Arrangement Reports

OK so this is my first attempt on SA. I'll go through the few I've been talking with and what but I know and the bits that make me scratch my head. TLDR Have any of you ever sent money before meeting for "x" reason. Like she needs help or her car is broken kind of stuff? I've Also been talking to a few others and they seem like pros and am curious for intel.

First the "pros".

1. Sweetestbabe [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e7873d59-a5e8-4428-9e57-4eb931ee364f[/URL].

This one got back to me quick and we switched to text and is looking to setup a ppm. Waiting for initial price and location possibility still but seems like a pro from what I've read lurking here? Anyone met her before?

2. Savannah1770 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5394b8d8-8cfe-4039-969b-430a242eb082[/URL].

I saw a few pages back some info about her but did anyone actually go see her?? Immediately switched to text and rates.

Then here's my trouble girls. Basically for both there was long seemingly great conversation that devolved into them having issues of some sort that required money in advance. Both are "new" to the site but having no reference I don't know how often or easy it is for a scammer to setup on SA.

Girl one StarrbabyXX [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae7a4248-065f-4517-b03a-c209dc4a6f61[/URL].

Conversation went on for a while. We started talking arrangements and switched to snap. She sent me some hot pics to get me excited and even responded to a request so this is where my confusion starts because it seemed very nice up to that point. I get her number we switch to text. The story comes out. Now if you look at her profile she's actually specifically saying she needs out of a current relationship so I knew there was some baggage coming. But she wants me to send her enough money she can leave her BF and get her own place so she can be safe. And part of me wants to help her because she's not even asking for all that much because she's got the rest ($300) I guess I'm just in a weird spot I normally see independent girls or massages and here I am trying not to care about her situation but able to help but hoping someone's with experience here has seen this stuff and can help me out?

The second one "beck" [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/944ae9b9-6346-4913-88ee-3127cc23cc12[/URL].

I'll keep this one shorter but very similar story "feel" and am looking for the same insight as above except this one started "tough" and when we started talking arrangements she admitted to me she had no idea what to ask or anything and would follow my guidance. We switch to text and conversation about a date ultimately lead her revealing she had been kicked out of the house and was staying at her sisters with a broken down car and she's running out of time to stay there. She has t talked any numbers yet but I can't help but my soft side wants to help but I'd go broke helping every girl in trouble too!

On top of these I have one new girl I did set up a date with and TOFT and will report as well as a couple girls from a bit too far away (think one state) who haven't even asked for anything financially but are already just chatting away on snap like FWB. I'm pretty happy with my experience on SA so far just don't know what to do with these 2! Please advise and sorry for the monster write up.

[QUOTE=ZckBrc;5598899]"that paying for girls when younger prevents development of the hunting instinct (game)" Bro, for wanting to drop some truth, that is some pseudoscientific nonsense. I could just as easily say that young dudes gain experience they otherwise would not have when they do this. Also, again, you keep saying that if they save their $$ then it all adds up. They ain't making enough $$$ for that. So they should spend it on whatever makes them happy now. If you're going to connect Seeking Arrangement to wokeness then there is nothing, absolutely nothing, you will not blame on wokeness, which means that it's meaningless and just a thing that old guys say when they no longer understand the world. Also, I am not one of those woke people, but you know, those woke people are all for legalizing sex work. Ever go on twitter? It aint the Far Right taliban types you probably watch that are supporting that. For someone so concerned about instinct, I think being alienated by the world so much that everything seems woke to you is a bad spot to be in.

Bottom line, I am youngish. And I do get laid without paying a dime. AND I use SA, and I get laid more. I am not going to judge or complain or cry about any of it. The economic outlook for this country is bad. We are still in a pandemic. People getting laid and having a decent time, young or old, is a good thing.[/QUOTE]I think you guys have a great perspective on the crap sandwich the Millennials have been fed. There's no sense in not living for today when the future is f'd. But I'm a Gen Xer and nobody gives a shit what we think.

As for the free play, it definitely exists even for older guys like me. You have to treat them like a girlfriend not an escort that's on booty call. I've seen a few of the girls on SA because they like the naughty factor, but some don't want or need the money and taking cash for sex doesn't feel right to them. That's why if we're in a long term thing I buy them stuff they need, help with car etc. These are all things you have to do for your vanilla relationships too.

[QUOTE=ZckBrc;5598899]"that paying for girls when younger prevents development of the hunting instinct (game)" Bro, for wanting to drop some truth, that is some pseudoscientific nonsense. I could just as easily say that young dudes gain experience they otherwise would not have when they do this. Also, again, you keep saying that if they save their $$ then it all adds up. They ain't making enough $$$ for that. So they should spend it on whatever makes them happy now. If you're going to connect Seeking Arrangement to wokeness then there is nothing, absolutely nothing, you will not blame on wokeness, which means that it's meaningless and just a thing that old guys say when they no longer understand the world. Also, I am not one of those woke people, but you know, those woke people are all for legalizing sex work. Ever go on twitter? It aint the Far Right taliban types you probably watch that are supporting that. For someone so concerned about instinct, I think being alienated by the world so much that everything seems woke to you is a bad spot to be in.

