[QUOTE=CubsFan31;1414482]I always thought big Don had something to do with being part owner / manager at BBF. Any true in that?[/QUOTE]Manager yes, owner no.
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[QUOTE=CubsFan31;1414482]I always thought big Don had something to do with being part owner / manager at BBF. Any true in that?[/QUOTE]Manager yes, owner no.
Stumbled into Pure Passion last night after a bit of club hopping. Quite the gentlemen's affair. This place is more like a nightclub with dancers than a strip club. The VIP ($10 a song / 2 song minimum) offers quite a bit of mileage, and the right conversation could lead you to bigger and better things. There's a few lookers, mostly between the 6-8 range. Got really crowded around 2 am. I guess my comrades and I should have gotten there earlier because all the tables and booths were filled and we were stuck standing for awhile until some people left. This place is NOT for the timid. Probably best you have some steel reinforcement nearby.
[QUOTE=Aguy Nameddude;1415801]Stumbled into Pure Passion last night after a bit of club hopping. Quite the gentlemen's affair. This place is more like a nightclub with dancers than a strip club. The VIP ($10 a song / 2 song minimum) offers quite a bit of mileage, and the right conversation could lead you to bigger and better things. There's a few lookers, mostly between the 6-8 range. Got really crowded around 2 am. I guess my comrades and I should have gotten there earlier because all the tables and booths were filled and we were stuck standing for awhile until some people left. This place is NOT for the timid. Probably best you have some steel reinforcement nearby.[/QUOTE]I drive by Pure Passion about every day for work. I haven't seen a car in the parking lot for years in the afternoon so much so that I stopped even looking when I drive by unless there is a SW walking the sidewalk. That said, call me a pussy or timid, but I won't be mongering in a place where the first review in years suggests carrying steel reinforcement. Mine is actully more of a ploymer reinforcement, but I'd rather not have to use it.
Stay Safe.
Hit Dancers again on Saturday evening with a friend. Due to personal time constraints I didn't get there until about 1, and it seemed like slim pickings. My friend and I are decent looking, younger men and we had one girl come to our table to complain about it being her birthday and only being 20. Despite attempts, she made it clear she was interested in a free therapy session more than making money that night. No Blaze, whom I'm still looking for, but MJ, my favorite kinky lady, came to the stage and gave a generous, hair-tugging dance punctuated with some long question that I confess I didn't get to hear over the music. Aware enough that she more than likely was just asking for a private dance, I said "I'm good for now" over the music and returned to my seat, trying to catch her eye to come over. No dice, and she left with an ice pack on her shoulder later.
Other than that, there were a fair quantity of girls and ladies working, but just not much quality. I'm not sure if the beer jaded me or what, but a year ago I would have dropped. 6 on any girl in my lap. This time around, I left with 3 times as much money than I spent. I haven't tried other categories of mongering (AMP or SW, Escorts are too rich for my blood) , but if I get many more ho-hum evenings here I might take the plunge.
[QUOTE=Tim P14; 1416374]I drive by Pure Passion about every day for work. I haven't seen a car in the parking lot for years in the afternoon so much so that I stopped even looking when I drive by unless there is a SW walking the sidewalk. That said, call me a pussy or timid, but I won't be mongering in a place where the first review in years suggests carrying steel reinforcement. Mine is actully more of a ploymer reinforcement, but I'd rather not have to use it.
Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]They usually open around 7 or 8 in the evening. Like I was saying, it has somewhat of a nightclub feel to it. I usually don't feel threatened but I'm pretty cautious about these kinds of places. The crowd is a bit rougher than Patty's or Sassy Cats. They have security but I get the vibe that they're there mostly for the girls and clubs' interests. That being said, this part of town is usually WELL patrolled and monitored by our favorite uncle.
On another note, I'm not sure if its been reported but Sassy Cats has gone out of business. This place was one of my more liked watering holes. It was low key and you could find decent talent at reasonable prices. Also had plenty of OTC potential. After years of trying, the neighborhood association (surprised they even had one over there) was successful and had them shut down. I'm not sure if their liquor license is up for sale or what, but I know they're closed. Sucks. Maybe the Kentucky Club can hire some better workers now that there's a market of unemployed working girls.
