Any info on this lady will be appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/290793eb-d2f5-45ef-b1f2-d84f9860316e[/URL]
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Any info on this lady will be appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/290793eb-d2f5-45ef-b1f2-d84f9860316e[/URL]
[QUOTE=Jb121;5387113]Any info on this lady will be appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/290793eb-d2f5-45ef-b1f2-d84f9860316e[/URL][/QUOTE]I met this one in person once. She was in need of some help so the meet was a rush. A few days later I bought into her sorrow story (my bad) and fronted her some money hoping to build something longer term. Of course I got ghosted. No sure what's her deal on SA, just don't buy into whatever she says.
I have this one's phone number if anyone wants to take a shot.
[QUOTE=Rapk9394;5387593]I met this one in person once. She was in need of some help so the meet was a rush. A few days later I bought into her sorrow story (my bad) and fronted her some money hoping to build something longer term. Of course I got ghosted. No sure what's her deal on SA, just don't buy into whatever she says.[/QUOTE]
Started chatting with this one. Tried to exchange pics but due to the app I use. Sometimes the pics don't come thru that app so I engaged a second app to receive pics. Things went ugly real quick. Accused me of playing games and having a cheep phone. WTF. Then wanted to know PPM before sending pics WTF. So I thru out a crazy number $6 to 800 just to get her to engage. GPS. She quickly sent pics and when I didn't respond within 5 minutes. She went CRAZY. Probably best to avoid her. Pics she sent did not match posted pics. First two Pics are posted. Second are what was sent. Seems a bit thicker in real pics. Very rude. Called me ugly. Old and other choice names. LOL. After saying I was really handsome. LMFAO. If your seeking CRAZY LATINA. Good luck. BTW. She doesn't have a drivers license and dies t drive.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5376916][URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/qkeBKrlYJ3PlGoY5Z2xR16zv[/URL]
I have a scheduled meet and greet with this NCSU lady tomorrow and was just curious if anyone had talked $ with her or any other specifics gleaned via conversation or meeting with her.
DM's are fine. Thanks.
VC.[/QUOTE]Finally met her, yesterday. For coffee. She's cute and sweet. Curvier / thicker in person than pics show but definitely not fat at all.
We agreed on me helping her with her car insurance and her phone bill and other small bills monthly, a little spending cash, shopping for need.
She can't host, at least not initially until she's comfortable with me. But that's Ok with me, for now. Wants to take it a little slow on the physical. In other words no intercourse. Until comfortable. But OK with other forms of play time.
We are going to get together again next week for a real "date".
Have any of why'll figured out how to fund your accounts anonymously? Specifically, what's your price. I've thought about trying a prepaid debit, I just don't want to be part of an Ashley Madison style hack. Thanks!
Trying to dip a bit into this a bit but wanted check here before. Please let me know if anyone has any experience or gotten any numbers for this young lady.
Ponytailprincess.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7ffd4532-43ac-4450-b44c-3f7c0e99e267[/URL]
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[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5389627]Finally met her, yesterday. For coffee. She's cute and sweet. Curvier / thicker in person than pics show but definitely not fat at all.
We agreed on me helping her with her car insurance and her phone bill and other small bills monthly, a little spending cash, shopping for need.
She can't host, at least not initially until she's comfortable with me. But that's Ok with me, for now. Wants to take it a little slow on the physical. In other words no intercourse. Until comfortable. But OK with other forms of play time.
We are going to get together again next week for a real "date".[/QUOTE]So how much you agreed to pay per month?
[QUOTE=Emeralddragon6;5394177]So how much you agreed to pay per month?[/QUOTE]I never do set amounts either for PPM (unless they ask for a certain amount) nor monthly.
It's just an "understanding" that I'll take care of her as much as I can. I tell them they can always ask for something if they have a need. And I'll either say yes or no.
My go-to line is "don't treat me like an ATM and I won't try to treat you like a sex doll". LOL.
Keeps it from feeling so transactional and it weeds out the gold diggers / GPSers.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5394448]I never do set amounts either for PPM (unless they ask for a certain amount) nor monthly.
It's just an "understanding" that I'll take care of her as much as I can. I tell them they can always ask for something if they have a need. And I'll either say yes or no.
My go-to line is "don't treat me like an ATM and I won't try to treat you like a sex doll". LOL.
Keeps it from feeling so transactional and it weeds out the gold diggers / GPSers.[/QUOTE]This is awesome VC. I love this. I have a similar philosophy but never really tell the girls about it. Appreciate all the contributions you make to the forum.
