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[QUOTE=Golfcart;1363931]This seems to be the modern method the modern woman uses to say good bye. It sends a clear message and avoids drama.[/QUOTE]Before we excoriate these babies for hiding behind their technological cloak of invisibility, shouldn't we all admit that we have donned that same garment ourselves once or twice? It only stings if you're the one getting slapped. This from a man, I will freely admit, who seems to be getting slapped at the moment, but in stages.
[QUOTE=Golfcart;1363931]This seems to be the modern method the modern woman uses to say good bye. It sends a clear message and avoids drama.[/QUOTE]This is the standard break-up method I use when I'm dating a civilian. If I've only banged a girl a couple times, and I don't really like her or respect her, I'll just stop returning phone calls and texts. They almost always get the message.
Of course, if I've known her longer and we've developed a friendship, then I treat them with more respect. But that's because I like her.
As for sugar babies, it pretty much operates the same way. Communication only happens for logistical purposes or to check availability. When communication stops, it's not personal. Just business.
But I've been in a few situations where a sugar baby turned into a genuine friend and girlfriend / lover (who stopped asking for money) , and the breakups eventually had all the drama of a normal civilian breakup.
[QUOTE=F Scott;1363880]Don't even contemplate paying to be a member of whatever site you are referring to here.[/QUOTE]An interesting observation. Even more interesting: before I'd paid to join SA, before I even had a pic posted, I was got at least two "winks". So yeah, a lot of sites use fake profiles to "robo-respond" to guys to get them to join up (been there, done that too) , that doesn't mean they're all fakes. I'm also not sure all the profiles on SA are "real" either, given some of the experiences I've had there already, which brings me to the question part of the post.
I had one SB who contacted me fairly early on. The usual drill: wink, message, response, more messages, more responses. In this case, though, the SB sent me an email address and asked if I'd 'contact her off the site'. Past experience has taught me that this is usually Step #1 to getting you to sign up for a pay-per-view porn site or a "cam show" site. I sent her a response back indicating taht I'd be happy to keep discussing matters, if she'd stick with the site email service. Haven't heard from her since, so now to the question for the experts: did I guess right, or did I run off a HYB who might happily have met me for several hours worth of sweaty fun?
I have only been at this about 1 month but have few observations from my time on SA.
Good luck with taking them off the site to my email account or fun phone. Then eventually we connect up. They really seem to like the phone call after a few texts.
Yes a bunch of pros and semi-pros on SA but have 4 on the hook right now who are not. Of course only one to the FC so we shall see. Talk is cheap but results count!
It is alot of work, time, etc trying to reel them in. It certainly is not like a pro. And time counts for $$
CL worthless where I am.
I openly list in my profile I am married. While only one has openly said no married guys I wonder if that keeps the young stuff away. But I want them to know upfront NSA so get it in the open
Happy hunting
[QUOTE=Castlerae; 1364577]An interesting observation. Even more interesting: before I'd paid to join SA, before I even had a pic posted, I was got at least two "winks". So yeah, a lot of sites use fake profiles to "robo-respond" to guys to get them to join up (been there, done that too) , that doesn't mean they're all fakes. I'm also not sure all the profiles on SA are "real" either, given some of the experiences I've had there already, which brings me to the question part of the post.
I had one SB who contacted me fairly early on. The usual drill: wink, message, response, more messages, more responses. In this case, though, the SB sent me an email address and asked if I'd 'contact her off the site'. Past experience has taught me that this is usually Step #1 to getting you to sign up for a pay-per-view porn site or a "cam show" site. I sent her a response back indicating taht I'd be happy to keep discussing matters, if she'd stick with the site email service. Haven't heard from her since, so now to the question for the experts: did I guess right, or did I run off a HYB who might happily have met me for several hours worth of sweaty fun?[/QUOTE]Castle,
I think you might, and I stress might, have blown it. I make it standard operating procedure to move communications off of the site and onto a dedicated yahoo email. I do this for a couple of reasons: I think it makes it seem more personal and less anonymous, and if I decide to let my subscription lapse, I have a way to keep in contact. The fact that she did not respond further might not necessarily mean she was trying to lure you onto a cam-site; you may have just scared her off. They can be skittish, these babies.
