"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Great discussion. I got a month membership at Seeking and although I talked to several girls I never actually meet anybody. I have an SO, limited time and money, so getting a girl was a long shot. What I tended to notice is that in the area I was looking I had very limited options. Many girls hadn't signed on in months so a lot of emails went into the void. I think I need to stick to BP. A shame really or maybe the best thing that could have happened. I'm in awe of you married guys who get that girls.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;2555567]I've had quite a bit of success breaking in new SB's. I like that they are cautious but the game and need to "mentored" into the bowl. This requires patience and understanding but the rewards can be intense.

The development process is not for everyone, but if an SB has a good first experience, she is much more likely to continue. I think this is one of HG's strengths. I'm sure many of SD's have benefited from the girls he has "mentored" into the bowl.[/QUOTE]Not bragging, just in awe. But breaking in my virgin (which I thought I would hate) is so far turning out crazy hot in some ways. I can not even begin to describe the high of literally having my face buried as deep as possible in her 18 year old picture perfect pussy and finally a half hour later having her cum hard in my mouth. She is so shy she had to cover her face with a blanket last night just for me to be able to do that. I then gave her another half hour of oral and anal fingering. Then we switch and she does me for an hour. I am still working on dilating her so she will be able to take daddy's big one. We have only fucked once so far but our average sessions last about 2 hours of everything else. She is still asleep now and I have to go to work.

Without my ATF who is a real life black barbie fucking machine and self described wh*re for daddy, I wouldn't be able to keep my cool with the virgin. Right now for me its all in the mix. Got a lot of new POTS and the stripper I fucked a few days ago says she is still down to see me again. I am really only focusing on the teens, but I will fuck any age girl that has a super spinner body.

I told my virgin I would date her 10 times next month if she can find the time. And these are all overnites. So I am slowly getting back in the saddle. So it turned out that I have some kind of permanent or semi-permanent nerve damage in my left foot. So I am spending a lot of time in physical therapy but it is slowly getting better and I can walk (at least to the car) and I can drive again. Getting older has its challenges and rewards.

Lots of discussion about young pots and sbs. Here is my two cents.

I agree that most of the young ones don't have a clue and they are immature. Often, if you ask them what they want, it will devolve into something they think is better than a night at a house party. Many of them don't come from backgrounds of means. If you take them out to an upscale five star restaurant, they won't know which fork to use. It's not exactly like the scene from "pretty woman" but can often feel that way for both them and you. Many of them have this idea in their head that they want something like that. But when push comes to shove, they are intimidated.

This is where I tend to take control. It is, or at least I have found, this is also where they want you to take control. They want someone to take them out, show them how to properly order a glass or bottle of wine. They don't want you to make fun of them for not using the salad fork correctly, but rather want someone who is willing to take the lead to show them things that their college boyfriend, who is too busy playing video games, cannot. If the pot has no interest in experiences like this, and only wants the cash, or only wants to party, I know what to expect and know that it won't last very long. I tend to lose interest in these kinds of girls quickly.

If you ask a 19 year old what she wants, then I suspect you're going to be disappointed with the answer. In my humble opinion, most 19 year olds don't know enough to know what they want. So I take on the responsibility of showing them.

For the most part, a large majority of them will be spoiled, impatient, immature, selfish brats. In the past 7 or 8 months I have been playing in the bowl, that's why I have found it hard to keep anyone in my rotation for longer than more than a few months (the hot 19-24 year old body and face gets old fast when a girl is annoying. And hot new girls keep joining the site each month).

Of course when you find a young one that is mature beyond her years, genuinely enjoys sex, and likes to be taught things that will please you, the payoff is worth it. It's why I am still on month three with my blonde swim instructor.

Also, as for being seen with a hot teen, the trick is to join various professional groups in your field that would provide mentoring opportunities. If you run into someone you know, its easy to tell them that you're out to dinner with this young lady because you're mentoring them, etc. Of course the trick is to belong to more than one organization so that when members of one organization see you out and about with a 19 year old, mentoring her, they will assume it is somehing that you're doing for the other organization.

Just ky two cents.

[QUOTE=ToeLover57;2554576]I seem to be hitting up the wrong 19 y / o girls. The last two wanted me to take them to a water park and Dave & Busters game place. I'm over 55 and way out of place hanging with them there. The ones that want to go FC are straight UTR escorts so far. Guess I'm going to stick with mid 30's that likes have adult fun although I long for a young petite spinner who is not a pro.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sftap;2555610]Great discussion. I got a month membership at Seeking and although I talked to several girls I never actually meet anybody. I have an SO, limited time and money, so getting a girl was a long shot. What I tended to notice is that in the area I was looking I had very limited options. Many girls hadn't signed on in months so a lot of emails went into the void. [b]I think I need to stick to BP.[/b] A shame really or maybe the best thing that could have happened. I'm in awe of you married guys who get that girls.[/QUOTE]Oh THE HORROR! LOL!