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GoddessMilf6744 anyone? Seeking info.
Thank you!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b0d51a03-ba70-4398-96e9-38e035e31615[/URL]
This one got banned, presumably, but turned around and made another account. She moves to text and then tries to claim she's this NYC-based model:
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/doroshina/?hl=en[/URL]
Asked for video chat, she asked for 10 minutes, then never replied; standard for a scam (they want time to go block you before you can report them). She wasn't fast enough.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5389627]Finally met her, yesterday. For coffee. She's cute and sweet. Curvier / thicker in person than pics show but definitely not fat at all.
We agreed on me helping her with her car insurance and her phone bill and other small bills monthly, a little spending cash, shopping for need.
She can't host, at least not initially until she's comfortable with me. But that's Ok with me, for now. Wants to take it a little slow on the physical. In other words no intercourse. Until comfortable. But OK with other forms of play time.
We are going to get together again next week for a real "date".[/QUOTE]So, I had my 2nd (and 1st private) date with this one yesterday and it was interesting. LOL.
She agreed to come to my private office condo for lunch and fun. Shows up looking really cute. Tight pink tank top (no bra) and tight jean shorts. (Borat voice: "very nice".).
We had some lunch and chilled out chatting about her work and school, etc.
Moved in for some fun and things started out pretty strongly. Lots of making out and I was exploring those nice curves with my hands. But, when I went to move a little further and wanted to see and play with those perfect tank-top puppies, she pulled back and said she wasn't ready to move that fast. Sigh.
Being the gentleman that I am, I told her I understood and had her sit on my lap and we continued kissing, etc. And that's when she confessed that she "isn't very sexually experienced". Ruh roh.
Turns out she's really only had one boyfriend that lasted about a year and a half and never really BEEN with anyone else. I didn't pry too much further but just reassured her that I'd respect her boundaries, of course.
So, we resumed the kissing / making out and it was driving me pretty insane. Not wanting my balls to go from the Dean Dome to Cameron Indoor (if you get my drift), I suggested that since my Maserati was already at the station that I just "pump my own gas" and maybe she could just clean the windshield, check the fluids, etc. She was surprisingly enthusiastic about that. And actually did some (albeit kinda inexperienced naturally) dirty talk and encouragement while letting me at least get a slightly better peek at her assets.
After our session, I gifted her (she never asked prior or immediately after) with a $50 visa and a bottle of Tequila that I know she likes. I made sure she got a glance at my wallet AMP style with a few bills hanging out. To let her know there's always more options on the table for her.
We agreed to have lunch and "stock the bar" for her upcoming 21st Bday party next week and have a very specific discussion about what her comfort level will be and what kind of gift that will entail correspondingly.
TLDR version. Cute, smart, fun co-ed, sexually inexperienced so wants to go slow; might be worth continuing to pursue if the price point stays low.
BTW. She trusted me enough to send her little sister in to apply to work for me and, boys, let me tell you about little Sis. - 18. Just graduated HS. Cute as a fucking button with a perfect, spinner body and big green eyes. She walked into my office with this little short-sleeved sweater showing off her flat belly and button ring and I about lost my damn mind.
I've spent the past few days tying to mentally engineer a Costanza-like "Switcheroo-Turned-Menage-A-Trois" but can't convince myself to try it -- lest Big Sis come to my office and stab me with my letter opener. LOL.
God Damn, man.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5402157]So, I had my 2nd (and 1st private) date with this one yesterday and it was interesting. LOL.
She agreed to come to my private office condo for lunch and fun. Shows up looking really cute. Tight pink tank top (no bra) and tight jean shorts. (Borat voice: "very nice".).
We had some lunch and chilled out chatting about her work and school, etc.
Moved in for some fun and things started out pretty strongly. Lots of making out and I was exploring those nice curves with my hands. But, when I went to move a little further and wanted to see and play with those perfect tank-top puppies, she pulled back and said she wasn't ready to move that fast. Sigh.
Being the gentleman that I am, I told her I understood and had her sit on my lap and we continued kissing, etc. And that's when she confessed that she "isn't very sexually experienced". Ruh roh.
Turns out she's really only had one boyfriend that lasted about a year and a half and never really BEEN with anyone else. I didn't pry too much further but just reassured her that I'd respect her boundaries, of course.
