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[QUOTE=Bran2025;7367657]IMHO being an asshole to them certainly can trigger worse vs. Better behaviour towards you. You do you but for me I do my best to be the "nice guy" that maybe they don't want to blackmail or otherwise f over. But in the end I cannot control their behavior.[/QUOTE]Also why sometimes ghosting is the best policy, even if a bit cold and amoral. For mental health's sake, if anything.
[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;7367782]Also why sometimes ghosting is the best policy, even if a bit cold and amoral. For mental health's sake, if anything.[/QUOTE]Yeah in 2025 ghosting, to younger people, is a lot more normal than it would be to us in our 50's and up.
It's much better than a prolonged discussion / trying to talk someone out of their beliefs that they were wronged.
I'd get a lot of hate mail if I shared my philosophy. But I try to be as kind as I can in my own unkind way.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;7367931]Yeah in 2025 ghosting, to younger people, is a lot more normal than it would be to us in our 50's and up.
It's much better than a prolonged discussion / trying to talk someone out of their beliefs that they were wronged.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bran2025;7367657]Yes these women are unpredictable and we usually don't know the full extent of it 'til it's too late.
IMHO being an asshole to them certainly can trigger worse vs. Better behaviour towards you. You do you but for me I do my best to be the "nice guy" that maybe they don't want to blackmail or otherwise f over. But in the end I cannot control their behavior.[/QUOTE]I agree 100 percent.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;7367657]Yes these women are unpredictable and we usually don't know the full extent of it 'til it's too late.
IMHO being an asshole to them certainly can trigger worse vs. Better behaviour towards you. You do you but for me I do my best to be the "nice guy" that maybe they don't want to blackmail or otherwise f over. But in the end I cannot control their behavior.[/QUOTE]Even being a nice guy sometimes doesn't payoff. But I will continue to be because it helps more often than not. I just had a 7 month arrangement with essentially no problems whatsoever come to an end. Everything was going perfectly fine and all of a sudden she blocked me. I found a way to contact her to try and get an explanation of why she did that and what I might have done wrong. I told her if she no longer wanted to see me that is fine just be an adult about and say so instead of just essentially erasing me from her life. She flipped out and threatened to contact my family and work. Watch your back guys even what seems to be the good ones can do you in.
[QUOTE=Sitteb36;7368094]Even being a nice guy sometimes doesn't payoff. But I will continue to be because it helps more often than not. I just had a 7 month arrangement with essentially no problems whatsoever come to an end. Everything was going perfectly fine and all of a sudden she blocked me. I found a way to contact her to try and get an explanation of why she did that and what I might have done wrong. I told her if she no longer wanted to see me that is fine just be an adult about and say so instead of just essentially erasing me from her life. She flipped out and threatened to contact my family and work. Watch your back guys even what seems to be the good ones can do you in.[/QUOTE]I learn from all my utr that I had when they have a boyfriend. They will blocked you so you don't contact them, but when they single or when they desperate for money. They will hit you up again since that's what we are to them no matter how many years we know them and help them out. Its all about the Benjamin to them.
Yes, even the best ones will flip on you or surprise you in some unexpected manner to put you in harm's way. Which is why I made a decision some time ago to never repeat. I will say that when they decide to cut it off they don't owe us any explanations, just like we don't own them a reason when we decide to move on. In this case, I would argue that you're the one who failed to be an adult and move on. I know it's hard and no one likes to feel rejected, which is why I pull the plug early when it hurts the least.
[QUOTE=Sitteb36;7368094]Even being a nice guy sometimes doesn't payoff. But I will continue to be because it helps more often than not. I just had a 7 month arrangement with essentially no problems whatsoever come to an end. Everything was going perfectly fine and all of a sudden she blocked me. I found a way to contact her to try and get an explanation of why she did that and what I might have done wrong. I told her if she no longer wanted to see me that is fine just be an adult about and say so instead of just essentially erasing me from her life. She flipped out and threatened to contact my family and work. Watch your back guys even what seems to be the good ones can do you in.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TrustTwoDeal;7362842][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eab6759a-41f4-4fe6-8c23-1ef53e65d5d7[/URL]
Very nice to meet her. Heads up. She is polyamory- has a bunch of.
