Rants, Raves, and Stupid Tinfoil Hat Wearing Conspiracy Bullshit

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]So it looks like your simple question hit a nerve and has come full circle with 2 answers. The romantics are saying if the emotions are real and beyond the sex thing go for it! The realist are saying once a player always a player HIM & HER. I'm thinking not many of us can say our girl friend or wife was a virgin when we connected. Meaning somebody else was tearing that pussy up with his rod and tongue before you 2 love birds fell in love. So the caveat to this girl is not that she was involved with others sexually but SHE DID IT FOR CASH. Does this caveat brand her like a tattoo for life meaning she has no option of changing or starting a new life maybe marriage and kids? So when you, me or any of us fall in love with someone at some point we had to put aside in our thought process that others had that pussy before you did so the relationship can move forward. Dwell on that and the relationship will never get off the ground. If these 2 put there past "habits and desires" aside, have real feelings for each other and TRUST each other let me say that again trust trust trust!! All I'm saying is sure it's possible. Junkies, Alcoholic's, Criminals etc. All have put it aside and moved on. Their circumstances did not brand them from changing. If they can do it so can a BP girl and a swinging dick monger. Corny, But Anything's possible if you want it bad enough. Ok that's my final 2 cents on the subject.

[QUOTE=Tabor;3408014]If you don't think there are very broken people on the client side of this, and this is an ignorant comment. But I guess we can't use the word d*o*you*c*h*e*b*a*g*.[/QUOTE]No. I agree. Broken on all sides.

[QUOTE=Llstickbow;3407862]So killing time and I search backpage london and. NOPE.

I can't seem to get there the backpage only allows me to view USA based cities?

Why'all try it and see if you get the same issue. ?[/QUOTE]Big Brother is watching you.

Not just you, I don't get there either. Well, dang, now we can't do research ahead of a transatlantic trip, LOL. I have been reading things about internet issues involving different countries and differing privacy laws, etc. I can only speculate but guess that some kind of legal issue is probably involved. Perhaps one of the IT experts amongst us knows more and can enlighten us.

[QUOTE=Llstickbow;3407862]So killing time and I search backpage london and. NOPE.

I can't seem to get there the backpage only allows me to view USA based cities?

Why'all try it and see if you get the same issue. ?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnWhitman;3408554]Not just you, I don't get there either. Well, dang, now we can't do research ahead of a transatlantic trip, LOL. I have been reading things about internet issues involving different countries and differing privacy laws, etc. I can only speculate but guess that some kind of legal issue is probably involved. Perhaps one of the IT experts amongst us knows more and can enlighten us.[/QUOTE]You could always just use a VPN or online proxy. There's a lot of free ones like [URL]https://hide.me/en/proxy[/URL], just make sure the selected IP is in the country of your choice.

Any boards here on the and. Topsail area?

A prostitute not having condoms is like a mechanic not having tools. It's a damn shame when you have to start asking prostitutes if they have condoms before handing over your money.

So do you not carry condoms Joe? As a rule I don't and even if I did I wouldn't use mine unless I preferred a certain type. I also only buy condoms when the prostitute says she'll pay me back. I usually don't charge them since I appreciate the gesture though.

The biggest reason I don't mess with prostitutes that don't have condoms is that it increases the chances they've done something unsafe. I've had more than a couple when faced with loosing money tell me how clean they are and offer bb.

Several guys on the backpage board have mentioned carrying when they see providers and doing that will get easier if constitutional carry becomes law. Does that mean that all mongers should carry? My answer would be no. Some tips if you do carry.

1. Keep it to yourself. No good can come of showing a prostitute your gun or telling her you have one.

2. Invest in a good holster. You don't want your gun falling out nor do you want it to be apparent that you have one.

3. Be mindful of where your clothes are and don't leave your gun in the room without you.

4. Invest in proper ammunition. You might get away with killing a pimp who has a knife but you won't get away with killing the person in the room next door if your bullet goes through a wall.

5. Don't get talked into buying a high caliber. At the range you'll be firing from a 22 will do the trick and not over penetrate. Remember this isn't a movie so you'll be firing until you run out not just once, which further negates the need for a high caliber gun that has the most stopping power.

6. Take defensive shooting course.

7. Practice drawing from your holster as well as getting up from a laying down position and retrieving your weapon from your clothes.

8. Find a lawyer before you need one and if you shoot someone keep your mouth shut when the police arrive.

9. If you can talk yourself out of the room then do it, NAL but your case should be stronger if you're trying to flee and have to defend yourself.

[QUOTE=JoeLooking;3421539]A prostitute not having condoms is like a mechanic not having tools. It's a damn shame when you have to start asking prostitutes if they have condoms before handing over your money.

So do you not carry condoms Joe? As a rule I don't and even if I did I wouldn't use mine unless I preferred a certain type. I also only buy condoms when the prostitute says she'll pay me back. I usually don't charge them since I appreciate the gesture though.

