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[QUOTE=Haha99]Does a provider call/text her regulars periodically?
Recently dreamed a lady, who is one of the winners found by a senior.
After that, she texts me per one or two weeks.
Thanks for any comments.[/QUOTE]
If they are in need of money they will text everyone that they have seen. Most people on here recommend using a second phone for cases like this.
[QUOTE=Phatpistol]If they are in need of money they will text everyone that they have seen. Most people on here recommend using a second phone for cases like this.[/QUOTE]It seems to be pretty common, I get at least one text message a week. I welcome it personally.
LD
Yes, providers do call/text people after seeing them. Usually when it is slow or they haven't heard from a guy in awhile. A girl will keep your number programed so she knows, when you call back, that you are cool or a jerk (not wasting time to answer)
I'm driving up to Cincinnati on the 19th coming back on the 25th, if anyone wants to go along and share the driving time (must have a valid drivers license) let me know.
[QUOTE=Haha99]Does a provider call/text her regulars periodically?
Recently dreamed a lady, who is one of the winners found by a senior.
After that, she texts me per one or two weeks.
Thanks for any comments.[/QUOTE]Very common and good business sense. Some chicks do it more often than others. That's why i have a throw away phone and turn it on when in need.
[QUOTE=Michellepdxxx]Yes, providers do call/text people after seeing them. Usually when it is slow or they haven't heard from a guy in awhile. A girl will keep your number programed so she knows, when you call back, that you are cool or a jerk (not wasting time to answer)[/QUOTE]
You will never find a top notch provider calling or texting former clients looking for business. That is an invasion of privacy. If you were in the food court in the mall and a provider came to your table, sat down and started chatting because you had seen her a number of times ,would that be OK, hell no it wouldn't! What if your S.O. was in the bathroom, how do you explain this fox at the table.
If a guy wants to see you he will call, just note all the responses that talk about a separate phone, if it was OK you wouldn't need a separate phone.
I had a girl call me begging me to come and see her, she called on Christmas morning at 9 A.M. and the best part is I had never seen her before, I had called her a week previously. Yes, she was jones-ing. It is never alright----VS
[QUOTE=VerySlowly]You will never find a top notch provider calling or texting former clients looking for business. That is an invasion of privacy. If you were in the food court in the mall and a provider came to your table, sat down and started chatting because you had seen her a number of times ,would that be OK, hell no it wouldn't! What if your S.O. was in the bathroom, how do you explain this fox at the table.
If a guy wants to see you he will call, just note all the responses that talk about a separate phone, if it was OK you wouldn't need a separate phone.
I had a girl call me begging me to come and see her, she called on Christmas morning at 9 A.M. and the best part is I had never seen her before, I had called her a week previously. Yes, she was jones-ing. It is never alright----VS[/QUOTE]
If you tell the provider it is ok to call you, then it is ok. That would be the only exception to the rule.
[QUOTE=VerySlowly]You will never find a top notch provider calling or texting former clients looking for business. That is an invasion of privacy. If you were in the food court in the mall and a provider came to your table, sat down and started chatting because you had seen her a number of times ,would that be OK, hell no it wouldn't! What if your S.O. was in the bathroom, how do you explain this fox at the table.
If a guy wants to see you he will call, just note all the responses that talk about a separate phone, if it was OK you wouldn't need a separate phone.
I had a girl call me begging me to come and see her, she called on Christmas morning at 9 A.M. and the best part is I had never seen her before, I had called her a week previously. Yes, she was jones-ing. It is never alright----VS[/QUOTE]
Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.
I have no problem with getting a call from a provider now and then, but if she gets pissed because I won't come see her then I have a problem with her.
Alot of High Quality ladies if you are their regular will call if they haven't heard from you in awhile. I get calls asking how have I been and making sure I am ok now and then. They don't even ask me to come see them, they know they just put themselves back in my thoughts just by checking on me. I also tell a lady I am interested in that she can call me anytime.
So it may be that its never ok for your girls to call you, but for alot of us thats not the case.
BTW if someone is going to say well that call could be a setup, because your girl may have gotten busted. Street meat will do this, quality providers aren't as likely to get busted plus use the same rules you would on the street. If she is relentless on getting to come see her or to say something agains't the outside the car rules, as in talk about money or sex then that will tell you stay away
I am not busting on what you are saying VH, just saying we all have different rules and of course the safest thing would be to have girls never call you, but I like it now and then and am comfortable with the risk. I don't give or tell a low on the sw street scale girl to call me though.
BH
[QUOTE=Blondehound]Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.
BH[/QUOTE]First of all, mongers shouldn't be giving providers their personal number if they don't want someone calling them. If you give a number you use outside of mongering, expect it to be called at any hour.
Second, I agree with those that don't think providers should acknowledge their clients if they see them in the mall. They don't know who you're with...could be with nobody, or with a casual acquaintance, or your ***** with the ho radar wife... in any event the provider really isn't going to know. And if they have any sense of decorum and want you to continue as a client, they shouldn't put a guy in a situation where there is a chance he is with his ho-sniffing significant other.
