[QUOTE=The Camel; 1401467]I think there are a few K*a girls at DVCOI. The one who gave me the crap dances at the club was there yesterday.
With you 100% on "not ordering". I used that language only figuratively as a way to make the point about BBBJ. It is a rare time that I will ever discuss service or money with a provider whether in a strip club, MP, or Tijuana which is where I've always done most of my adventuring. I like to direct my own scenes and I use gab and intuition to get me where I want to go in a natural flow. It feels more satisfying that way when you can eliminate the overt commercial aspect and not dilute the fantasy. Doesn't mean I haven't suffered my share of disappointments from bad instincts or plain stupidity or off days, but these days I narrow my range of operations and margin of error. Also as I report, I'm pretty easy to please in strip club settings, so I don't need to have the power of Pujols to drive the balls where I want them to go.
Of course that doesn't happen unless the girl is either hot for you (not happening with me or most of us) , or if you've established trust. Thus the table side marination of the situation. I'm not against tipping at all in SCs but do so only when I feel like I got more than my money's worth, and that happens in inexpensive clubs where a little goes a long way like DVCOI and Flamingo. Paradise is another story. Girls love to hookup with suckers who shower them with cash, but better appreciate guys who are fair but smart about mongering, understand the value of money and don't desperately overvalue assisted ejaculation.[/QUOTE]East coast monger here just trolling the boards and wanted to ad my 2cents for what its worth. What works for me is sitting up at the bar during the day shift, eventually a dancer comes along to chat, espically when they are slow. Buy her a drink, get to talking with her. Like you said, build up trust. Most of the times they are bitching about other girls or their asshole boyfriends. After a couple of weeks, BBBJ in the VIP. Or, some take out. Eventaully, if you visit enough clubs its almost like your personnal harem with those "special" girls in various clubs. The down side is, it takes patience and a little extra money to lay down some trust. I only had it happen a few times where I didn't know the dancer, she told me she would give me a dance special that ended up with a killer BBBJ, very rare I know. I do like to tip the dancers on stage, I find that its a great way to "feel" out whether or not they are worth it. If she's real flirty or is not shy about flashing you (most of the clubs here are topless only) then I def. Get her a drink. Beside the fact that if she's a little tipsy she's more than likely to do "extra". Have fun!