[QUOTE=Aguy Nameddude;1417116]They usually open around 7 or 8 in the evening. Like I was saying, it has somewhat of a nightclub feel to it. I usually don't feel threatened but I'm pretty cautious about these kinds of places. The crowd is a bit rougher than Patty's or Sassy Cats. They have security but I get the vibe that they're there mostly for the girls and clubs' interests. That being said, this part of town is usually WELL patrolled and monitored by our favorite uncle.[/QUOTE]I went there one Friday night when I was feeling daring. There was about fifty people there and I was the only white guy. The doorman stood near me the whole time I was there and I got the feeling he was protecting me. One time I had a black dancer at Harem House who has worked at black clubs tell me that the security at black clubs are aware of potential problems. Security makes sure they've got guns and the customers don't.
[QUOTE=Roy Cat;1418200]I went there one Friday night when I was feeling daring. There was about fifty people there and I was the only white guy. The doorman stood near me the whole time I was there and I got the feeling he was protecting me. One time I had a black dancer at Harem House who has worked at black clubs tell me that the security at black clubs are aware of potential problems. Security makes sure they've got guns and the customers don't.[/QUOTE]99% of the time, people are just there to enjoy themselves. Occasionally, there's a situation but it usually stems from neighborhood stuff. I'm just try to be on alert when I'm in those kinds of establishments. I know how you feel, though. I feel the same way when I'm on the south side.
Got a free pass this last week and visited two clubs on Monday evening. One was on Morris street, two girls working and lots of thugs hanging out. Left quickly. The other was on South madison across from K-Mart. 5.6 girls dancing, mixed nationality, definately have take out available if interested.
[QUOTE=Roy Cat;1418200]I went there one Friday night when I was feeling daring. There was about fifty people there and I was the only white guy. The doorman stood near me the whole time I was there and I got the feeling he was protecting me. One time I had a black dancer at Harem House who has worked at black clubs tell me that the security at black clubs are aware of potential problems. Security makes sure they've got guns and the customers don't.[/QUOTE]Since most of my friends I go to clubs with are assholes and potential trouble makers, this is a spot I stop alone occasionally. There was a time in the past when I was concerned because I would get patted down coming in but other guys wouldn't. Last couple trips everybody seems to get checked. That was more flattering than at the PhatFarm in L'ville few years back when I went in and was one of just a couple caucasians but was probably the only guy that didn't get patted and barely got wanded, I hate not seeming like any threat at all. I have been the only fair skinned guy there, but not always. Never been threatened or harassed in any way, never followed out so no big deal. It's funny though, I have not walked into the westside one since right after it's change over from being BWest. Of course I have probably not been to Rio much since then either, my westside trips are very rare anymore.
IHave visited Pure Passion West probably a dozen times over the last year and have never had any issues. I have been there mostly afternons or early evenings. The women are hot, including the day manager. They have the same Tuesday specials as HH or BE. OTC parties are definitely available with most of the dancers.
[QUOTE=Ilapp;1419440]Since most of my friends I go to clubs with are assholes and potential trouble makers, this is a spot I stop alone occasionally. There was a time in the past when I was concerned because I would get patted down coming in but other guys wouldn't. Last couple trips everybody seems to get checked. That was more flattering than at the PhatFarm in L'ville few years back when I went in and was one of just a couple caucasians but was probably the only guy that didn't get patted and barely got wanded, I hate not seeming like any threat at all. I have been the only fair skinned guy there, but not always. Never been threatened or harassed in any way, never followed out so no big deal. It's funny though, I have not walked into the westside one since right after it's change over from being BWest. Of course I have probably not been to Rio much since then either, my westside trips are very rare anymore.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Theindianaguy;1419679]IHave visited Pure Passion West probably a dozen times over the last year and have never had any issues. I have been there mostly afternons or early evenings. The women are hot, including the day manager. They have the same Tuesday specials as HH or BE. OTC parties are definitely available with most of the dancers.[/QUOTE]When does Pure Passion West open in the afternoons?
[QUOTE=Tuls2011;1419785]When does Pure Passion West open in the afternoons?[/QUOTE]3 pm But I would wait an hour to let them get going.
