[QUOTE=QueNine;5924940]All very correct. I'll only say a couple of things in response.
1. I've used SA off and on for about 4 years. There is not one single "baby", whom I've not painted her cervix. I don't care what anyone thinks. There's always STD risks, but I'm divorced, clipped, and doing what I want. If an SA girl insists on protection before a meet, I politely decline. I believe that's happened once. If an SA girl mentioned it right before I was about to be balls deep, I'd kindly tell her no thanks.
2. I'll be old and gross one day. It's dreadful in this game but it will happen. I'll never be fat or dirty and smelly. I say this because it's my belief that guys that defend girls or get their vaginas hurt when they read something a girl has definitively told them "NO" about, likely are much older, fat, or both. Do better. Eat a salad. Go for a walk. Take a shower. FFS, what do people expect of these women?
And guess what, even if you do all that, some girls will not find you attractive. There was an Asian girl about 6 years ago some of you might remember. She did massages in her dorm / apartment near SLU. On the flip, I touched her leg and she jumped away in utter shock. Then put on a glove and jacked my dick with her eyes closed like I put a gun to her head. I've had providers ask me why I make an appointment. You're attractive and you surely get women. Yes, I do, but that's not the point. With a provider, I can get what I want, get dressed and leave. Case closed. I also know that won't last forever.[/QUOTE]Exactly I've had the same ones ask me like you're such a good looking guy what are you doing paying for this everybody's situation is different I've been there done that with the relationship thing and so she living with somebody it really goes downhill I shouldn't have to beg for it one way or another in a lot of these guys don't realize that everybody is paying one way or another nothing is free.