"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6073929][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fbf725de-b469-417e-828b-4bfca9601c2b[/URL] .

Nice pics, but this one has a terrible attitude and thinking to to be fake / scammer, although maybe not. I just viewed her profile and she wrote me quickly and said:

"Want company now".

Then I asked her what part of town she was in and she said:

"I can't host in Decatur can't host ever read my profile" .

There's nothing in her profile about any of that. Anyway, maybe 5% chance she is for real, so maybe someone else can get in there and check her out.[/QUOTE]I had the same experience with her. She's rude & very impatient. Nice pics, but don't want that attitude.

[QUOTE=DocHolliday35;6072899]Careful with this one. She is a drug dealer, all over the place, and angry. I would run.[/QUOTE]How'd you find that out?

[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;6027425]As another poster advised, you want a pic or 2, but you can find a lookalike pic or block your face if you're concerned about privacy.

Yes it's pricey. If you can wait till labor day they'll likely run a $80 special for 1 month.

A lot of guys (especially the guys who post about having little to no success on the site) treat this just like they would an escort site. They just message a girl something like "how much?" Or "200 for a BJ and fuck" etc etc. If you do that, you won't have much success, and the little success you do have will likely be with the semi-pros on the site.

Treat this like a dating site (unless you're one of those assholes who sends unsolicited dick pics on Tinder. In which case you're hopeless and should just stick to tryst and Eros escorts). Read the girls bios and ask a question or two about the things in it. Get to know them. It doesn't take much to separate yourself from the 100's of guys who just act like rude entitled ass hats. After a few "get to know you" questions, ask them if you can talk more on text or snapchat (oh and setup a fake / burner snapchat account). Once you've moved them to text or snap (and NEVER talk specific arrangement details like $ or specific acts on the site. Always leave that to discussions over text message or snap), ask what they are looking for from the site. Tell them you're looking for the same, and you would love to meet up with them. Ask them if they are comfortable hosting or if you'll need to get a hotel. Once you know that, ask them if they want to meet for coffee or a drink first, or if they want to immediately start the arrangement and meet up at the hotel / their place. If they want a coffee first, take them out on a coffee date, be nice and respectful, and after an hour or so ask them if they want to talk more somewhere private. Some will immediately agree to a hotel or go back to their place, some will hesitate. If they hesitate, clarify you mean you just wanted to sit in the car and talk about arrangement details.

While in the car (or any point prior where they agree they want to proceed with the arrangement) ask them what they are looking for in regards to the arrangement. Some will immediately give you a $ figure, some will play coy and give neutral generic answers. If they give you a $ amount that's in your budget, agree and let them know you're ready to start the arrangement if they're ready to go back to their place or hotel. If they are coy, say you will start things on a pay per meet (PPM) basis and offer them whatever amount you want to offer. [/QUOTE]Outstanding write-up. Just coming back from a 2 year break. The above is precisely what I experienced all over the world. It is a lot of work, but so worth it!!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/efccbfa2-71e9-4abc-9c9a-e4bedcc02ff5[/URL]

Sends hot pics, then tells you she won't meet until you buy nude pics.

Told her that's not how it works.

Just a pic seller.

[QUOTE=WoodstockShane;6074608][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/78172cdd-5fd7-4d6c-be25-f032f6ef9263[/URL]

I had high hopes for this goof. I believe she is flooding her zone with meet and greets as she thinks she is putting men through an "Interview process". Sorry sweet cheeks, this isn't how the site operates. She sent me what appeared to be a copy and paste message on Monday, and claimed that so many men were just interested in texting instead of meeting. She then proposed a meeting, but that she didn't have any "openings" until next week. Then she hit me with this gem of a message.

"Consider this an interview process. My options are many as I'm sure are yours. When I find the connection that is right I will move forward. " Oh well. I don't know if you want to call this GPS, because we never got to any financial discussions. I think she's just an idiot.

Good luck and stay frosty.[/QUOTE]Similar experience here. Great texts that seemed to be leading to a good point. One of her responses:

I am married. My husband and I have no secrets. We spend weekends together, usually in the company of friends that we've met through the lifestyle. He works out of town every other week. We both enjoy our time together our time with friends and our time apart. I'm very busy keeping my children on track but I love to make time during the day for delicious dining and memorable sex and of course I love to be spoiled. I will only maintain this type of relationship with one man, as long as it's working out well. If we really, really hit it off I would consider making some time for you on an evening or weekend.

Went on to say she couldn't wait to meet. Her week last week was busy, but this week would work. We settled tentatively on Thursday, and she said we'd finalize details this week. Sent her a message Tuesday reminding her we'd planned to meet this week. Then today she sends a message saying Thanks for your interest sweetheart. I've decided we're not a great match.

