[QUOTE=JerryX;5782080]What's Hx LOL.[/QUOTE]Maybe Humanix?
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[QUOTE=JerryX;5782080]What's Hx LOL.[/QUOTE]Maybe Humanix?
[QUOTE=JerryX;5782080]What's Hx LOL.[/QUOTE]Humaniplex.
Has anyone tried Coco or Mina? A pm would be nice for some intel?
[QUOTE=Kknm1;5782114]You are probably talking about Jennifer, she is the owner of the place if I assumed it correct. Used to ask for $60 for just a HJ, I heard some good stories of her from other people but it didn't work for me. Never went back ever since.[/QUOTE]Didn't know she was the owner.
When I first went there in 2018/19, I didn’t ask for anything, she gave a good massage, stones, cracked my back, kept teasing the entire time, she said “I know you want Happy Happy” lol. I asked her if I could see her titties, she said if you comeback next time I ll show you, she was 28 when I saw her, probably 32/33 now
Second time, I got to see her big tits and sucked on them, she didn't show the kitty, my god she has the best naturals, goes well with her face. Total damage $95.
Third visit, same thing.
Fourth visit, she wanted me to tip 80-100 for the same thing, I passed. Settled for HJ but asked her for table shower after HJ finish, different experience, was nice
Fifth and sixth visit, I asked for CFS instead of HJ, she said she has boyfriend and doesn't do that, only hand job but she gave a good tease.
Seven, eight, nine, ten visit was just HJ, no enthusiasm, she had already stopped using hot stones and cracking the back! I used to see her for the massage, hot stones and she had good oils she used!
She was acting cocky at the end, so I stopped seeing her Fall 2020. She kept suggesting me to see her friend for extra stuff, but at that time I was meeting quality hoes in HX and was getting quality matches on Tinder / Hinge so I didn't go there since.
I don't feel as strongly as some about Cindy at My Happy but since she's gone, I wanted to check out the provider who replaced her. This afternoon, I went to check her out. Thankfully, road construction at Bolsa and Brookhurst was over so, no traffic jam.
What ever has been said about Cindy, Anna is worse. She's 5'6" and chubby. She wears a lot of eye makeup. She was wearing some sort of risqué black top, showing her fat back. I took one look at her and said hello then goodbye. So, I can't comment on her service. Her looks, alone, turned me off.
As far as I know, My Happy is still the bargain basement entry fee for a 60 minute session that gives extras but the providers I saw leave a lot to be desired.
[QUOTE=Caribe;5782516]I don't feel as strongly as some about Cindy at My Happy but since she's gone, I wanted to check out the provider who replaced her. This afternoon, I went to check her out. Thankfully, road construction at Bolsa and Brookhurst was over so, no traffic jam.
What ever has been said about Cindy, Anna is worse. She's 5'6" and chubby. She wears a lot of eye makeup. She was wearing some sort of risqu black top, showing her fat back. I took one look at her and said hello then goodbye. So, I can't comment on her service. Her looks, alone, turned me off.
As far as I know, My Happy is still the bargain basement entry fee for a 60 minute session that gives extras but the providers I saw leave a lot to be desired.[/QUOTE]As I was walking out I looked downstairs toward King Massage. Standing outside, maybe taking a break, was a buxom provider wearing a full body animal print Lycra outfit. She was quickly scooped up at a monger, given a kiss on the neck and taken inside. I don't know anything about King, located on the first floor west side of the building.
Is it OK to "accidentally" cum during a nuru session?. Will the girl freak out?.
[QUOTE=PhineasPhreak;5767674]Was intrigued by this number and I ended up at a place that has re opened by appointment, Sweet Massage in Beach and Cerritos. The girl was "Nana", a twenty something little thing with a very pretty face hot body but a unfortunate stomach tatoo very gorgoues and passionate girl.
Lots Of breast play, nipple sucking, CBJ cfs very enjoyable girl.
