead of the game, if not cancel. Good Luck (let us know how you make out).

[QUOTE=KayJ46;6133054]James is correct. More providers than real SB's. Join for a month and if it works for you, your ahead of the game, if not cancel. Good Luck (let us know how you make out).[/QUOTE]Yeah man it works out well if you can find a real Sb, I met three BTW 2016 and 2019, some real fond memories and still in touch with one today. Good luck to the op.

These girls are habitual liars. They lie about almost anything. Some of their lies are about getting more money off of you. It's why I always say do not care about these girls. Do not feel sorry for them or fail for their bs. They are doing just fine and are exactly where they want to be. They make more money than you do. How and why they are perpetually broke is none of your concern. Your only goal should be getting the best service at the lowest price. When you understand that you will get better calls at a lower price. Do not "care" about these girls. Smart mongers don't and I assure you we get much better mileage and prices than the white knights who care about these girls. They are wasting their time and money for nothing.

Here are some of the lies I have been told. If you guys have others please share.

1. "You are the first guy I have had sex with all week or in months".

No, I doubt I am the even the first guy you had sex with that day. Her ad has been up all week, month or year. Trust me, you or I are not the first person she has had sex with in a while. I think they say this for several reasons. First they know any guy will feel better not knowing she has had half a dozen dicks in her that day. Secondly, it is a play to get you to give her more money since this poor well known girl who posts daily wants you to think she is hurting. White Knights will usually throw her more money. A smart monger just shrugs. I have gotten this line several times from regulars who vanished for a while and then came back. Problem is their ad has been up for week (s) since they returned. Does even the dumbest monger really think nobody else has seen her in a week when guys jump on any girl who posts that appears legit?

2. "I am glad you came and saw me today. Now I have almost enough money to buy my kid a birthday gift for tomorrow".

Notice the phrase "almost enough". She wants you to feel bad for her and give her more money for her kids "birthday" gift. I have gotten this one from at least half a dozen providers. They are not getting a gift for their kid. They haven't bought a gift for their kid ever. The kid doesn't even live with them and it's not even it's birthday. Just a trick to get more money out of you.

3. A regular texts you: "Can you please come see me now I need money for my room or will be thrown out. The owner says he will give me a few more hours to pay".

First off, this is dialing for dollars. You should go see her but at a deep discount. This is my bread and butter, when they dial you begging to see them. I will offer them half or less of their regular rate and that becomes my new regular rate all the time. But she is not getting thrown out of her room. I will usually ask when the call is over "so are you going to go up front and pay for the room now". I catch them off guard and they need to think for a moment. Then I usually get something like "Oh, well I had just enough and paid right before you came". These girls rarely get thrown out of rooms for not paying. They get thrown out for causing too much aggravation or drawing a police presence to the motel. The room is always paid for. They always have enough to pay even after buying their drugs. They do sucker white knights to pay for the room often without even seeing them just because they can.

4. Regarding BBFS: "Don't tell anyone I did bare with you" or "I don't usually do this" or "it's just you or you and one other guy".

She says this mostly so you don't think she does this a lot. She wants your continued business. Most guys prefer if their girl wasn't bare backing other guys. But they do. It's never just you or just you and one other guy. It may not be every guy but it is many. You weren't even the only guy (s) she BBFS that day. Don't ever believe you are the only guy bare backing her. Sadly, a lot of guys actually think they are the only one. There is not a single girl out there that you have BBFS that wouldn't BBFS me or many others on the first visit.

Has anybody had luck with Ashley Madison? Most reviews say it works but is expensive and the expensive part seems true, but I don't see it being much more effective than Secret Benefits or Seeking? I guess once you get a girl you won't have the "donation" as directly, but I can't help to think I'm throwing money away.