Maybe one of you other guys made the cut. But more than likely just a game player. And another waste of time.

How do I see the profiles why'all are posting? It's telling me the profile isn't available and I may be blocked which isn't true because I just created this profile.

[QUOTE=DawRight0;6073928][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c922ef17-d829-4f86-aea6-0aa5ae3f1395[/URL]

Has anyone have any luck with this one? We been talking for a little and haven't talked about money yet. She's real we already verified. Trying to get some information before we talk about money.[/QUOTE]I messaged with her a bit, but she wanted to use email and that has always been a big red flag for me. I don't think I've ever had a legit person use email on there. They have always turned out to be scammers. How did you verify she is real?

New here, but loving all the useful info. Anyone have anything on this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/924f619e-2e41-49ca-ae7e-9b0d17c5e270[/URL]

[QUOTE=SexyBeast93;6073633]I actually ended up meeting BubblesVonCuddles IRL. She's legitimately autistic and it's very noticeable when you talk to her. Almost has Luna Lovegood vibes. Very cute, and she knows it and asked for $5000 dollars for FS, plus wanted exorbitant amounts to go on dates and do nothing. I told her she was ridiculous and haven't spoken since.[/QUOTE]She flipped with me all of a sudden and told me to repent and that I was going to burn in hell LOL. I had not brought up anything sexual or crude. I asked if there would be fucking there and she never responded again.

[QUOTE=SoonerFan72;6071397]I've never met her, but she has been on SA forever, has a new profile each month. She had terrible reviews a few years ago, odor and lackluster performance if I recall right. I could have sworn she was Indian though, not Latin, not that it matters.[/QUOTE]I tried this one a couple years ago. Very lackluster kept complaining that any kind of stroke more than halfway hurts her. Would only barely put the tip in her mouth when it came to BJ. Complain the whole time asking when it was going to be done. Scammed a couple of other people. There are several reviews about her. I love her like the plague. She sent me a bunch of BS messages on the site one time so I started reporting her profiles then they would ban her every time. But she would just make a new profile and they let her keep doing it. Had her band at least 10 times but she kept showing up again with a new one. That shows you how much this site cares. I canceled my membership 5 months ago and I haven't been back. SDM has been much better. Way better actually and 1/8 the price.

Does anyone have experience with StylishPrincess? My guess is she is a scammer, but wanted to check on here. She only wants to communicate via email or google chat, which is a major red flag. The only reason I haven't written her off is that she hasn't cut it off when I've said I can't use those. Her pics also look familiar so she may create new profiles regularly.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40021bb6-83b1-4a97-85da-304d15792c28[/URL]

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;6078346]Does anyone have experience with StylishPrincess? My guess is she is a scammer, but wanted to check on here. She only wants to communicate via email or google chat, which is a major red flag. The only reason I haven't written her off is that she hasn't cut it off when I've said I can't use those. Her pics also look familiar so she may create new profiles regularly.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40021bb6-83b1-4a97-85da-304d15792c28[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't think she's a scammer. I've been chatting to her as well, and I don't do any of that google nonsense either. I haven't seen any other profiles that resemble her either. She's a traveling nurse (at least that's the story so far) so she is in and out of the area. She just sent me a message stating that she is currently in Minnesota. So if you want to use that Information, go ahead. Her communication is. Sketchy at best, so I understand the scammer concern.

By the way, I've been wrong before, so as always.

Stay Frosty.

I'll second SDM as it seems to have less scammers.

[QUOTE=DaRiv;6078119]I tried this one a couple years ago. Very lackluster kept complaining that any kind of stroke more than halfway hurts her. Would only barely put the tip in her mouth when it came to BJ. Complain the whole time asking when it was going to be done. Scammed a couple of other people. There are several reviews about her. I love her like the plague. She sent me a bunch of BS messages on the site one time so I started reporting her profiles then they would ban her every time. But she would just make a new profile and they let her keep doing it. Had her band at least 10 times but she kept showing up again with a new one. That shows you how much this site cares. I canceled my membership 5 months ago and I haven't been back. SDM has been much better. Way better actually and 1/8 the price.[/QUOTE]

Something seems off with her. Anybody had any experience talking or meeting up?

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;6076676]She flipped with me all of a sudden and told me to repent and that I was going to burn in hell LOL. I had not brought up anything sexual or crude. I asked if there would be fucking there and she never responded again.[/QUOTE]So many of these girls go from zero to 100 quickly. Its amazing to watch.