[URL]https://us-orangecounty.bedpage.com/bodyrubs/beach-blvd-22/20672756.html[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks, Phineas. Went there and it was a good time. A little sketch and don't even bother looking for a sign. For what it's worth they said sweet massage. Parking sucks and you walk through the back as that's where the parking lot is. Call ahead appt only. There were 3 girls when I went. They were all talking Vietnamese so you can assume. My girl was older 30's. Nice fake Ds. Loved seeing those puppies naked. Massage was great. Walking on the back, hot stones, good pressure. If you like them totally naked, she didn't. Dress bunched up at the mid section so that was that. CBJ into a few different positions. It was good. I'll be back. $40 for 30 minutes and $100 to her. Her name was Sushi. Thought it was Suzy but she ended up texting me her name. No negotiation so that was awesome. Just asked for money and took off. Didn't count it nor asked for more. I will have to see if I can get Nana next time.
[QUOTE=DreamFreez;5782413]Didn't know she was the owner.
When I first went there in 2018/19, I didnt ask for anything, she gave a good massage, stones, cracked my back, kept teasing the entire time, she said I know you want Happy Happy lol. I asked her if I could see her titties, she said if you comeback next time I ll show you, she was 28 when I saw her, probably 32/33 now
Second time, I got to see her big tits and sucked on them, she didn't show the kitty, my god she has the best naturals, goes well with her face. Total damage $95.
Third visit, same thing.
Fourth visit, she wanted me to tip 80-100 for the same thing, I passed. Settled for HJ but asked her for table shower after HJ finish, different experience, was nice
Fifth and sixth visit, I asked for CFS instead of HJ, she said she has boyfriend and doesn't do that, only hand job but she gave a good tease.
Seven, eight, nine, ten visit was just HJ, no enthusiasm, she had already stopped using hot stones and cracking the back! I used to see her for the massage, hot stones and she had good oils she used!
She was acting cocky at the end, so I stopped seeing her Fall 2020. She kept suggesting me to see her friend for extra stuff, but at that time I was meeting quality hoes in HX and was getting quality matches on Tinder / Hinge so I didn't go there since.[/QUOTE]What size were titties?
What is q reflex? I'm curious to look them up in RM.
[QUOTE=JerryX;5782097]I will go first tried q reflex in Wm. Nice Viet gal.
Big tits and GFE names Anna.
$80 nude nuru. Sometimes I just like the tease. LOL no FS th this time. She said bring your own condom next time.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JerryX;5780528]Thiptara massage used to be good, but LE is on the street 24/7 it seems scouting the place.[/QUOTE]Jerry, you trying to tell me thip ta ra has girls that play? This was my go to legit Thai place for over a decade. I witnessed the owner chasing a monger out the door, yelling this is not a god damn * house! I never got the slightest hint extras were on the menu, from anyone. But hey, maybe you were lucky that day.
[QUOTE=Porkys1980;5782001]This chick gets around. She works at a few places. They are b cups her tits weren't that small. LOL.
Still fun person she loves the anal stuff too!
Mary and Yuri are my new faves for Now at O Sp.
But an occasional Lina tops my week. Just text her ahead of time to see if she works at Elegant Massage in Cm or Emerald in Orange.[/QUOTE]Where is Elegant in CM?
I am trying to understand the logic behind the HJ providers. So they allow to touch kitty, tits, jerk you off. But don't get to full action. Doesn't make sense to me, what will change if I will putt my sausage in her bun? Aren't we already having intercourse when touching each other everywhere?
[QUOTE=SlickJJ;5781939]Whats the damage at Happy?[/QUOTE]She wanted $.2 but I only had 150 and she took it.
Damage was 40 door, 110 for her. She liked me a lot and I got 2 pops out of it and number.