Interested if anyone knows anything about Rose at BBF. She has been there a few weeks, late-thirties (?) , works weekend days, terrific body, bubbly personality, and is always busy in the lap dance area.
Many customers and many girls (many new girls as well) there last Saturday night.
[QUOTE=Ilapp;1419440]Since most of my friends I go to clubs with are assholes and potential trouble makers,[/QUOTE]Wondering why you've ben dodging us when I come to town. I thought it was my aftershave.
[QUOTE=Two Nutts;1421551]Wondering why you've ben dodging us when I come to town. I thought it was my aftershave.[/QUOTE]Because seems like last time I went to a club with anybody, you were one of them, not that I could have been talking about you though. Of course that dancer in the Fort might beg to differ LOL But I don't care, because I am going to drink a little more grape juice to celebrate all the money you didn't win after all the work I did, and write a quick review over on BP advertisers. And by the way, about that aftershave.
Hi there, just wanted to say thanks to you all for the posts and guidance. Went back and read through a couple years worth of posts; very educational. I've been an occasional visitor to the clubs over the years, and always knew there were things I was missing. So, hopefully I can put what I learned here to the test.
I will relate my last SC trip, which was super bowl weekend. Went to the Silk for the second time ever. A bit crowded because of the SB, plus cover was 10. Got 4 of the $10 dances from a well endowed redhead that reminded me of an ex. Lots of contact mutual contact and dirty talk, which led me to believe more would be offered in other rooms (of course, she could have just wanted the extra per song). I'll definitely be back, and will keep you informed.
[QUOTE=Ilapp;1421681]Because seems like last time I went to a club with anybody, you were one of them, not that I could have been talking about you though. Of course that dancer in the Fort might beg to differ LOL But I don't care, because I am going to drink a little more grape juice to celebrate all the money you didn't win after all the work I did, and write a quick review over on BP advertisers. And by the way, about that aftershave.[/QUOTE]DUDE! That was clear back in Feb. You must be jonesing for a stripper. Glad you like the grape pop. Let me know if you want some more before June. I hear the chef will be making some apple pie as well.
So visted a couple of clubs on the east side recently, babes and HH (like I go anywhere else, because they are the closet drive to me). Got to question for you all. Got some dances from one girl, then awile later got some dances from a second girl. The second girl I did 4 dances with. She said I did 5. I said we did 4. Even though I had plenty to drink (and sometmes I loose count) I said we did 4 but gave for 100 for 5 dances. Then went straight up to the dj both and asked him how many dances did we do, becuase I know he keeps track at this club. He said we did 4. When I turned around the girl was there with a 20 in her hand and said sorry my mistake. This isn't the first time a girl tries to raise the number of dances we do when they know I have been drinking heavly. It pissed me off cause I thought this girl was smoking hot and would like to have dances with her in the future but now I don't trust her.
How do you all handle a girl trying to overcharge you for dances you do?
Visited Dancers on the West side last night out of convenience. Along came Mary Jane to sit down beside me. Youngish, over-tanned brunette with lots of tattoos and piercings. Looked like she might be fun, so I took her back for some dances. After a couple dances I usually test how much fun they might be by allowing my hands to get closer and closer to the promised land. I got a "careful" from her relatively quickly, and it was off. She squeezed one more dance out of me anyway which I was pissed at myself about after the fact.
Remembered some advice I got on here which was "the server and bartenders are your best friends". Server came to get me another beer. I overtipped her and then asked her who is the most fun in the back. She pointed me to A, who wasn't the hottest girl there, but was attractive and had all the requisite curves. The server even sent her over to my table. We made some really awkward small talk and headed for the back. Her hands weren't really roaming, But she didn't mind that mine were. She knew what I was working toward and didn't seem to mind. When it was over 3. 1 songs later, I left her. 9 and walked out.
Moral of the story: a $5 tip is well spent on a server that can get you to what you are looking for.