My question to you is, what did you have to lose to take it one step further? The come-on, if it was a scam, would have been apparent fairly quickly. Don't loose any sleep over it, though. There are plenty of babies just around the corner.
Scott
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1364880]Castle,
My question to you is, what did you have to lose to take it one step further? The come-on, if it was a scam, would have been apparent fairly quickly. Don't loose any sleep over it, though. There are plenty of babies just around the corner.
Scott[/QUOTE]Again, from past experience, once I've had an email address "in play" as far as pay-per-view porn and cam shows go, what usually happens next was lots and lots of spam from similar sites. I have had to abandon more than a couple of email accounts for just this reason. Yes, I know, yahoo and the rest have plenty more free email accounts available, it's just the hassle of having to set up yet-another disposable email account tha makes it something I don't like to do if I don't have to. Not all of the SB's seem to need to move things off-site, as I'm supposed to meet one tomorrow for lunch for a preliminary meeting. She was more than happy to set arrangements up through the site, so I'll go meet her and see what happens. If the first one was legit, well, as you said, there others out there, so she'll just be one that got away.
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1363880]Snake,
As I have said previously, SA is, for me, the sine qua non of SB sites. Sugardaddy4me is second, but in my area at least the babies on that site were a little skankier, with the exception of one little fish that I could never convince to rise to my presentation. I kept renewing in the hopes that I could lure her to the net, but alas, no joy. If you review the thread, you will find that these two sites are the odds-on favorites, with SD4M being hard to cancel, and therefore perhaps the slightly less desirable of the two. Browse them both and go with the one that has the most intriguing babies in your area and in your opinion.
Scott[/QUOTE]Also don't forget, sugardaddie dot com. I use both it and SA. Most of my success has been with sugardaddie, it has an instant chat feature and they do not auto-bill.
BigTigg
[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1366272]Also don't forget, sugardaddie dot com. I use both it and SA. Most of my success has been with sugardaddie, it has an instant chat feature and they do not auto-bill.
BigTigg[/QUOTE]Tigg, once you join is there a way to narrow the geographic area of the search on sugardaddie? Or is the best you can do is search by the entire state?
Well, the first meeting went off, and not well. The girl was quite nice looking, and friendly enough, but once the preliminaries were out of the way and we started talking about arrangements, it became clear she wanted sugar first, and a good deal of it, but when it came down to what I might get in return for my investment, it came down to nothing. Yeah, I feel sorry for her, and times are tough, but for the amount of cash she was wanting ($$$/wk) , I'd expect more than the chance to have lunch with her (all she'd commit to) on weekends.
Oh well, on to the next one.
[QUOTE=Spitfire;1366426]Tigg, once you join is there a way to narrow the geographic area of the search on sugardaddie? Or is the best you can do is search by the entire state?[/QUOTE]No, unfortunately not, their search stinks. I hate that you can't use zip codes or search within a radius.
JT
Two favorite sites of mine:
[url]http://www.betterbidding.com/[/url]
That gives you the inside deal on the winning bids from Priceline and Hotwire.
And.
[url]https://www.torproject.org/[/url]
[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1361746]Don't forget Hotwire, I'm a walking advertisement for them.
Examples:
Maryland Holiday Inn. $57 per night (Got 2 nights and hit 2 different SBs)
Maryland Candlewood Suites. $54.
Maryland Westin. $72.
New Jersery Sheraton. $89.