[QUOTE=BigBoDonk;5783225]I am trying to understand the logic behind the HJ providers. So they allow to touch kitty, tits, jerk you off. But don't get to full action. Doesn't make sense to me, what will change if I will putt my sausage in her bun? Aren't we already having intercourse when touching each other everywhere?[/QUOTE]Interesting post, Bo.
Intercourse is defined as:
1. dealings or communication between individuals, groups, countries, etc.
2. interchange of thoughts, feelings, etc.
3. sexual relations or a sexual coupling, especially coitus.
So of course we are having intercourse even if it's with a no touching Bamboo Andi (see points 1&2).
One factor to also consider is STD safety. There is zero danger with an expertly provided HJ by the Andi's of the AMP world but the feelings for the recipient are largely the same. Yes, it could be argued that perhaps CIP, CIM or CIA feels a bit better but it's a tradeoff to be evaluated by each monger. I usually stick with the expert HJ providers (as opposed to mechanics who don't care about you feelings) but do occasionally get the itch and visit F&C Lucy. To each his own.
[QUOTE=AsianMovie;5782572]Is it OK to "accidentally" cum during a nuru session?. Will the girl freak out?.[/QUOTE]That is the whole point of it LOL have fun!
[QUOTE=NiceGuy99;5783282]Interesting post, Bo.
Intercourse is defined as:
1. dealings or communication between individuals, groups, countries, etc.
2. interchange of thoughts, feelings, etc.
3. sexual relations or a sexual coupling, especially coitus.
So of course we are having intercourse even if it's with a no touching Bamboo Andi (see points 1&2).
One factor to also consider is STD safety. There is zero danger with an expertly provided HJ by the Andi's of the AMP world but the feelings for the recipient are largely the same. Yes, it could be argued that perhaps CIP, CIM or CIA feels a bit better but it's a tradeoff to be evaluated by each monger. I usually stick with the expert HJ providers (as opposed to mechanics who don't care about you feelings) but do occasionally get the itch and visit F&C Lucy. To each his own.[/QUOTE]I'm at the point in my mongering life where I don't even want FS anymore. Looking back at all of the FS mongering experiences I've had in my life, 90% of them have been nothing special. She hops on top and rides me to finish and it's over pretty quick, or I climb on top and maybe we change positions once or twice, but it has almost always felt like an "ok, let's get this over with" moment. There have been exceptions of course. Those are the other 10% that we all look for. I have found that more often than not, an expertly delivered HJ brings me more pleasure than a quickie FS session from someone who isn't really that into it.
By expertly delivered, I generally mean fully naked provider who gives a decent massage, does a lot of teasing, doesn't mind being mutually touched, and takes her time with a nice slow release (and doesn't just make me bust my nut in 30 seconds like most do). Those expert HJs are hard to come by, but when you find one it's pure bliss IMHO. Throw a little BBBJ into the mix and you've hit the jackpot.
[QUOTE=HeartlessJay;5782659]Jerry, you trying to tell me thip ta ra has girls that play? This was my go to legit Thai place for over a decade. I witnessed the owner chasing a monger out the door, yelling this is not a god damn * house! I never got the slightest hint extras were on the menu, from anyone. But hey, maybe you were lucky that day.[/QUOTE]Lived across the street from this place for years. Killer legit Thai massage but no extra fun from my experience. Maybe we're just old and ugly Jay LOL.
[QUOTE=Grimmy23;5783443]By expertly delivered, I generally mean fully naked provider who gives a decent massage, does a lot of teasing, doesn't mind being mutually touched, and takes her time with a nice slow release (and doesn't just make me bust my nut in 30 seconds like most do). Those expert HJs are hard to come by, but when you find one it's pure bliss IMHO. Throw a little BBBJ into the mix and you've hit the jackpot.[/QUOTE]Nothing else to add but a good personality with a fun and playful attitude and those are the ones you hang onto for as long as you can. I'll take that slow prolonged edged HJ over rushed FS any day.
