Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;4910393]Actually, she is pushing me to meet her soon. Shortly after I posted my initial message I noticed her profile was down. I texted her about it and she said she didn't need it, she found what she was looking for and when could I see her. So, she wants me to come over soon, doesn't want any donation, I just need to bring a $100 PlayStation card to get rid of the kids. The only thing she can pull is to take the card and then refuse to do anything. I'm thinking bring two $50 cards, give her one when I get there and the other when we finish. If she balks at that, she gets none. Then if she refuses me after the first card, the most I've lost is $50. Am I missing anything? She is really hot. Horny- hasn't had sex in months, and the price is right. I have found that with some of these girls I get a different reaction sometimes because of my age- 70. They think I might have more money sometimes, also I think they feel safer in some respects, or maybe the sex will go quicker-I don't know. Why did you block her? I have had very responsive conversations with her. Zero ghosting.

Blue.[/QUOTE]Blue, I 99.9% guarantee this is a scam. I'm sorry to break it to you, you're nothing more than a mark.

She's looking to get you invested (what do they call that, sunk-cost fallacy?) so you're less likely to pull out of the deal, hoping against hope that she's legit, when the red flags start showing up.

What is definitely going to happen is that she's all of a sudden, right before you get to the fake address she gave you, going to want "proof" that you are bringing the cards. Or she's going to "want to get her kid engrossed in the game" before you arrive, or some other bullshit story. She's going to ask for a photo of the receipt, or as HuksAlot said, she's going to want the code.

Her profile is down not because she found what she is looking for, but because others reported her and she got blocked. You're just a fish she still had on the line when that happened.

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4911428]
Her profile is down not because she found what she is looking for, but because others reported her and she got blocked. You're just a fish she still had on the line when that happened.[/QUOTE]This is why, whenever I start chatting with someone, I favorite the profile. One so I can keep them all organized but also because those fake / scam profiles disappear often and very quickly usually.

So before I respond to a text, or each day I check if the profile is still active, remind myself of the pics on the profile, and check the recent location. Anything other that USA and I just block and delete.

I also push to get a verifying pic and push to video chat as well.

Those that video chat are usually legit and are who I meet up with. So far, I've been doing quite well.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4f232345-ab4b-4208-b4cb-2fec73114ccb[/URL]

She was all hot then went ghost on me. I feel she need guidance and I should be the one doing it!

I am also finding profiles that say one location in their profile then when you are texting another. By By to them as well.

Poo.

Oh and to the Idiot who gave info about this site to one of our favorites that we have had the pleasure of, your an ass! Plus you just shrunk my sharing circle to known persons.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4911696][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4f232345-ab4b-4208-b4cb-2fec73114ccb[/URL]

She was all hot then went ghost on me. I feel she need guidance and I should be the one doing it!

I am also finding profiles that say one location in their profile then when you are texting another. By By to them as well.

Poo.

Oh and to the Idiot who gave info about this site to one of our favorites that we have had the pleasure of, your an ass! Plus you just shrunk my sharing circle to known persons.[/QUOTE]I wanted to, tried to exchange numbers but wanted to just give me her Kik. Never made it any further. Would of liked to though.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4911696][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4f232345-ab4b-4208-b4cb-2fec73114ccb[/URL]

She was all hot then went ghost on me. I feel she need guidance and I should be the one doing it!

I am also finding profiles that say one location in their profile then when you are texting another. By By to them as well.

Poo.

Oh and to the Idiot who gave info about this site to one of our favorites that we have had the pleasure of, your an ass! Plus you just shrunk my sharing circle to known persons.[/QUOTE]The one time I shared, she ended up getting raped. So I don't share $hit.

Don't give information to girls about this site, and then complain we don't share information. These girls can tie two dots together and then it's our ass when we see them.

Has anyone seen SubCutie lately? She is the petite blonde from Danbury / Brookfield area. Phone number ends in 8128. I've tried reaching out to her but no luck.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4912457]Has anyone seen SubCutie lately? She is the petite blonde from Danbury / Brookfield area. Phone number ends in 8128. I've tried reaching out to her but no luck.[/QUOTE]She moved to Florida.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4911917]Don't give information to girls about this site, and then complain we don't share information. These girls can tie two dots together and then it's our ass when we see them.[/QUOTE]They will do their investigative moojoo and find shit. Please stop giving these girls info they don't need.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4911872]The one time I shared, she ended up getting raped. So I don't share $hit.[/QUOTE]I can only imagine bro. That's just crazy. I agree. Got to be careful who you share with.

[QUOTE=Rubicon666;4912626]She moved to Florida.[/QUOTE]Moved to Florida?

Fuck!

She was the best.

She was by far the best Sugar Baby, absolutely terrible that she left.

She was a sweetheart, I wish her the best.