Happy Hunting,
TDM
[QUOTE=JimBeamCoke; 1423253]So visted a couple of clubs on the east side recently, babes and HH (like I go anywhere else, because they are the closet drive to me). Got to question for you all. Got some dances from one girl, then awile later got some dances from a second girl. The second girl I did 4 dances with. She said I did 5. I said we did 4. Even though I had plenty to drink (and sometmes I loose count) I said we did 4 but gave for 100 for 5 dances. Then went straight up to the dj both and asked him how many dances did we do, becuase I know he keeps track at this club. He said we did 4. When I turned around the girl was there with a 20 in her hand and said sorry my mistake. This isn't the first time a girl tries to raise the number of dances we do when they know I have been drinking heavly. It pissed me off cause I thought this girl was smoking hot and would like to have dances with her in the future but now I don't trust her.
How do you all handle a girl trying to overcharge you for dances you do?[/QUOTE]Wow that sucks. Why do they seem so short sited? Especially with a regular. What is the chance you will get dances with her again?
[QUOTE=JimBeamCoke; 1423253]So visted a couple of clubs on the east side recently, babes and HH (like I go anywhere else, because they are the closet drive to me). Got to question for you all. Got some dances from one girl, then awile later got some dances from a second girl. The second girl I did 4 dances with. She said I did 5. I said we did 4. Even though I had plenty to drink (and sometmes I loose count) I said we did 4 but gave for 100 for 5 dances. Then went straight up to the dj both and asked him how many dances did we do, becuase I know he keeps track at this club. He said we did 4. When I turned around the girl was there with a 20 in her hand and said sorry my mistake. This isn't the first time a girl tries to raise the number of dances we do when they know I have been drinking heavly. It pissed me off cause I thought this girl was smoking hot and would like to have dances with her in the future but now I don't trust her.
How do you all handle a girl trying to overcharge you for dances you do?[/QUOTE]It is a shame that there are dancers out there that can't see the forest for the trees. Chances are if she was honest with you from the start, she would have gotten more than the 20 extra she was trying to get from you at that time. I applaud you in checking with the dj and making sure you had proof of the right charge. Then with her standing right there to give you the overcharge money back you knew she was dishonest in the dance room. You probably should have talked to the manager on duty to make it known that she is deceitful to the customers.
As far as how I handle situations like that, I definitely make sure that I don't get anymore dances from that dancer. I don't know how many djs or other staff members at the clubs keep track of the dances that the gals do at a single time but I would go get verification if I knew who to go to. Sometimes it could be a he said / she said situation.
[QUOTE=Inboater01;1423364]Wow that sucks. Why do they seem so short sited? Especially with a regular. What is the chance you will get dances with her again?[/QUOTE]I think that is what got me pissed off the most is that she seemed so short sited in that 20 bucks now is better than the dough I would have dropped on her in the next few weeks. Everyone there knows I drop money.
As far as another dance with her, well she did have a nice butt and boobs were good so we will see.
[QUOTE=Tuls2011; 1423460]It is a shame that there are dancers out there that can't see the forest for the trees. Chances are if she was honest with you from the start, she would have gotten more than the 20 extra she was trying to get from you at that time. I applaud you in checking with the dj and making sure you had proof of the right charge. Then with her standing right there to give you the overcharge money back you knew she was dishonest in the dance room. You probably should have talked to the manager on duty to make it known that she is deceitful to the customers.
As far as how I handle situations like that, I definitely make sure that I don't get anymore dances from that dancer. I don't know how many djs or other staff members at the clubs keep track of the dances that the gals do at a single time but I would go get verification if I knew who to go to. Sometimes it could be a he said / she said situation.[/QUOTE]It is my understanding that at every club either the dj or the manager keeps track of every dance done and there is no he said / she said. They know how many dances you do every time.
Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]Otherwise you would know about the book I wrote and all the chapters that guys here donated. There was talk lately about a Volume two, but after a while no matter how amusing and unique the stories were they most all had similar threads and endings. Not quite all, but damn near. All I can say is, sorry about your luck bro, this ain't going to be pretty
P,S. oops, I forgot to add, I have dates planned with three of them this weekend, but if you had read the book you would know what that is worth LOL probably sorry about mine too
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]Advice? Stop going to BBF. You don't specify what "smoochy smoochy" means, but if you're dropping hundreds on the same girl every week, it's only going to work out if all you need is that smoochy smoochy. You're a sugar daddy, but if she's got you smitten chances are she's got 10 other regulars wrapped around her finger, too. If you're really in over your head, just cut yourself off cold turkey and hit somewhere else. Saves you the most money and gives you an excuse for an adventure.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]I have had a lot of strippers for friends and have had a fling or two with them. First of all, is this girl interested in you for anything other than your wallet? If not, then forget her before you go broke. The best way to test for this is just go see her a couple of times, get to know her a little and be pretty much open about yourself. Then ask her if she would be interested in meeting somewhere for dinner. Don't come on like you are asking for take out. If she accepts, then you are good to go. If she makes a bunch of excuses, forget her because all she wants is your money.