Kids. Lives out west of Boston.
Seems scattered at times. Says she has adhd. I would have repeated.
But something was off. She lets you know she will see other folks.
FYI.[/QUOTE]She was a ton of fun when I saw her. I have a bunch of videos and she's screaming in all of them.
[QUOTE=TrustTwoDeal;7362890][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9460861f-eb9c-4755-b46a-a4aab1b52fa9[/URL]
Nice lady. Had met her 12 months ago. She is Russian. But has been in Boston for a while.
When I met her she was married. Not so much an open relationship. More going through.
A separation. She is smart. And sexy. She wants more than average $$ - $1500 a month.
Gets you two visits. She cannot host. I did like her but found her wants to much. She has since left her husband.
She has kids. Will also say she shows signs of scaring. She is still very sexy, but something.
Happened to her a long time ago.[/QUOTE]I saw her a bunch of times in 2023, was worth it everytime.
[QUOTE=McKilla;7365055][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bce50152-3b17-4bd0-90ae-8d1752da1394[/URL]
Open to just about anything will negotiate. Cannot host but will travel.[/QUOTE]I fucked her and have video of it. She smelled funny and seemed like she wasn't really into being there (from the beginning).
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;7368708]I fucked her and have video of it. She smelled funny and seemed like she wasn't really into being there (from the beginning).[/QUOTE]She looks like she would smell funny!! Do these girls know you are video taping them?
[QUOTE=Meisterdude;7345060]Exchanged messages and did a facetime call. She matches the photos and looked cute but sounded drunk. She also had a hotel on the Cape but this is her last night. She wanted 500 and was not willing to come down. The menu also seemed somewhat limited. I would have been more tempted if extras were included.[/QUOTE]I met her a couple of times before a month, she is not worth $500. I paid her for the convenience, I was in her area and she was available in short notice. She's okay and has decent English skills.
Athena - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/88a56ff8-a4a2-4da9-acc7-1b001332abd9[/URL].
She is really high maintenance LOL. I have played the slow game with a couple of girls, it eventually paid off. This one was tough, I gave up after a couple of dates.
Recent experiences - I'm seeing a grad student from a top-tier university who's back home for the summer. She didn't demand much, happy with $300, and is very enthusiastic in the room. Great conversations in and out. I also met another European woman who was in town for a short internship; she was fun too. I think if you spend the time, there are still fish in the pond looking for a good, stable sugar relationship.
[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;7369227]I met her a couple of times before a month, she is not worth $500. I paid her for the convenience, I was in her area and she was available in short notice. She's okay and has decent English skills.
Athena - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/88a56ff8-a4a2-4da9-acc7-1b001332abd9[/URL].
She is really high maintenance LOL. I have played the slow game with a couple of girls, it eventually paid off. This one was tough, I gave up after a couple of dates.
Recent experiences - I'm seeing a grad student from a top-tier university who's back home for the summer. She didn't demand much, happy with $300, and is very enthusiastic in the room. Great conversations in and out. I also met another European woman who was in town for a short internship; she was fun too. I think if you spend the time, there are still fish in the pond looking for a good, stable sugar relationship.[/QUOTE]$300 is still my PPM target especially for anyone outside of Boston (eg Cape and Worcester). Definately possible to get someone solid at this price point.
Anyone have any intel on Jennifer. Location was Hyannis but now Nahant. Went right to text and is looking for "sex and spoiling".
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/037ed5b1-3695-4b37-a6eb-d2db27193097[/URL]
[QUOTE=PoolPlayInTool;7369076]She looks like she would smell funny!! Do these girls know you are video taping them?[/QUOTE]Yes, every time. I usually ask "can you record me fucking you" and let them record me from their view, with my phone. Then I'll take the phone and keep recording from my view.