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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7137930]The perennial question. For a long time, OneVanilla was the brand to use. That is impossible to find now, and may not work.
Currently, prepaid debit cards issued by Blackhawk are reliable. Find them in Lowes, Home Depot, or Gelson's.[/QUOTE]These do work for seeking but not secret benefits. Do you use that too by any chance? Been trying to find ones that work there.
If you've got a regular, you need to get her a Christmas present. I wasn't able to see mine this week and I am traveling for the holiday, but I went by her apartment yesterday and left a Christmas card that include a Benji, and a Sephora gift card. I later got a text 'Such a sweet and thoughtful surprise!! I'm so not used to receiving gifts and that just made my day!' That is, many of these girls are not used to any sort of nice treatment from men, and a little goes a long way. I took that girl a Ralph's bouquet the first FC (she hosts), and she just has a great attitude from that. She isn't clingy, but she really feels like she has something, which makes the arrangement very workable for me.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7138805]If you've got a regular, you need to get her a Christmas present. I wasn't able to see mine this week and I am traveling for the holiday, but I went by her apartment yesterday and left a Christmas card that include a Benji, and a Sephora gift card. I later got a text 'Such a sweet and thoughtful surprise!! I'm so not used to receiving gifts and that just made my day!' That is, many of these girls are not used to any sort of nice treatment from men, and a little goes a long way. I took that girl a Ralph's bouquet the first FC (she hosts), and she just has a great attitude from that. She isn't clingy, but she really feels like she has something, which makes the arrangement very workable for me.[/QUOTE]Being nice really goes a long way.
[QUOTE=FabricBuster;7138158]These do work for seeking but not secret benefits. Do you use that too by any chance? Been trying to find ones that work there.[/QUOTE]Several posters on other sugar threads say that Secret Benefits is a scam. There are no real women on there. They paid, messaged them, and never go replies. YMMV.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7137930]The perennial question. For a long time, OneVanilla was the brand to use. That is impossible to find now, and may not work.
Currently, prepaid debit cards issued by Blackhawk are reliable. Find them in Lowes, Home Depot, or Gelson's.[/QUOTE]Do you have to register all pre-paid debit cards? What do you put in for name and address on seeking?
Wondering if anyone has any insight on this one.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddy.com/next/profile/ec0f91270dd62936[/URL]
I've been texting with this one for a little while now. She seems nice and is willing to meet at her place. Any intel before we meet would be appreciated.
[QUOTE=PlFouru99;7140102]Wondering if anyone has any insight on this one.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddy.com/next/profile/ec0f91270dd62936[/URL]
I've been texting with this one for a little while now. She seems nice and is willing to meet at her place. Any intel before we meet would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Interesting. Site is a Rebrand of secretbenefits. There are occasionally legit people there. I like that she's verified. She looks familiar but not sure if I've seen her on Seeking. Obviously, Public meet first to make sure she's not whack in person. Please report back with Intel.
[QUOTE=CouldntBeMe;7140227]Interesting. Site is a Rebrand of secretbenefits. There are occasionally legit people there. I like that she's verified. She looks familiar but not sure if I've seen her on Seeking. Obviously, Public meet first to make sure she's not whack in person. Please report back with Intel.[/QUOTE]Looks like Ariana Grande if she was born with fetal alcohol syndrome. I like it.
[QUOTE=CouldntBeMe;7140227]Interesting. Site is a Rebrand of secretbenefits. There are occasionally legit people there. I like that she's verified. She looks familiar but not sure if I've seen her on Seeking. Obviously, Public meet first to make sure she's not whack in person. Please report back with Intel.[/QUOTE][URL]SugarDaddy.com[/URL] and [URL]SecretBenefits.com[/URL] are the exact same site, just different domains. You can even interchange the domain in the URL. . .
[URL]https://www.sugardaddy.com/next/profile/ec0f91270dd62936[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ec0f91270dd62936[/URL]
I am a member of secretbenefits, and never heard of [URL]sugardaddy.com[/URL] — until a girl I eventually got to texting with offline sent me a screenshot of my message to her with that URL.
By the way, she is real. And hot. While we haven't spent time BCD yet, we did have a M&G, and are working towards BCD. Crossing my fingers, anyways.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;7140805][URL]SugarDaddy.com[/URL] and [URL]SecretBenefits.com[/URL] are the exact same site, just different domains. You can even interchange the domain in the URL. . .
[URL]https://www.sugardaddy.com/next/profile/ec0f91270dd62936[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ec0f91270dd62936[/URL][/QUOTE]
Still trying to get back on seeking.
Using a VPN now.
But how do you get around the membership payment.
Where you have to put a name and address tied to.
The debit card?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7139096]Several posters on other sugar threads say that Secret Benefits is a scam. There are no real women on there. They paid, messaged them, and never go replies. YMMV.[/QUOTE]I repeatedly see this, but I've had real successes with SecretBenefits. Actually seeing a woman I met on there this weekend for our first overnight in fact. I do think the sign up process for women must be easier on SB because I have encountered more flakes, but they're real people who are flakes, as opposed to bots or scams. As always, YMWV.
Don't be surprised if they require for some form of verification before they publish your profile.
I haven't paid in a long time, maybe 5 months, but browse often.
The other day their system required me to update my stagnant profile and use one of their verification methods — I chose Facebook, which required you to log into a FB account, so you might want to make sure you have one set up. The other options were LinkedIn, I'd or photo, so be prepared just in case.
[QUOTE=MrBlueSea;7141567]Still trying to get back on seeking.
Using a VPN now.
But how do you get around the membership payment.
Where you have to put a name and address tied to.
The debit card?[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/98bf3fc2-db48-4fcd-bfee-9b7160926fed[/URL]
Has anyone fucked Isabelle recently and has intel on her current rates? She seems to have changed her number from when I saw her two years ago would appreciate a hookup.
There is a film out by this name.
It is about a woman who needs to be submissive and has an affair to do it.
Given the common motivation of sugarbabies to be submissive, it might be entertaining, relevant, and illuminating.
The LA Times has a review today that analyzes the film from the perspective of a sex therapist. Sorta informative.