[QUOTE=Rubicon666;4912626]She moved to Florida.[/QUOTE]Glad I saw her last Fall. She was one of the few, better SA dates. Got along great with her at her place. Total GFE and more. Too bad it was a long drive for me which prevented more visits. She had boudoir and tech skills, a great combo for me!

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;4917098]She had boudoir and tech skills[/QUOTE]She was good with computers too?! What a lady.

Best for me was Babyeva. But I only one of one other monger that sampled her.

And that's the point. Endless excuses upon excuse why 'she' can't video chat. Will send old pics and play them off as new. And gets defensive when call out on it. Ghosted when came time to meet.

At best, it's a fake profile. At worse, it's a catfish or scammer.

Don't waste your time. I did.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6ff3a330-5764-4ef5-add9-e262dd910deb[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6e629ca-cf43-4278-8b61-062f51fb71e8[/URL]

Anybody seen this one? Seems a little flakey.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4918573][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6e629ca-cf43-4278-8b61-062f51fb71e8[/URL]

Anybody seen this one? Seems a little flakey.[/QUOTE]I avoid these types as they're typically fake. Even if she's real, her profile says it all.

"About Me.

I like to have fun and smoke a lot of weed. I need somebody who can support me".

Hey guys I am going to be in the Rocky Hill area next weekend. I have chatted with a few from Seeking.

Can you recommend anyone willing to meet at my hotel. I will be more than happy to return the favor if you are ever in the Providence area. Thanks guys. Play safe!!

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4918573][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6e629ca-cf43-4278-8b61-062f51fb71e8[/URL]

Anybody seen this one? Seems a little flakey.[/QUOTE]She's real. Not flakey, but lives with her father, so can only sneak out at night is what she told me. She wanted me to get a room at night and she would sneak out while father was at work. Again, this is what she told me. I wanted to sample that ass, but got lazy and moved on. If you can setup things right for her, she will be an amazing time. She just needs alot of setting up and timing, which I didn't have time for. Also, looks like she lost her old account and got a new one. I talked to her way back before March of this year, so that account is definitely new. Must have got kicked out after wasting dude's time. Again, we got pretty close and she was down to meet, but I would have to drive to hartford, get a room at night and hope she shows up. I live too far away to risk it. If you live close and have a place she can come to, and the wifey isnt home at night, or you live alone, then go for it. I'm more of a day monger.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9a6090dc-ca10-4a43-bb64-31fdb6ccbd98[/URL]

Deserves special mention. Not because she is trying to rip you off like the other ones, but because of the new slant she (he) puts on it. It seems from the story she / he tells that she is deaf from birth, lost her husband to cancer and has a young child she is supporting all by herself and needs just a bit of help to get through life. The heart strings she pulls to get you to send her a cash app is far above the regular scams. She / He even put the effort into the photos and creating a background. It was great. You get a "Poo" Shout Out for the time and effort you put into creating and scamming people!

Don't let the tears cloud your eyes. Her offer to meet "tomorrow for lunch" was withdrawn when I spelled out the number one rule of Seeking. I spelled it because she told me she was deaf. The first rule of Seeking is never send money to someone you haven't met yet.

Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4922689][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9a6090dc-ca10-4a43-bb64-31fdb6ccbd98[/URL]

Deserves special mention. Not because she is trying to rip you off like the other ones, but because of the new slant she (he) puts on it. It seems from the story she / he tells that she is deaf from birth, lost her husband to cancer and has a young child she is supporting all by herself and needs just a bit of help to get through life. The heart strings she pulls to get you to send her a cash app is far above the regular scams. She / He even put the effort into the photos and creating a background. It was great. You get a "Poo" Shout Out for the time and effort you put into creating and scamming people!

Don't let the tears cloud your eyes. Her offer to meet "tomorrow for lunch" was withdrawn when I spelled out the number one rule of Seeking. I spelled it because she told me she was deaf. The first rule of Seeking is never send money to someone you haven't met yet.

Poo.[/QUOTE]I spotted that one earlier in the week and have seen those begging, sympathy, whoa-is-me profiles before and learn to ignore and avoid. Pure scam. The odd part is her headline. " Aloes sealords" No clue as to what she's trying to write.

BMD.

Love how these girls say "I charge $300 to meet for dinner so I know your real" Then we can discuss arrangements over dinner.

I am not paying someone to "talk" get the f out of here with that bs. But I guess some guys are really paying. Lot of those girls will only do dinner and never sex. Dinner hwhores. They read blogs and think they never have to put out. SA themselves sell the dream to these girls. You will see most drop out after a couple weeks because reality starts hitting them. There are a few whales out there that the hot ones get but not that many guys are whales. The real money guys don't go on SA. And cyber relationship only drives me crazy. Ok rant for day over.

