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Kat deleted profile. However, I did not think she had an unattractive face in person. Maybe not the prettiest, but good enough for me. Had the librarian look going with the thick-rimmed glasses. Body was tight and nice ass. Definitely a biological female. But, like with Sweet Tooth, she is also not in the greatest place in life which is always something to be vigilant about when dealing with these kinds of girls.
Has anyone seen this one? Our text conversation felt off. She wanted to talk about sex like scammers usually do and she really wanted more pics and a pic of me in my underwear which feels like a potential blackmail scam. She hasn't asked for money at all though. Can anyone confirm she's real?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9f5d7f5-63b8-421a-9d24-c03cd7225fbe[/URL]
I’ll add that we set up a meet and since I was already suspicious I just let the time come and go thinking I’d hear from her asking about it if she were real. I didn’t hear from her then but a day later she reached out again about it and looking to reschedule.
I assume I should just trust my gut on this one. I’m usually good about dropping the scammers right away
She seems real based on text conversation. Wants 600 and can't host which puts her out of range of what I'm willing to do. She ghosted when I countered which is usually a good sign for not being a scammer. 😝.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b80e5a25-dc18-424a-b4aa-5527b5b2dc4f[/URL]
[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7082228]Has anyone seen this one? Our text conversation felt off. She wanted to talk about sex like scammers usually do and she really wanted more pics and a pic of me in my underwear which feels like a potential blackmail scam. She hasn't asked for money at all though. Can anyone confirm she's real?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9f5d7f5-63b8-421a-9d24-c03cd7225fbe[/URL]
Ill add that we set up a meet and since I was already suspicious I just let the time come and go thinking Id hear from her asking about it if she were real. I didnt hear from her then but a day later she reached out again about it and looking to reschedule.
I assume I should just trust my gut on this one. Im usually good about dropping the scammers right away[/QUOTE]If you scheduled a meet up why wouldn't you meet her? It costs nothing to meet and at least see what she is about. Usually get a better read on them in person. PM me her info I will check her out and report back.
[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7082228]Has anyone seen this one? Our text conversation felt off. She wanted to talk about sex like scammers usually do and she really wanted more pics and a pic of me in my underwear which feels like a potential blackmail scam. She hasn't asked for money at all though. Can anyone confirm she's real?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9f5d7f5-63b8-421a-9d24-c03cd7225fbe[/URL]
Ill add that we set up a meet and since I was already suspicious I just let the time come and go thinking Id hear from her asking about it if she were real. I didnt hear from her then but a day later she reached out again about it and looking to reschedule.
I assume I should just trust my gut on this one. Im usually good about dropping the scammers right away[/QUOTE]Could also be a gay dude trying to manipulate straight guys. I have found this on a lot of vanilla sites. Personally, I don't send additional pics other then what I have as I don't want scammers or ai to build a dossier on me. If they aren't willing to go on video on telegram or make specific videos to verify authenticity I don't waste my time on planning a meet.
I've been disappointed on this site several times in which I will message someone and favorite their profile, for only me to see later they looked at my profile and didn't respond. What am I missing.
[QUOTE=AhoyNE;7084643]I've been disappointed on this site several times in which I will message someone and favorite their profile, for only me to see later they looked at my profile and didn't respond. What am I missing.[/QUOTE]1 & 2.
Rule 1 be attractive, rule 2 done be unattractive. Haha but I suggest you make an original opener because once something is posted here it'll be used to frequently that you'll get the same result IMO. My opener is 4 sentences long. Still depends on the girl. Same answer with a lengthy response, others with a few words and some just read it. Nothings for certain.
[QUOTE=AhoyNE;7084643]I've been disappointed on this site several times in which I will message someone and favorite their profile, for only me to see later they looked at my profile and didn't respond. What am I missing.[/QUOTE]I don't think you're missing anything, that sounds about right. My general workflow on that site is to send out a lot of messages, the majority of them will go unread, some will be read / my profile gets viewed but no response, slightly less actually respond, even less actually materialize into a meet, and the very small minority actually become an ongoing arrangement.
It is a numbers game for a variety of reasons. To start, women get way more messages than men so they can be selective in finding exactly who they want, you may just not be their type. Then factor in scammers, fake profiles, young women just dipping their toe in the water and backing out because they're nervous, etc. It's best not to even waste mental bandwidth thinking about that stuff, just keep moving forward.
That being said I suggest making sure you have multiple photos on your profile that are well lit and flattering and have a decent few lines of text, talk a bit about yourself and what you are looking for, doesn't have to be a novel. And at the least, do the photo verification on your profile, helps show you are legit.
And again, it is a numbers game, fire off a lot of messages.
[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7082228]Has anyone seen this one? Our text conversation felt off. She wanted to talk about sex like scammers usually do and she really wanted more pics and a pic of me in my underwear which feels like a potential blackmail scam. She hasn't asked for money at all though. Can anyone confirm she's real?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9f5d7f5-63b8-421a-9d24-c03cd7225fbe[/URL]
Ill add that we set up a meet and since I was already suspicious I just let the time come and go thinking Id hear from her asking about it if she were real. I didnt hear from her then but a day later she reached out again about it and looking to reschedule.
I assume I should just trust my gut on this one. Im usually good about dropping the scammers right away[/QUOTE]I have texted this person before. Eventually revealed that this was a trans situation. Definitely dodged a bullet.
[QUOTE=FrogPilot;7085482]I don't think you're missing anything, that sounds about right. My general workflow on that site is to send out a lot of messages, the majority of them will go unread, some will be read / my profile gets viewed but no response, slightly less actually respond, even less actually materialize into a meet, and the very small minority actually become an ongoing arrangement.
It is a numbers game for a variety of reasons. To start, women get way more messages than men so they can be selective in finding exactly who they want, you may just not be their type. Then factor in scammers, fake profiles, young women just dipping their toe in the water and backing out because they're nervous, etc. It's best not to even waste mental bandwidth thinking about that stuff, just keep moving forward.
That being said I suggest making sure you have multiple photos on your profile that are well lit and flattering and have a decent few lines of text, talk a bit about yourself and what you are looking for, doesn't have to be a novel. And at the least, do the photo verification on your profile, helps show you are legit.
And again, it is a numbers game, fire off a lot of messages.[/QUOTE]Noted and ty.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9bce7840-2b62-5914-d281-cbd30ba7554b[/URL]
Any info on this would be extremely appreciated.
Definitely giving out serious pro vibes, Reached out to me on SB.
More chatting right now to see how pro she might be, but immediately talking PPM etc and everything has a price but little info on what she might actually do.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2e4f893c18a52905[/URL]
Anyone recognize her, is she using this as a new way to get guys?
[QUOTE=IOnDaStreet;7088791]Definitely giving out serious pro vibes, Reached out to me on SB.
More chatting right now to see how pro she might be, but immediately talking PPM etc and everything has a price but little info on what she might actually do.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2e4f893c18a52905[/URL]
Anyone recognize her, is she using this as a new way to get guys?[/QUOTE]She got a man face.
[QUOTE=AhoyNE;7086541][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9bce7840-2b62-5914-d281-cbd30ba7554b[/URL]
Any info on this would be extremely appreciated.[/QUOTE]I pinged her for info. Never heard back. I'll let you know if hear anything.
On my 'single mom' kick I've now tried twice with this one. First time was ghosted while texting for a few days, most recently ghosted the day of a hotel date planned. Of course I had not yet paid for the room nor had even driven to the hotel, as one learns this stuff.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f8793b21-b887-4397-9f75-e455b5816f35[/URL]