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[QUOTE=Saturnine99;6632353]What are you all paying for monthly allowance? What's the cutoff for a 'Splenda daddy' ?[/QUOTE]There is no such thing as a Splenda Daddy. It is a concept developed by GPS gold diggers to try and embarrass guys who make reasonable offers.
[QUOTE=Saturnine99;6632348]What are you all paying for monthly allowances, or is it all PPM?[/QUOTE]
How much would they get for 2-4 hours
- Cleaning floors or toilets?
- Serving tables?
- And paying taxes?
Compared to that, $$$ for a few hours of fun time, tax free, sounds generous, doesn't it?
GPS.
Hottiemami - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6ed7393-aab9-4130-b798-a8d1625d29dc[/URL].
Wants 6 k allowance.
[QUOTE=SeaTownGuy;6649711]GPS.
Hottiemami - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6ed7393-aab9-4130-b798-a8d1625d29dc[/URL].
Wants 6 k allowance.[/QUOTE]This gal has so-so looks, flabby tits, and is chubby.
But wants $6 k a month!
I hope no one is insane enough. 300 ppm would be a good deal for her.
Hi,
I am a sugar daddy, living in San Diego.
And I search other guys to join me for threesome or fourthsome meeting with some regular sugar babies which are open for anal and double penetration.
DM me if interested.
Christhbreizh.
[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6649786]This gal has so-so looks, flabby tits, and is chubby.
But wants $6 k a month!
I hope no one is insane enough. 300 ppm would be a good deal for her.[/QUOTE]Really? I would say 1/2 that at best.
[QUOTE=LimpAndSmall;6649272]How much would they get for 2-4 hours
- Cleaning floors or toilets?
- Serving tables?
- And paying taxes?
Compared to that, $$$ for a few hours of fun time, tax free, sounds generous, doesn't it?[/QUOTE]Except that almost everyone who is a potential sugar baby has an * page and makes money from it. It's easier than sugaring and can be lucrative. I've had luck recently but with girls that want to keep a low profile because of family, professional ambitions etc. But I blame * for reducing the sugar baby market and driving up the prices.
Hi,
Trying to get into sd / sb scene as a sd. Anyone has any details on this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e1de92f9-c6b4-4f90-af23-26a6bbc368af[/URL]
Seems to be two so got attracted. Pics not the most clear. Asked for first meet in public place (platonic) with ppm. Is that normal? Don't want to shell $$$ and talk for whole date and then never hear back. What's the best etiquette here? Meet for drinks and then invite them to your place? Thanks for any pointers.
[QUOTE=Ash138;6657149]Hi,
Trying to get into sd / sb scene as a sd. Anyone has any details on this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e1de92f9-c6b4-4f90-af23-26a6bbc368af[/URL]
Seems to be two so got attracted. Pics not the most clear. Asked for first meet in public place (platonic) with ppm. Is that normal? Don't want to shell $$$ and talk for whole date and then never hear back. What's the best etiquette here? Meet for drinks and then invite them to your place? Thanks for any pointers.[/QUOTE]Scam don't waste your time. Don't pay for meet and greets.
[QUOTE=Lid532;6658046]Scam don't waste your time. Don't pay for meet and greets.[/QUOTE]Thank you. Going to ignore this one. Any risk to inviting SB directly to hotel. I read that there are lot of blackmail scams. What if they demand ppm donation without fulfilling their part of the deal and threaten to make a scene? Curious if anyone had to deal with that and what's the best way to avoid?
[QUOTE=Ash138;6658657]Thank you. Going to ignore this one. Any risk to inviting SB directly to hotel. I read that there are lot of blackmail scams. What if they demand ppm donation without fulfilling their part of the deal and threaten to make a scene? Curious if anyone had to deal with that and what's the best way to avoid?[/QUOTE]I usually meet them for lunch / dinner / drinks (M&G) first. If they ask you to pay for M&G, it's a huge red flag.
