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[QUOTE=Anonymous420;4806378]Making sure the person your speaking with knows that they're not getting one cent out of you until after you meet and the relationship negotiated is the fastest way to get rid of a lot of scammers, pro SBs, and GPS'ers.[/QUOTE]That site is so full of scammers and that will clearly cut out the crap quickly.
Another is the ones not willing to make a phone call for any voice verification means they get blocked and deleted instantly.
[QUOTE=DrtyHarry;4520660]The second from last (Kassandra Sweets) is Cassie Sweets on TNA. Did you get BBFS with her? I tried on TNA, had a great appointment, but did not get BBFS. Asked her, got turned down and did not push the isssue by offering more money. Maybe I should have. The rest on your list are more or less regulars on SA.
The first link SeattleSweetieXxx [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e59dc99e-c72e-3aac-10ed-9601a855a843[/URL].
Can you share some intel on her. She looks hot. Did you have to spend a fortune on her?[/QUOTE]Yes. She took my entire load.
As a newcomer in SA scene, it's difficult to comprehend and make full use out of SA.
Positivevibechick was one of my top choices but now I am not so sure after talking to her. I saw some reports on here she was agreeing on 300 ppm but she wants 350 ppm when I tried to negotiate.
Also, she seems nice and cute but she mentioned about how she wants to time her meets now because people don't follow through as she wants long term instead of nsa deal and she suddenly decides to time the meet? She was telling me she can see me between the hours of 7:30 pm to 8:45 pm I am like hell no I don't want to be tied on time limit.
All in all, I am just looking for non pro like SA sbs that are pretty much nympho like. I know you guys don't want to let your hard earned list go but help a brother out! I would like to see one that is as least pro as possible and possibly under 300 ppm so I can try first instead wasting bunch of money for no reason. Really hard as there's no such thing as review like TNA and I am trying to stay away from TNA at the moment.
I am not picky on body types but I don't like super skinny ones. You can pm me or post on here. I'd love to see a non pro SA babe that can just do about anything.
[QUOTE=RichHead;4812614]As a newcomer in SA scene, it's difficult to comprehend and make full use out of SA.
Positivevibechick was one of my top choices but now I am not so sure after talking to her. I saw some reports on here she was agreeing on 300 ppm but she wants 350 ppm when I tried to negotiate.
Also, she seems nice and cute but she mentioned about how she wants to time her meets now because people don't follow through as she wants long term instead of nsa deal and she suddenly decides to time the meet? She was telling me she can see me between the hours of 7:30 pm to 8:45 pm I am like hell no I don't want to be tied on time limit.
All in all, I am just looking for non pro like SA sbs that are pretty much nympho like. I know you guys don't want to let your hard earned list go but help a brother out! I would like to see one that is as least pro as possible and possibly under 300 ppm so I can try first instead wasting bunch of money for no reason. Really hard as there's no such thing as review like TNA and I am trying to stay away from TNA at the moment.
I am not picky on body types but I don't like super skinny ones. You can pm me or post on here. I'd love to see a non pro SA babe that can just do about anything.[/QUOTE]The great thing about SA is that you can simply move on. Try this one, I don't like her...but before she pissed me off it was $275, I met her a year ago. She was a lousy fuck (she tried, but no real experience) I'm sure she's gotten better in a year. https://www.seeking.com/member/bd6217dd-1f67-46d6-9fe1-d0f4d2c4aea0
[QUOTE=RichHead;4812614]As a newcomer in SA scene, it's difficult to comprehend and make full use out of SA.
Positivevibechick was one of my top choices but now I am not so sure after talking to her. I saw some reports on here she was agreeing on 300 ppm but she wants 350 ppm when I tried to negotiate.
Also, she seems nice and cute but she mentioned about how she wants to time her meets now because people don't follow through as she wants long term instead of nsa deal and she suddenly decides to time the meet? She was telling me she can see me between the hours of 7:30 pm to 8:45 pm I am like hell no I don't want to be tied on time limit.
