[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3451194]Any chance you can run this through a modern invention, spellcheck, before posting?[/QUOTE]Sorry. I type all that on my phone.
Printable View
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3451194]Any chance you can run this through a modern invention, spellcheck, before posting?[/QUOTE]Sorry. I type all that on my phone.
So I got a text from the first girl I had arrangement with. I hit her up on Snapchat seeing how she's doing and hoping she's doing well, a day later she texts me back and it was a helluva message. She tells me she's doing good with her job and she has a man but here's where it gets interesting. She tells me that he's not doing the "job" for her and how she misses how I made her liver quiver and how she misses me along with a certain part of me LOL! Long story short, she says to hit her up because she needs to get done right and doesn't even want any allowance. Goes to show how treating a woman like a lady and with respect and being a gentlemen can do lol! Good times!!!
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3424583]And just an addendum to the last post. The only reason I can have so many LTR's with this number of girls is that they are all overlapping. Over the last 10 years I have usually had about 3 LTR's overlapping simultaneously with a few mid-range girls, while the interviews continue at a rate of maybe one new girl a week. Many times the girls are here 2 or 3 at a time, and many have met many of the others. They are generally grateful to be a part of my world as I do show an enormous amount of interest in their lives, and have the patience and understanding to help them with their real life issues. It is time consuming, but with no wife or traditional GF to sneak around, and no family or friends eating up my time, and no other interest outside of work, this is more than a hobby for me. It's a lifestyle.
They all understand I have to continually interview new girls to make up for the ones that will eventually fade away or be dismissed. And yes, those girls I generally only see one or two times. And no one seems to have a problem with that. At least not enough of one to leave me over it. Do they give me some shit over it from time to time? They do. But its usually just over one particular girl they dislike for one reason or another or they are feeling neglected. But the LTR's all understand I have to make time for everyone so it's not as hectic as it may sound. I am an excellent time manager, get my 50+ hours of work in every week, don't require much sleep, work from home, and have the girls co-operation, without which, none of this could be possible.
Now all of this does make it impossible for me to find the "one". But I don't know if the "one" exists. Like many guys on this site, my interests are too varied, my attention span too short, and my need for attention too great to believe that such a girl even exists. And even if she did, part of what would make her the "one" would be her need / desire to allow me to have other girls.
Various therapists have suggested that I have a problem, have never been in a healthy relationship, may have a sex addiction, and that I should find an appropriately aged GF. All I know is that I do my job, pay my bills, take care of my daughter, keep the house clean, feed, clothe and shelter a few deserving girls from time to time, and try to put a good vibe out into the world. As of the beginning of 2016 I basically cut my overall trips to the FC in half, but I was averaging about 25 trips a month before that. So I hope this gives everyone a better understanding of my outlook on the sugar life and my place in it.[/QUOTE]HWG,
I find your trials, tribulations, exploits, and adventures interesting to read. Just curious to ask, with so many trips to the FC how have you managed to dodge the various STDs? The target group you are engaging with generally has a higher than average rate of contraction.
Latex.
[QUOTE=Latex;3452713]HWG,
I find your trials, tribulations, exploits, and adventures interesting to read. Just curious to ask, with so many trips to the FC how have you managed to dodge the various STDs? The target group you are engaging with generally has a higher than average rate of contraction.
Latex.[/QUOTE]I used to go bare. Now I use condoms.
A real UTR beauty for $$, won't budge on the price. So I passed.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f1c84428-2b13-9caa-06de-f93d1adead63[/URL]
I got a similar text from a girl I had not been with in almost two years. She has a live in boyfriend now that hasn't been able to satisfy her. She is very submissive and doesn't like having to tell him what to do.
She told she missed our time together and that my dominance just comes naturally.
She agreed to come over yesterday. We spent 3 hours together and went 3 rounds. She orgasmed many times. Can't say how many. No allowance and she text me again this morning asking if we can do it again soon. I'm almost 30 years older than her.
Don't underestimate the value of experience! LOL.
