"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;2586235]I put more weight into what they say in their profile about being spoiled and treated like the "queen" or "princess" "that I know I am". If they talk mostly all things they want without what they offer than I tend to move on. Many don't understand the allowance expectations. I've had several with moderate to high expectations on their profile that were ultimately very reasonable.[/QUOTE]I've found the ones who sound like a PITA from their profile always are once you get to know them better. Amazing what you can tell about someone from a brief self-summary.

[QUOTE=Helion;2586270]Guys I appreciate the feedback. I actually asked her for a divorce in May and she wants to keep the marriage. She asked me to work through the issues over the summer. We have made some good progress. However some issues remain unresolved. I know I am tossing something good. However, I do not like being underground.
[/QUOTE]I can definitely relate to the part about not wanting to be underground. I hate looking over my shoulder or living life with a less than clear conscience. I just got the impression your case was unique due to her giving you a free pass. If you feel it's not really a free pass in the true sense, then I suppose that's a different case. I will say that all relationships have issues.

What I like to do in these situations is take a break from whatever is pulling me in the opposite direction. If you separate yourself from the bowl for a while and still feel the same way, you'll feel a lot better about proceeding with the divorce. Otherwise it's not going to feel the same being an SD with lots of freedoms. Sneaking and the risk is part of the fun that feeds the addiction.

Drugs, alcohol, gambling and sex. Whenever a man's life is ruined, it almost always comes down to one of those four factors or a combination of them. Make sure none of those four are a factor in your reason for making big life decisions. It's perfectly feasible to be unhappy in a marriage and end it on those terms -- just don't let one of the four evil addictions be the reason.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2586283]I can definitely relate to the part about not wanting to be underground. I hate looking over my shoulder or living life with a less than clear conscience. I just got the impression your case was unique due to her giving you a free pass. If you feel it's not really a free pass in the true sense, then I suppose that's a different case. I will say that all relationships have issues.

What I like to do in these situations is take a break from whatever is pulling me in the opposite direction. If you separate yourself from the bowl for a while and still feel the same way, you'll feel a lot better about proceeding with the divorce. Otherwise it's not going to feel the same being an SD with lots of freedoms. Sneaking and the risk is part of the fun that feeds the addiction.

Drugs, alcohol, gambling and sex. Whenever a man's life is ruined, it almost always comes down to one of those four factors or a combination of them. Make sure none of those four are a factor in your reason for making big life decisions. It's perfectly feasible to be unhappy in a marriage and end it on those terms -- just don't let one of the four evil addictions be the reason.[/QUOTE]Thanks for being frank about it. You are right. My head is a little clouded. She gets home Monday from a month long trip. We'll see how it all goes. The summer she asked me for is over.

I know in her mind it is a free pass. However, I think she has no real idea how this hobbying world works. Somehow I think she imagines I am hooking up in hotels on the road for one night stands. Not farming for SB's and UTR escorts.

[QUOTE=Helion;2586270]Guys I appreciate the feedback. I actually asked her for a divorce in May and she wants to keep the marriage. She asked me to work through the issues over the summer. We have made some good progress.

If any of you are interested. I created a blog on this story line starting in April.

[URL]www.theunexpectedhobbyist.com[/URL]

Stop by, but no haters please. LOL.[/QUOTE]Fantastic! I'm loving your blog and am going to work my way through. Good job! What is your budget? It seems rather high for me but we can each enjoy what we can afford.

[QUOTE=GuyWoodson;2586071]The latest reports seem to indicate that this is yet another scam data dump:

"There's definitely not credit card information, because we don't store that," Bhatia said. "We use transaction IDs, just like every other PCI compliant merchant processor.

If there is full credit card data in a dump, it's not from us, because we don't even have that. When someone completes a payment, what happens is from our payment processor.

We get a transaction I'd back. That's the only piece of information linking to a customer or consumer of ours.

If someone is releasing credit card data, that's not from us. We don't have that in our databases or our own systems. ".

[URL]https://krebsonsecurity.com/2015/08/was-the-ashley-madison-database-leaked/[/URL][/QUOTE]AM is using FUD to limit the damage. My pseudonym and the various fake addresses I used are in the dump as is my profile and burner email.

It is true that they did not store the actual credit card numbers. They did store the IP address, AVS address (postal address), and email address for each transaction. You'd have to use your real address for AVS to pass (if you were using your actual credit card). The fact that the actual numbers aren't there just means nothing. The credit card dump is from March 2008 until the end of June 2015.

What's most interesting is that they also dumped a large number of corporate docs. I haven't looked through these as I've no time. I fully expect Wire / ArsTech to be writing stories if there's anything juicy in them.

[QUOTE=Helion;2586270]Guys I appreciate the feedback. I actually asked her for a divorce in May and she wants to keep the marriage. She asked me to work through the issues over the summer. We have made some good progress. However some issues remain unresolved. I know I am tossing something good. However, I do not like being underground. Our marriage was built on more than that. I would rather leave and take it on the chin than keep sneaking around for the next 20 years. I am to the point where I want to take a SB away for the weekend, and I'd have to tell the wife, hey honey stay home, it's a business retreat. Don't want to live like that. Rather go our separate ways and try to be friends.

Financially, my risk is limited in a divorce. No kids. No substantial assets and she does not qualify for alimony because she has good job skills and earns equal to me. We live in a no fault divorce state. The biggest pain will be selling our house, splitting any equity, etc.