[QUOTE=Grimmy23;5783443]I'm at the point in my mongering life where I don't even want FS anymore. Looking back at all of the FS mongering experiences I've had in my life, 90% of them have been nothing special. She hops on top and rides me to finish and it's over pretty quick, or I climb on top and maybe we change positions once or twice, but it has almost always felt like an "ok, let's get this over with" moment. There have been exceptions of course. Those are the other 10% that we all look for. I have found that more often than not, an expertly delivered HJ brings me more pleasure than a quickie FS session from someone who isn't really that into it.
By expertly delivered, I generally mean fully naked provider who gives a decent massage, does a lot of teasing, doesn't mind being mutually touched, and takes her time with a nice slow release (and doesn't just make me bust my nut in 30 seconds like most do). Those expert HJs are hard to come by, but when you find one it's pure bliss IMHO. Throw a little BBBJ into the mix and you've hit the jackpot.[/QUOTE]It is little different for me since my dong is a bit oversized. So doesn't matter if provider is not into it they still scream and moan. So it is much fun. However when getting HJ they are not able to grab it all so it doesn't feel that much action tbh.
[QUOTE=Slammer6008;5782411]Has anyone tried Coco or Mina? A pm would be nice for some intel?[/QUOTE]Hey slammer, it's been a few months for me but today I texted the boss at 6*. I got photos but no names. If I go this weekend I will definitely report.
[QUOTE=Grimmy23;5783443]I'm at the point in my mongering life where I don't even want FS anymore. Looking back at all of the FS mongering experiences I've had in my life, 90% of them have been nothing special. She hops on top and rides me to finish and it's over pretty quick, or I climb on top and maybe we change positions once or twice, but it has almost always felt like an "ok, let's get this over with" moment. There have been exceptions of course. Those are the other 10% that we all look for. I have found that more often than not, an expertly delivered HJ brings me more pleasure than a quickie FS session from someone who isn't really that into it.
By expertly delivered, I generally mean fully naked provider who gives a decent massage, does a lot of teasing, doesn't mind being mutually touched, and takes her time with a nice slow release (and doesn't just make me bust my nut in 30 seconds like most do). Those expert HJs are hard to come by, but when you find one it's pure bliss IMHO. Throw a little BBBJ into the mix and you've hit the jackpot.[/QUOTE]Agreed. If only I could find the naked massage and HJ or BJ in the LF area, I'd be happy!!
I recall a post from a year or two ago describing a white girl named Lisa who worked at the complex at 440 Fair Dr. The monger described her as hot, good attitude, reasonable rates, etc, and posted a link to some pics. Just curious if anyone here has seen her or has contact info for her.
[QUOTE=Grimmy23;5783443]I'm at the point in my mongering life where I don't even want FS anymore. Looking back at all of the FS mongering experiences I've had in my life, 90% of them have been nothing special. She hops on top and rides me to finish and it's over pretty quick, or I climb on top and maybe we change positions once or twice, but it has almost always felt like an "ok, let's get this over with" moment. There have been exceptions of course. Those are the other 10% that we all look for. I have found that more often than not, an expertly delivered HJ brings me more pleasure than a quickie FS session from someone who isn't really that into it.
By expertly delivered, I generally mean fully naked provider who gives a decent massage, does a lot of teasing, doesn't mind being mutually touched, and takes her time with a nice slow release (and doesn't just make me bust my nut in 30 seconds like most do). Those expert HJs are hard to come by, but when you find one it's pure bliss IMHO. Throw a little BBBJ into the mix and you've hit the jackpot.[/QUOTE]I'm thinking along the same lines. I'm driving through O. C. On my way to S. D. And I'm thinking of stopping at Haven in Santa Ana. Can anybody confirm the reviews I'm seeing on RM? From those the place looks like it hits all the spots. So to speak.