[QUOTE=Venator;3451762]So I got a text from the first girl I had arrangement with. I hit her up on Snapchat seeing how she's doing and hoping she's doing well, a day later she texts me back and it was a helluva message. She tells me she's doing good with her job and she has a man but here's where it gets interesting. She tells me that he's not doing the "job" for her and how she misses how I made her liver quiver and how she misses me along with a certain part of me LOL! Long story short, she says to hit her up because she needs to get done right and doesn't even want any allowance. Goes to show how treating a woman like a lady and with respect and being a gentlemen can do lol! Good times!!![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3452742]I got a similar text from a girl I had not been with in almost two years. She has a live in boyfriend now that hasn't been able to satisfy her. She is very submissive and doesn't like having to tell him what to do.
She told she missed our time together and that my dominance just comes naturally.
She agreed to come over yesterday. We spent 3 hours together and went 3 rounds. She orgasmed many times. Can't say how many. No allowance and she text me again this morning asking if we can do it again soon. I'm almost 30 years older than her.
Don't underestimate the value of experience! LOL.[/QUOTE]One of the perks of sugaring. Over the years some girls will stay in touch.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3452748]One of the perks of sugaring. Over the years some girls will stay in touch.[/QUOTE]Too much estrogen in my pad lately since my GF moved in. Oh well. It will sort it self out somehow.
I managed to see my new little girl today while both my roommate and GF were at some holiday BBQ's. Except for a little sugar I gave her when we first met, there hasn't been any since. I just pay for her uber or any food we may eat. And I don't see that changing for any reason. We have talked about it and at this point she is just happy to have me in her life.
I finally told my ATF that I have my X GF living here and that's why I can't see her for the time being. She was less than thrilled to say the least. But trying to schedule her in at this point would be close to impossible with her demanding schedule of work, school and parenting. Once my GF gets a job I am sure some opportunities will open up, but until then I see no chance of that happening. Also my ATF and GF basically hate each other because they both think I am being played. Also my ATF is from the hood and my GF is not. Another bone of contention.
The only other girls I have any commitment to are my super spinner and this girl I waited months for, to break up with her BF. I told my GF about both of them. She wasn't too happy but there is no way I would miss an opportunity to see my super spinner (who has been MIA for like 3 weeks). The other girl who is smitten is just patiently waiting on the sidelines for now. Here is a pic she sent me today. All 99 lbs of her.
Plus I have about a dozen highly qualified POTS. Its a crying shame I can't really see any of them at this time. Sadly my time time and funds are at a bare minimum.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3455839]I managed to see my new little girl today while both my roommate and GF were at some holiday BBQ's. Except for a little sugar I gave her when we first met, there hasn't been any since. I just pay for her uber or any food we may eat. And I don't see that changing for any reason. We have talked about it and at this point she is just happy to have me in her life.
I finally told my ATF that I have my X GF living here and that's why I can't see her for the time being. She was less than thrilled to say the least. But trying to schedule her in at this point would be close to impossible with her demanding schedule of work, school and parenting. Once my GF gets a job I am sure some opportunities will open up, but until then I see no chance of that happening. Also my ATF and GF basically hate each other because they both think I am being played. Also my ATF is from the hood and my GF is not. Another bone of contention.
The only other girls I have any commitment to are my super spinner and this girl I waited months for, to break up with her BF. I told my GF about both of them. She wasn't too happy but there is no way I would miss an opportunity to see my super spinner (who has been MIA for like 3 weeks). The other girl who is smitten is just patiently waiting on the sidelines for now. Here is a pic she sent me today. All 99 lbs of her.
Plus I have about a dozen highly qualified POTS. Its a crying shame I can't really see any of them at this time. Sadly my time time and funds are at a bare minimum.[/QUOTE]We have very similar tastes in our girls, and I too am strapped for cash at the moment otherwise I have a number of girls in the making including a new 19 yo black 5'-8" spinner that I added to my rotation last week.
Hell I don't know why but when my wallet and life circumstances are perfect right now but I have less opportunities, now being a little strapped for cash and I am getting contacts and meet ups weekly, go figure.
TTM.
[QUOTE=TheTallMan;3456272]We have very similar tastes in our girls, and I too am strapped for cash at the moment otherwise I have a number of girls in the making including a new 19 yo black 5'-8" spinner that I added to my rotation last week.
