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Seriously, knock it the fuck off right fucking now. I'm not saying this again. Dad is about to stop the car.
[/QUOTE]I sent you a PM on this. Those were posted before I saw that you had intervened and your warning, I wasn't ignoring the warning (don't think Mike was either).
I have been on SA for a couple of months now. Met a nice lady a few times a few months ago (bartender by trade) and had a m&g with a potential SB yesterday.
The lady I met with a few times (bartender) was a cute blonde bartender who I believe has relocated to Baltimore.
Met with a LOVELY 35 year old Russian lady from SA yesterday (nice, quiet, dark Chinese restaurant). What a delightful lunch companion. Looking at the 200 range per dream I think.
Meeting with a MILF potential tomorrow at lunch. Seems nice. We'll see. Like that she's married.
Do I wish SA was a little cheaper? HELL yes. Do I feel like I'm meeting a little better quality of girl a little more safely? HELL yes!
Been a crazy week with the numer of m&gs scheduled, and will update with more time permitting. In the meantime, word of caution to the brothers with SOs.
Went on a m&g last night with a mixed Asian (half korean / half french) graduate baby. She is a little older than what I like since I have been focused on the 18-20 crowd lately (dates are so much cheaper without a bottle or two of wine and the bodies are so much tighter! She got a pass because I am a sucker for the white asian mixes. Normally taller with tits and ass, but with those lovely features that so many korean girls have.
I won't bore you with all the m&g details, but a cautionary note to brothers with a SO. Beware the ring dent or ring line. Since placing my mercenary profile up, I stopped taking off my ring for m&gs. Basically, the pot knows what she's getting into, so why take it off. If someone I know bumps into me, its also easier to explain the situation than if my ring is off.
She commented about how she thought it was a little brazen of me to be doing our m&g with my ring on. She then went on to say that it was a refreshing change of pace to many of the other guys who pretend to be single, but are cleary not due to the ring tan line that shows after the summer and the ring dent that comes with wearing a wedding band.
Thinking about it now, I suspect I probably lost a few babies in the past due to this problem.
As an aside, FC trip is planned for next week. We did not talk about an allowance directly, but based on the allowance her prior SD gave her, I am sure she will be significantly lower than my swim instructor and slightly more than the other ladies who I havr added to the rotation on this go around.
The bowl becomes infinitly easier when you have options. Its like the pots can smell the difference.
[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2617937]
The bowl becomes infinitly easier when you have options. Its like the pots can smell the difference.[/QUOTE]I have sensed the same thing.
Got home about an hour ago after being out with my 31 yr old writer.
I have come to the conclusion that she has drinking issues and quite possibly could be bipolar. Back in the civy days, and the last time I actually dated an American woman she ended up being a diagnosed bipolar. I did much research on the issue back in 2008. I vowed then I would not be in a serious relationship with an American woman again and I haven't. I went to China and brought a woman back and married her. Tonight was a bit of a flash back. There is this crazy side to her that I would rather not deal with. All I can say is I sense instability. I think it's time to cut her loose.
I listed it on my profile, did not seem to slow down pot traffic at all. I got a couple emails that were derogatory comments, and had one decide after meeting that she could not be the other woman, but most did not care. In my area, at least half of the women I saw were married, so I was "safer". Here is a married one that I had for lunch earlier this week. Smelly I understand what you say about pics, but I cannot resist the temptation to pull out my phone, and as for being recognized, I doubt she even looks at herself closely enough to recognized herself in a pic like this.
As for all the drama drama of late, don't forget we have an ignore function on the listserve. People who post about things they did a decade ago, "ignore". I miss HWG have to go to the LA boards to follow him now.
I also list it on my profile. My thought is that the babies I contact who have a problem with it just won't reply, and those that do reply have ostensibly read it and are ok with it. I have had more than a few babies tell me it is a turn on for them to know that they are seducing a married man, and others who tell me they are specifically looking for married men because they don't want a real life BF and all that he requires. A couple of hours of intense sex per week, then get the fuck out and let me live my life.
Hooray for us!
Scott.
[QUOTE=Beachesnole02;2619278]As for all the drama drama of late, don't forget we have an ignore function on the listserve. People who post about things they did a decade ago, "ignore".[/QUOTE]Best advice in this thread so far. It didn't take hold the first two or three times I mentioned it here though, maybe with someone else bringing it forth, it might catch on, lets cross our fingers. Admin did say to quit discussing drama so the sooner folks ignore that which tempts them to do so, the better off they are. One thing to remember, some of us change details including *when* things occur, just like some folks in the escort pages "dream" about escorts rather than see them. That means if I saw an SB yesterday, I might say it happened years ago. I never give real timelines, ages, or cities and other circumstances. It protects me (somewhat at least) from being identified if she were to read this thread -- I've talked about not sharing too much info here in the past, that's just how I do things -- to each his own.