Checked out Charli at Lake Forest #112 and think I found my new ATF. She's the coolest, sexiest chick ever I'm still thinking about it. Her picture on the spa Instagram was sort of ethnically ambiguous and she is too, I'm going to guess she's a Filipina because she looks so much like Lily Thai the super fire porn star from like 10 years ago. Early 20's, gorgeous eyes, perfect figure. Slightly thick but absolutely in shape, glorious round butt, incredible DD tits and a perfect figure. Went with standard nuru and she was super talkative and friendly, tons of body to body contact and a lot of teasing on the back. On the flip more body to body rubbing, tons of oil and a lot of contact. She's really good at teasing and is super sensual, makes you feel like an absolute king. Very accommodating with her technique and style, an absolute must repeat. I don't know if there's anything extra available, seems possible if she really digs you a bunch and you tip well but always doubtful at Nuru spots. Not sure what days she works, her insta is at oc_charlitheestallion.
[QUOTE=StubbornMule;5783931]I recall a post from a year or two ago describing a white girl named Lisa who worked at the complex at 440 Fair Dr. The monger described her as hot, good attitude, reasonable rates, etc, and posted a link to some pics. Just curious if anyone here has seen her or has contact info for her.[/QUOTE]I doubt it, no white girls works nuro / AMPs anymore.
[QUOTE=FeMaiden;5783915]Agreed. If only I could find the naked massage and HJ or BJ in the LF area, I'd be happy!![/QUOTE]Go to O spa in Laguna hills, Mary will take good care of your cock on the daily, tight body, looks like late 4 os. Porksy says she's over 50 but in the dark she lets you play with her tight body.
[QUOTE=LilBuddyGillig;5783124]Where is Elegant in CM?[/QUOTE]O Spa is in Laguna hills.
[QUOTE=HeartlessJay;5782659]Jerry, you trying to tell me thip ta ra has girls that play? This was my go to legit Thai place for over a decade. I witnessed the owner chasing a monger out the door, yelling this is not a god damn * house! I never got the slightest hint extras were on the menu, from anyone. But hey, maybe you were lucky that day.[/QUOTE]LOL if the new talent likes you and you actually pay they will give out handies all day long buddy.
[QUOTE=BigM1;5782645]What is q reflex? I'm curious to look them up in RM.[/QUOTE]Its called Q Life Reflexology, just google it.
[QUOTE=BlaBla;5782311]Humaniplex.[/QUOTE]Another bedpage type of site, thanks.
I guess its HB, kinda on the north side closer to Seal Beach-ish.
Bolsa Chica and Edinger.
I remember a few years back, pre-covid, going there a few times and getting the standard service. It was nice, a little tease, a little HJ, at a place that was not as known, at least I hadn't seen it being talked about. So it was more 'exciting' not knowing if it was regular at this place or not.
Tried calling their number, I think they were closed down longer than a lot of the others, because they never answered and the door was always locked. Last week I ended up getting through, so they are open. I went in, cute (for me, cute is 40 ish 6/10 or better) Viet greeted me. Not who I remember (I think Mia) but was willing to give it a go. Took my money, led me to room. Then in walks the 3/10 (being generous.) Not outright ugly, just not someone who's even trying to be attractive. 50+, a bit overweight, thick cotton tights that went down just below the knee. But heck, figured I'd see where this was going. Was fine if it wasn't going anywhere. Was fine if it did.
Massage was decent, maybe a 6, the towel covered the goods, but she moved it off to the side here and there during the massage, as if to say, "we'll leave this here in case we need it". I did the calf-brush, and even up to the back of the thigh, I probably could have roamed OTC anywhere over the tights. But I figure, if I go that far, I'm stuck with the minimum $40, and at this point, I wasn't sure. Rarely do I make it out without a HJ, even if unpleasant and rushed.
On the flip, same 'push the towel far to the side' teasing technique, but never actually touching me. I grabbed myself (under the towel) and she told me that she's fine if I take care of myself.
