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I didn't mean to get anyone upset with the Admiral report. I have had great times there. Been there dozens of times. I loved Sunny, Lisa and even Connie. Not everyone liked her for some reason. She was well trained in her craft. Never felt comfortable asking for the line up, maybe next time. I am back and forth with the parking lots. Never use the lot at NMS. I try to get the back corner at Admiral. Looking for an independent that doesn't want huge $.
So I know that tansmart has been considered a bit of a disappointment in the past, but new ads seem to speak different.
[URL]http://providence.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/sinfully-sweet-exotic-mixed-treat/3746189[/URL]
[URL]http://providence.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/latinaandhearts-seductive-princess/3795557[/URL]
Thoughts?
My story.
Hi all. I have decided to write this so it can be memorialized somewhere, as therapy for me and as a lesson to those of you thinking of getting into relationships with massage girls. I am putting this in massage thread since I feel it most appropriate here as FS massage is the only thing I have done and known. Hope moderators keep it here.
A few years ago I went to my first AMP in RI. I ended up hooking up with what was to become everyone's ATF as I learned later in reviews. I felt an instant connection. Apparently so did she since she asked me to dinner the second meeting.
After a bunch of visits we met outside of work and had great weekend. Stupid me ends up falling for her. But she fell for me also (I think). I would go to this spa and she stopped charging me. All I had to pay was house fee. Says she did not do that with anyone else (I believed her. Yeah I know).
Well she eventually moved on to other spa outside of RI and I followed. We had an on again off again relationship for years. Even got engaged for short time. She would always promise she is getting out of business but never did.
She came back and became everyone's ATF again (sigh) We got back together for a bit then I sort of screwed up a bit- nothing bad but I accused her of doing some stuff that she denies. Really it was my fault for not accepting things more.
Anyway, I decided to surprise her by going to Korea. Figured I would prove once and for all my love for her and that I would be willing to do anything for her. Yeah. Big mistake. She was nice to me because her family loved me but when she got drunk she got bat-shit crazy on me. I always knew she had anger issues and was always a bit cold-hearted but I really saw it in full bloom. Funny because she comes off as so nice and special and sweet but she is also a very angry little girl inside. Always has been and I always knew it but loved her anyway. Always fighting and arguing with people. Boy did she get nasty with me. I cannot believe how mean she became. Did not seem to care at all how mean she was to me. I was shocked. After that I couldn't get out of her house and out of Korea fast enough. So sad as I really do love her. I have never loved someone so strongly before (I know, I am an idiot.. Believe me I realize it now). After the way she treated me, I honestly don't know if she ever truly cared about me or not. Crazy thing is that I hope some day she will call me and perhaps we will end up together but at same time I am hoping she does not. At least unless she permanently quits that job. Which will probably be never.
Anyway, so I left Korea heartbroken. I will not be the same. But I wanted to share this story and advice. No matter how beautiful and sweet and innocent they may seem, these girls are all troubled. Every single one of them have issues otherwise they would not be doing this work. I have met many of them through her and got to know them on a personal level. Since I was her boyfriend they treated me as one of their own. I knew their real names. Learned about the business. Learned about how these places are run, who actually owns them, everything. Quite fascinating world actually. One other thing I learned is that they are all the same. Don't think that yours is "different" or "special" somehow. It is simply not the case. They are not capable of carrying on a normal relationship. They are used to men catering to them and doing whatever they ask. They don't understand the concept of mutual love and respect. Why would they? They are used to men giving them whatever they want and always getting their way.
I went to this girls house in Korea. They have everything we have. Live just as good or better. They want the easy life and expensive lifestyle. They have a choice. They are not forced. Korea is a first world economy.
They are masters of manipulation and lying, as I believe they must be otherwise they will not last or be successful in that business.
I am hanging up my mongering shoes permanently after this (not that I did much anyway). I leave this as parting advice as she has told me this herself (except for last one below which is my observation). This info below holds true for all of these "working women" as they like to be called:
If she has not given you her phone number or agreed to see you out of work, she is playing you.
If she has not told you her real name she is playing you.
If you are lucky enough to meet outside of work but she does not have sex for free, she is playing you.
If you have sex for free and actually get into relationship, then you better strap in and hold on for a wild emotional roller coaster of a ride with the eventual and inevitable question always being " can I borrow money?
Final advice: Bang these girls, meet them out of work and bang them some more. But do not under any circumstances fall in love with them. She is not "different". She is not "special". She is just really good at convincing you she is until one day her true colors are revealed.
If this story and advice helps at least one of you steer clear of the trouble, stress and heartache I endured over the last several years then I am glad I posted here.
Good luck everyone!
[QUOTE=RLargess;1901974]So I know that tansmart has been considered a bit of a disappointment in the past, but new ads seem to speak different.