So, we resumed the kissing / making out and it was driving me pretty insane. Not wanting my balls to go from the Dean Dome to Cameron Indoor (if you get my drift), I suggested that since my Maserati was already at the station that I just "pump my own gas" and maybe she could just clean the windshield, check the fluids, etc. She was surprisingly enthusiastic about that. And actually did some (albeit kinda inexperienced naturally) dirty talk and encouragement while letting me at least get a slightly better peek at her assets.
After our session, I gifted her (she never asked prior or immediately after) with a $50 visa and a bottle of Tequila that I know she likes. I made sure she got a glance at my wallet AMP style with a few bills hanging out. To let her know there's always more options on the table for her.
We agreed to have lunch and "stock the bar" for her upcoming 21st Bday party next week and have a very specific discussion about what her comfort level will be and what kind of gift that will entail correspondingly.
TLDR version. Cute, smart, fun co-ed, sexually inexperienced so wants to go slow; might be worth continuing to pursue if the price point stays low.
BTW. She trusted me enough to send her little sister in to apply to work for me and, boys, let me tell you about little Sis. - 18. Just graduated HS. Cute as a fucking button with a perfect, spinner body and big green eyes. She walked into my office with this little short-sleeved sweater showing off her flat belly and button ring and I about lost my damn mind.
I've spent the past few days tying to mentally engineer a Costanza-like "Switcheroo-Turned-Menage-A-Trois" but can't convince myself to try it -- lest Big Sis come to my office and stab me with my letter opener. LOL.
God Damn, man.[/QUOTE]You're the man VC. Please keep sharing. Got much to learn from you man!
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5402157]So, I had my 2nd (and 1st private) date with this one yesterday and it was interesting. LOL.
She agreed to come to my private office condo for lunch and fun. Shows up looking really cute. Tight pink tank top (no bra) and tight jean shorts. (Borat voice: "very nice".).
We had some lunch and chilled out chatting about her work and school, etc.
Moved in for some fun and things started out pretty strongly. Lots of making out and I was exploring those nice curves with my hands. But, when I went to move a little further and wanted to see and play with those perfect tank-top puppies, she pulled back and said she wasn't ready to move that fast. Sigh.
Being the gentleman that I am, I told her I understood and had her sit on my lap and we continued kissing, etc. And that's when she confessed that she "isn't very sexually experienced". Ruh roh.
Turns out she's really only had one boyfriend that lasted about a year and a half and never really BEEN with anyone else. I didn't pry too much further but just reassured her that I'd respect her boundaries, of course.
So, we resumed the kissing / making out and it was driving me pretty insane. Not wanting my balls to go from the Dean Dome to Cameron Indoor (if you get my drift), I suggested that since my Maserati was already at the station that I just "pump my own gas" and maybe she could just clean the windshield, check the fluids, etc. She was surprisingly enthusiastic about that. And actually did some (albeit kinda inexperienced naturally) dirty talk and encouragement while letting me at least get a slightly better peek at her assets.
After our session, I gifted her (she never asked prior or immediately after) with a $50 visa and a bottle of Tequila that I know she likes. I made sure she got a glance at my wallet AMP style with a few bills hanging out. To let her know there's always more options on the table for her.
We agreed to have lunch and "stock the bar" for her upcoming 21st Bday party next week and have a very specific discussion about what her comfort level will be and what kind of gift that will entail correspondingly.
TLDR version. Cute, smart, fun co-ed, sexually inexperienced so wants to go slow; might be worth continuing to pursue if the price point stays low.
BTW. She trusted me enough to send her little sister in to apply to work for me and, boys, let me tell you about little Sis. - 18. Just graduated HS. Cute as a fucking button with a perfect, spinner body and big green eyes. She walked into my office with this little short-sleeved sweater showing off her flat belly and button ring and I about lost my damn mind.
I've spent the past few days tying to mentally engineer a Costanza-like "Switcheroo-Turned-Menage-A-Trois" but can't convince myself to try it -- lest Big Sis come to my office and stab me with my letter opener. LOL.
God Damn, man.[/QUOTE]I would bet if you offered them 400 each they would do a 3 some. But now that the little sis is working for you, you have to be careful about sexual harassment.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5402157]So, I had my 2nd (and 1st private) date with this one yesterday and it was interesting. LOL.
She agreed to come to my private office condo for lunch and fun. Shows up looking really cute. Tight pink tank top (no bra) and tight jean shorts. (Borat voice: "very nice".).
We had some lunch and chilled out chatting about her work and school, etc.