There are a bunch of things to remember about these girls. First, they probably already have a husband or boyfriend. They're not going to tell you about it though. They often have a habit or two that can make life with them miserable. There is always a lot of drama involved with nearly every girl in the clubs, some worse than others but there is always something. They work a schedule that makes it difficult to spend any time with them unless you are dropping bucks where they work. If you have any jealousy in body at all, forget your feelings for this girl or you will go through hell if she likes you too. The only way to get over it is to control your urges to go see her and spend money on her while you wait for her to stop working, get fired, or move away.
I have known about a dozen girls outside of the clubs when I lived in South Carolina and here in the Cincy area. A couple have passed away, I lost track of most of the others over time as they moved away or got out of the business and moved on. I still have one good friend who got out of the business and moved to another state. I'm supposed to go see her in a couple of weeks. The other one is still working and I will be spending Sunday (the only day that we are both off from work) with her either bicycling or going to a flea market. I'm nor in love with this girl, we are just good friends but I still get to hear all the details about the drama in her life and it gets damn depressing at times.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper?[/QUOTE]Yup.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten.[/QUOTE]Sucker.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity.[/QUOTE]Sure is.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]How do you get over it?[/QUOTE]Think with the big head.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy?[/QUOTE]Yup. BAD DECISION!
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Ahhhhh, damn.[/QUOTE]You said it.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]Just gave it (in addition to the previous 2 responses).
[QUOTE=Ilapp; 1424386]Otherwise you would know about the book I wrote and all the chapters that guys here donated. There was talk lately about a Volume two, but after a while no matter how amusing and unique the stories were they most all had similar threads and endings. Not quite all, but damn near. All I can say is, sorry about your luck bro, this ain't going to be pretty.
P, S. Oops, I forgot to add, I have dates planned with three of them this weekend, but if you had read the book you would know what that is worth LOL probably sorry about mine too[/QUOTE]Butt I think this girl really likes me, does that make a difference? She said I am different than every other guy she meets here! Who am I do joke, I onced asked this forum if it was wise to let a stripper stay at my house for awhile because she fell on hard times.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]How do you get over it? .[/QUOTE]You get over it by meeting another hot stripper and give her all of your money. Thats what I do.
I used to write a lot of reviews here on clubs and have had quite a bit Of time with sitting with dancers, getting dances, and occasionally having some fun. After reading what you guys are saying I think I could give some advice. It's really easy for me to tell if the dancer just wants my money, no matter how sneaky she's trying to be. Look for signs like her suggesting dances and mentioning any need for money (rent / just got money stolen / just got kicked out / cell phone shut off and needs it to call you.). A good test is to see how she reacts if you just "drop in to see her but didn't bring cash for dances". It's really rare that you find a girl genuinely interested in you but try to see how your conversations are going and try to tune down your hormones while you do it, and make sure you aren't getting dances from others when she's there or looking. Most of the time it's a complete waste of time but with the right ones it pays off I guess.
[QUOTE=JimBeamCoke;1424882]Butt I think this girl really likes me, does that make a difference? She said I am different than every other guy she meets here! Who am I do joke, I onced asked this forum if it was wise to let a stripper stay at my house for awhile because she fell on hard times.[/QUOTE]I'd sign her up with an exclusive contract in acting. She will surly win an Oscar, or better yet be your new wife.
Hi guys,
Newb here with my first post. I've been stalking this site for months now receiving a lot of good info, so I figured I'd pay my dues and try to give some back.