Hell I don't know why but when my wallet and life circumstances are perfect right now but I have less opportunities, now being a little strapped for cash and I am getting contacts and meet ups weekly, go figure.
TTM.[/QUOTE]All I know is that it is very frustrating at the moment. I am trying to be grateful for my GF and make the best of it. As an entrepreneur that admittedly is and has been pretty irresponsible with my funds I just have to wait for the next financial opportunity to take hold before I can make any moves.
Someone on here was talking about success on F*TL**E but as I look through I am not finding the posts. Would love to get some more info from you. I have been using SA to great success and finding a lot of the young women are naturally submissive and really get turned on by light to medium BD. I thought why not tap another source of participants and have joined but its overwhelm as there are so many different clubs and areas. Any help would be appreciated. I have recently contacted a DOM to play with myself and one of my SB's. Have fantasies of her and I teasing and spanking my SB and making her knees quake, her eyes roll and her P*why pour.
[QUOTE=LargeEss;3457765]Someone on here was talking about success on F*TL**E but as I look through I am not finding the posts. Would love to get some more info from you. I have been using SA to great success and finding a lot of the young women are naturally submissive and really get turned on by light to medium BD. I thought why not tap another source of participants and have joined but its overwhelm as there are so many different clubs and areas. Any help would be appreciated. I have recently contacted a DOM to play with myself and one of my SB's. Have fantasies of her and I teasing and spanking my SB and making her knees quake, her eyes roll and her P*why pour.[/QUOTE]Your best option is to join one of the groups close to ya and make a few meetings to get known and in touch. For some reason that site started a sb thread and lots of the females complain about the cons going on. Without joining and going to meetings to get contacts its going to be tough flying solo. They do have professional doms that charge for their services if that's what your looking for.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3457872]Your best option is to join one of the groups close to ya and make a few meetings to get known and in touch. For some reason that site started a sb thread and lots of the females complain about the cons going on. Without joining and going to meetings to get contacts its going to be tough flying solo. They do have professional doms that charge for their services if that's what your looking for.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice. I do have a SB that is into exploring a bit of bondage and spanking. That may be route I will have to take. I'm not particularly attractive to most women on those sights through I actually have skills that once they know about would be willing to stick around. Had an older SA woman who's primary reason for hooking up was the $ until I went down on her. Then she was texting me often and didn't care too much about the reward! Ha! Unfortunately, she was pretty unpredictable in terms of behavior and I didn't want her in my place, so I told her I had found someone that wanted to be monogamous. Too bad, she was a great **ck and has incredible t**s for her age. Better than many 18 year olds.
[QUOTE=LargeEss;3457765]Someone on here was talking about success on F*TL**E but as I look through I am not finding the posts. Would love to get some more info from you. I have been using SA to great success and finding a lot of the young women are naturally submissive and really get turned on by light to medium BD. I thought why not tap another source of participants and have joined but its overwhelm as there are so many different clubs and areas. Any help would be appreciated. I have recently contacted a DOM to play with myself and one of my SB's. Have fantasies of her and I teasing and spanking my SB and making her knees quake, her eyes roll and her P*why pour.[/QUOTE]The subs that contacted me when I went on that site were not very attractive and all had GPS. So I quickly gave up.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3458463]The subs that contacted me when I went on that site were not very attractive and all had GPS. So I quickly gave up.[/QUOTE]If your trying to do the the sb / sd on that site the biggest part will white / bbw girls looking for an online sd. It was a stupid idea to incorporate that into the site. If your trying to develop a civy dom / sub relationship then you have to do the time and work plus get kniwn in the fet life community. I saw very few women of color members on the site. And as with sa the last time I visted the site it had started attracting the professional working girls especially in the sb / sd section.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3458506]If your trying to do the the sb / sd on that site the biggest part will white / bbw girls looking for an online sd. It was a stupid idea to incorporate that into the site. If your trying to develop a civy dom / sub relationship then you have to do the time and work plus get kniwn in the fet life community. I saw very few women of color members on the site. And as with sa the last time I visted the site it had started attracting the professional working girls especially in the sb / sd section.[/QUOTE]Anyway I gave up, and am not going back, and yes they were all white girls. Also I let my SA membership lapse. It's like going through withdrawal. But I have to face the facts that I have to hang with the girls I know and that's it. And I am dropping most of them pretty fast. I have to simplify my life these days. No time for the SB drama. I will chime in here and there, but there will be no new conquests for the time being.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3458506]If your trying to do the the sb / sd on that site the biggest part will white / bbw girls looking for an online sd. It was a stupid idea to incorporate that into the site. If your trying to develop a civy dom / sub relationship then you have to do the time and work plus get kniwn in the fet life community. I saw very few women of color members on the site. And as with sa the last time I visted the site it had started attracting the professional working girls especially in the sb / sd section.[/QUOTE]Yes, I am finding that out quickly. At the moment, I don't have the funds to create ore SB's so it may be back to HX for some quick spinner fixes but even there it's difficult to find what I like. What I like by the way are all the girls HG has as SB's LOL.