All in all, I am just looking for non pro like SA sbs that are pretty much nympho like. I know you guys don't want to let your hard earned list go but help a brother out! I would like to see one that is as least pro as possible and possibly under 300 ppm so I can try first instead wasting bunch of money for no reason. Really hard as there's no such thing as review like TNA and I am trying to stay away from TNA at the moment.
I am not picky on body types but I don't like super skinny ones. You can pm me or post on here. I'd love to see a non pro SA babe that can just do about anything.[/QUOTE]Saw this one when I first started on SA. Everytime I make a new account she always messages me LOL but since you don't want them to skinny. She'll give you a mean BJ though, she'll suck that shit right out of you like a vacuum. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dae93bd2-dcf1-4b8b-a564-25bfd147e83d[/URL].
[QUOTE=RichHead;4812614]As a newcomer in SA scene, it's difficult to comprehend and make full use out of SA.
Positivevibechick was one of my top choices but now I am not so sure after talking to her. I saw some reports on here she was agreeing on 300 ppm but she wants 350 ppm when I tried to negotiate.
Also, she seems nice and cute but she mentioned about how she wants to time her meets now because people don't follow through as she wants long term instead of nsa deal and she suddenly decides to time the meet? She was telling me she can see me between the hours of 7:30 pm to 8:45 pm I am like hell no I don't want to be tied on time limit.
All in all, I am just looking for non pro like SA sbs that are pretty much nympho like. I know you guys don't want to let your hard earned list go but help a brother out! I would like to see one that is as least pro as possible and possibly under 300 ppm so I can try first instead wasting bunch of money for no reason. Really hard as there's no such thing as review like TNA and I am trying to stay away from TNA at the moment.
I am not picky on body types but I don't like super skinny ones. You can pm me or post on here. I'd love to see a non pro SA babe that can just do about anything.[/QUOTE]I actually saw her on a $250 ppm arrangement, she tried to get $400. But bear in mind, my quote and most others are from over a year and a half ago. I did consider for a minute to see her again like 3-4 months ago and she did gave me some restricted time span similar to what she told you, so if I was already in the fence, the time constraints non sense make me to decide to pass and not going back.
[QUOTE=DelToro;4813561]I actually saw her on a $250 ppm arrangement, she tried to get $400. But bear in mind, my quote and most others are from over a year and a half ago. I did consider for a minute to see her again like 3-4 months ago and she did gave me some restricted time span similar to what she told you, so if I was already in the fence, the time constraints non sense make me to decide to pass and not going back[/QUOTE]Yeah bro, def no go. I find her super hot and I'd definitely like to hit it but if I were to do 350 ppm and have time limit, I can probably find a fine dime on tna. Whole point of me staying away from tna is to be free of that hourly and clock watcher bs and actually have fun without having to end things at their terms.
[QUOTE=HBadger;4813548]Saw this one when I first started on SA. Everytime I make a new account she always messages me LOL but since you don't want them to skinny. She'll give you a mean BJ though, she'll suck that shit right out of you like a vacuum. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dae93bd2-dcf1-4b8b-a564-25bfd147e83d[/URL].[/QUOTE]What did you see her at ppm wise? She sounds fun but when I talked to her she said 300 ppm. Is she open to other things than just BJ?
[QUOTE=RichHead;4813931]Yeah bro, def no go. I find her super hot and I'd definitely like to hit it but if I were to do 350 ppm and have time limit, I can probably find a fine dime on tna. Whole point of me staying away from tna is to be free of that hourly and clock watcher bs and actually have fun without having to end things at their terms.[/QUOTE]Yeah by this point she has been around long enough and had seen enough guys to have picked up PRO behavior. Yeah look for a fresher SB.
[QUOTE=RichHead;4814146]What did you see her at ppm wise? She sounds fun but when I talked to her she said 300 ppm. Is she open to other things than just BJ?[/QUOTE]Sometime last year, yea I gave her 300 I believe, it was when I was fairly new to SA. She's open to other things not just BJ. I didn't partake in CIP though, just didn't feel like it. So you can take her to pound town also.
