"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2579048]Sir Richard is the "only" larger condom I have been able to find. Forget magnum if you want a truly comfortable fit. Try Kimono brand ultra thin if you want the Magnum size but with more sensitivity. I just tried everything out there recently due to an STD scare. Those are my findings. And be safe. I am sticking closer than ever to my regs due to recent health concerns (the std scare and my bad foot). And I am keeping some condoms bedside in case I decide to try a random sketchy girl again. The only downside is all the uber's. But at least I got them all coming to me now. As I have no other choice anyway. Driving still is rather difficult beyond a mile or two.

Side note. My Virgin (yes she is still here) has seen me fuck 5 different girls in the last 5 days. The one last nite ( my x ) offered to eat her pussy with no reciprocation. She just giggled and then went out so we could be alone.

I haven't seen my little church girl in 2 months. Today I asked her to be exclusive to me and she said she could do that but wanted to know if she could still date young guys. "Because you know young guys are so impressionable and will spend $$ on a meal for a girl they barely know. lol. They can be so stupid sometimes".

The morning call with my stripper x who is now back went well. She wants to be a dirty liitle sl*t for her daddy. And I make her GF look so fucking bad. She tried to sabotage our date last nite by starting up some shit on the phone, lucky for me the FC part of the date was over, as she did get my x very upset. That girl pushed her right into my loving arms.[/QUOTE]Trojan Magnum Bareskin is the only condom I can use and still cum. I'm only packing 6. 5 x 5, but every other regular condom is too snug and too thick. I'm not sure if they make the Bareskin version in regular size condoms, but they're the best I've tried as far as sensitivity goes. Durex brand is the worst from my experience.

[QUOTE=DogSun;2579274]Trojan Magnum Bareskin is the only condom I can use and still cum. I'm only packing 6. 5 x 5, but every other regular condom is too snug and too thick. I'm not sure if they make the Bareskin version in regular size condoms, but they're the best I've tried as far as sensitivity goes. Durex brand is the worst from my experience.[/QUOTE]Is the bareskin made of latex?

Because if not, then it will protect from pregnancy, but not STD's.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2579352]Is the bareskin made of latex?

Because if not, then it will protect from pregnancy, but not STD's.[/QUOTE]Yes it's latex. The only thing I don't like about them, is that they are probably the worst smelling condoms I've ever encountered. It must be the lubricant.

[QUOTE=DogSun;2579725]Yes it's latex. The only thing I don't like about them, is that they are probably the worst smelling condoms I've ever encountered. It must be the lubricant.[/QUOTE]Thats not good. I found that my girls didn't want to suck a condom, until it had already been in their pussy first. Due to the taste. So i got flavored ones, but they were all in the smaller sizes for some reason.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2579749]Thats not good. I found that my girls didn't want to suck a condom, until it had already been in their pussy first. Due to the taste. So i got flavored ones, but they were all in the smaller sizes for some reason.[/QUOTE]Yeah, and flavored ones tend to be thicker. Are you using condoms for BJ's too? This STD scare must have really go to you!

[QUOTE=DogSun;2579758]Yeah, and flavored ones tend to be thicker. Are you using condoms for BJ's too? This STD scare must have really go to you![/QUOTE]I was only scared as I had to wait for the tests. So during the test waiting period (like 3 months) I used condoms only. Until everyone was all clear. Now I am back to bare.

Which me and my regulars are all negative.

Six girls in six days. Sounds like the tag line to a bad movie. But tonites girl was fun.
A spinner lovers paradise. 5' 4" maybe 105 at most (didn't weigh her yet). Very sharp.

This was date number two and there will be a third. We are not an easy match mentally. But she worked at it to make make me happy. She knows her outgoing personality is a little overwhelming. This is not the shy submissive little girl type I usually date.

Curious to know how much sex helps in the SB relationship. I'm looking at things from her perspective now and she has most of her bills paid, a great place to live and we're an "exclusive" live in couple now.

We recently started barebacking and it's been pretty intense. I haven't barebacked and several years. I was surprised how much stamina I have raw. Our sessions are always around the 2 hour mark sans condom. Does good bareback sex increase the bond in the relationship? I remember a member here saying that these girls want to be f at &ked and taken care of? It looks like I'm doing just that. Any other pointers for spoiling your SB even more? I don't care to increase monetarily, but spoiling in other ways.

[QUOTE=HoyaSvnFgr;2580011]Curious to know how much sex helps in the SB relationship. I'm looking at things from her perspective now and she has most of her bills paid, a great place to live and we're an "exclusive" live in couple now.

We recently started barebacking and it's been pretty intense. I haven't barebacked and several years. I was surprised how much stamina I have raw. Our sessions are always around the 2 hour mark sans condom. Does good bareback sex increase the bond in the relationship? I remember a member here saying that these girls want to be f at &ked and taken care of? It looks like I'm doing just that. Any other pointers for spoiling your SB even more? I don't care to increase monetarily, but spoiling in other ways.[/QUOTE]I always last longer in bareback, as the condom annoyance always makes me want to end it sooner than usual. But as I said earlier, my carefree days are done if there is no std check, or convinces me she has gone a long time with no sex. Otherwise condoms are a part of my arsenal now.