So after a month of being on SA, I had tried 3 girls. One of them I reported wanted to bang me for free. Sounds perfect right?
After I started seeing her for free she told me she was married with two kids but wants a divorce. She told me she wants no one but me. At our second meeting we were supposed to go for 4 hours. When we get to the hotel she says only two hours. I asked why but she didn't want to say at first. Then she says she told a SD who she's met before that she would meet him. I was pissed cause she said she wasn't going to do that again. So I did her for two hours. I dropped her off and he picked her up 15 min after me and this older man banged her for two hours at another hotel. After a month of seeing her she then tells me she actually has three kids. It was like one lie after another. She kept telling me she only wants me and was going to divorce. But she would still let the husband grope her. Then my ex came into town and I got back together with her. No drama and she's not in that lifestyle.
I told her I'm done and I'm back with her but she still texts me every day. She's a bit crazy. I told her I'd still be her friend but I think I should block her.
Thoughts?
[QUOTE=Leiterf;3460296]So after a month of being on SA, I had tried 3 girls. One of them I reported wanted to bang me for free. Sounds perfect right?
After I started seeing her for free she told me she was married with two kids but wants a divorce. She told me she wants no one but me. At our second meeting we were supposed to go for 4 hours. When we get to the hotel she says only two hours. I asked why but she didn't want to say at first. Then she says she told a SD who she's met before that she would meet him. I was pissed cause she said she wasn't going to do that again. So I did her for two hours. I dropped her off and he picked her up 15 min after me and this older man banged her for two hours at another hotel. After a month of seeing her she then tells me she actually has three kids. It was like one lie after another. She kept telling me she only wants me and was going to divorce. But she would still let the husband grope her. Then my ex came into town and I got back together with her. No drama and she's not in that lifestyle.
I told her I'm done and I'm back with her but she still texts me every day. She's a bit crazy. I told her I'd still be her friend but I think I should block her.
Thoughts?[/QUOTE]I would cut off completely. It is better for both parties. She won't have the fantasy that, even though you are still friends, you may want to go back to a full relationship.
[QUOTE=Rouleur;3460605]I would cut off completely. It is better for both parties. She won't have the fantasy that, even though you are still friends, you may want to go back to a full relationship.[/QUOTE]Good advice. I just have a hard time being too cold. She only has my cell. Should I just block her?
Test run trying to meet up someone from this site. Met the first date at Starbucks. Going well till her friends car broke down. (maybe) exit stage left gracefully. Still a possibility with this one. Second date was going well till she slammed her finger on the car door. HaHa WTF Trying the high volume contact approach. Seem to be working but cracks me up the notion I would give someone money just because I might chat with you. The adventure to continued. Oh ya almost got killed with a car running a stop sign on the second date. Maybe someone's trying to tell me something.
[QUOTE=Leronardo;3463837]Test run trying to meet up someone from this site. Met the first date at Starbucks. Going well till her friends car broke down. (maybe) exit stage left gracefully. Still a possibility with this one. Second date was going well till she slammed her finger on the car door. HaHa WTF Trying the high volume contact approach. Seem to be working but cracks me up the notion I would give someone money just because I might chat with you. The adventure to continued. Oh ya almost got killed with a car running a stop sign on the second date. Maybe someone's trying to tell me something.[/QUOTE]Just out of curious, what city did you meet her in? A SB I met also had me meet her at Starbucks. Could be common but I was just seeing if it's the same chick.
