Sugar Babies

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;2896415]Not sure what you consider a sb but a women workung from a motel room and quotes an hourly rate is not my definition.[/QUOTE]Well, I'm certainly concerned that our definitions of Sugar Babies differ, but you know what they say about opinions? I'm also pretty sure, based on your post, that our definition of correct English grammar differs as well. I'm insincerely sorry that I did not do the due diligence to send a PI to her house to verify that she was living in a certified Sugar Baby type abode and since I only wanted an hour of her time, that's what I was willing to pay for. Any other comments? And spell check is your friend.

[QUOTE=Colonoscopy;2690024]A year and a half after the last post on here, and SeekingArrangement is still going strong. I've seen a few other mongers post about it in other forums and have been using it on and off for a few years now.

I'd say there's as much talent on there as on Backpage, and a lot of it not completely jaded, drugged, and mechanical. You can run into a few doped-up basket cases, but there are an awful lot of attractive young women working low-paying jobs full time that need a little extra cash to make ends meet. You don't need to be a millionaire, just have your shit together, present yourself proper, treat them like a human and not a cum dumpster, and prosper. I've never been great at mongering as I'm way too paranoid by nature (and hence my low post count), but the quasi-legal nature of sugar and extremely low risk works out damn well for me.

Cost of a month's membership is about a daily special QV to a backpage regular or maybe FS with a SW + tip. For me that's a small price to pay for the introduction to tons of UTR hotties looking to set up an arrangement in an ecosystem where the XX chromosomes outnumber the XYs by 20 to 1.

I'm willing to share tips and tricks to weeding out the fakes, flakes, and undesirables if anyone is interested. I know it's not really the original purpose of this thread (turning SWs into SBs, really? But this looked like the most appropriate place.

-Colo.[/QUOTE]Can't say I agree with any of your post. To me the site is completely full of scammers; some from Russia or Eastern Europe and others are local gals too lazy to even spread their legs when they can cry personal crisis and hope someone swoops in to be their knight in Shining Armor.

Read through some of the comments going on in here about SA and AF. Just want to throw in my two cents. Arrangement Finders IS a sham. It is owned by same company as Ashley Madison. Remember the big hack they had. Well, also with people's information getting leaked, it was also confirmed that there were in fact, fake profiles being made by employees.

I was on Arrangement Finders for a little over a year. Yes, there are some real females on there, some looking for the monthly allowance, others just looking for some money for their time. A majority of them are not real. I had a couple times where someone I had contacted tell me they are not interested, but as soon as my membership expired, they were contacting me, wanting to hookup. Hell I upped my membership and asked one of them what gives, and she replied it was not her, she never sent that.

As for Seeking Arrangement, it has been a really good site for me. I have only had two girls waste my time and one of them has already been talked about on here. Two others we met, but just did not mesh, no loss to my wallet. I find if they have their expectation set to practical, they are usually looking for a monthly allowance. Honestly, out of all the sites I have been on, plus other endeavors where I meet females, SA has been the best place to find a good fuck buddy.

Guys,

Wanted to report that I tried SA about 45 days ago. Met up with one in a hotel. Great experience. What I loved was this was just a regular girl and I didn't have to invest much time in the relationship. We met once at a Starbucks. Set up the next meet. Booked a really nice hotel in Rocky Point and spent a few hours togather. I bought some nice wine. I myself am a beer drinker. Great dream. In my dream started of with LFK. Moved to DFK. BBBJ. BBFS and then I got paranoid so on came the cover and finished off. Got two more shots on goal. Didn't think I had it in me. Great experience. We decided to meet again in a week. I couldn't make the schedule so a couple of weeks later she went silent. Am back on the site looking for more. Damage $$. 5 + $$ for room.

Guys,

Any report on this one? If not it is probably going to be TOFTT.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/013b06ce-6f8f-72ff-60f6-62fc9033e4da[/URL]

Rocco.

[QUOTE=Rocco99;2904191]Guys,

Any report on this one? If not it is probably going to be TOFTT.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/013b06ce-6f8f-72ff-60f6-62fc9033e4da[/URL]

Rocco.[/QUOTE]I wrote her three months ago. She read my message but never replied.

I got a month long paid membership on Arrangement Finders and can second this writer's opinion that the vast majority of the ads are scams. I met probably three women who might have been legit. A side note is there are some serious scammers on the site. You can tell because they will post pictures of hot girls with gmail email addresses. Once you contact them outside the site, they send you a link to an outside Identity Verification site, where for twenty dollars you can verify your identity. I had fun messing with these "girls" for a while and even got one, who I assume was actually a dude to admit he was a scammer. He actually claimed he got rich off these and other scams. Avoid Arrangements Finders at all costs.

[QUOTE=FuzzyChest;2903011]Read through some of the comments going on in here about SA and AF. Just want to throw in my two cents. Arrangement Finders IS a sham. It is owned by same company as Ashley Madison. Remember the big hack they had. Well, also with people's information getting leaked, it was also confirmed that there were in fact, fake profiles being made by employees.

I was on Arrangement Finders for a little over a year. Yes, there are some real females on there, some looking for the monthly allowance, others just looking for some money for their time. A majority of them are not real. I had a couple times where someone I had contacted tell me they are not interested, but as soon as my membership expired, they were contacting me, wanting to hookup. Hell I upped my membership and asked one of them what gives, and she replied it was not her, she never sent that.