However all that being said, I think this is good advice you guys are giving. Don't jump the gun, Don't throw a way a good thing and Clear your head of the hot pussy before making any big decisions. Thanks for speaking up.

If any of you are interested. I created a blog on this story line starting in April.

[URL]www.theunexpectedhobbyist.com[/URL]

Stop by, but no haters please. LOL.[/QUOTE]Are the "Gallery" pics your conquests? If so. Some nice white meat there. LOL.

[QUOTE=BikeRider;2586360]AM is using FUD to limit the damage. My pseudonym and the various fake addresses I used are in the dump as is my profile and burner email.

It is true that they did not store the actual credit card numbers. They did store the IP address, AVS address (postal address), and email address for each transaction. You'd have to use your real address for AVS to pass (if you were using your actual credit card). The fact that the actual numbers aren't there just means nothing. The credit card dump is from March 2008 until the end of June 2015.

What's most interesting is that they also dumped a large number of corporate docs. I haven't looked through these as I've no time. I fully expect Wire / ArsTech to be writing stories if there's anything juicy in them.[/QUOTE]haveibeenpwned.com will let you check your e-mail address for presence in most of the made-public hacked lists (including one of the AFF leaks). I don't think they have added the AM data to it yet.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2586364]Are the "Gallery" pics your conquests? If so. Some nice white meat there. LOL.[/QUOTE]Yes, most of them are conquests. A few of them are on my honey-to-do list for the rest of this year. I have been living the high life. .

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2586315]Fantastic! I'm loving your blog and am going to work my way through. Good job! What is your budget? It seems rather high for me but we can each enjoy what we can afford.[/QUOTE]Thanks Man. That's high praise.

My budget is $2k - $3k / month.

I live in a cheaper market and usually pay $200 per naked date (min 2 hrs) with SBs and $200/ hr for escorting. I also travel out out of the country a bit. Amsterdam and Manila are super cheap.

Seriously, I was planning to let my SA subscription lapse about a week from now when it expires. I am literally logging off to go to bed. Early flight tomorrow. Lo and behold check out what pops into my inbox unsolicited. She loves my profile and would like to get to know me a little. Paula the Columbian nursing student. With an intelligent, witty profile. Oh my. We are having dinner Friday night. I am a rat fucking bastard.

You blog is fucking awesome! Keep it cumming! LOL.

[QUOTE=Helion;2586270]Guys I appreciate the feedback. I actually asked her for a divorce in May and she wants to keep the marriage. She asked me to work through the issues over the summer. We have made some good progress. However some issues remain unresolved. I know I am tossing something good. However, I do not like being underground. Our marriage was built on more than that. I would rather leave and take it on the chin than keep sneaking around for the next 20 years. I am to the point where I want to take a SB away for the weekend, and I'd have to tell the wife, hey honey stay home, it's a business retreat. Don't want to live like that. Rather go our separate ways and try to be friends.

Financially, my risk is limited in a divorce. No kids. No substantial assets and she does not qualify for alimony because she has good job skills and earns equal to me. We live in a no fault divorce state. The biggest pain will be selling our house, splitting any equity, etc.

However all that being said, I think this is good advice you guys are giving. Don't jump the gun, Don't throw a way a good thing and Clear your head of the hot pussy before making any big decisions. Thanks for speaking up.

If any of you are interested. I created a blog on this story line starting in April.

[URL]www.theunexpectedhobbyist.com[/URL]

Stop by, but no haters please. LOL.[/QUOTE]

The blog is cool. But you really need to remove the affiliate marketing ads to make it more legitimate. I could do the same thing on the 5 steps site but I intentionally don't... so as to maintain the integrity of the site. (and I work for every dating site on the net)

In fact it might even be against USASG terms and conditions to post a link to a marketing site of any kind as there is a built in conflict of interest working against USASG's advertisers. You are advertising for free on a site that is in the same vertical as USASG. People in the affiliate marketing world consider that stealing.

I don't think they would be happy if your ads were for Life Insurance, but the fact that they are for a potential USASG advertiser is really crossing the line. Now if you asked their permission and they agreed that's another story. Or if they agreed to reciprocating display ads. Meaning you could convince them that it would be in their best interest if you had links or display ads on your site that linked back to their site. But I don't see that happening either. It's more of a land grab.

Not the most above board move.
And heavily frowned upon in the affiliate and display ad marketing industry.

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So you can remove the ads from your blog or they will most likely delete all your posts and maybe even terminate your membership.

But getting back to pussy. I am getting a ton of it. i did eight different girls so far this month. And still have the virgin camped out in my FC although not for its intended purpose.

I also have a POT on SA that wants to see me for free as she is a bit deviant and maybe a 6 in looks but I give her a 7 as she is only 18. I had one of these before on SA. I did about 10 dates with her. So I told her maybe I would meet her after a skype to really check her out first as she is kinda far away, like 45 minutes away.

My new bi pixie came over today for date number three and it lasted about 4 hours with about half of that going to playtime. The vigin has actually upped my game, just having her here makes the other girls more turned on.

[QUOTE=Helion;2586491]Thanks Man. That's high praise.

My budget is $2k - $3k / month.

I live in a cheaper market and usually pay $200 per naked date (min 2 hrs) with SBs and $200/ hr for escorting. I also travel out out of the country a bit. Amsterdam and Manila are super cheap.[/QUOTE]Really enjoyed the blog. That is a very nice budget to work with.

So you typically pay $400 per escort session? $200 per hour and you usually book 2 hr right?