This is what it's all about!
[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;6083821]We're advertising as a sugar couple looking for a third playmate from time to time. She's handling the account though. She knows the allowance I'm willing to provide, and she also knows the allowance for the third is a ceiling price and so she has an incentive to negotiate lower (she gets any allowance below the ceiling for our third, as long as I like the girl she finds for our playmate). She agreed to a lower allowance amount if she finds a girl she wants to join us but has GPS. It's what convinced me she is truly bisexual.
It's a hard search because, as you recognize, a lot of girls want to be an "exclusive SB" and the ladies who are open to being a third are either pros or not our type. She also understands that she needs to tell potential SBs that I've got an SO, so the potential SB only gets to meet me if the new girl is comfortable with that and clears a number of other hurdles.
At first I was hesitant to do this because I was concerned that she would start talking to other SBs and realize that lots of these ladies are asking for allowances that are a lot higher than hers. Then I was like, eff it, I can barely handle my current rotation so if she decides to go gps on me, then it would give me a breather since I'm barely able to handle my current rotation.
Her current circle of friends doesn't include any romantic interests as of right now, which is how I grabbed her when she created an account on seeking. She also doesn't want her entire group of friends to know she is a SB (though she shared that info with a handful of close friends). I can't do a vanilla sugar dating site since I have an SO, and she doesn't want to advertise herself as having a sugar daddy on vanilla sites like match or bumble (she's afraid one of her acquaintances might find out and isn't ok with that). We tried creating profiles on a bunch of vanilla sites without pictures and found that it was much harder finding anyone of interest. I guess we came off as a weird creeper sugar couple without pics on vanilla sites. With seeking, she is comfortable posting her pic in private mode. I told her now that I have her, I don't want to post pictures in private mode because of my SO. In reality, I don't want a potential SB outing me that I might have reached out to under my solo account. (Our agreement is that I get last say on any potential SB we both take out to dinner).
I'm currently out of town on vacation and since it's a shared account, I get to read her messages and responses. It's given me a new take on how to approach girls on my solo account. She's hot and so has lined up a few dates for both of us when I get back into town later next week.
Will update on how this new aspect of sugaring turns out for anyone who is interested.[/QUOTE]Good for you ProCatHunter for pushing the boundary. Ten years ago, sugar dating was on the edge. Now it's becoming extremely normal and people don't bat an eye. Good for you for going to the perimeter and grabbing your fun! I certainly try as well. Used to care about what people thought seeing a mid 50's (in shape and good looking) guy with a 25 year old hottie. Now, I could give 2 f# at ks! Last night, after a M&G that went well, went straight to a hotel, walked in with hottie SB and checked into a room. With no bags! Hope you are successful.
FunNicole. Something seemed off
Not sure where the hammer was going to drop, but insisted in talking about pay for sex. She claims to have a full dance card of sex meets to do. Would double up per day.
She's likely to get banned. Not going down with her. Blocked.
If you are going to hit it know that she's trying to bang as many dudes as possible. Hubby must be short of cash this month.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/10d319b0-6da4-4737-b11b-968adc80d32f[/URL]