Moved in for some fun and things started out pretty strongly. Lots of making out and I was exploring those nice curves with my hands. But, when I went to move a little further and wanted to see and play with those perfect tank-top puppies, she pulled back and said she wasn't ready to move that fast. Sigh.
Being the gentleman that I am, I told her I understood and had her sit on my lap and we continued kissing, etc. And that's when she confessed that she "isn't very sexually experienced". Ruh roh.
Turns out she's really only had one boyfriend that lasted about a year and a half and never really BEEN with anyone else. I didn't pry too much further but just reassured her that I'd respect her boundaries, of course.
So, we resumed the kissing / making out and it was driving me pretty insane. Not wanting my balls to go from the Dean Dome to Cameron Indoor (if you get my drift), I suggested that since my Maserati was already at the station that I just "pump my own gas" and maybe she could just clean the windshield, check the fluids, etc. She was surprisingly enthusiastic about that. And actually did some (albeit kinda inexperienced naturally) dirty talk and encouragement while letting me at least get a slightly better peek at her assets.[/QUOTE]You are the man Vincent, thanks for sharing.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;5403389]I would bet if you offered them 400 each they would do a 3 some. But now that the little sis is working for you, you have to be careful about sexual harassment.[/QUOTE]While I admire your way of thinking, yeah, no way. That's off the table. Only in my dreams.
[QUOTE=Rapk9394;5403199]You're the man VC. Please keep sharing. Got much to learn from you man![/QUOTE]For the kind words. But, I'm not reinventing the wheel here. I honestly like to share these stories b / c there is so much negativity on these boards, these days. Ie: they're all scammers, all GPS, etc.
Just goes to prove if you are willing to be persistent and IF you have the time, there's still plenty of successes to be found. Hell, I'm sure the guys with much larger bankrolls are having all sorts of damn fun I can only dream of.
Speaking of persistence -- I'll share another, kinda crazy, story.
Flash back two plus years when I was heavy into hunting on Instagram for potential SB's and I connected with an NCSU girl. We chatted on and off for almost a year. And, to be honest, she's one of the very few I've ever paid (very small amounts) online for pics / vids / chat because she seemed really genuine and comes from a blue-collar family up North, supports herself a lot, etc. She went to do a semester abroad in Italy in January 2020 - and got sent home in March when all hell broke loose with Covid, but we had remained chat buddies until she started seeing a guy kinda seriously and said she was busy with school and work and whatnot. So, we just lost touch over time, as happens. Keep in mind. We'd never met in person over this whole time!
Flash forward to about 2 weeks ago. My office is downtown Raleigh so I always use Peace and Hillsborough Streets to get out to the beltline to enjoy the view. So many hotties out running, biking, shopping this time of year!
So, I'm stuck in a bit of traffic up near the last traffic circle and I look over and, I'll be damned if this girl isn't walking with a friend in front of Cup O Joe. I immediately texted her at the next light and said "Hey. I think I just drove past you on Hillsborough?
She replied "LOL. Yeah! OMG- you saw me? ". So, we started chatting again a bit and it turns out she just graduated and is kicking around Raleigh until she starts grad school in Philly in August.
Of course, I suggested if she wanted to reconnect over the next couple months until she moves that I'd be willing to help her save some money for her move and grad school, etc. Turns out. Her and the long-distance BF didn't work out (naturally) and she could indeed use some help and has a very free schedule.
I actually got her a part-time job with one of my clients starting this week and she was really happy and thankful. So I convinced her, finally, to come meet me one-on-one, yesterday.
We just hung and chatted for about 90 minutes while I got some work done because she admittedly was really nervous about meeting a "stranger from the internet" in person (smart girl LOL) even though we'd been chatting forever, because, in her words, "you never know what someone will be like in person".
We ended up clicking really well and talked about what would help her out for the next couple months -- and she's definitely a VERY attractive girl (curvy blonde, former high school soccer player. So thick legs and ass but athletic) and really fun to chat and hang with. She's pretty much got a duplex to herself these days because the last of her roommates left here works all the time, so we are going to spend some time at her place next Monday or Tuesday and she seems pretty open to most physical aspects of the sugar scene.
So, yeah. Persistence (keep everyone's digits and don't ever be afraid to send a "how have you been?" text once in a while with anyone you've lost touch with) and a LOT of dumb freaking luck go a long way, sometimes.