As for Seeking Arrangement, it has been a really good site for me. I have only had two girls waste my time and one of them has already been talked about on here. Two others we met, but just did not mesh, no loss to my wallet. I find if they have their expectation set to practical, they are usually looking for a monthly allowance. Honestly, out of all the sites I have been on, plus other endeavors where I meet females, SA has been the best place to find a good fuck buddy.[/QUOTE]

Hi,

I signed up for SA [URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL] free membership & browsed. My page says I may add photo to message without payment. Have most of you paid & added photo? I really have no photos & do not know if I want to add one. What does a paid plan do that an unpaid photoed will not?

Thanks,

Jack.

[QUOTE=NrbMan;2924352]Hi,

I signed up for SA [URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL] free membership & browsed. My page says I may add photo to message without payment. Have most of you paid & added photo? I really have no photos & do not know if I want to add one. What does a paid plan do that an unpaid photoed will not?

Thanks,

Jack.[/QUOTE]I paid for a month and it seems to be worth it as I'm getting a lot of messages that seem like they may lead somewhere. Use the computer to take your photo or phone.

Yeah, it seems like Seeking Arrangments is the real deal. I've got ongoing conversations with what seem to be legit gals so far. I'm filtering out all the ones who want high money and we'll see where it leads.

[QUOTE=TimBones;2896425]Well so far 100% of the girls on Arrangement Finders are fakes and scammers. I'm just wondering why you seem to be so enamored with a similiar site, yet have few actual details to share.[/QUOTE]Because SA *isn't* full of scammers, as you will see confirmed by many other posters. It might be a similar site, but that doesn't mean anything at all. I have few details to share beyond general tips and pointers, because they girls I'm looking for arent looking for high volume. There are HUNDREDS of new girls on SA every day. It won't be hard for anyone to find their own. : thumbs:

[QUOTE=Abcxyz1234;2925850]Because SA *isn't* full of scammers, as you will see confirmed by many other posters. It might be a similar site, but that doesn't mean anything at all. I have few details to share beyond general tips and pointers, because they girls I'm looking for arent looking for high volume. There are HUNDREDS of new girls on SA every day. It won't be hard for anyone to find their own. : thumbs:[/QUOTE]Yeah, I was talking about a totally different site, so it's hard to see what your point is, other than being argumentative. If I'm missing something let me know, but I commented about Arrangement Finders, a site that I have found to be full of scammers and Seeking Arrangements, which I found to be a little bit less full of scammers. It's like I said, all Ford trucks suck and you said, But I like my Chevy pick-up.

So, we did meet with one young lady from SA and she seemed to be on the up and up and nice. There are a decent amount of bisexual or bicurious gals on the site and this fits our needs quite well. The site is head and shoulders above Arrangement Finders (AF) in terms of their due diligence in signing up actual women, instead of fat Russian guys sitting in a trailer somewhere pretending to be women. There are some scammers on SA, but it takes the form mostly, (I think) of gay or gender confused boys trying to lure you into dirty texting them. The way to avoid this is just to insist on getting her digits and speak to her on the phone and then follow up with an in-person meeting, which you should not pay for. More information to follow.

[QUOTE=TimBones;2930813]Yeah, I was talking about a totally different site, so it's hard to see what your point is, other than being argumentative. If I'm missing something let me know, but I commented about Arrangement Finders, a site that I have found to be full of scammers and Seeking Arrangements, which I found to be a little bit less full of scammers. It's like I said, all Ford trucks suck and you said, But I like my Chevy pick-up.[/QUOTE]I don't know what I can say differently.

It's not just me. MANY, if not ALL men who have had experiences with SA will tell you they are legit. That is exactly what you will see if you read through this thread, or any of the other sugar baby threads in other cities. It's not just a matter of personal preference. SA was the first sb site to make it big, and they have a large base of real women in their membership. Other websites tried to copy their model, but in the experience of most who have tried them (your experience included! These other sites are far inferior. You seem to have singled me out, demanding specifics for some reason. I don't care to offer specifics. Only general tips and pointers. If you have a problem with that then feel free to ignore my posts on the subject, but if you do your homework you will see that my position on SA is corroborated many, many, many times over.

As I said, I was writing about a different website than the one you are talking about. I really don't know what I could say differently either. As far singling you out goes, I'm feeling you might have a persecution complex.

[QUOTE=Abcxyz1234;2930935]I don't know what I can say differently.

It's not just me. MANY, if not ALL men who have had experiences with SA will tell you they are legit. That is exactly what you will see if you read through this thread, or any of the other sugar baby threads in other cities. It's not just a matter of personal preference. SA was the first sb site to make it big, and they have a large base of real women in their membership. Other websites tried to copy their model, but in the experience of most who have tried them (your experience included! These other sites are far inferior. You seem to have singled me out, demanding specifics for some reason. I don't care to offer specifics. Only general tips and pointers. If you have a problem with that then feel free to ignore my posts on the subject, but if you do your homework you will see that my position on SA is corroborated many, many, many times over.[/QUOTE]