On the subject of married vs. Not, I'd suspect all SBs (regardless of where they are on the "SB spectrum") are accustomed to the idea by now. Some time ago. Well okay since nobody seems to appreciate anonymous timelines, . Exactly three days ago. I got an e-mail out of the clear blue from an POT that I had lined up during my last "vacation" from the SO, but did not get the chance to actually take to a M&G. I was forced to make up an excuse and postpone it indefinitely, due to the SO returning early from travel. The POT was just checking "to see how I'm doing and say hello". I suspect whatever SD she hooked up with did not work out. She was one I was really looking forward to, because she flat out told me she was not looking for cash for sex transactions, she had been in a relationship with an older married guy who was helping her on multiple levels, and she said she didn't realize until they had broken up that it was the best relationship she had ever had, so the story goes she was looking for something similar. The point is, she had already decided she was not only OK with a married guy, she actually *preferred* someone who was married. Unfortunately for her, I'm not. LOL. Had I met her, I probably would have told her about my GF. Meanwhile just the fact that she sent me the e-mail has moved her to the top of my priority list for my next foray into the bowl. She is actually close enough for a daytrip, however I know she's not looking for the "let's go to a hotel during lunch and fuck" type of arrangement, so I'll just have to wait and hope she's available when the timing is right.
I've been with my SB for several months now. To my knowledge she has a great relationship with her father and she's doesn't do the "daddy" sex talk stuff. I've seen it with other SB's in a various degrees.
It just dawned on me that they're are times she's talking to me and she speaks in a little girls voice. I normally talk to her pretty calmly in most cases. I never thought anything of it.
Anybody else seen this or have insight?
[QUOTE=HoyaSvnFgr;2619713]I've been with my SB for several months now. To my knowledge she has a great relationship with her father and she's doesn't do the "daddy" sex talk stuff. I've seen it with other SB's in a various degrees.
It just dawned on me that they're are times she's talking to me and she speaks in a little girls voice. I normally talk to her pretty calmly in most cases. I never thought anything of it.
Anybody else seen this or have insight?[/QUOTE]I've gotten the little girl voice / behavior a lot, but actually being called daddy during sex has been rarer and only when I egged it on myself. Some girls are more fantasy-oriented or escapism-minded, will experiment with things they've seen done or said watching porn. The little girl voice I think has a lot of root causes but is fundamentally based on the fact that she was a cute kid, a pretty teenager, and a sexy adult and she's just found a voice that helps her get her way during tough times or a behavior that works to her advantage. Partially due to a good relationship with her actual dad and spoiling, maybe? But I've also seen it from girls who described their father as absent growing up so I'm not sure that's always the reason.
Also I was surprised when a buddy of mine told me he is turned off if a girl calls him daddy... so some of them might have tried it, gotten a negative reaction, and play it safe from there on.
I've always been impressed by the guys who have the guts to request or take photos of their babies and post them publicly, and even more impressed when the photos are of nudes and or action shots.
For those brothers who have taken pics of their babies, do you normally ask? Does it generate a larger allowance request? I'm big into quid pro quo, so have you had any babies asked for the same in return (e. G. Can I snap a pic of you), and if so, how do you handle that question after you just took a picture of her?
In any case, well done Beachesnole, and thanks for sharing. HWG was always good about sharing pics. Based on the picture, lunch looks like it was quite tasty!
As for going to a different board to follow him, well, sadly I'm too lazy for that. This is really the only board I follow on this site anymore. Based on my experience, its probably the best board for hookers who think they aren't hookers. Not exactly sure how this became the defacto national board, but when you click on the screen names of the folks who had been regular contributors, its clear that a majority of brothers play in states ranging from Massachusetts to Florida, Illinois, Ohio, and a countless number of other states. It was nice to have HWG's California experiences in the Richmond board because it added a distinctly West Coast flavor.
Why bother going to any other board when all the tactics, tips, and war stories from all fifty states could be found in one location? Hopefully in his stead, some other brothers from the West coast will start posting, assuming of course he decides not to come back.
[QUOTE=Beachesnole02;2619278]I listed it on my profile, did not seem to slow down pot traffic at all. I got a couple emails that were derogatory comments, and had one decide after meeting that she could not be the other woman, but most did not care. In my area, at least half of the women I saw were married, so I was "safer". Here is a married one that I had for lunch earlier this week. Smelly I understand what you say about pics, but I cannot resist the temptation to pull out my phone, and as for being recognized, I doubt she even looks at herself closely enough to recognized herself in a pic like this.
As for all the drama drama of late, don't forget we have an ignore function on the listserve. People who post about things they did a decade ago, "ignore". I miss HWG have to go to the LA boards to follow him now.[/QUOTE]
Agree with you and Beachesnoles about making the switch and just putting it all out there. Not sure if the bowl is changing, if there are just that many more pots, or what, but when I first started out and listed it more than a few pots would just block me after sending me a nasty message.
This past go round with my new profile, I've found that so many more pots are 100% ok with it, seek it out, or have a fetish about it. One of the babies I picked up in this round has been begging to come home because she wants to do it in the bed that I share with my SO. (I'll save the odd fetish requests I've gotten this go around for another post).