Also, get a burner. It is soooo cheap these days, I have increased my success rate 2 x after getting a burner iphone 12 (instead of the stupid google voice). I invite them for a FT. During the calls, you just talk normal, try to get a vibe of the other person.
Finally, there are so many girls on the site, never fixate your focus on 1 girl.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;6660312]I usually meet them for lunch / dinner / drinks (M&G) first. If they ask you to pay for M&G, it's a huge red flag.
Also, get a burner. It is soooo cheap these days, I have increased my success rate 2 x after getting a burner iphone 12 (instead of the stupid google voice). I invite them for a FT. During the calls, you just talk normal, try to get a vibe of the other person.
Finally, there are so many girls on the site, never fixate your focus on 1 girl.[/QUOTE]What issues do you have with google voice?
[QUOTE=FingerLicking;6666582]What issues do you have with google voice?[/QUOTE]GV gives a scammer vibe. I have had GV, android burner and now the iphone burner.
They feel much more comfortable doing a FT with you. Sometimes, they use GV, I would just tell them to give me an iphone number so I can FT. Over 90% of young women carry an iphone, so putting them at ease has increased my overall rate.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;6667324]GV gives a scammer vibe. I have had GV, android burner and now the iphone burner.
They feel much more comfortable doing a FT with you. Sometimes, they use GV, I would just tell them to give me an iphone number so I can FT. Over 90% of young women carry an iphone, so putting them at ease has increased my overall rate.[/QUOTE]Same. My iPhone burners last 4-5 years.
I'm on mint mobiles cheapest plan -$15/ month.
On Secret Benefits, if you create a profile, and receive a message from someone, they want you to buy credits to answer them. $89 minimum. You can go back and forth with one person as many times as you want, but other people take away from that initial buy. I realize this is how the website makes money, but has anybody tried them or found a better way? I have found most of my FWBs via direct face to face contact at a random meeting on the street, but one particular gal on this site piqued my interest. Thanks.
I believe 1st message is from a bot, just like you said - to get you to buy credits. I have tried SB, it's just a glorified Backpage, almost all of them are UTRs or above.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;6689976]I believe 1st message is from a bot, just like you said - to get you to buy credits. I have tried SB, it's just a glorified Backpage, almost all of them are UTRs or above.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I will give it a try.
Profile Name: SweetLady.
Occupation: Stripper (searchable by the city database, opensource).
Education: Community College.
Type: Almost Pro, got an attitude~ lol
M&G: 1/2k (plz~~~).
PPM: 800 (never partake).
Location: Downtown (with roommate & some random guy in the background during FT, LOL).
[QUOTE=Saturnine99;6632348]What are you all paying for monthly allowances, or is it all PPM?[/QUOTE]I searched the forum and have not seen any comprehensive responses to this question.
I've noticed the ask for your average SB 6-7 types is $500. I bet the actual PPM is around $300-400.
Perhaps some of the more experienced members can validate those numbers.
[QUOTE=GuardMan;6757772]I searched the forum and have not seen any comprehensive responses to this question.
I've noticed the ask for your average SB 6-7 types is $500. I bet the actual PPM is around $300-400.
Perhaps some of the more experienced members can validate those numbers.[/QUOTE]It depends on many factors, there is no rule to this. They'll all get you to pay for an "allowance" so they can have an residual income, then they'll continue to go out and bang their bfs / other guys while cashing in your hard earn money & getting chlamydia, LOL.
If you have deep pocket, have games (& being white helps too), plenty of members have reported receiving freebies all the time. If you are not her type, if you have no game, or if she senses you being new, she will ask more
Just don't pay for M&G, you'll regret it.
[QUOTE]=Just don't pay for M&G, you'll regret it.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice. I don't really care about the other guys in their lives as long as I enjoy my allotted time with them. I assume they all have BF's and other SD's.
There are many factors involved including freebees, I'm just curious what the average PPM amount is for a typical SB. I'm still guessing between $300-$400 for a ask of about $500.
Anyone meet her on SA?