Ended up passing. Half hour, standard $. 4 and wanted to leave her a nice 20% tip ($10) for the massage, but all I had was Jacksons, and I didn't want to ask for change, so she got a $20 tip. More than she deserved.
Still want to go back there, even if I got the same treatment but from the 6/10, it'd be fun. Overall, disappointed.
Sorry, I didn't get the names. RM has 30+ reviews, but all old, and the 'Sara' name sounded familiar for the one I wanted that day.
I'm a regular reader, I know I'm not a regular poster, though I think my few posts have been decent. I try not to take without too much giving.
But, I want to take some advice or recommendation now.
My funds are watched pretty carefully, so I go get a massage every now and then when my shoulder is hurting again. It tends to be budget AMPs because credit card for house fee plus tip, and I can't get away with big tips without raising some flags. Anyway, seems to happen every few weeks. Wink Wink. I keep telling my SO that she should come with me or go get a massage for herself, so I don't feel so spoiled. She never does. She doesn't want to waste money on that type of thing. (And I'm very okay with offering but having her reject the offer!
Well, I think she is willing to go. So now I'm trying to find a place that might do couples massage, or possibly just massage both of us in separate rooms. Trying to find a place that's got decent looking ladies, maybe, but not 'obvious' ones. Many of the places I frequent have a milfy Asian (perfectly fine with me) wearing tight see-through tights or a low cut shirt, etc.
And finally, generally speaking with a couples massage, does the SO (female) feel more comfortable with a guy massaging her or a girl, or doesn't matter? (Assuming no extras to be offered for her.).
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
[QUOTE=DSchrute;5783695]Hey slammer, it's been a few months for me but today I texted the boss at 6*. I got photos but no names. If I go this weekend I will definitely report.[/QUOTE]Go my son report back to me only and you'll be rewarded with 1000 virgins. And 15 slammer bucks.
[QUOTE=Slammer6008;5784335]Go my son report back to me only and you'll be rewarded with 1000 virgins. And 15 slammer bucks.[/QUOTE]Be more specific. Thanks LOL.
[QUOTE=ItsJay17;5781825]There must be a lot of new girls here not being told the ropes. So this is my second visit here where a younger girl didn't really understand the norms and normal prices. The last time the girl told me there was a donation for extras and I told her I knew and she got completely undressed.
This time same thing, young 28 year old cute Asian petite girl. She was very nice and spoke broken English with enough to have a conversation. Massage was good, table walked and it was good because she was so dang light. Let me touch all over throughout massage and she was completely nude. On the flip l, light teasing and started to play with jr. She bent over and let me FIV while she continued HJ as I fingered her and fondled her little A cups.
Finished and she cleaned me up. I tipped her 80 for full nude and fiv because it was almost GFE and she was confused and said it's usually 100. I told her no for full nude and only HJ usually 80 is more than good. Told her anything past that should be BJ or FS.
Same issue with previous younger girl.
This one's name was lina and she works Thursday and Friday's.
I did 30 minutes for 45.[/QUOTE]Well at least I know I'm not the only who thinks the new girls here don't know what they're doing. I saw Lena a while back and I usually go for nuru. I've been here several times so I know Kelly and she recommends good girls but Lena was average. I asked for nuru and she told me she doesn't do nuru only nude. I said no a HJ would be fine, she asked for a Benjamin, I told her no that's what I pay for nuru. Ended up giving 4 Jackson's. Same thing with skylar, she's not attractive BTW, short, chubby and session is lackluster, I asked for nuru and she said. 120, told her I only have 1 Benjamin, she said it's fine but next time. 120.
I'm hesitant to try out other girls here, like candie since my last two experiences weren't so great.
[QUOTE=Caribe;5782516]I don't feel as strongly as some about Cindy at My Happy but since she's gone, I wanted to check out the provider who replaced her. This afternoon, I went to check her out. Thankfully, road construction at Bolsa and Brookhurst was over so, no traffic jam.