[QUOTE=HBadger;4814875]Sometime last year, yea I gave her 300 I believe, it was when I was fairly new to SA. She's open to other things not just BJ. I didn't partake in CIP though, just didn't feel like it. So you can take her to pound town also.[/QUOTE]I saw her a month or so ago. Wasn't great. She makes zero moves, you have to do all the work. She's less cute than her pics. Talks a lot about other guys, about how she's only really into black guys (I'm white), and when I went to fuck her she immediately started with the absolutely most annoying obnoxious loud fake porn talk I've ever heard. I lost my hardon almost immediately. Waste of a night.
I think 300 ish, and yeah I negotiated BBFS beforehand, and yeah she acted like she doesn't usually do that but made an exception for me. Whatever.
[QUOTE=Rjx1234;4814911]I saw her a month or so ago. Wasn't great. She makes zero moves, you have to do all the work. She's less cute than her pics. Talks a lot about other guys, about how she's only really into black guys (I'm white), and when I went to fuck her she immediately started with the absolutely most annoying obnoxious loud fake porn talk I've ever heard. I lost my hardon almost immediately. Waste of a night.
I think 300 ish, and yeah I negotiated BBFS beforehand, and yeah she acted like she doesn't usually do that but made an exception for me. Whatever.[/QUOTE]Good BJ definitely got me interested but this report makes me think otherwise especially at 300 ppm, plus I got her down to 200 but she would not be able to host. I was almost going to have her at my place (which shouldn't) but she said Bellevue is too far to drive and wanted me to pick her up in Tacoma, head up to my place and drop her back off in Tacoma. I am like uh idk, now she doesn't sound like its worth it. Less skills are acceptable but shitty attitude kills the mood for me. And for that matter, I am not black so she probably won't like me then as me being an Asian.
I'm not a premium member of SA, but have had a profile for a couple of years. Thought of pulling the trigger a few times, but haven't for a few reasons.
I clicked one of the links from a post in this thread today and I ended up checking my "interests" notification. I, of course, received some favorites from China, South America and East Coast US to go with a couple of locals. Today, I noticed for the first time that on the left side, it has some info that I found curious.
On some of the girls who "favorited" me, it said under "Last Time Viewed You". Not Yet. For others that had favorited me, it gave a date or a umber of hours / days ago.
How can an SB "favorite" me without viewing my profile unless it is just a bot scam or SA just trying to make me think all of these girls are so interested in me contacting them. Not all of the "favorites" that have "Not Yet" viewed my profile are the distant locale girls. I also get Seattle girls that fall into that category.
It really makes me question if SA is worth the possibility of getting caught mongering by my SO?
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4815076]I'm not a premium member of SA, but have had a profile for a couple of years. Thought of pulling the trigger a few times, but haven't for a few reasons.
I clicked one of the links from a post in this thread today and I ended up checking my "interests" notification. I, of course, received some favorites from China, South America and East Coast US to go with a couple of locals. Today, I noticed for the first time that on the left side, it has some info that I found curious.
On some of the girls who "favorited" me, it said under "Last Time Viewed You". Not Yet. For others that had favorited me, it gave a date or a umber of hours / days ago.
How can an SB "favorite" me without viewing my profile unless it is just a bot scam or SA just trying to make me think all of these girls are so interested in me contacting them. Not all of the "favorites" that have "Not Yet" viewed my profile are the distant locale girls. I also get Seattle girls that fall into that category.
It really makes me question if SA is worth the possibility of getting caught mongering by my SO?[/QUOTE]I wondered about that but I think I heard females have options to hide if they and when they viewed SDs profiles. Could be wrong.
You can definitely without being a bot favorite somebody without looking at a profile. But it would likely be a scammer or some other not very savory character.