[QUOTE=Aznman2000;6772273]Anyone meet her on SA?[/QUOTE]She has been around seeking for years. Last quote I heard was $500 but allows bbfscip.
There are some reports here that she is a rubber after you nut.
[QUOTE=DroppinLoadz;6778560]She has been around seeking for years. Last quote I heard was $500 but allows bbfscip.
There are some reports here that she is a rubber after you nut.[/QUOTE]Can someone post a link to her profile or dm. I would be interested in getting in touch with her.
So I have 4 weeks to pool some talent. First one I got is Kaylaelite. Can't provide link since she has blocked her profile. 28 yo skinny fit woman. We had one ppm session for 5 all covered and no CBJ and no kissing. Def not GFE and not worth it. She has her face blurred in her profile but I have copies of the unblurred ones.
Man, it's like all these ladies went to the same web page to get rates. Every single one I talk to is $500 per date. Every one. I've varied my search. Hot, dull, round, flat, tall, short. Doesn't matter. Five bills.
Do I need like a dude that has actual game to close for me?
[QUOTE=Sapuer;6808658]Man, it's like all these ladies went to the same web page to get rates. Every single one I talk to is $500 per date. Every one. I've varied my search. Hot, dull, round, flat, tall, short. Doesn't matter. Five bills.
Do I need like a dude that has actual game to close for me?[/QUOTE]Hoflation. 5 is cheap nowadays.
What am I missing? Been coming across more and more SBs looking for exorbitant allowances. Was quoted $2 k per week from a 38 y / o, average attractiveness SB. Why would anyone spend that much for one girl, when you can have multiple at PPM for the same or lower? Unless you're vetting them for long term relationship or marriage, it just seems like a scam. By paying allowance, you don't get anymore than someone who pays PPM. And to add to that, most of them say Non-monogamous and no strings attached. That's crazy! Ironically, the same 38 y / o came back a couple of weeks later willing to do $600 ppm. I'm fairly attractive, successful, and could pick up most of the girls at SA at a bar. SA just gives the flexibility with not having to deal with the drama or craziness.
What am I missing?
There are over 100 pages of member contributing to this forum. Nobody is paying for allowance.
However, this is against the teaching from "Tictok / Reddit. " On those sites, some influencers "teach" wannabes that getting allowance is the "ultimate goal." (Go ahead, do a quick search and you will see)
[QUOTE=Ramsayew;6811121]What am I missing? Been coming across more and more SBs looking for exorbitant allowances. Was quoted $2 k per week from a 38 y / o, average attractiveness SB. Why would anyone spend that much for one girl, when you can have multiple at PPM for the same or lower? Unless you're vetting them for long term relationship or marriage, it just seems like a scam. By paying allowance, you don't get anymore than someone who pays PPM. And to add to that, most of them say Non-monogamous and no strings attached. That's crazy! Ironically, the same 38 y / o came back a couple of weeks later willing to do $600 ppm. I'm fairly attractive, successful, and could pick up most of the girls at SA at a bar. SA just gives the flexibility with not having to deal with the drama or craziness.
What am I missing?[/QUOTE] The older the SBs the more they ask, I've actually seen the same trend with escorts, doesn't make any sense to me, I'd rather pay more for someone in their early 20's than someone almost my age, but to each their own. For me the reason is that before being 22-23, they generally have their parents helping and don't need much money and are only doing this SB thing for pocket money. But after they start getting a real job, they start having real expenses and some don't want to not work anymore and just do the SB thing, so they end up asking for more and generally try to get a monthly allowance instead of ppm. So for me the rule is don't look if they are above 25, unless you have deep pockets, or stick to the ones who are brand new, but chances are they also watched stupid tiktok videos or reddit pages full of delusional women as well, I think the SB thing got too popular and attracted a lot of naive women who thought they could make a lot of money that way.
[QUOTE=Sapuer;6808658]Man, it's like all these ladies went to the same web page to get rates. Every single one I talk to is $500 per date. Every one. I've varied my search. Hot, dull, round, flat, tall, short. Doesn't matter. Five bills.