[URL]http://providence.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/sinfully-sweet-exotic-mixed-treat/3746189[/URL]
[URL]http://providence.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/latinaandhearts-seductive-princess/3795557[/URL]
Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Sure, the new ads do look good, but if they didn't no one would ever be enticed to go. I've never been due to the less than exciting reviews, but who knows, things change and this place has nowhere to go but up. Only one way to know for sure, give it a try and let all of us know.
Dear Crazybuttrue,
The 'net is littered with stories like this. Unless you're 19 or never had a girlfriend before, I don't have any sympathy for you. None.
And you went to Korea - that's beyond nuts! It also makes your story almost unbelievable.
Anyways, good luck and I hope you learned something.
[QUOTE=Crazybuttrue;1902369]My story.
Hi all. I have decided to write this so it can be memorialized somewhere, as therapy for me and as a lesson to those of you thinking of getting into relationships with massage girls. I am putting this in massage thread since I feel it most appropriate here as FS massage is the only thing I have done and known. Hope moderators keep it here.
[/QUOTE]Vibes bro. The life of a cuckold isn't easy and definitely not for everyone.
[QUOTE=Crazybuttrue;1902369]My story.
If you are lucky enough to meet outside of work but she does not have sex for free, she is playing you.
If you have sex for free and actually get into relationship, then you better strap in and hold on for a wild emotional roller coaster of a ride with the eventual and inevitable question always being " can I borrow money?
Final advice: Bang these girls, meet them out of work and bang them some more. But do not under any circumstances fall in love with them. She is not "different". She is not "special". She is just really good at convincing you she is until one day her true colors are revealed.
If this story and advice helps at least one of you steer clear of the trouble, stress and heartache I endured over the last several years then I am glad I posted here.
Good luck everyone![/QUOTE]Hate to say this, but this is true of most women. She doesn't have to be an AMP girl. How many of us here are married to a woman that is not the same sweet thing we married. While married I got involved with an old High School friend. It was the girl I always wanted to marry, but we never connected. Found out the she had been abused by her mother's boyfriend, who later stalked her and made her life miserable. 3 kids with 3 different fathers later she contacted me and I fell for her Bullshit. I fell in love and was ready to leave my ***** of a wife. Then I found out the truth about her. She turned my life upside down for 3 years and I almost blew the 3 million investment that I had into the marriage. Luckily, I found the RI AMP scene so that I can have a good time with a beautiful woman and then go home to the *****. It's not perfect, but twice a month I have great time and can see my kids everyday. You're right, Bang a girl and then bang her some more. Enjoy your time with them, but don't expect any of them to tell you the truth.
Bigstar1.
Anyone? Bueller, Bueller?
[QUOTE=Challenged;1899927]Anyone out there that could provide any info on her? I searched several of the RI threads, but don't see any info. I'm thinking I must be doing something wrong because I can't imagine she hasn't ever been discussed. Thanks for any help! PM is ok, too.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NYMonger;1902547]Dear Crazybuttrue,
The 'net is littered with stories like this. Unless you're 19 or never had a girlfriend before, I don't have any sympathy for you. None.
And you went to Korea - that's beyond nuts! It also makes your story almost unbelievable.
Anyways, good luck and I hope you learned something.[/QUOTE]Agreed it was beyond nuts. I figured what the hell. On hindsight that was actually pretty stupid. But not looking for sympathy here. In fact I am expecting to get my stones busted for the post and rightfully so. Time to put my "manjina" away and man-up. Just wanted to give advice to others so they take a different path then me. So hard to do when we are guided by the dumb-stick though.
[QUOTE=NYMonger;1902547]Dear Crazybuttrue,
The 'net is littered with stories like this. Unless you're 19 or never had a girlfriend before, I don't have any sympathy for you. None.
And you went to Korea - that's beyond nuts! It also makes your story almost unbelievable.
Anyways, good luck and I hope you learned something.[/QUOTE]Oh one other thing. I am getting pummeled with pms asking me the identity of this girl. For both her and my sake I won't be sharing that info (sorry) but suffice it to say she is not working in RI anymore for whatever that is worth to those of you asking me.
[QUOTE=CrazyButTrue;1902369]My story.
Hi all. I have decided to write this so it can be memorialized somewhere, as therapy for me and as a lesson to those of you thinking of getting into relationships with massage girls. I am putting this in massage thread since I feel it most appropriate here as FS massage is the only thing I have done and known. Hope moderators keep it here.
A few years ago I went to my first AMP in RI. I ended up hooking up with what was to become everyone's ATF as I learned later in reviews. I felt an instant connection. Apparently so did she since she asked me to dinner the second meeting.
After a bunch of visits we met outside of work and had great weekend. Stupid me ends up falling for her. But she fell for me also (I think). I would go to this spa and she stopped charging me. All I had to pay was house fee. Says she did not do that with anyone else (I believed her. Yeah I know).
Well she eventually moved on to other spa outside of RI and I followed. We had an on again off again relationship for years. Even got engaged for short time. She would always promise she is getting out of business but never did.