The biggest reason I don't mess with prostitutes that don't have condoms is that it increases the chances they've done something unsafe. I've had more than a couple when faced with loosing money tell me how clean they are and offer bb.[/QUOTE]You should assume that all do bb for the right price and if they have an outside life are they making a bf cover up? Thats very doubtful so somewhere along the line they are doing bb with someone.

What the hee-haw-heck is up with the high-end ladies copping attitudes when scheduling? I've reached out to two different ladies off of eros who were downright rude and arrogant in emails trying to schedule, get references, etc. This is why I shouldn't stray from my regulars. At least with BP gals you know what you get, but with 300-400-500/ hr ladies I'd expect at LEAST a little courtesy. Jeesh!

Sorry to hear about that. Of course there is no excuse for anyone not to be courteous, from the lowest BP gal to the high end. And the sword cuts both ways, we clients should be courteous too. I can understand that some gals get frustrated when a bunch of jerkoffs waste their time or blow up their phones. But as long as any of us is communicating nicely and efficiently, there is absolutely no excuse for the treatment you got. Feel free to name them here and maybe save some others here from ending up repeating your experience.

[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;3422271]What the hee-haw-heck is up with the high-end ladies copping attitudes when scheduling? I've reached out to two different ladies off of eros who were downright rude and arrogant in emails trying to schedule, get references, etc. This is why I shouldn't stray from my regulars. At least with BP gals you know what you get, but with 300-400-500/ hr ladies I'd expect at LEAST a little courtesy. Jeesh![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3421655]You should assume that all do bb for the right price and if they have an outside life are they making a bf cover up? Thats very doubtful so somewhere along the line they are doing bb with someone.[/QUOTE]Agreed that a provider not having them is like a tradesman not showing up with his tools. Here are MY rules:

1) I never carry them, it's just more evidence if something goes wrong.

2) If a provider asks me EN ROUTE, when I'm HALF WAY THERE, to "bring a condom," I turn around and let her know exactly why I'm turning around. She's already wasted my time getting me en-route with half-truths and false-pretenses. She loses.

On #2, what is with the increase in girls doing this lately? Could they be that broke or lazy to not have them on hand? Are they trying to get me to talk about something questionable to prove I'm not LEO? Are they LEO trying to entrap me?

[QUOTE=JohnWhitman;3422442]Sorry to hear about that. Of course there is no excuse for anyone not to be courteous, from the lowest BP gal to the high end. And the sword cuts both ways, we clients should be courteous too. I can understand that some gals get frustrated when a bunch of jerkoffs waste their time or blow up their phones. But as long as any of us is communicating nicely and efficiently, there is absolutely no excuse for the treatment you got. Feel free to name them here and maybe save some others here from ending up repeating your experience.[/QUOTE]It's helpful to look at their website and check what rules they have regarding scheduling. It's likely they aren't being courteous because you are doing something wrong and they are tired of people doing it over and over again. Check their rules and check your approach before making assumptions because those girls aren't trying to see everyone that contacts them like BP girls (usually) do.

I think they are trying to get out of FS but get paid for FS. Gambling that you are going to turn down BBFS and settle for BBBJ. Or get you to pay more for BBFS. Convenient for them regardless.

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[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3421655]You should assume that all do bb for the right price and if they have an outside life are they making a bf cover up? Thats very doubtful so somewhere along the line they are doing bb with someone.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JoeLooking;3421549]Several guys on the backpage board have mentioned carrying when they see providers and doing that will get easier if constitutional carry becomes law. Does that mean that all mongers should carry? My answer would be no. Some tips if you do carry.

1. Keep it to yourself. No good can come of showing a prostitute your gun or telling her you have one.

2. Invest in a good holster. You don't want your gun falling out nor do you want it to be apparent that you have one.

3. Be mindful of where your clothes are and don't leave your gun in the room without you.

4. Invest in proper ammunition. You might get away with killing a pimp who has a knife but you won't get away with killing the person in the room next door if your bullet goes through a wall.

5. Don't get talked into buying a high caliber. At the range you'll be firing from a 22 will do the trick and not over penetrate. Remember this isn't a movie so you'll be firing until you run out not just once, which further negates the need for a high caliber gun that has the most stopping power.

6. Take defensive shooting course.

7. Practice drawing from your holster as well as getting up from a laying down position and retrieving your weapon from your clothes.

8. Find a lawyer before you need one and if you shoot someone keep your mouth shut when the police arrive.

9. If you can talk yourself out of the room then do it, NAL but your case should be stronger if you're trying to flee and have to defend yourself.[/QUOTE]Spot on with one suggestion. A 22 does not have stopping power and can be defeated in some cases by a leather jacket. Pretty sure if it comes down to it there will be more then one. You don't want to pump your whole mag into one guy. I carry a 9 mm with hornady critical defense rounds. I think a good 380 with good rounds (not ball) would be perfect in the hotel room shootout scenario. Key would be fire distribution and control. A controlled pair into the first target and wait. Be safe.