She's been flaking on me too
[QUOTE=AdrickIan;3095557]I was going to be in Joliet today, so based on positive comments about her in a few threads here I thought I'd see if I could get together with Shannon.
I sent a txt at 13:00 making sure that she was available this evening. It took her about 15 minutes to respond, but she confirmed that there'd be no problem getting together this evening.
I replied immediately to schedule 18:00, and she said to just txt when I'm in the area.
At 18:00 I sent a txt asking when and where to meet her, and she replied saying she wasn't ready.
(Uh oh, this isn't going well. But, maybe she got distracted and lost track of time. I'm not ready to give up yet.).
I reply asking when she'll be ready. I ask if it'll be more than an hour wait, and I should hang out at the casino while I wait, or if it will be less than an hour, in which case if she gives me a nearby major intersection I'll head to the area and get a bite to eat while I wait.
There is a 15 minute delay again, and then she sends me an intersection.
I let her know I'll hang out in the area and to just txt me when she's ready.
90 minutes later it's 19:45 and I haven't heard back yet.
I send a txt asking how much longer.
(Uh oh. 15 minutes and no response.).
I send a txt asking if she'd like to just reschedule for tomorrow.
(No response.).
I send a txt asking if she's still there.
(No response.).
Time to give up and head out. Not sure if I'll risk wasting time on her again.[/QUOTE]Keeps saying she would be back in Chicago this day or that day, but when I call her or text her, she's still in Joliet, apparently ignoring calls there too. A pity, because she's pretty amazing when you can actually connect with her.
Between a rock and a hard place
You know I never read this part of the forum before. Just wanted to say I activley seek out bb. I know danger ahead. I just struggle between knowing bb is a bit risky and feeling like using a cover isn't really having sex. And covered BJ, totall turn off. Its been a long time, but I've had bareback at the asain apartments a few times and with occasional providers. The thing I learned is you just have to ask and many times not always youll be pleasantly surprised.