Er, since the thread appears to be in the advice giving mode, I'll suggest a gander of these 22 Rules for BP Dating:

[U]Post #1[/U]

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage&p=2394419&viewfull=1[/URL]#post2394419.


[i]Edit: Ya know - new skills require time to develop! Be patient with one's self as they develop! :)[/i]

Well, a little over a month into the sa membership. Tons of hits, 5 or 6 meet and greats, a dozen or more flakes. Chatting a lot on and off site, very good communication, then silence. Several popped back up, but dropped again. Frustrating! I think the key as I believe HWG has said before is to get to the m&g quickly while they are still all excited about the attention.

Two that I was able to quickly schedule at least got to the meet however didn't pass the test to take to the FC. Pics werent accurate, and personality just didn't work out.

Met with a very beautiful MILF, 40, tall, thin, VERY bright, but she was mixed on what she wanted, clearly not the sa lifestyly so she pulled her post shortly after we met. Now back with her ex, but she and I still chatting as friends.

Met with a 29 yo spinner, body 8, face 5. 5, personality 1. Picked up on it in early communication, confirmed at the m&g. Turned out to have pretty deep mental issues, no signs of drugs however, DEEP issues. Yeh, you guessed it, I still pushed on to unwrap and see the 8. I've heard the crazy ones are the best, well, I beg to differ! Looked very good, but damn. Left her a little scratch in a place I knew she would see when I left her place. Double the HWG rate, I would have expected to be well received. I was wrong! Keep in mind, I explained to her in earlier discussions how I treated my former babies. I get my phone blown up afterwards threatening she should have shot me! Never experienced anything like that before, absolutly nothing on my side to have called for that. Lesson learned, add to the pre-filter list: no crazies, no ptss, no "cutters". Wow. Anyone else run into that before? I've already seen a lot, but this was a first.

I am single but I do live with my adult daughter who is an SB. I guess the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. Anyway the other night I see her leaving for a date and she looks absolutely stunning in her designer outfit. I brought my girl up to be a princess and have spoiled the shit out of her over the years. She drives a much nicer car than me and has never really wanted for anything.

So I say to her I wish I could afford classy girls that look like you, but since I am most interested in attitude, age, body type and price more than anything else and can't afford the high end hollywood and beverly hills girls with superior attitudes, I will just stick with what I am doing for now.

She has a real job and only dates senior executives mostly in her industry. So today she says she is leaving for an overnite and I ask her if the guy is really worth her while. She tells me on her last date he bought her a 2k pair of designer shoes. She kind of laughs at the girls I bring home, but I told her if one day I ever get rich again maybe I'll try out out some of those high end model types like her.

My daughter is a GPS girl, but has no shortage of rich guys hoping to get lucky with her. The main point being, dont get discouraged when these girls quote crazy prices because some of them do get them. But there are plenty of sweet adorable little girls that just want a kind, understanding daddy to feel safe with and dont expect you to buy them the world.

It's kind of an ongoing joke with me and my daughter that because of the way she looks and how well I treat her that she has gotten me more pussy than she knows. I wont lie, these young girls are impressed when they meet her and wish they had a daddy like that. I never intended things to work out this way. But thats life in the big city.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2557019]I am single but I do live with my adult daughter who is an SB. I guess the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. Anyway the other night I see her leaving for a date and she looks absolutely stunning in her designer outfit. I brought my girl up to be a princess and have spoiled the shit out of her over the years. She drives a much nicer car than me and has never really wanted for anything.

So I say to her I wish I could afford classy girls that look like you, but since I am most interested in attitude, age, body type and price more than anything else and can't afford the high end hollywood and beverly hills girls with superior attitudes, I will just stick with what I am doing for now.

She has a real job and only dates senior executives in her industry. So today she says she is leaving for an overnite and I ask her if the guy is really worth her while. She tells me on her last date he bought her a 2k pair of designer shoes. She kind of laughs at the girls I bring home, but I told her if one day I ever get rich again maybe I'll try out out some of those high end model types like her.

My daughter is a GPS girl, but has no shortage of rich guys hoping to get lucky with her.[/QUOTE]Hmm, isn't combating GPS while simultaneously contributing to it a little bit like the firefighter that moonlights as an arsonist in his free time? LOL.

Just messin' HG.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2557022]Hmm, isn't combating GPS while simultaneously contributing to it a little bit like the firefighter that moonlights as an arsonist in his free time? LOL.

Just messin' HG.[/QUOTE]Life is funny sometimes. I just wanted her to have all the things I never did growing up. Everyone says I spoil her too much and that she will never learn to stand on her own two feet alone. But slowly over time I see her maturing into a responsible and hopefully soon to be successful business woman.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2556691]Oh THE HORROR! LOL!