What ever has been said about Cindy, Anna is worse. She's 5'6" and chubby. She wears a lot of eye makeup. She was wearing some sort of risqu black top, showing her fat back. I took one look at her and said hello then goodbye. So, I can't comment on her service. Her looks, alone, turned me off.
As far as I know, My Happy is still the bargain basement entry fee for a 60 minute session that gives extras but the providers I saw leave a lot to be desired.[/QUOTE]I've been endulging with Angela at MHF the last couple months. Very accommodating and sweet for a pushing-50 therapist. The last visit this past Tuesday the door fee went up to $40/ hour for me. Must be to pay for the new framed, dry-walled cubicles construction. No more small, curtained space to get your groove on. You boys who like her knees on the floor show or bend her over the table now have sufficient room to work. Now if they'd only bring in some sub-30 spinners with big Bs I'd be 'happy. '.
[QUOTE=Caribe;5769388]LOL! Where are these night clubs? Got some club names? I'd like to try some pickup lines on some GILFs.[/QUOTE]Now I'm curious, I've been on the civilian side recently and could use a granny LMAO.
Lucy just gets the job done on a moment's notice, assuming she's in. I'm not a good person LOL.
[QUOTE=Porkys1980;5784355]Be more specific. Thanks LOL.[/QUOTE]It's a massage Place where you get your Winkie sucked an fucked! Is that better.
[QUOTE=DaveSC;5784317]I'm a regular reader, I know I'm not a regular poster, though I think my few posts have been decent. I try not to take without too much giving.
But, I want to take some advice or recommendation now.
My funds are watched pretty carefully, so I go get a massage every now and then when my shoulder is hurting again. It tends to be budget AMPs because credit card for house fee plus tip, and I can't get away with big tips without raising some flags. Anyway, seems to happen every few weeks. Wink Wink. I keep telling my SO that she should come with me or go get a massage for herself, so I don't feel so spoiled. She never does. She doesn't want to waste money on that type of thing. (And I'm very okay with offering but having her reject the offer!
Well, I think she is willing to go. So now I'm trying to find a place that might do couples massage, or possibly just massage both of us in separate rooms. Trying to find a place that's got decent looking ladies, maybe, but not 'obvious' ones. Many of the places I frequent have a milfy Asian (perfectly fine with me) wearing tight see-through tights or a low cut shirt, etc.
And finally, generally speaking with a couples massage, does the SO (female) feel more comfortable with a guy massaging her or a girl, or doesn't matter? (Assuming no extras to be offered for her.).
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.[/QUOTE]Honestly your best bet is to go to one of the chain massage places that has couples massage. Most have couples rooms with two tables so you can get massages together in the same room. I wouldn't recommend Massage Envy, but Burke Williams, Hand & Stone, or Elements are all good bets. You'll spend $100 each by the time you tip your therapists, but that will highlight the benefits of massage to your SO and maybe get your budget up a little. Some people go to the crappy (legit) Asian places where you can get massage cheaper, but I don't recommend that. You're probably going to get an inadequately trained, unlicensed provider working in conditions that don't meet sanitary standards for spas. For a real therapeutic, legit massage you have to go to someone who's professionally trained and licensed, and that costs a bit more.
Male therapists vs female. That depends on personal preferences. I have clients both male and female who only want to see male therapists because the perception is that males provide firmer pressure (not true, but some think so). I have female clients who would never let a male MT touch them, and I have female clients who specifically request males. It's all legit massage and private parts stay covered, so it doesn't matter a whole lot.
Just don't go to a legit place looking for an "attractive" provider. If you give out that vibe you'll get yourself banned and possibly reported to police. Legit places hire therapists based on their massage skills, not based on how they look. Touch any of them inappropriately or ask for extras and you'll create a world of problems for yourself, possibly including criminal charges. Offer extra money for a HJ and you'll likely have a police report filed against you for solicitation. Keep that stuff in the AMPs where it belongs.