[QUOTE=Steve99;4922733]Love how these girls say "I charge $300 to meet for dinner so I know your real" Then we can discuss arrangements over dinner.

I am not paying someone to "talk" get the f out of here with that bs. But I guess some guys are really paying. Lot of those girls will only do dinner and never sex. Dinner hwhores. They read blogs and think they never have to put out. SA themselves sell the dream to these girls. You will see most drop out after a couple weeks because reality starts hitting them. There are a few whales out there that the hot ones get but not that many guys are whales. The real money guys don't go on SA. And cyber relationship only drives me crazy. Ok rant for day over.[/QUOTE]Rant is ok. I added to my profile on wyp that our initial meet should be a token fee to discuss future dates. This is to inform that I don't do 300 $ dinner dates. Now, if I get those offers, I just click the ignore button which cancels their offer. Likewise, if I send out an offer and they don't answer or state a huge number, I cancel it. It weeds out the scammers and the wannabes. Further, if you see a babe out there who seems to good to be true, avoid her as it's a scammer. Hot ones do ok on their own. Just common sense not to chase the model types.

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;4922815]Rant is ok. I added to my profile on wyp that our initial meet should be a token fee to discuss future dates.
BMD.[/QUOTE]Exactly right!

Keeps those girls that think they can make a living by going to dinner away from you.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;4922981]Exactly right!

Keeps those girls that think they can make a living by going to dinner away from you.[/QUOTE]This is really why I stay away from WYP and stick to SA. It's more clear cut. When you do start communication with someone, I don't have to worry about credits and I'm straight forward in what I want when I get them to text me.

I really don't see what advantage WYP has over SA.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4923508]This is really why I stay away from WYP and stick to SA. It's more clear cut. When you do start communication with someone, I don't have to worry about credits and I'm straight forward in what I want when I get them to text me.

I really don't see what advantage WYP has over SA.[/QUOTE]Not any advantages, just differences. My approach with SA (and others do this as well) is to get a few good contacts with a one month membership. With WYP, you can use credits over a long period of time, so its not a chat / text barrage for 4 weeks.

I have been very successful on both sites. Neither is better than the other, mostly scammers, pic sellers and people who think platonic relationships are worth a lot of $ on both sites.

Just started chatting. She hasn't given me any figures yet but I'm on high alert cause pics look too good to be true.

PM if need be.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4926380]Just started chatting. She hasn't given me any figures yet but I'm on high alert cause pics look too good to be true.

PM if need be.[/QUOTE]Curious looking. You seem to be high roller or not afraid to go up. What range are you normally settling on for a PPM with sex etc. With these girls lately?

I am finding it harder and harder for the 150-250 range. GPS everywhere. I think one poster mentioned the covid might have made things worse with more mongers on the site throwing around stupid money.

Hood rats seem to be best option.

[QUOTE=Steve99;4926652]Curious looking. You seem to be high roller or not afraid to go up. What range are you normally settling on for a PPM with sex etc. With these girls lately?

I am finding it harder and harder for the 150-250 range. GPS everywhere. I think one poster mentioned the covid might have made things worse with more mongers on the site throwing around stupid money.

Hood rats seem to be best option.[/QUOTE]To get what I want, I don't have a budget. Now before the rest of you idiots comment. That is for when I find a diamond in the rough. If I'm shelling out more than 400 a date, I am making a bunch of demands and one of those is exclusivity. I don't like to share.

For the most part, I stick to sub300 just cause of time and driving distance. They get what they want, it's easier for me to get what I want.

That being said, I have two 18 year olds that I'm rotating that get a benji when ever they see me, are happy with it because that's what they asked for and are all mine. And that I got all on being a handsome m'fer and knowing how to negiote and being smooth.

So really anything is possible, but it does require vast amounts of time and effort. And maybe even a little luck.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4926692]
So really anything is possible, but it does require vast amounts of time and effort. And maybe even a little luck.[/QUOTE]Truth.

I have had luck with very nice girls in 150-200 per meet. Just be very business like about the negotiations. Don't be a jerk about it and be prepared to walk away if you are not able to agree. You may have to talk to lots of girls over a period of time.

I have had some girls contact me weeks later, agreeing to my price. Its rare, but can happen when they find out they are pricing themselves out of the market.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;4926724]Truth.

I have had luck with very nice girls in 150-200 per meet. Just be very business like about the negotiations. Don't be a jerk about it and be prepared to walk away if you are not able to agree. You may have to talk to lots of girls over a period of time.

I have had some girls contact me weeks later, agreeing to my price. Its rare, but can happen when they find out they are pricing themselves out of the market.[/QUOTE]Same with me. I have been off and on for many years. Before it got popular. Just seems it gets worse every year. This summer the pickings have been horrible for me. Guess just a rough patch.