I'll start with my recent visit to the new and improved Silk. It was a Friday night. I got there around 9:30pm. I had actually stopped by here a couple of weeks before (for only a few minutes) and noticed that there were a good amount of dancers and the quality was much better than in the past. Anyway, on this visit the dancer quality wasn't quite as good. It may have been because it was early in the night shift and all the girls hadn't showed up yet, I don't know.
Anyway, a decent looking dancer sat with me and I bought her a drink. The first thing you notice about this girl is her unusual body type. Large, natural breasts on a very petite body frame. We chatted a bit and I found out she was in her late twenties and had been dancing for about five years. I decided because of her experience (and those big beautiful breasts) , I would accept if she asked for a couch dance. She did and off we went to the ten dollar room.
It's semi-secluded, but it is right by where the door men are. She had me sit where, I believe, she thought we'd have the most privacy. The first couch dance was great with a lot of roaming allowed. My hands seemed to always go for the breasts. I was definitely going to get another dance. I could instantly tell she was a veteran and knew what she was doing. I continued to get dances because she told me they only get better. She wasn't lying. With each dance, I had more freedom with my hands and mouth. I got five dances in all and felt like it was worth every penny.
Ok, there's my first report. I've become a regular at a few clubs and I have much more to write but I figured this would be a good start. BTW I know this dancer's stage name but I believe the etiquette on here is to not post it. Let me know on that.
[QUOTE=Ilapp; 1424386]Otherwise you would know about the book I wrote and all the chapters that guys here donated. There was talk lately about a Volume two, but after a while no matter how amusing and unique the stories were they most all had similar threads and endings. Not quite all, but damn near. All I can say is, sorry about your luck bro, this ain't going to be pretty.
P, S. Oops, I forgot to add, I have dates planned with three of them this weekend, but if you had read the book you would know what that is worth LOL probably sorry about mine too[/QUOTE]I should have added though that if you are a smelly, lowlife, unemployed leech living off the money she gets from guys like you and are probably an abuser and user, you probably have a much better shot at true love with her. They can't help it though, hey just really love them.
You should read back and find some of the stretches where we shared lots of stories for the book, you will laugh, you will cry, and probably you will turnandrun. However, if she ever ask you for money to cremate her cat, you will know its true love and you are in.
My best friend is an ex-stripper, she met her husband while dancing but they are a rare case.
She always told me that at least 90% of the dancers were either drug / alcohol addicts or so stupid they were functionally retarded.
[QUOTE=Ilapp; 1425364]I should have added though that if you are a smelly, lowlife, unemployed leech living off the money she gets from guys like you and are probably an abuser and user, you probably have a much better shot at true love with her. They can't help it though, hey just really love them.
You should read back and find some of the stretches where we shared lots of stories for the book, you will laugh, you will cry, and probably you will turnandrun. However, if she ever ask you for money to cremate her cat, you will know its true love and you are in.[/QUOTE]They do love some absolutely terrible guys. I agree it makes no sense. I will go back through and look. I really appreciate the jokes, stories and the unanimous advice to forget about it. I might wait a couple of weeks, wonder back in there, and see if she wants to get together for a dinner. Any sign of hesitation on that and I'll definitely just forget about it. They really know how to play in to that feeling of falling deeply in to lust, don't they? I should just stick to escorts. Never fallen in love with one of them!
Anyway, where are you guys going for the quality of ladies that tended to be in BBF before all the BS with them? I've not found many girls I could actually have a conversation with about anything other than her 3 kids and suitcase pimp and / or her desire to get a psychology degree because she's so good at people (but then not even actually understanding the difference between astrology and psychology.) I like nice looking girls with brains. That is probably entirely too much to ask but maybe you guys know?
I really do appreciate the banter, shenanigans and advice you guys have for everyone. I'll try to jump in to the conversations a bit more when I have something worth saying. Otherwise I'll leave it up to you professionals (damn introvert-edness.)