She came back and became everyone's ATF again (sigh) We got back together for a bit then I sort of screwed up a bit- nothing bad but I accused her of doing some stuff that she denies. Really it was my fault for not accepting things more.
Anyway, I decided to surprise her by going to Korea. Figured I would prove once and for all my love for her and that I would be willing to do anything for her. Yeah. Big mistake. She was nice to me because her family loved me but when she got drunk she got bat-shit crazy on me. I always knew she had anger issues and was always a bit cold-hearted but I really saw it in full bloom. Funny because she comes off as so nice and special and sweet but she is also a very angry little girl inside. Always has been and I always knew it but loved her anyway. Always fighting and arguing with people. Boy did she get nasty with me. I cannot believe how mean she became. Did not seem to care at all how mean she was to me. I was shocked. After that I couldn't get out of her house and out of Korea fast enough. So sad as I really do love her. I have never loved someone so strongly before (I know, I am an idiot.. Believe me I realize it now). After the way she treated me, I honestly don't know if she ever truly cared about me or not. Crazy thing is that I hope some day she will call me and perhaps we will end up together but at same time I am hoping she does not. At least unless she permanently quits that job. Which will probably be never.
Anyway, so I left Korea heartbroken. I will not be the same. But I wanted to share this story and advice. No matter how beautiful and sweet and innocent they may seem, these girls are all troubled. Every single one of them have issues otherwise they would not be doing this work. I have met many of them through her and got to know them on a personal level. Since I was her boyfriend they treated me as one of their own. I knew their real names. Learned about the business. Learned about how these places are run, who actually owns them, everything. Quite fascinating world actually. One other thing I learned is that they are all the same. Don't think that yours is "different" or "special" somehow. It is simply not the case. They are not capable of carrying on a normal relationship. They are used to men catering to them and doing whatever they ask. They don't understand the concept of mutual love and respect. Why would they? They are used to men giving them whatever they want and always getting their way.
I went to this girls house in Korea. They have everything we have. Live just as good or better. They want the easy life and expensive lifestyle. They have a choice. They are not forced. Korea is a first world economy.
They are masters of manipulation and lying, as I believe they must be otherwise they will not last or be successful in that business.
I am hanging up my mongering shoes permanently after this (not that I did much anyway). I leave this as parting advice as she has told me this herself (except for last one below which is my observation). This info below holds true for all of these "working women" as they like to be called:
If she has not given you her phone number or agreed to see you out of work, she is playing you.
If she has not told you her real name she is playing you.
If you are lucky enough to meet outside of work but she does not have sex for free, she is playing you.
If you have sex for free and actually get into relationship, then you better strap in and hold on for a wild emotional roller coaster of a ride with the eventual and inevitable question always being " can I borrow money?
Final advice: Bang these girls, meet them out of work and bang them some more. But do not under any circumstances fall in love with them. She is not "different". She is not "special". She is just really good at convincing you she is until one day her true colors are revealed.
If this story and advice helps at least one of you steer clear of the trouble, stress and heartache I endured over the last several years then I am glad I posted here.
Good luck everyone![/QUOTE]Nothing is ever free!
[QUOTE=RLargess;1901974]So I know that tansmart has been considered a bit of a disappointment in the past, but new ads seem to speak different.
[URL]http://providence.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/sinfully-sweet-exotic-mixed-treat/3746189[/URL]
[URL]http://providence.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/latinaandhearts-seductive-princess/3795557[/URL]
Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Abbii came from Simple Pleasures in Central Falls when they closed. Given the quality that was there, I'd say you're paying too much attention to the advertising.
Don't feel too bad brother, check out the Korean Bar Girls thread in Honolulu, you never stood a chance. You were like a high school all star trying to get a hit off the Rocket. The end of the story was written the day you started it.
A2.
Stopped by DT yesterday morning, drew Eva: tall, (5'8" in huge heels) thin, youngish, slender. Attractive and friendly, but was all business. Massage was great, she walks on your back. English not very good, but she's not talkative anyway. She basically had a routine and instructed me through the various positions, etc. Gave some nice unrequested AR, and would probably do plenty of prostate work for those of you who like that.
Overall a mediocre and unenthusiastic session. Some times, I have believed my provider was enjoying our session. Most times, they act like they're enjoying it, and some are pretty good actresses. Eva didn't bother to act. She didn't complain or seem bothered, but was clearly not into it, kind of a buzzkill. Maybe next time I'm asked "what you want?" I'll be more specific: "everything, and also pretend to like me." Maybe that costs extra. I paid the usual 60/140.
Sexy girl, but would not repeat. But I would recommend her to those of you who like the backdoor play.
Is Chanelle at DT the same Chanelle that was there 4 years ago? She was my first AMP girl and just set a standard yet to be exceeded. Wouldn't mind a trip down memory lane if that's her.