So true on vast amounts of time. Thats why you have to take breaks. It is not healthy texting 50 girls to weed down to 10 to weed down to 2. LOL. Drives you nuts. I just won't go over 250 out of principle. I travel overseas a lot so I think that is a plane ticket to DR etc that I just wasted on a USA sugar girl couple hours if we talking 300 and up.

I also don't have patience for the ones who want to date 3 or 4 times and want it to happen naturally. Those could turn into diamonds but I just can't do it. If we arent at hotel by second date. I check out.

Good example of someone who could be great. But she isn't going to jump into bed. Looks hot though. Too much effort:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/94f89f57-773e-4107-b9bc-761f0632ec3f[/URL]

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4926380]Just started chatting. She hasn't given me any figures yet but I'm on high alert cause pics look too good to be true.

PM if need be.[/QUOTE]I'm willing to bet she's a fake, scammer, or spammer. I've yet to meet anyone there using the location of CT, CT. They don't put a city because they're too lazy to lookup any city.

I'll usually reach to them for a chat. After a few exchanges, I'll suggest a meet at a place or restaurant and time of their choice. Do that and you'll get radio silence. The scammers have no answer so the jig is up and they move on to their next mark. I've been on there off and on for more than 3 years. Try my test and you'll see. 😉.

BMD.

So my month is up I have decided not to renew. I'm going to take a break. This past month was by far the worst of any month I have been on that site. I have encountered more scams and fakes in the last 30 days then in the last year together. I met with in person only two ladies. One was a hot blonde from West Hartford but we didn't click. Never even talked money. The second was a few days after my ranting post about pink sugar and how much $$$ she was looking for. Her number I still have any plan on meeting with eventually. The second woman I met turn out to be a sweet sexy MILF and we clicked so well but it was free. My only expense was the hotel room. We have an ongoing thing now. She's the perfect side chick.

Some funny things that did happened. I was talking with a couple women that I had apparently banged six plus months ago and they had to remind me of the fact. One even told me I only gave her 60 bucks! LOL talk about a cheap bastard. Another old friend I tried hooking up with again but she unfortunately she reads the boards now (thanks to the ass) and knows what a sick dirty bastard I truly am! LOL.

Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4927793]So my month is up I have decided not to renew. I'm going to take a break. This past month was by far the worst of any month I have been on that site. I have encountered more scams and fakes in the last 30 days then in the last year together.[/QUOTE]I'm in the same boat. I had high hopes for this summer. I may try again a month into the fall semester and try to land a college coed but for now I'll stick to what I was able to get.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4927841]I'm in the same boat. I had high hopes for this summer. I may try again a month into the fall semester and try to land a college coed but for now I'll stick to what I was able to get[/QUOTE]Much of how piss poor the experiences on this site are right now has to do with females heading back to college, this has been a yearly phenom where as they get ready to go back to school the behavior is crazy with insane requests, no follow up on convos etc, just alot with IDGAF attitudes. Once Colleges start back up the ones that are flakes will largely clear out and go back to school and the ones left tend to be the ones really looking for a daddy of sorts.

Says yes to anything and pics look good, but wants 100 before a meet.

Blocked and I'll move along.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ba57d5a-638c-4ada-816a-4bfaf1956635[/URL]

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4928169]Says yes to anything and pics look good, but wants 100 before a meet.

Blocked and I'll move along.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ba57d5a-638c-4ada-816a-4bfaf1956635[/URL][/QUOTE]She's moved along, too. Down to Charlestown, South Carolina. Good riddance to yet another scammer. I hope you reported her.

BMD.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4927841]I'm in the same boat. I had high hopes for this summer. I may try again a month into the fall semester and try to land a college coed but for now I'll stick to what I was able to get.[/QUOTE]I'm kind of pissed because I joined back up again recently and my inbox is dry. Nothing like it was before the pandemic.

Based near Stamford, this lovely lady just needs to have her meet and greet covered. You know, to know you're serious about her.

Pass.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16c723c7-12b9-42f4-8957-7938c536bab6[/URL]

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4932592]Based near Stamford, this lovely lady just needs to have her meet and greet covered. You know, to know you're serious about her.

Pass.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16c723c7-12b9-42f4-8957-7938c536bab6[/URL][/QUOTE]You should have played along and had her meet you there. The way I figure, if these girls are going to waste our time with this crap, we may as well have a little fun with it. If a girl asks you to send her some money via cashapp before meeting up, play along and act like you're having technical difficulties sending the money. Then tell her you can send it via Western Union but you need to know her real name. If she gives it to you great. Make up some fake Western Union receipt and have her go to some location only to find out the transaction is fake.

Objects in mirror may be larger than they appear.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7a2b57dc-9884-45c0-aeb2-b7f0270e3f74[/URL]