Do I need like a dude that has actual game to close for me?[/QUOTE]There are girls accept lower than 500. You just have to find them and make a deal.
[QUOTE=JojoSamDinelli;6824018]New to SA. How do you all handle the photo situation? I imagine many of you are trying to do this with discretion so you don't have your face attached to your profile. Do the ladies respond to blank profiles? At what point do you show them a pic of yourself before meeting?[/QUOTE]I don't have a picture attached to my profile. I haven't had a paid account in a couple years but I had no issue with it. On occasion some of the ladies would ask but I would say I have to be discreet. Most of them would meet me anyway. My profile isn't blank. I didn't answer all the questions but a few of them. A few ladies insisted on pictures and I would suggest meeting in a public place. If they don't like what the see, they can walk away. One time a lady saw me and did turn around and walk away. I felt bad about that one.
[QUOTE=JojoSamDinelli;6824018]New to SA. How do you all handle the photo situation? I imagine many of you are trying to do this with discretion so you don't have your face attached to your profile. Do the ladies respond to blank profiles? At what point do you show them a pic of yourself before meeting?[/QUOTE]I used a generic photo from google that looks like an ugly version of me. So when we meet, they feel like it's a good surprise. Reverse catfish?
[QUOTE=KingBaby;6811633]There are over 100 pages of member contributing to this forum. Nobody is paying for allowance.
However, this is against the teaching from "Tictok / Reddit. " On those sites, some influencers "teach" wannabes that getting allowance is the "ultimate goal." (Go ahead, do a quick search and you will see)[/QUOTE]Yeah those ladies are unrealistic, LOL I had to respond to some of there comments on redit / tiktock and they got all heated but I'm still not agreeing with them. Most of the time if I'm respectful and not to pushy I get luck, supper lucky. Just stand your ground gentlemen we got to stand our ground haha.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9d761ef-cb53-4e3a-983a-840fc436e2e1[/URL]
Going to be in town next week and I've set up a date with this gal. Just wondering if anyone has seen her and if not I'll report back after I do.
[QUOTE=JohnnyLovesIt;6828068]I don't have a picture attached to my profile. I haven't had a paid account in a couple years but I had no issue with it. On occasion some of the ladies would ask but I would say I have to be discreet. Most of them would meet me anyway. My profile isn't blank. I didn't answer all the questions but a few of them. A few ladies insisted on pictures and I would suggest meeting in a public place. If they don't like what the see, they can walk away. One time a lady saw me and did turn around and walk away. I felt bad about that one.[/QUOTE]Really? You haven't had a paid account in a couple of years but still meet chicks. How does that work when you can't send them messages on the site? If you put your contact info in your profile they will slap that down immediately.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6847530]Really? You haven't had a paid account in a couple of years but still meet chicks. How does that work when you can't send them messages on the site? If you put your contact info in your profile they will slap that down immediately.[/QUOTE]Do you find it's worth paying the $$ for SA? I like the idea of having "chemistry" with a regular, but I don't want to waste my mongering money. Thoughts?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/99e3235d-6052-4a18-b3cb-ad06ef0a14b2[/URL]
Anyone see this one? She's on other websites too, quoted me 300 for the hour, with lots of promises.
It used to work then stopped working.
Does it work now?
Thanks.
[QUOTE=HermanMiller;6848650][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/99e3235d-6052-4a18-b3cb-ad06ef0a14b2[/URL]
Anyone see this one? She's on other websites too, quoted me 300 for the hour, with lots of promises.[/QUOTE]Haven't seen her either. She first came across my radar as JessPresley, part of Jason's Bella. Bunnies crew, then PD, LC, sugar sites, etc. There's no way she's only 28. I hit her up a while back for info, rate was higher than she quoted you, with lots of upgrades / add on's available. I didn't respond as the quote was higher than I was willing to spend on her. Then a few hours later, I get a text with a "special", by then it was too late. So it seems like she's open to negotiation if that's your thing.