Bottom line, I am youngish. And I do get laid without paying a dime. AND I use SA, and I get laid more. I am not going to judge or complain or cry about any of it. The economic outlook for this country is bad. We are still in a pandemic. People getting laid and having a decent time, young or old, is a good thing.[/QUOTE]I say spend money and do what you have to do that makes you happy. That being said I have probably fucked more girls in the wild than 99% of the posters on this site. When I was in my 20's I would laugh at dudes paying for pussy and say why would you be doing that? That being said I was heavily involved in the nightclub scene and had a crew of guys with high social status and was extremely good looking. I am in my 40's and on gear and I have heard many girls I met through seeking tell me WTF are you doing paying for pussy.

I have known a few guys who introduced me to this who never got pussy without paying for it and started banging escorts at a young age and their mind is kind of warped when it comes to the game. They don't know the difference between fucking a girl for free and on SA.

When you PAY FOR THE PUSSY the girl sees you as a simp in the back of her mind. You are of low value and not of high value. I am in my 40's so I don't give a fuck but call the game as it is.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;5599438]I think you guys have a great perspective on the crap sandwich the Millennials have been fed. There's no sense in not living for today when the future is f'd. But I'm a Gen Xer and nobody gives a shit what we think.

As for the free play, it definitely exists even for older guys like me. You have to treat them like a girlfriend not an escort that's on booty call. I've seen a few of the girls on SA because they like the naughty factor, but some don't want or need the money and taking cash for sex doesn't feel right to them. That's why if we're in a long term thing I buy them stuff they need, help with car etc. These are all things you have to do for your vanilla relationships too.[/QUOTE]I have never ever bought a girl stuff they need help with in my vanilla relationships. I could understand buy drinks or even dinner but handing them cash I have never done. You are essentially a sugar daddy or a husband.

To the guys asking how to get freebies use game the way you would in the wild.

My advice is never pay them any allowance. Once you give an allowance it is much harder to convert them to a fuck buddy without pay no matter how good you fuck them or how big your dick is.

Once you give them an allowance they see you as a meal ticket and it is difficult to be reversed. I have done it but better to start off without allowance and go from there.

SA has hit mainstream recently because every girl asks now what type of arrangement are you looking for where this was not the case even 6 months ago. Many guys have gotten freebies and the girls are on to it.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;5599438]I think you guys have a great perspective on the crap sandwich the Millennials have been fed. There's no sense in not living for today when the future is f'd. But I'm a Gen Xer and nobody gives a shit what we think.

As for the free play, it definitely exists even for older guys like me. You have to treat them like a girlfriend not an escort that's on booty call. I've seen a few of the girls on SA because they like the naughty factor, but some don't want or need the money and taking cash for sex doesn't feel right to them. That's why if we're in a long term thing I buy them stuff they need, help with car etc. These are all things you have to do for your vanilla relationships too.[/QUOTE]100% on point. The ladies want to be treated well and normally, but that requires the monger to be well and normal (let's face it there's a reason many of these girls are jaded). I'm sure DynoJr has much success with that approach, as do I. These women crave to receive what their shitty father were supposed to give them. It's so clear as day and it's so easy to give because most of the guys just don't get it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e1270b14-ed98-4d59-9a01-30f4ce9cd039[/URL]

Asking 250 and can host. Does anyone have info on her? Seems TGTBT. Thanks!

[QUOTE=JustinFields;5599456]I say spend money and do what you have to do that makes you happy. That being said I have probably fucked more girls in the wild than 99% of the posters on this site. When I was in my 20's I would laugh at dudes paying for pussy and say why would you be doing that? That being said I was heavily involved in the nightclub scene and had a crew of guys with high social status and was extremely good looking. I am in my 40's and on gear and I have heard many girls I met through seeking tell me WTF are you doing paying for pussy.

I have known a few guys who introduced me to this who never got pussy without paying for it and started banging escorts at a young age and their mind is kind of warped when it comes to the game. They don't know the difference between fucking a girl for free and on SA.

When you PAY FOR THE PUSSY the girl sees you as a simp in the back of her mind. You are of low value and not of high value. I am in my 40's so I don't give a fuck but call the game as it is.[/QUOTE]As Charlie Sheen said in Two and a Half Men "the 500 $ I pay for the prostitute is not for the sex but for the cab that she will take after we have sex" meaning once you pay she doesn't expect you to divorce your wife and merry her or be with her on Valentines day or * and moan when you're on a family vacation with your wife. I've been on that side too and as someone mentioned the free pussy after college becomes the most expensive one as it was in my case. Also when you're married free pussy is hard to come by because girls want a relationship to agree to have sex and most don't want to mess around married men.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/91dac19d-2e52-460c-a51f-a1df72e0ecb4[/URL]

Wants 600 meets in Schaumburg one hour no anal everything covered. Didn't partake.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f6018c8-8dbf-494e-96ee-1a0e7e809f35[/URL]

Fake not in Chicago goes to snap.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9dcd78c2-a6ba-47d5-bc84-49fc853b6e31[/URL]

Pro wanted 500.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1616051e-92c5-44af-b034-c453a6cfad29[/URL]

Was talking for awhile, tried to sell me life insurance not sure if real says too busy to meet up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/eb0a6688-0eb9-4eee-a255-775883def4e3[/URL]

Wants 600 everything covered.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/5e3a1eb0-6436-4ef3-a092-7cedd4cd9698[/URL]

Fake.