Er, since the thread appears to be in the advice giving mode, I'll suggest a gander of these 22 Rules for BP Dating:

[U]Post #1[/U]

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage&p=2394419&viewfull=1[/URL]#post2394419.


[i]Edit: Ya know - new skills require time to develop! Be patient with one's self as they develop! :)[/i][/QUOTE]As one who had a run in with uncle, that advice means nothing if they really want to mess with you or the BP girl. In my case with a well reviewed girl and AFTER the act was complete they started pounding on the door. Could I have fought it and possibly won? Maybe, but the downside to losing was far greater than jumping through their hoops and accepting a deal. Bottom line, they don't need evidence to arrest, harass and ruin your life. Hell, they can even take your car if you drove there.

It's nothing but SB's for me now. Can't afford another run in with uncle.

[QUOTE=BillCullen;2557108]As one who had a run in with uncle, that advice means nothing if they really want to mess with you or the BP girl. In my case with a well reviewed girl and AFTER the act was complete they started pounding on the door. Could I have fought it and possibly won? Maybe, but the downside to losing was far greater than jumping through their hoops and accepting a deal. Bottom line, they don't need evidence to arrest, harass and ruin your life. Hell, they can even take your car if you drove there.

It's nothing but SB's for me now. Can't afford another run in with uncle.[/QUOTE]I saw that they now got Visa and MasterCard to refrain from doing business with BP. BP has temporarily responded by simply not charging for ads, but they cannot sustain that way. I predict that SD sites will follow the same fate as long as people keep making monetary offerings to girls via e-mail and text.

The BP girls will simply migrate to the SB scene (those who are able at least), junking up the supply and attracting more attention. It's a shame because some of us operate fully within the law.

All they have to do is lock out credit cards and everything we do or talk about in this thread, even if legal, is over.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2557360]I saw that they now got Visa and MasterCard to refrain from doing business with BP. BP has temporarily responded by simply not charging for ads, but they cannot sustain that way. I predict that SD sites will follow the same fate as long as people keep making monetary offerings to girls via e-mail and text.

The BP girls will simply migrate to the SB scene (those who are able at least), junking up the supply and attracting more attention. It's a shame because some of us operate fully within the law.

All they have to do is lock out credit cards and everything we do or talk about in this thread, even if legal, is over.[/QUOTE]Paypal and money gram to the rescue.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2557382]Paypal and money gram to the rescue.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately not. To see where this kind of thing ends up, research the story behind allofmp3, the Russian site that was selling music online to the USA at Russian prices 10-15 years ago.

What they were doing was deemed legal in Russia because of the way music is licensed there, but because it was a problem for the music industry here, they found a way to effectively shut them down.

It started with blocking credit cards and any other form of banking available to North America, and slowly progressed to the point where the service still "sort of" exists to a handful of grandfathered underground users, but the overall experience, and the hassles and hoops you had to jump through just to get a simple transaction through was more than most people would be willing to tolerate.

The problem is that once it is deemed to be a conduit to "illegal" activity, it's going to be a lot worse than what happened to allofmp3 for SD sites, because as I said they were deemed to be operating legally (just not to the subjective liking of US legislature). SD sites will not be able to play that card if there is a lot of evidence on the table of people making direct offers for money for sex transactions via mail and text, thus will suffer a much worse fate than music sharing sites.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2557421]Unfortunately not. To see where this kind of thing ends up, research the story behind allofmp3, the Russian site that was selling music online to the USA at Russian prices 10-15 years ago.

What they were doing was deemed legal in Russia because of the way music is licensed there, but because it was a problem for the music industry here, they found a way to effectively shut them down.

It started with blocking credit cards and any other form of banking available to North America, and slowly progressed to the point where the service still "sort of" exists to a handful of grandfathered underground users, but the overall experience, and the hassles and hoops you had to jump through just to get a simple transaction through was more than most people would be willing to tolerate.

The problem is that once it is deemed to be a conduit to "illegal" activity, it's going to be a lot worse than what happened to allofmp3 for SD sites, because as I said they were deemed to be operating legally (just not to the subjective liking of US legislature). SD sites will not be able to play that card if there is a lot of evidence on the table of people making direct offers for money for sex transactions via mail and text, thus will suffer a much worse fate than music sharing sites.[/QUOTE]I don't know a thing about Bitcoin, but is it possible that all this CC harassment will move it more into the mainstream?

I have been doing internet marketing for many years and have worked for every dating site from eHarmony to SA to F a MILF tonite, and 10 more I wont name (and still do), and I can guarantee you that there will always be a fix for any CC processing problem or FTC issue that may arise.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2557605]I have been doing internet marketing for many years and have worked for every dating site from eHarmony to SA to F a MILF tonite, and 10 more I wont name (and still do), and I can guarantee you that there will always be a fix for any CC processing problem or FTC issue that may arise.[/QUOTE]If there's money to be made, someone will find a way.