With half a brain and a computer one can find all sorts of things
[QUOTE=MisterMajor;3260704]You said "OUR" reviews, so why are you here? I suspect the only way LEO would know about this site is from a SNITCH. The providers are certainly not going to report themselves.[/QUOTE]People caught by LEO and others will sing to save their own skins. Depending upon how much time you want to invest in it anyone can find out all kinds of things. Most girls / guys have used their phone number, handle, email or something else somewhere else. Was bored several years ago and just kept searching and then searching what I found from that, kept fishing and found some more. One self proclaimed stl social butterfly information led me to plenty on her mother, dead sister, couple of boyfriends / pimps, dad in some rest home, photos of her teenage daughter, ebay account, HS reunion page, arrest / court records. Nothing is as safe as you think it might be on the internet with simple google searches. BIL got caught by his SO because he thought she was naive re computer and mobile phone. And apparently stupid too. Boy was he wrong. I only found out about all of this as I got to observe his SO systematically go through everything he ever had on old & new phones, computers, credit card statements and more. She spent hours and hours searching multiple local / national hobby and verification boards and put together boxes of printed evidence (text and photos) used in her emotional and financial infidelity lawsuit against him. She's got a rich boyfriend and he's got nothing. Biggest mistake he made was to keep denying and lying about it all. She was more pissed off about the lying than the fucking. He got hit with emotional distress for her and the kids too, lost everything. Was involved on many levels with dozens of people so might have had more information than most.
Semi-retired, getting out of my own mess of a relationship so I don't have anything to lose but my dignity at this time. If I was married and trying to keep this thing a secret I would stay far far away from posting on message boards and if you do make sure it isn't something that won't rip the guts out of your loved ones when it surfaces. It isn't pretty when it happens.