[QUOTE=Klance;6150576]Has anybody had luck with Ashley Madison? Most reviews say it works but is expensive and the expensive part seems true, but I don't see it being much more effective than Secret Benefits or Seeking? I guess once you get a girl you won't have the "donation" as directly, but I can't help to think I'm throwing money away.[/QUOTE]I did like 4 or 5 years ago. It may have changed since then. I was only active for a few days and had 2 hookups that led to sex the first date. One was a one nighter and the other lasted for months til I got bored. They were free of course and didn't even want to go out on real dates. I had another that was a lunch date but she was a waste of time who only wanted to sext since she didn't have the courage yet to cheat outright. Whatever the cost was then it wasn't much as the serious ones exchange numbers after the first message. So back then, at least, it was well worth it for me. I don't remember what I spent but it was probably much lower than a short stay with a provider. So to see one girl once and another about a dozen times, what I spent on AM was really nothing. Again, it may have changed since then.

I had the same success with Plenty of Fish. The only problem is that you go thru the serious ones fast and then nothing left but time wasters so I just stopped. You also have to be at least decent looking and have a good rap. Have a great profile and make your good impression right away in your first message so you aren't wasting money. I did it on the cheap because I have a good line of shit. If you don't it may not be for you and you will drop a lot of money for nothing. You need to stand out over all the other assholes looking for that same pussy. I may try it again since it's been years and there must be new blood by now.

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6150655]I did like 4 or 5 years ago. It may have changed since then. I was only active for a few days and had 2 hookups that led to sex the first date. One was a one nighter and the other lasted for months til I got bored. They were free of course and didn't even want to go out on real dates. I had another that was a lunch date but she was a waste of time who only wanted to sext since she didn't have the courage yet to cheat outright. Whatever the cost was then it wasn't much as the serious ones exchange numbers after the first message. So back then, at least, it was well worth it for me. I don't remember what I spent but it was probably much lower than a short stay with a provider. So to see one girl once and another about a dozen times, what I spent on AM was really nothing. Again, it may have changed since then.

I had the same success with Plenty of Fish. The only problem is that you go thru the serious ones fast and then nothing left but time wasters so I just stopped. You also have to be at least decent looking and have a good rap. Have a great profile and make your good impression right away in your first message so you aren't wasting money. I did it on the cheap because I have a good line of shit. If you don't it may not be for you and you will drop a lot of money for nothing. You need to stand out over all the other assholes looking for that same pussy. I may try it again since it's been years and there must be new blood by now.[/QUOTE]From what I read recently the ratio of bots is very high and there are very few women on the site. Apparently things went south after the data breach. I had some success on POF, but it's not been great recently. I'm pretty good with certain women: shy and starved of affection, but I have a SO so I can't public and it's harder finding married women or women willing to cheat with an involved guy on POF. Not sure where they all went. But on POF seem to have gotten more savy in the past few years.

Does anyone know if there is a website or some platform where working girls can contact each other about bad experiences, etc. I've contacted 3 or 4 women recently, and after a few texts they stop replying. I certainly haven't done anything wrong or anything to hurt anyone, but I have a feeling that a woman I met recently took a dislike to me for some reason. Now it seems like I can't get a date. Very frustrating.

[QUOTE=HighPockets;6151027]Does anyone know if there is a website or some platform where working girls can contact each other about bad experiences, etc. I've contacted 3 or 4 women recently, and after a few texts they stop replying. I certainly haven't done anything wrong or anything to hurt anyone, but I have a feeling that a woman I met recently took a dislike to me for some reason. Now it seems like I can't get a date. Very frustrating.[/QUOTE]You sure you aren't saying anything to creep them out during those initial texts?

I've had 1 or 2 girls say they were going to say I was a good call on some site. Whether one exists or not who knows. If it did I assume we would have found it by now. Plus if such a site existed you think most of these girls would even know about it or care?

I suppose there is a small chance that the girls who ignored you are in the same group of tight providers as the one you had an issue with and they happened to text your number to her asking about you. But that is very unlikely. I think it's more likely you texted something that creeped them out or they all found better calls or something.