Has anyone had any success finding companionship in the Vero/Stuart area.
Please pm or post if you have any tips.
Thanks
[QUOTE=Java Junkie]Second, I agree with those that don't think providers should acknowledge their clients if they see them in the mall. They don't know who you're with...could be with nobody, or with a casual acquaintance, or your ***** with the ho radar wife...[/QUOTE]I must remember to consider myself fortunate, my wife doesnt give any of it a second though. But personally I done see any problem with a provider acknowledging me in a public place. In fact I would happily engage her in brief conversation just like I would with any other male or female I know.
And for those of you who have wives with Ho radar, the best technique is "hide in plain sight" if the need arises. Very effective, might take some practice.
LD
[QUOTE=Blondehound]Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.
I have no problem with getting a call from a provider now and then, but if she gets pissed because I won't come see her then I have a problem with her.
Alot of High Quality ladies if you are their regular will call if they haven't heard from you in awhile. I get calls asking how have I been and making sure I am ok now and then. They don't even ask me to come see them, they know they just put themselves back in my thoughts just by checking on me. I also tell a lady I am interested in that she can call me anytime.
So it may be that its never ok for your girls to call you, but for alot of us thats not the case.[Quote]
There is nothing to be gained from a provider calling you. F.Y.I. several providers call and text me all the time BUT I'm on a different level than you. Trust me on that I'm not going to prove it to you.
It is never appropriate for a normal provider to call a John, even with all the bla, bla from several of you that think it is all right, many of you must be very young, this rule has been in place since Methuselah got his first BBBJCIM. It is there for a reason, this is a business transaction breaking the barrier is not cool they are not your girlfriend , it is almost as bad as you stopping by their place unannounced, try that sometime and see what happens!! Write all you want, it is a stupid way to do business, a girls performance, reviews and web advertising are all that is appropriate and necessary.
Your first paragraph says a lot, she's your GIRL but apparently your not her MAN because you'd just put her in her place if she got insecure and wondered who the hottie was that hugged you in the mall---how immature. Your GIRL has feelings why insult her because your getting a little on the side--are you starting to get the picture why you call the provider, they never call you unless it's to return a call. Why do I think if a stud came up to your girl and gave her a hug and squeeze in the mall you would do more than casually ask her who that was. NO you would go ballistic I know because of your comment about others being "whipped" or married, rather an insult to the rest of us.
I hope you came to the board to contribute and learn and not to run your mouth about what's good for you cause it's all about you. you, you.
These are general rules that work for the majority and not the exception.---VS
Hello fellow board members,
I have pondered this for quite a while. I am a "Nice Guy" and a hobbyist when it comes to gfe hunting. Occasionally when I am feeling adventurous I place a call to a new ad. I typically spend in the $2 plus .50 tip, if I enjoy it, range. I have on three occasions been baited and switched and keep in mind I am very particular, after all if I wanted a 5 I could just go to a bar. I usually just go along with the "new" girl in the situation, to avoid hurting her feelings, give her the $2, no tip but I think from now on it will be a deal breaker. I guess what I want to know is how you fellow hobbyists handle the bait and switch and am I going to be wrong for leaving immediately upon site in the future? What do you all think?
[QUOTE=Gemini407]Hello fellow board members,
I have pondered this for quite a while. I am a "Nice Guy" and a hobbyist when it comes to gfe hunting. Occasionally when I am feeling adventurous I place a call to a new ad. I typically spend in the $2 plus .50 tip, if I enjoy it, range. I have on three occasions been baited and switched and keep in mind I am very particular, after all if I wanted a 5 I could just go to a bar. I usually just go along with the "new" girl in the situation, to avoid hurting her feelings, give her the $2, no tip but I think from now on it will be a deal breaker. I guess what I want to know is how you fellow hobbyists handle the bait and switch and am I going to be wrong for leaving immediately upon site in the future? What do you all think?[/QUOTE]
Do the same thing you would do if you got to "Best Buy" and the Sony 52" TV they advertised for $895 was a floor model and it's "sold out". Now they want you to take the Vizio for $1595, you would be pissed and leave.
This BS is happening all to often because they know most guys will take a shot and feel just as you do.
Occasionally a girl can't put up her own picture for personal reasons and the sharp ones find a girl on the web that is very close to their looks and post that pic and if you like the real girl when you get there then thats fine but all to often they are posting old pics when they were 40 lbs lighter or fakes altogether. The only way to stop it is to turn on your heel and leave, after you do it a couple of times you'll get OK with it, after all they pulled the BS , not you so why should you feel bad.---VS
[QUOTE=VerySlowly]
There is nothing to be gained from a provider calling you. F.Y.I. several providers call and text me all the time BUT I'm on a different level than you. Trust me on that I'm not going to prove it to you.
VS[/QUOTE]
Man who thinks he knows everything has much to learn.