My rejection of condoms is relentless. I just hate them to the point that I'd rather not waste time pursuing sex if it has to be wrapped up in a numbing layer. To me it's like eating filet mignon while wearing a mouth guard -- a pointless activity. I do admit that having a live in girlfriend makes it easier to take that attitude, but even when she wasn't with me and I was fully free-agent, I just wouldn't do it.

I remember once going home with a hottie I met in the parking lot of some nightclub after last call. At her place we start going at it on the couch, and after some oral fun she tells me it's got to be condomized from here on out. I said sorry sweetie not with me it won't be and fell asleep on her couch, no happy ending that night. LOL. That's how bad I hate the things. And yes she was cordial the next morning but we didn't speak after that.

Honestly though I'd say that's the only truly missed opportunity I've ever encountered as a result of my refusal to wrap. To be fair though, I do pick and choose pussy with much more discretion than maybe someone without an aversion to condoms. It's one reason escorts or UTR girls aren't appealing to me. Can't stand the thought of going bareback with junkie or pro. Even when I go hunting for strippers, I have to see signs that she is highly selective before I'm interested. If they approach me early on and put out vibes that they are available for takeout, I'm not interested. I'd rather work a bit and get cleaner pussy, even if less of it -- I'd rather give the ones reason to consider it that hadn't yet made up their mind they were ready to take the plunge.

I'm sure I would probably have more fun if I didn't hate condoms, but it's the way it is for me. Would I feel differently if it were the only way I could get laid? It's hard to say -- I have too much of a sense of BTDT throughout my sexual history to even be able to relate to the notion of sexual desperation. When I'm not in a relationship I do have a little more sense of urgency, simply from not knowing who my next conquest will be, but usually even when I was alone I always had a network of fuck buddies or booty calls that would be willing on short notice.

When I was younger I used to think to myself "enjoy fucking this 22 year old now, because in 25 more years you won't be able to". Needless to say I wasn't exactly Nostrdamous in my youth -- who knew we would have SD websites that are kind of like pussy in a vending machine.

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Female 2.

When I first made contact with her, she did not know exactly what she wanted. She was employed and had her own apartment. She mentioned that finances wasn't her number priority. She wanted to maintain her independence. She went on dates previously with other men but decided against it, because of connection issues. In conversation she mentioned that she had been offered money outright and declined. So I proposed that maybe, it's possible for her to maintain her independence by just having a guy around her to treat her to nice things like maybe a massages and sending her random things to surprise her, to which she agreed. This one took a lot of conversation back and forth. I had to graduate from talking via SA, then to email and eventually she provided her phone number. I informed her about my upcoming trip, we agreed that we would go on a date. I met her on her job and we went to a restaurant. Nothing happened initially, she's pretty talkative if you ask me. So she basically talked the entire but I didn't mind because conversation is one of my stronger points. And I really try to use this to my advantage to connect with them and make them feel comfortable. The majority of women I meet talked about how many of the men on the site didn't engage them in conversation or even try to get to know them.

After lunch I left and we agreed to meet again before the end of my trip. I rarely initiate the conversation about sex directly. I usually use subliminal talk. I don't know it just same to work for me. In conversation I usually try this trick and it works for me the majority of the time over the phone. I just told her that I was taking off my clothes to go in the shower that I will contact her later. That lead to her talking about imagining me naked. The discussion headed sex and she mention that she never had a guy went down on her before and she hadn't much experience. A 20 year old female, I didn't believe her until we actually did the deed. She was of the tightest girls that I had had sex with before. She was smiling ear to ear during our break in between the FC session. She started asking me if I could try more new things we her because I did things to her that she never experience before. According to the only position she had done before was on the back and from behind. We went at it again and she enjoyed it. A few things caught my attention with her: 1) In between the session I got some water, it was two bottles of water in the room. I brought all two inside the room and asked her, if she wanted one she replied yes, so I just casually throwed it on the bed. While I was drinking the other bottle. She insisted that I pick it up and handed to her, she wanted to be treated like a princess. 2) The princess talk came up again later about opening the car door for her and things like that. Honestly I will not pretend like I actually do those things normally, So I couldn't guarantee her that I could actually do that regularly. 3) During from drive home she steered at me glowing and smiling the entire time. When it was time for her leave the vehicle to go inside the apartment. We kissed and hugged inside the car, she out and came back around to the driver side again and I had to come out this time and give her another hug. In total it cost me the room, which I booked through the hotel*tonight*app and Chipotle. That's where she wanted to go before we headed to the FC.