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4815076]How can an SB "favorite" me without viewing my profile[/QUOTE]Do a search and look at the right side of the screen. You can click on every "heart" icon up and down. This makes them a favorite without you looking at the profile. They did the same with you. And 50 other guys.
I've fucked a lot of SA girls who initially only favorited me. But if a profile is from a city 100's or 1000's of miles away it's probably fake.
[QUOTE=DelToro;4815129]You can definitely without being a bot favorite somebody without looking at a profile. But it would likely be a scammer or some other not very savory character.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Rjx1234;4814911]I saw her a month or so ago. Wasn't great. She makes zero moves, you have to do all the work. She's less cute than her pics. Talks a lot about other guys, about how she's only really into black guys (I'm white), and when I went to fuck her she immediately started with the absolutely most annoying obnoxious loud fake porn talk I've ever heard. I lost my hardon almost immediately. Waste of a night.
I think 300 ish, and yeah I negotiated BBFS beforehand, and yeah she acted like she doesn't usually do that but made an exception for me. Whatever.[/QUOTE]Damn, that sounds like a pretty shitty time LOL I would keep away from her then, I saw her about a year ago so she probably changed.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1e41edf0-caba-4a5e-9482-cb662acb2308[/URL]
Anyone seen this girl? Her replies are painfully slow but she said she's straight up looking for ppm. Looks like she could be a decent cum dump but not sure. She's been around for a while.
[QUOTE=Toomgis;4815174]Do a search and look at the right side of the screen. You can click on every "heart" icon up and down. This makes them a favorite without you looking at the profile. They did the same with you. And 50 other guys.[/QUOTE]Have now officially faded! And I thought I meant something to them!
Now, Toomgis, you are saying that I am just a number to all of these women professing that I am a "favorite" of theirs.
I might just cry myself to sleep tonight.
Seriously, though, thanks all of you for shedding some light and sharing the SA tricks of the trade.
Rock Chalk.
No experience but based on her pics I'd guess she's pretty big. No shots below her shoulders and her arms look fat.
[QUOTE=RichHead;4815420][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1e41edf0-caba-4a5e-9482-cb662acb2308[/URL]
Anyone seen this girl? Her replies are painfully slow but she said she's straight up looking for ppm. Looks like she could be a decent cum dump but not sure. She's been around for a while.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;4816166]No experience but based on her pics I'd guess she's pretty big. No shots below her shoulders and her arms look fat.[/QUOTE]Was thinking that too but over text she agreed on pretty much CIP, CIA, ATM and all bb. Sounds good if it's true. She wouldn't consider anything under 400 ppm that's why I want to be cautious as she doesn't host and I don't want her at my place means it will be room cost on top of that probably close to 500-550 in total. Mentions nothing of time limit either and said as long as it ain't blood or animal related she's all open.
[QUOTE=RichHead;4816195]Was thinking that too but over text she agreed on pretty much CIP, CIA, ATM and all bb. Sounds good if it's true. She wouldn't consider anything under 400 ppm that's why I want to be cautious as she doesn't host and I don't want her at my place means it will be room cost on top of that probably close to 500-550 in total. Mentions nothing of time limit either and said as long as it ain't blood or animal related she's all open.[/QUOTE]Her profile states, *"I absolutely love horses and rode for years. ".
Perhaps you should tell her what you're hung like and see if it gets you a discount. ? .
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4815665]Seriously, though, thanks all of you for shedding some light and sharing the SA tricks of the trade.
Rock Chalk.[/QUOTE]From one Jayhawks fan to another. Beware of the PHOG.
[QUOTE=Efurufe;4816880]Her profile states, *"I absolutely love horses and rode for years. ".
Perhaps you should tell her what you're hung like and see if it gets you a discount. ? .[/QUOTE]Hahahahahaha good one bro.
[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;4816166]No experience but based on her pics I'd guess she's pretty big. No shots below her shoulders and her arms look fat.[/QUOTE]That and all of her pics are heavily, heavily filtered. The girl I see looks barely appealing so if you add on that she looks unrealistically good in those pictures, I'd say it's an easy pass.
