Proving You Are Real and Serious and Avoiding Deposits
[QUOTE=Joesun1;6244431]If they're asking for deposits then you're asking for what you get! At the very least keep them hanging as long as you can teach these idiots a lesson not with your money![/QUOTE]If you are a TER member, whether you have a paid membership or the free one, get the TER-rated ladies you have enjoyed and seen to "Whitelist" you. It takes them about one minute to complete this task. You tell your new lady that you are Whitelisted on TER. Also if you have a hobbyist name / handle on other sites, when seeking company from a new (new to you) lady, give her that name too, in your introductory correspondence. This SHOULD help you avoid invasive screening!
If you are dealing with a legit provider, her reason in asking for a deposit is simply to make sure you are in fact legit, you are serious and you are 100% going to show up. Remember they deal with a lot of total weirdo creeps, flakes, pranks, cruel jokes and plenty of JO TW guys. To be clear, I don't agree with deposits AT ALL and if we all refuse to pay, a lot of the deposit nonsense will hopefully go away.
My point: If you tell her you are TER Whitelisted, you have a hobbyist handle (identity your handle on other sites too) and she still demands a deposit, huge Red Flag to move on!
Again, you don't need to pay for TER membership to be Whitelisted, you just need a login / handle. If you had an enjoyable time with your provider, and she has a presence on TER, she should be more than willing to Whitelist you. And if she does, you owe it to her credibility to continue being a legit, reliable, respectful hobbyist.
By the way, I might be stating the obvious here, but keep the same handle / login / I'd for all your sites. Helps with your 'Hobby Cred. '
Bonus: If a provider knows you have a presence on the hobby sites, she is probably going to take good care of you. Bad reviews hurt them. A lot.
No good. Thought she was legit
I remember seeing her a while back. Haven't done this in a while, saw her for a car for $. Price wasn't bad but jeez. BJ was very very short and she was complaining on how her back was hurting. Kept telling me her next client is on the way and tried another 10 seconds kept stopping with more HJ and HJ doesn't do anything for me LOL. Basically more talkin and she tried givin me the kitty and she was bleeding. Tried askin for some money back but she was like "I just did these for you" which in total was like 2 minutes of anything but we were in the car for 10. Told her to keep the money and dropped her off. Just be careful if she does this with anyone.
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A Different Kind of Deposit Scam
Watch out for posts where the lady is holding a phone #, presumably hers. Here's why:
One of my regulars was telling me about corresponding with a polite guy. They talked on the phone briefly but mostly texted. He didn't drag the call on and on like a Timewaster J / O guy. She said he asked all the right questions and was nice & respectful in both the call and his correspondence. Then just when they had the date set, he did a 180 in his attitude. He texted her something like this: "Look, if I'm going to drive all the way over to your place, I really need you to give me one final assurance that you aren't a fake. Write down my phone number clearly on a piece of paper and take a selfie. Send it to me. " She was offended (well-reviewed on TER & them) so she didn't do it. Later she complained to one of her friends who said, "Hello! Don't you see what he was trying to do?
She really didn't. She was too confused by his sudden lack of trust and rude demand for the selfie to see he was trying to steal that picture with his phone # on it and then use it to create his own ad by stealing her regular posted photos and adding the selfie with his phone number on it. I can only guess this was for the sole purpose of collecting deposits (which could subsequently destroy her reputation as a legit provider). Lots of broke-ass lazy sickos out there. He probably called her to ensure she was herself real. Then the scheme ensued.
I guess a red flag would be if you saw an ad with a bunch of regular (stolen) photos and then One isolated mirror / other selfie with a different phone number on it.
Bad dudes everywhere!! Would you have caught that?