[QUOTE=Leronardo;3463837]Test run trying to meet up someone from this site. Met the first date at Starbucks. Going well till her friends car broke down. (maybe) exit stage left gracefully. Still a possibility with this one. Second date was going well till she slammed her finger on the car door. HaHa WTF Trying the high volume contact approach. Seem to be working but cracks me up the notion I would give someone money just because I might chat with you. The adventure to continued. Oh ya almost got killed with a car running a stop sign on the second date. Maybe someone's trying to tell me something.[/QUOTE]On the way to my first SB date ever (at Kanters of all places), I was so nervous I rear ended a Russian limo driver going north on La Cienega coming up on Wilshire. I gave him my ID and then jetted out of there so as not to miss the date. I ended up living with that girl for a year.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3466513]On the way to my first SB date ever (at Kanters of all places), I was so nervous I rear ended a Russian limo driver going north on La Cienega coming up on Wilshire. I gave him my ID and then jetted out of there so as not to miss the date. I ended up living with that girl for a year.[/QUOTE]DAMN! This Russian thing is really getting out of hand!
Well my live in GF finally got a job and starts next week. So my opportunities to date will open up a little. Its been a month since I have seen anyone but my new little girl (who isn't so new anymore). My GF does allow her over, but not all the time, today she patiently waited for my GF to leave for a party before I could bring her over drama free. I miss my ATF and my super spinner. But they are still waiting patiently as well. My GF only allows all this because she can't be on the hook for all my needs in the FC. It's just over her ability to provide them. In the meantime she gets to be the happy housewife. And I will do most, if not all of my dating while she is out of the house. We have a don't ask don't tell type of relationship. It's the mutual respect for each others needs that keeps us together.
The youngin's (my GF and little girl) go to a pool party in Hollywood while the old folks (me and my roommate) stay home and watch netflix.
Roommate, GF and little girl. I had all three of them in my home for the last 24 hours. That was a first (for that long of a time period). Everyone got along, I spent some time with each of them and there was no drama.
I signed up for Seeking Arrangements a few months ago, and it went great. Sent messages to a few super hot women, and got decent responses. Made an arrangement with one girl who was a UCLA student, and we went to NY for a few days and had a great time. Little expensive, though, at $3 k for 4 days. Made another arrangement with another girl who is a model, and we traded STD test info, and had a great time for a couple months. It takes time to sift through the girls and figure which ones you like, and which ones are real. Best bet is to really put effort into your profile, and be honest, and that will make it so you save a lot of time.
My SA membership has been expired for a couple of weeks now. My GF has been living here for about a month now. The withdrawal symptoms from not sugaring are pretty painful. I try not to think about it too much. I did see my super spinner last week and will again this week. But it's rough going for now. Lack of time and funds leaves me no other responsible alternative. I just checked out all the slim AA girls that signed up the last 4 weeks. No shortages now or in the future. I guess it's something to look forward to, whenever that is.
I haven't met anyone new in a while. But I did build up a pipeline over the years. Today while I was in the FC with my little girl, a latina MILF I haven't seen in almost 2 years hmu for some revenge sex. I guess her and her hubby were having a bad day. It was my third trip to the FC in 17 hours (GF, little girl & MILF. In that order), I think I am set till Sunday night. My little girl was here the entire time the MILF was here, no big deal. But then my roommate came home while we were in the FC and was giving us the evil eye afterward and saying we were too loud.
Follow up. My roomate won't even talk to me tonite. Her loss. She is 34, but really needs to grow up.
I met an Asian SB on SA while back. I only gave her 150 for a 2 hr meet. She seemed really into me and would text me all day long after that. Then started saying she wanted to date for free. I agreed cause she will do al out anything and only wanted dick. Of course she lied about being single. She then told me she's married to a deadbeat and said she had two kids. Later on I found out she has three kids. But said she wants to divorce and and marry me. And doesn't want to do the SB thing but said only if I was her BF or married her. I have no interest. Not because of being a SB but I don't want to get serious with some one who has three kids. And she has lied a few time, like how many kids. I told her I would bang her when I can but I wouldn't be serious since she's married. She didn't like it but said ok. Then I got back with my GF and told her I couldn't see her and boy was she pissed. She still, texts me everyday. There's even more to the story but I'm trying to shorten it. What do you guys think? Anyone has a similiar experience? Anyone on here one of her regular SDs? She meets everyone at Starbucks on Azusa in West Covina. If you are one of the guys message me her name and let's compare notes.