Female 3: We met at a local restaurant for breakfast nothing happened with her. She wanted to meet up again but the time she was available I couldn't meet up due to her working schedule. I wasn't disappointed because I felt she would have cost a lot more money in the long run.

Female 4: This was the one I actually wanted to meet the most during my trip. It took three times in order for me to nailed her down to a meet and greet. I had schedule it in advance before my trip but she wasn't able to meet at the time initially. After the second time she couldn't make it again, so I had practically given up on her. Then about two days before I was schedule to leave she messaged me asking to meet but she could only meet for a limited about of time. An hour to be exact, I took her up on her offer. She actually showed up and since time was limited she just ordered and appetizer and we talk and right around an hour she had to leave. I walked her to her car and she give me a regular guy. After the hug I told her that all, that's the type of hug you are going to give me. She responded with a deep long hug and kiss on the lips. I'm thinking there's hope with this one for an upcoming trip at the end of the month.

Female 5: She wanted to meet but our conversation was limited to brief talk via text and a five minute conversation via the phone. She wasn't a priority because of this I find that I have more luck with the females I talked to regularly than she scheduling random meet ups. I double book a meet up with her and female number 4. I basically told her I would call her around the same time I was schedule to meet female number 4. She showed up this time, so I had to cancel with number five. We had a brief conversation about meeting up during my next trip. She still interested.

That's it that's my report from my July trip. I am in the process of lining up some females for my upcoming trip at the end of the month. My schedule will be really tight this time around so I may just go with the guarantees. I am hoping to connect with Female 1, 2 and 4 but with only two days in town before I move on to a next city. I don't know if it's possible because none of these females same to grasp the concept of time and being punctual. The majority of the females I hope to meet will be in the second city, which I be in for a longer than two days. So we will see how it goes.

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Special thanks to TravelingSD for providing me with a few pointers in a previous post. I would like to thank everybody for posting the reports and I encourage the lurkers to come forth and post also. I learn a lot by just reading the reports and look forward to seeing more. Hollywood, Jeez, Fred and everyone who continue to post. Writing isn't my strongest point but I will continue in the hopes that I may add something or speak a conversation that will help someone else the way other posters have done.

It's a couple years old, but still a good read for the entertainment value if nothing else.

[URL]http://observer.com/2013/03/the-hebrew-hammer/[/URL]

Friday night is always the toughest night to get a date when you are a single SD. And after 6 girls in 6 days I can use a rest, sort of. So today I was pretty harsh with every girl on the site I chatted up. Just seeing how direct I could be and what would happen. So far they have all gone away except one MILF that I haven't finished with. I basically told her I just wanted to use (and possibly abuse) her for sex, and sex only.

Too bad I messed things up with my virgin as we are all alone tonite.
And for some reason she decided not to go out either.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2580937]Friday night is always the toughest night to get a date when you are a single SD. [/QUOTE]In my civy dating days, I always looked forward to Fri / Sat night for bar hopping, but there were times I found myself forced to stay home -- maybe I needed to go into work early on a Saturday or was just sick or something, but for whatever reason found myself stuck on a Friday night. Then I was stuck in this "WTF do I do without a date?" mode.

What I found is that if I got involved in real-time interaction, I would almost end up finding some girl who was bored because she got in an argument with someone, or some divorced single mom who was staying home with the kids, or something like that. Sure, the regular SB crew is all out spending the money they've made with their real boyfriends and other friends, but there will also be a certain number of them that just got in an argument with their boyfriend or have some other reason for being online and alone and looking for something different to do (that's the key, the shakeup to their routine). A couple of times it even resulted in very last-minute hookups for me that went from chatroom to an in-person M&G in only a couple of hours.

I don't have any specific suggestions for where to hang out, because the scene has changed a lot since I used to do that. We used to have yahoo and aol chatrooms, many of the dating sites had "insta-chat" features where you could hit people up in bulk. Nowdays people use Tinder and apps like that I think? The real key is just being able to see who is online and being able to hit them up quickly -- taking advantage of the spontaneity and the fact that nobody likes to be home bored on Fri night. I bet in a densely populated area like L. A. You could get into all kind of trouble, or at a very minimum use Friday nights as a "new talent scout night" to prowl the civy dating sites for SBs who don't know they are SBs yet.

[QUOTE=DogSun;2580500]It's a couple years old, but still a good read for the entertainment value if nothing else.

[URL]http://observer.com/2013/03/the-hebrew-hammer/[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks for posting. It is indeed an enjoyable read.

If you are a single guy, with free time, and some game; the number of pussies out there are endless. There are many pussies that I have missed because I simply do not have the time to go pick them up, bring them home and fuck them, then drive them back.

You don't have to pretend to be a millionaire to get pussies. An average working guy would do just as well, if he has some talents. Most times, all it need is a nice dinner, paying her cell phone bill or car insurance, or buying her some nice things here and there. Of course, there are those GPS out there as well where you might need to up your ante a bit.