[QUOTE=HighPockets;6151027]Does anyone know if there is a website or some platform where working girls can contact each other about bad experiences, etc. I've contacted 3 or 4 women recently, and after a few texts they stop replying. I certainly haven't done anything wrong or anything to hurt anyone, but I have a feeling that a woman I met recently took a dislike to me for some reason. Now it seems like I can't get a date. Very frustrating.[/QUOTE]Are we talking Skip girls? Most of the mid-level local gals aka "Twitter Girls" aka "Board Girls" know of each other and share references. I've seen certain ones promote out of state girls too. I don't think there is a list, but they definitely talk about guys and supposedly I heard references to a provider only board on Best GFE and other sites like that.

Even with all that girls are skittish and they are skittish about the same stuff. Maybe have a friend look over your texts and see if you said something wrong. Unless it's a coincidence something happened to spook them.

[QUOTE=HighPockets;6151027]Does anyone know if there is a website or some platform where working girls can contact each other about bad experiences, etc. I've contacted 3 or 4 women recently, and after a few texts they stop replying. I certainly haven't done anything wrong or anything to hurt anyone, but I have a feeling that a woman I met recently took a dislike to me for some reason. Now it seems like I can't get a date. Very frustrating.[/QUOTE]There is such a board, a woman I enjoyed for many years showed me at one time, but I was so pussy drunk I cannot remember what the name was. Michelle / Mimi in Philly got deep into the dom and fetish work before she disappeared completely. She was showing me her ads and photos she had up, and in a sub forum there was a whole section with city sub sections with reviews for bad dates. Mind you, in the dom-sub sessions, often the girls are bound or compromised, so she tried hard to weed out the bad guys. I've tried for countless hours to find that board again with no luck. And I can't ask Michelle, as she vanished when her taste for dope got too strong. I fear she got scooped up by some dirtbag pimp and is being trafficked in another city somewhere.

So Plenty of Fish now charges to send messages beyond your one free message a day. Also a woman who I messaged ended up being a bot or at least wanted me to join a website. Very disappointing. There's really no easy venues anymore.

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;5919319]Do this long enough and plenty of funny shit happens. I am sure you all have some funny stories. Let's hear them. I have a few but want to share this one that I still laugh about when I think about it.

A little background. I forget the girls working name but she used to use several and I won't share her real name. Anyway, she used to work out of the Tom's River area but then ended up in South Amboy and then settled in the Edison area. The guys on the sites used to post about her ads because she seemed like a train wreck and we all had a laugh. I don't remember anybody actually saying they saw her. But if you were around years ago you may have. I have attached a few pics. So one day I decide to actually see her. She wasn't my type as I usually prefer them thicker but I had a feeling it would be a good time and much to laugh about. It was. So I see her and she was a train wreck and the first thing she said is I am kind of a scatter brain don't mind me. She was hitting a crack pipe and that usually makes me walk but I just went with it. Got a great call and she even said if her friend gets back in time I can see her too at no extra charge. The friend never showed but I did see her like a week later and it was fun. Younger girl BBBJ BBFS. She didn't post for long and is lost to history. So back to this girl. The call ends and it was basically full GFE all bare against my better judgement but everything was fine. She said to see her again. I said I would rather not because of the using. She said well I do get clean from time to time and will call you then. I reached out to her a few months later and she said I would love to see you but I am not clean now. I said well can you not hit the pipe long enough for a nice unrushed BBBJ. She said yes and it was a good call..[/QUOTE]OMG, I remember this girl, her working name was Lovely Lola. She was a nut but a fun girl, I had a threesome with her and a friend at no cost (friend). She was totally uninhibited and the word 'NO" was not part of her repertoire. Lola could take an ass pounding and love to be slapped, it turns her on.

I used to see her back at her place, she was not a clock watcher. Last time I saw her back was early 2020 then lost track of her.