[QUOTE=RichHead;4816195]She wouldn't consider anything under 400 ppm that's why I want to be cautious as she doesn't host and I don't want her at my place means it will be room cost on top of that probably close to 500-550 in total. Mentions nothing of time limit either and said as long as it ain't blood or animal related she's all open.[/QUOTE]She's more like in the 100 range. Maybe 160 for all bare all holes.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/82ee53c8-6b29-493f-87b3-3f3e5bcae57b[/URL]
Messages this one earlier today. We got down to talking business and switched to text pretty quickly. She is not a pro, but she is definitely an experienced sugar baby. Talked about what we like, she said she likes sensual, lots of kissing and touching. She also sent some pics in lingerie, she's athletic / curvy, nice ass, pierced nipples, decent tits. She opened with 350 ppm and was eager to meet. She said that she could host. I didn't try to negotiate the allowance, I have a different one that I have already fucked and a couple more that I'm pretty close to closing the deal with so I have my plate full right now. I'm keeping this one on the roster but putting her in the bull pen for now.
I appreciate the tips that I've gotten here and thought I would share in case one of you is looking for one that gets down to business quickly. No I won't share her number, you are going to have to get that yourself.
I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions for profile setup and philosophies on approach. I'm thinking I might be missing something from my profile or the way I'm communicating. Any guidelines? TIA.
The link is no longer working, does anybody knows if she got a new profile in SA? I am just wondering her looks and to try her style at least once.
[QUOTE=RawDogger;4611470]I experience with her was a little contradictory, great in some ways and really not great in others.
The good- she's a total freak. I've never met anyone who legitimately loves cock as much as she does. Her stamina with cocksucking is Olympic level. At one point she worked me hard with her mouth for over 30 mins, she did a marathon at a 5 k pace. Dumped a load in her CIP and then CIMWS. After I came in her mouth she slowed down a bit but kept working me slowly for a long time. It was a really unique experience. It was like a massage, very relaxing and calming and something I'm going to ask for again. She absolutely loves cock in her mouth. Honestly she started talking about how much she loved to suck cock so much before we met that I had a little paranoia that it was TGTBT and was worried about a set up, but that wasn't the catch. She's entirely legit and her enthusiasm for penis seems entirely genuine.
The bad- her pics are very well done. Even in those she's not a super model but she knows how to take a flattering pic and she looks kind of cute on the site. In person, she's pretty rough-looking by my standards. Her tits are kind of misshapen and lumpy and she's gained a fair bit of weight from those pics.
Honestly if her looks work for you or if you can overlook them she's got all the skills you want. But I won't be repeating because I've got much more attractive options. Damage was 250 plus a room.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0e655a25-5705-4724-81af-d59db61988b3[/URL][/QUOTE]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dc2e8e8b-9161-4d7a-b8c8-1b7b7a70e0dd[/URL]
Wants 500-700 ppm and can't host.
[QUOTE=Bronco62;4819954][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/82ee53c8-6b29-493f-87b3-3f3e5bcae57b[/URL]
Messages this one earlier today. We got down to talking business and switched to text pretty quickly. She is not a pro, but she is definitely an experienced sugar baby. Talked about what we like, she said she likes sensual, lots of kissing and touching. She also sent some pics in lingerie, she's athletic / curvy, nice ass, pierced nipples, decent tits. She opened with 350 ppm and was eager to meet. She said that she could host. I didn't try to negotiate the allowance, I have a different one that I have already fucked and a couple more that I'm pretty close to closing the deal with so I have my plate full right now. I'm keeping this one on the roster but putting her in the bull pen for now.
I appreciate the tips that I've gotten here and thought I would share in case one of you is looking for one that gets down to business quickly. No I won't share her number, you are going to have to get that yourself.[/QUOTE]Based on my interactions with this "Sugar Baby", I think she is just promising to meet in order to get you to send money for pics, to get her hair done, money for gas to come see you. I'd be surprised if anyone actually meets her.