My thoughts are that the pool of pots is expanding, and the pots that are ok with a married guy, or who seek them out, are much more open minded than the pots who have just signed up for the site in hopes of bagging a rich boyfriend that they are trying to turn into a husband. At least in the region I play in, I've noticed plenty of new profiles talking about "I'm not looking for love, but wouldn't be opposed if it happened" At least for me, I avoid those profiles no matter how hot, and no matter the expectation amount.
Of course the best is when you have a baby who only ostensibly reads your profile, and entirely misses the fact that you're married. I took one baby to the FC, had a multi hour, multi pop session, and then when I told her I had to bounce afterwards to get home. She asked why I was in such a rush. I told her that I had to be back to make sure the SO didn't flip her lid. The baby had this bewildered look on her face and asked: "you're married?" I responded that she should probably have read my profile better. She ended up getting dressed and was out the door, leaving when I left. She was so confused that she forgot to take her allowance, or alternatively, may have felt some sort of moral obligation to not take it?
In any event, yes, I agree wholeheartedly with your last sentiment: Hooray for us!
[QUOTE=FScott;2619386]I also list it on my profile. My thought is that the babies I contact who have a problem with it just won't reply, and those that do reply have ostensibly read it and are ok with it. I have had more than a few babies tell me it is a turn on for them to know that they are seducing a married man, and others who tell me they are specifically looking for married men because they don't want a real life BF and all that he requires. A couple of hours of intense sex per week, then get the fuck out and let me live my life.
Hooray for us!
Scott.[/QUOTE]
Glad to hear that you're having luck and that things are panning out for you. The expectation information for the Baltimore area is also helpful and right in line (5 - $$) with what I've been seeing for that area (I play in the mid-atlantic, in a few different cities and regions).
As for wishing things were cheaper, well, there has been lots of discussion on the board about how to calculate return on allowance. Based on my read of other brothers, some look at it based on a cost per pop, others look at it based on a cost per hour, etc. Etc. If one were to compare playing in the bowl to the costs incurred in comparison to other aspects of the hobby, then depending on how you're playing, being in the bowl could be a huge value.
As an aside, if you're able to find a baby that can host, that in itself is huge. Even if you can't though, and if you're getting hotels, depending on the rewards program you're in, and the cash back structure of the credit card you're using to book the room, at least now its you, rather than someone else, who is getting those benefits.
[QUOTE=NiceGuy804;2617825]I have been on SA for a couple of months now. Met a nice lady a few times a few months ago (bartender by trade) and had a m&g with a potential SB yesterday.
The lady I met with a few times (bartender) was a cute blonde bartender who I believe has relocated to Baltimore.
Met with a LOVELY 35 year old Russian lady from SA yesterday (nice, quiet, dark Chinese restaurant). What a delightful lunch companion. Looking at the 200 range per dream I think.
Meeting with a MILF potential tomorrow at lunch. Seems nice. We'll see. Like that she's married.
Do I wish SA was a little cheaper? HELL yes. Do I feel like I'm meeting a little better quality of girl a little more safely? HELL yes![/QUOTE]
One of FM's prior posts (about how the tough part of the bowl is finding high quality pots at BP expectation amounts), and NiceGuy's post got me to thinking. This go around, I've had a lot of luck finding high quality babies who have much lower expectations. I couldn't figure out, but it might be because when setting up my profile, I have significantly reduced my "net worth and annual salary amounts.
Previously I had listed my actual net worth and salary. I remember reading a post a few months back about how one brother set up a profile with much lower figures to give him a better starting point from an allowance perspective.
This go around, when setting up my "mercenary" profile, I dropped the numbers and put it all out there because I have my swim instructor and so it was more of just a "testing the waters" kind of thing. I also incorporated the advice from the brother about listing lower figures for net worth and salary.
In hindsight, when viewing things from the perspective of a college aged pot, even listing a net worth that is half my actual must seem pretty nice to them, compared to college aged boys who are drinking kegs of Natty light and eating ramen noodles in the dorm.
In any case. Thanks to the OP who posted about his tactic for establishing a better starting point. I think I may have figured out why expectations this go around are so much different than the last two rounds.
As an aside, a few posts back, I had been waffling about whether to go with a "tear down and rebuild" strategy for my profile, or renewing my existing account. There was a thread on the subject a few months back with different folks advocating for one or the other, based on different reasons. I am now firmly in the "tear down and rebuild" strategy. Mainly because it allows me to "groundhog day" pots. Just like the move with Bill Murray, I am now able to reach out again to pots that were not receptive to my prior profile, or restart conversations that died using info collected in the last round, and knowing not to make the same mistakes again (e. G. This pot will go dark if you try to reschedule the first M&G with her, etc.) It is also another huge benefit of not sharing face pics until the M&G. This way, a pot from a prior round that you were trying to get to the FC, but didn't make it to the M&G with has no idea that you were chatting her up a few weeks ago.
Just my two cents though, I'm sure there are a variety of differing opinions out there.