[QUOTE=RuffRyder12;4471672]Sorry for the rookie question but have any of you guys ever let one of the ladies come to your home or do you just get a hotel room or meet them at there location?[/QUOTE]I've done it against my better judgment. I couldn't drive due to Lasik, and she was outcall only. The provider was someone with an excellent rep, and I knew she was legit. She drove herself. I figured I could count on her discretion, because I knew she had prior legal trouble & knew her real name from that. It was still a stupid, risky decision.
Outcall seems nice because you control the environment. You know you're not walking into an ambush, and nobody is hiding in the bathroom. That is one of the few upsides, and you can get that by hosting someplace other than home. The downsides should be obvious, and even a hotel room isn't that great if it's still in your name.
Incall is generally smarter. You still need to be careful, because there are plenty of risks that way too. But a burner phone and a fake name means I'm the invisible man. My risks are all limited to the time I spend inside the room.