[QUOTE=RockChalk;4815665]Have now officially faded! And I thought I meant something to them!
Now, Toomgis, you are saying that I am just a number to all of these women professing that I am a "favorite" of theirs.
I might just cry myself to sleep tonight.
Seriously, though, thanks all of you for shedding some light and sharing the SA tricks of the trade.
Rock Chalk.[/QUOTE]If I see someone liked me without even looking at my profile. I immediately block them.
[QUOTE=RandyDarwin;4824089]Based on my interactions with this "Sugar Baby", I think she is just promising to meet in order to get you to send money for pics, to get her hair done, money for gas to come see you. I'd be surprised if anyone actually meets her.[/QUOTE]Good info. She didn't hit me up for anything before meeting, but I may not have carried the conversation far enough to get to that point.
I travel quite a bit. I usually have a sugar baby in each city that I travel. I mentioned on this site last year that I had a sugar baby that I met in Miami who was pretty nice and cute, but when it was that time of the month for her, she introduced me to her friend. Her friend is amazingly hot, an incredible fuck and quite honestly the best looking woman that I have ever stuck my dick in during my 50+ years of life. Once I met her, I had no interest in the woman that introduced me to her. I have zero plans on seeing the original woman again and have made plans to meet up with the hottie in a few weeks.
About three weeks ago, the original woman contacted me because she had lost her job because of the Coronavirus. She couldn't come up with rent and was evicted. Florida is nowhere as progressive as Washington State. There are no moratoriums on evictions and even if there were, people would do what they want (one of the reasons I love Florida). I sent her a few hundred dollars, paid for a motel for a week so her and her kids would have a place to stay and told her to get on unemployment and get that extra $600/ week. Since then, I've been getting almost daily requests for money from her. I've been sending a couple of hundred dollars now and then, but I really have no interest in seeing her again and pretty much am doing it because I don't want her or her kids to suffer.
So, I've been ignoring her daily or sometimes two to three times a day request, simply begging me for money. I have a shit ton of guilt about it, simply because this virus had zero effect on me and my business and I can afford to give her the money. I mean, I have better things to spend my money on, but if she's really in a bad spot, I honestly could throw a couple of grand at her and not miss it that much (I'll definitely miss it, but I don't really "need" it right now or in the near future). The reason I'm so hesitant is that the constant requests for money, the sheer desperation, it smells like drug addict to me. I'm not going to give up my hard earned money so someone can waste it on a drug habit, I used to be married to someone like that.
I could block her and be done with this, but I really don't like to see someone that I used to fuck suffer (if she's really suffering). Anyone have any thoughts?
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4827819]... I've been sending a couple of hundred dollars now and then, but I really have no interest in seeing her again and pretty much am doing it because I don't want her or her kids to suffer.
... The reason I'm so hesitant is that the constant requests for money, the sheer desperation, it smells like drug addict to me...
I could block her and be done with this, but I really don't like to see someone that I used to fuck suffer (if she's really suffering). Anyone have any thoughts?[/QUOTE]Dude, I've been there.
First off, I think you need to reread your own post and think about how you'd react and what advice you'd give to the person who posted that missive on this board.
Second, you do not owe her anything. You've been very generous and kind to her, but her life is her responsibility.
Third, if it makes you feel better, I'd figure out an amount of money you think honorable (although I'd lean toward $0), send it to her, block her, and forget about her.
Finally, I don't think it is a good idea to discuss your reasons or thoughts on this with her. She isn't going to offer anything constructive. Just tell her you are sending some money (if you are) and can't see her or communicate with her any longer.
[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;4828132]Dude, I've been there.
First off, I think you need to reread your own post and think about how you'd react and what advice you'd give to the person who posted that missive on this board.
Second, you do not owe her anything. You've been very generous and kind to her, but her life is her responsibility.