Maryland Hyatt Regency. $94 (This was less than 50% of published price)
Philadelphia Embassy Suites. $83 (Another great deal) [/QUOTE]
Gentlemen,
A sugar brother who has requested anonymity sent me a pm recently, part of which I am quoting here: "In reading one of the sugar baby blogs, a very interesting website was mentioned that I checked out today and nearly wet myself. Have you ever heard of pipl. Com? It is a people search website, but, unlike other site's I have seen, this one has tons of information (read: of the incriminating type) available to the casual surfer without even getting into the purchasing of Archive. Com or the like. And I know this because I checked on myself, just using first and last names. Yikes! Everything, including EVERY addressed I have ever lived at, including the current one! Wife's name, my work place, everything! This is very disturbing even if I wasn't a player! All a disgruntled baby would need is the name off of a receipt, vehicle registration, credit card, etc and she would know everything. Not good! I know you preach the message of keeping sterile but it would only take one slip up. So, along with passing along this, I would ask if it is possible to erase this crap! Some sort of application, one time eraser service, something? Possibly one of the mongering crew would know."
I pipled myself, and he's right! Fortunately there are a lot of guys with my name across the country, and even quite a few in my area (who knew?) , but still, the potential for mayhem by an angry baby is out there. Does anyone know of an erasing service, as he suggests?
I will copy this post to the "Legal issues" thread as well.
Best,
Scott
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1368663]Does anyone know of an erasing service, as he suggests?
I will copy this post to the "Legal issues" thread as well.
Best,
Scott[/QUOTE]FScott,
Good post! Scary shit! When you pipl someone there is a link to remove the data from the internet that takes you here.
[url]https://www.reputation.com/myprivacy[/url]
Sounds like it might provide what you are looking for. I would still be interested in someone who has first had knowledge.
LL
Gentlemen,
I had an interesting and kind of thrilling-in-a-dangerous-sort-of-way experience the other evening that I thought I might share with you. I'm not sure that there is any immediately relevant take-away to my tale, but here it is nonetheless.
I was having dinner with the family at a restaurant in the city and who should walk in, (with an obvious SD, may I say) , than one of my previously-fucked babies! The hostess guided the pair directly past our table, and she and I had several long seconds of direct eye contact, so there was no way she did not recognize me, nor I her. As best as I could interpret the look in her eyes, it was "well, well, fancy seeing you here." Needless to say, my head was swimming and my gut was icy, at least at first. Oddly, the noise in the restaurant also seemed to disappear, at least for a minute or two, to be replaced by the loud pounding of my heart.
I was pretty sure she would not make any kind of scene, as we had parted on friendly enough terms, so I was mostly concentrating on getting my various bodily functions under control, staying present in the conversation that was going on at my table, and crafting a set of responses to various scenarios if she did happen to come over to our table to say hello. Fortunately, nothing happened, but I swear I could feel her eyes on the back of my head the rest of the meal. It is a surreal experience to be both in your body and outside of it, watching yourself, in this instance, eat a meal and making sure what you are doing looks normal. I have to say it was kind of a rush, but I recognize I am only saying that because nothing catastrophic occurred, thank you baby Jesus.
On the drive home, I was grateful that my SD profile name bears no resemblance at all to my real name, and that I have tried through all of my fishing to keep a consistent, and completely misleading identity as far as all my baby activities are concerned. So far, at least, so good.
At the end of the evening, as we were getting ready for bed, my SO asked if I had noticed the young woman and her much-older date that were sitting at a table behind me. I made some non-committal response, and she went on to tell me that they were all over each other all evening long, and how disgusting it was. "He was old enough to be her father" was one of the phrases used, if memory serves. As I sympathized with her, I secretly indulged in the memory of me fucking that baby with her legs over my shoulders and her hands pulling my hips into her, hard. It was a heady brew, my brothers, but only because there was no painful tab to be paid at the end of the evening.
I guess if there is any moral to this story, it is this: remember to always stay in character with your babies, never willingly reveal your true identity, and try to part on good terms.
Keep up the good work, my brothers, and don't forget to write.
Scott
Guys, just be aware than in many cases, sites like pipl are run by the reputation-defender company; the pipl site's purpose is to drive business to the defender company. I've heard both good and not-so-good results out of these reputation companies. YMMV, so keep your expectations in check.