[QUOTE=Nostra3;1424171]Have any of you guys ever fallen for a stripper? I have been at this for a long time but recently one from BBF has got me all smitten. Obviously this is a poor idea for my wallet, my life, and my sanity. How do you get over it? Have you ever actually had a "real" connection with a stripper that turned out to be more than just a few hundred bucks a week in her pocket for a little smoochy smoochy? Ahhhhh, damn. Advice appreciated.[/QUOTE]I've dated several strippers in the past and it was nothing more than a pain in the ass. One thing we as hobbiest have to remember is how strippers make their money. They make money from us guys. The objective of strippers is to make as much money as possible. There are two ways that strippers can make more money than standard. One is to prostitute with the customers she meets at the club. The other way is to manipulate a customer into thinking a normal relationship outside the club is possible. This usually results in the customer only spending his money on that stripper and once the money is gone, so is the "relationship".
My best advice in this situation is to look out for yourself first and not fall into a deceitful trap brought on by a stripper. Go to strip clubs and see them for what they are there for. To get horny spending time and money with a half naked women. If you do want to venture into the "relationship" aspect with a stripper, make sure you test the waters first and not just jump in. Try not spending your money on her at the club and see how she reacts. You may even get dances with other dancers and see her reation from that. If she gets pissed off, then you know that there isn't a relationship that would be healthy and chances are it was just her after your money.
Here's a little report from BBF which I visited on yesterday evening at around 5 till maybe 8:30 or so.
I was again confronted with a girl-Nevada that I had seen before. She stopped by not too long after I had sat down. She didn't remember me from the previous time back a few months ago but that's not at all surprising-LOL. She was the only black girl working at this time and I had a couch session with her before. However, she's very pushy which I don't particularly like. I play around with her like I'm not interested in going back with her which always gets a rise out of her-I guess she likes a challenge or she's fucking broke and needs the money bad. Anyway, I tell her to come back 'round later.
A few moments later a very nice brunette with a nice little' ass-Rochelle stops by and gives me a table dance. She was fucking hott and I remember her from a few months back. Her pole action is nice. She looks like a veteran and prolly not too much older than me (early 30s) but you can't tell at all. I prolly should've asked her for some couch time but she didn't offer so. Guess she missed out. Maybe next time.
So then the DROUGHT began. Noone fucking came by the table again for almost 2 hours. It was crazy. I thought maybe it was my location so I moved and nothing. Most of the girls were sitting down probably entertaining regulars but damn, I've never seen such a lack of activity.
Anyway, Nevada finally comes back and I was left with no choice (fuck it). Took'er to the couch and felt all on'er like I always do. She put our mouf in my lap and like did this vibration thing. I thought it was hilarious but it felt nice. So I goes to pay'er after 2 songs and she comes hustlin' me for a tip. I was like."are you serious". Just her attitude about it was like WTF. She come tellin me about her bumper falling off and shit and I was like. I don't really fucking care about all that. Her tip went down the longer she talked about the tip. The thing is, if you are polite about it, I'll gladly give to you with repeat service. Guess she didn't get it. So I won't be seein her again.
So now I'm running out of time because I need to go, so I sit over by the bar that's closest to the couch area (call it back bar) and post up on a stool.
Then this Latina comes on the stage and I have a severe "thang" for Latina's. I normally don't tip when they on the pole (it ain't worth it to me) but I figured I'd slide 'er a few bucks and she'd stop by when she got off the pole. She was hot-long black hair and I don't remember her name. Nice tittays and shit but maybe she just ate or somethin cause her breath was not so nice. Anyway, the investment didn't pay be / see when she got off the pole she sat with some cat that I think she knew but hadn't given her shit the whole time. Oh well. On to the next one.
Then a nice brunette with long ass hair comes out of no-fuckin' where and walks up to me asking if I want a lap dance, of course I say sure. She had the build that I like small breasts and if she had a booty I could palm we was headed to the couch. She turns around and hot-fuckin-damn perfection. I ask her her name-Wendy and I was like let's hit the couch.
This girl had a nice attitude she did some nice grinding, booty shaking shit and let my hands run free-she was soft as hell too. Once again, nice girl. I went 2 rounds with her but on the 2nd round she didn't do much-not sure if it was lack of experience or she ran out of ideas. But luckily she could hold somewhat of a descent conversation so I didn't mind. I got hard, got close, felt'er up. Done deal and I was out. She told me to remember her next time. Prolly be / see I tipped her nicely. I told'er I'd try. Then I bounced.