Third, if it makes you feel better, I'd figure out an amount of money you think honorable (although I'd lean toward $0), send it to her, block her, and forget about her.
Finally, I don't think it is a good idea to discuss your reasons or thoughts on this with her. She isn't going to offer anything constructive. Just tell her you are sending some money (if you are) and can't see her or communicate with her any longer.[/QUOTE]I agree with Marko. Unfortunately it looks like she's taking advantage of your generosity and sees you as as an easy mark for lack of a better term and the constant request for money is telling. I been there as well and felt the need to help out but you need to take a step back and get some perspective. Personally I would just tell her that you are no longer interested in seeing her and then block her without sending any more money.
[QUOTE=Twister100;4828550]I agree with Marko. Unfortunately it looks like she's taking advantage of your generosity and sees you as as an easy mark for lack of a better term and the constant request for money is telling. I been there as well and felt the need to help out but you need to take a step back and get some perspective. Personally I would just tell her that you are no longer interested in seeing her and then block her without sending any more money.[/QUOTE]I also agree that you should just walk away, as long as you do it in a way that leaves you guilt-free. Most likely you are only one of a list of men who she's asking for help. I understand the empathy you're feeling. But you shouldn't feel it any more you would for the person who used to cut your hair back in the day and is out of work now.
Just see the situation as it is, you have helped to the point until you feel you cannot help her more. Regardless if you have or haven't reach the limit of your financial means, you reached a point where your good conscience is even asking itself it is ok to continue helping.
So, I would let her know that I cannot continue helping her. No need to explain further.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4827819]I travel quite a bit. I usually have a sugar baby in each city that I travel. I mentioned on this site last year that I had a sugar baby that I met in Miami who was pretty nice and cute, but when it was that time of the month for her, she introduced me to her friend. Her friend is amazingly hot, an incredible fuck and quite honestly the best looking woman that I have ever stuck my dick in during my 50+ years of life. Once I met her, I had no interest in the woman that introduced me to her. I have zero plans on seeing the original woman again and have made plans to meet up with the hottie in a few weeks.
About three weeks ago, the original woman contacted me because she had lost her job because of the Coronavirus. She couldn't come up with rent and was evicted. Florida is nowhere as progressive as Washington State. There are no moratoriums on evictions and even if there were, people would do what they want (one of the reasons I love Florida). I sent her a few hundred dollars, paid for a motel for a week so her and her kids would have a place to stay and told her to get on unemployment and get that extra $600/ week. Since then, I've been getting almost daily requests for money from her. I've been sending a couple of hundred dollars now and then, but I really have no interest in seeing her again and pretty much am doing it because I don't want her or her kids to suffer.
So, I've been ignoring her daily or sometimes two to three times a day request, simply begging me for money. I have a shit ton of guilt about it, simply because this virus had zero effect on me and my business and I can afford to give her the money. I mean, I have better things to spend my money on, but if she's really in a bad spot, I honestly could throw a couple of grand at her and not miss it that much (I'll definitely miss it, but I don't really "need" it right now or in the near future). The reason I'm so hesitant is that the constant requests for money, the sheer desperation, it smells like drug addict to me. I'm not going to give up my hard earned money so someone can waste it on a drug habit, I used to be married to someone like that.
I could block her and be done with this, but I really don't like to see someone that I used to fuck suffer (if she's really suffering). Anyone have any thoughts?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MyNickname;4828792]Just see the situation as it is, you have helped to the point until you feel you cannot help her more. Regardless if you have or haven't reach the limit of your financial means, you reached a point where your good conscience is even asking itself it is ok to continue helping.
So, I would let her know that I cannot continue helping her. No need to explain further.[/QUOTE]Disregard females, acquire currency is your best bet. Why would you give someone thousands of dollars that you'll never see again. If you're seriously asking this question you might need some help in your life LOL if I'm done talking to a girl or she wants to stop, it's over. I'm done. I won't talk to her again and definitely won't give away my hard earned money even if she is in a tough situation as she says. Not my problem anymore.