Sorry didn't see anyone that has not being commented about. I do think girls are asking for crazy amounts for everything covered.

Be safe.

[QUOTE=Renegade82;5599998][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/91dac19d-2e52-460c-a51f-a1df72e0ecb4[/URL]

Wants 600 meets in Schaumburg one hour no anal everything covered. Didn't partake.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f6018c8-8dbf-494e-96ee-1a0e7e809f35[/URL]

Fake not in Chicago goes to snap.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9dcd78c2-a6ba-47d5-bc84-49fc853b6e31[/URL]

Pro wanted 500.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1616051e-92c5-44af-b034-c453a6cfad29[/URL]

Was talking for awhile, tried to sell me life insurance not sure if real says too busy to meet up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/eb0a6688-0eb9-4eee-a255-775883def4e3[/URL]

Wants 600 everything covered.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/5e3a1eb0-6436-4ef3-a092-7cedd4cd9698[/URL]

Fake.

Sorry didn't see anyone that has not being commented about. I do think girls are asking for crazy amounts for everything covered.

Be safe.[/QUOTE]Your last 4 links are for your message inbox.

Thanks for sharing!

My membership will end, so here are my last inbox.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b16b66d-7b4f-4498-8df5-c3afeae4f20e[/URL]

This one chat and move to text, you have to come to her but she will fuck if the price is right.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8d4978ef-fd05-41cf-aae0-65023bdbb41f[/URL]

This one probably a scammer, her private pic look good, but I will not continue if the girls don't view my profile, probably fake.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce4da14a-82f7-4162-afa3-55b0117b7ff6[/URL]

Scammer, message me first with a 201 area code, I will pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d558d5f3-2911-4865-a22b-beb3c57e5bc9[/URL]

This one going to school I iowa, she probably back for the holiday, but I will pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3602b3cb-7ac9-4fe4-820a-cd4f16333405[/URL]

This one require coffee or drinks first, then I think she will fuck after, not my type, maybe for you.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/46467fa9-a975-4856-ad8e-6ef53468bcfb[/URL]

This one is down to fuck, but you need to meet her for coffee or drinks first, not for me, maybe for you.

Man, all you guys on here have your own theory about pussy and anything else, and sometime have nothing to do with pussy, my theory will be the same, if you want something nice in this world it will cost you, if you don't don't believe, just leave your house and just look around your world, just look at all the rich old guys out there and their girlfriends and wives vs old guys with no money girlfriends or wives, do you see the different, I think money buy you hot young hot coed pussy, if you want something below ave. Ugly it may or may not be free, it all about what you value, your standard and what you want, but please don't tell me a old, fat and ugly old or old guy can get free hot young coed pussy fore free, it will never happen, if I ask donald trump or hugh hefner, when you were in your 50's do all the hot young models fuck you for free, I think they will starting laughing so hard, they will probably tell me old ladies free yes but hot young coed, not a chance, that's is my theory and that what I see, just look at old guys at walmart with there girlfriends / wives and old rich famous guys on tv with their girlfriends / wives, do you see the different, I do, and is all about money.

If anyone in their 40's, 50's or 60's can verify or prove they can fuck girls these sa girls for free, I will worship you every day.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/960d7ed2-a038-4e2c-b9cc-cb74e80e6f61[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5b642833-560a-4ec3-a858-f3a759118301[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/50e9474c-a27d-44df-b5f4-076b5bace0b7[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1b22afa-13a8-4e58-b6d5-666d84855499[/URL]

[QUOTE=Pal5600;5600211]My membership will end, so here are my last inbox.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b16b66d-7b4f-4498-8df5-c3afeae4f20e[/URL]

This one chat and move to text, you have to come to her but she will fuck if the price is right.

[/QUOTE]I was talking to her several months ago and she kind of disappeared for awhile, I see she's back. Did she discuss a number?

[QUOTE=Pal5600;5600240]If anyone in their 40's, 50's or 60's can verify or prove they can fuck girls these sa girls for free, I will worship you every day.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/960d7ed2-a038-4e2c-b9cc-cb74e80e6f61[/URL]
[/QUOTE]KindGirl was on my short list but none of her many pics seemed like anything near Chicago so I was skeptical.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87ae7319-1477-4661-911d-eb7c7194f792[/URL]

Man I wish she is real but probably a scammer, this can be some rich old guys GF or wife, but poor old guy, I don't think so, but either way is not free.