Slow week. Nothing to post. Maybe some other guys can post a little?
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3496363]Slow week. Nothing to post. Maybe some other guys can post a little?[/QUOTE]Well HG, I will just say thanks again for all the help you gave me with SA info. It has worked rather well. I have banged a hot blond cheerleader type several times that would not see my old fat ass on her worst day if she didn't need the money LOL but that is what it is all about right? I continue to live my life vicariously through you though. You are living the dream brother. Good luck with those 3 all at once. I should have such problems LOL. JTW.
[QUOTE=JohnnyTheWad;3497905]Well HG, I will just say thanks again for all the help you gave me with SA info. It has worked rather well. I have banged a hot blond cheerleader type several times that would not see my old fat ass on her worst day if she didn't need the money LOL but that is what it is all about right? I continue to live my life vicariously through you though. You are living the dream brother. Good luck with those 3 all at once. I should have such problems LOL. JTW.[/QUOTE]Thanks. But in reality every girl has her price. So its more about getting her for the right price. If it's less than it would be to really impact her life then you know there is something more going on (ego boost). And if it is a lot, well hey at least you get to bang girls that would normally be way out of your league (fantasy fulfilled). So yes. That is what its all about.
I did see my super spinner yesterday. It took her 3 hours RT to drive here in traffic for 1 hour in the FC. Last time she left without the allowance (I ran down to the car and gave it to her). She is the best overall partner I have had in a while. Insane body, good skills, loves to DFK, loves role play, quiet and nice girl, tastes great, no drama. Almost TGTBT. And the crazy thing is, there are so many more like her (or almost like her) out there. You just have to put in the effort.
I wish I would have known about these types of girls years ago. Admittedly though the internet was a game changer. Starting with traditional dating sites 20 years ago and then switching to the SD sites once they came around (maybe 10 years ago).
I have to concur with HG, these are great times for mongering. The S / A site is awesome but addicting. I'm on the site way too much. I love Friday night Cinderella stories. They are all at home with no date to the ball. Haha shooting fish in a barrel!
Too bad I had to cut this one loose. But I still follow her on social media. LOL.
[QUOTE=JohnnyTheWad;3497905]Well HG, I will just say thanks again for all the help you gave me with SA info. It has worked rather well. I have banged a hot blond cheerleader type several times that would not see my old fat ass on her worst day if she didn't need the money LOL but that is what it is all about right? I continue to live my life vicariously through you though. You are living the dream brother. Good luck with those 3 all at once. I should have such problems LOL. JTW.[/QUOTE]I agree, your posts have helped me get more comfortable on SA even though my membership has lapsed. I do plan on signing back up in the future and putting in some more work and effort to get some better results.
Hey Friends,
How is this SB thing work? Do you have to spend a fortune every month? I am already spending roughly $500/ month on MP, BP, etc. And I wonder whether I should switch to SB.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3498653]Too bad I had to cut this one loose. But I still follow her on social media. LOL.[/QUOTE]Why'd you have to let her go? I have had to cut down myself and it's brutal. But my appetite is always more than what I can fulfill or afford so in the long run for the better. I am hankering for a spinner with perky breasts but when I can have one of my SB's come over for hours and do whatever I like, I find it impossible to drop the dinero I would need for an HXer.
[QUOTE=LargeEss;3500383]Why'd you have to let her go? I have had to cut down myself and it's brutal. But my appetite is always more than what I can fulfill or afford so in the long run for the better. I am hankering for a spinner with perky breasts but when I can have one of my SB's come over for hours and do whatever I like, I find it impossible to drop the dinero I would need for an HXer.[/QUOTE]Lots of reasons, mostly time and money, and slightly imperfect chemistry.