This, in my opinion, is what sugaring has the potential to be. I'm a big fan of playing the long game. I'm still seeing someone who graduated from grad school and landed an amazing job. I let her vent to me about the troubles of the dating pool, because we all know how foolish young guys can be, because we've all been those guys at a time or two in our lives. She'll then ask if I'd like to buy her dinner, I'll head over to her place, grab some takeout and we'll have a good time.
Being a decent person, being consistent, and not turning into an absolute ghoul goes a long way. This will open the doors for a lot of 'relationships' that she'll never post on her IG, but you're still having all the fun. And because it stays private, you don't have to worry about her getting jealous if you're still out entertaining other options. It's a win-win.
A lot of these women get turned off to the game because of bad experiences. You can be her alternative and a lot of the good women will pay that back in spades.
Glad to hear that it sounds like you've found a winner! Keep it up!
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5403641]For the kind words. But, I'm not reinventing the wheel here. I honestly like to share these stories b / c there is so much negativity on these boards, these days. Ie: they're all scammers, all GPS, etc.
Just goes to prove if you are willing to be persistent and IF you have the time, there's still plenty of successes to be found. Hell, I'm sure the guys with much larger bankrolls are having all sorts of damn fun I can only dream of.
Speaking of persistence -- I'll share another, kinda crazy, story.
Flash back two plus years when I was heavy into hunting on Instagram for potential SB's and I connected with an NCSU girl. We chatted on and off for almost a year. And, to be honest, she's one of the very few I've ever paid (very small amounts) online for pics / vids / chat because she seemed really genuine and comes from a blue-collar family up North, supports herself a lot, etc. She went to do a semester abroad in Italy in January 2020 - and got sent home in March when all hell broke loose with Covid, but we had remained chat buddies until she started seeing a guy kinda seriously and said she was busy with school and work and whatnot. So, we just lost touch over time, as happens. Keep in mind. We'd never met in person over this whole time!
Flash forward to about 2 weeks ago. My office is downtown Raleigh so I always use Peace and Hillsborough Streets to get out to the beltline to enjoy the view. So many hotties out running, biking, shopping this time of year!
So, I'm stuck in a bit of traffic up near the last traffic circle and I look over and, I'll be damned if this girl isn't walking with a friend in front of Cup O Joe. I immediately texted her at the next light and said "Hey. I think I just drove past you on Hillsborough?
She replied "LOL. Yeah! OMG- you saw me? ". So, we started chatting again a bit and it turns out she just graduated and is kicking around Raleigh until she starts grad school in Philly in August.
Of course, I suggested if she wanted to reconnect over the next couple months until she moves that I'd be willing to help her save some money for her move and grad school, etc. Turns out. Her and the long-distance BF didn't work out (naturally) and she could indeed use some help and has a very free schedule.
I actually got her a part-time job with one of my clients starting this week and she was really happy and thankful. So I convinced her, finally, to come meet me one-on-one, yesterday.
We just hung and chatted for about 90 minutes while I got some work done because she admittedly was really nervous about meeting a "stranger from the internet" in person (smart girl LOL) even though we'd been chatting forever, because, in her words, "you never know what someone will be like in person".
We ended up clicking really well and talked about what would help her out for the next couple months -- and she's definitely a VERY attractive girl (curvy blonde, former high school soccer player. So thick legs and ass but athletic) and really fun to chat and hang with. She's pretty much got a duplex to herself these days because the last of her roommates left here works all the time, so we are going to spend some time at her place next Monday or Tuesday and she seems pretty open to most physical aspects of the sugar scene.
So, yeah. Persistence (keep everyone's digits and don't ever be afraid to send a "how have you been?" text once in a while with anyone you've lost touch with) and a LOT of dumb freaking luck go a long way, sometimes.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Rapk9394;5387593]I met this one in person once. She was in need of some help so the meet was a rush. A few days later I bought into her sorrow story (my bad) and fronted her some money hoping to build something longer term. Of course I got ghosted. No sure what's her deal on SA, just don't buy into whatever she says.[/QUOTE]I meet her twice, first time the meeting was rushed. Second time she took her time. You're right, she has several stories sad stories she likes to share. Bad roommate she needs to get away from. She's found a great apartment, if you could help her out she'll show you how grateful she is. She has send me several different phone numbers.
Saw some profiles that I really liked so signed up instinctively.
Found a pro who immediately sent website info. Not sure it's legit. If anyone has info let me know. Rates seem super low.
[URL]https://angelprovider.com/escort/sweetcakes-6-reviews/[/URL]
SA profile [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c15bbebb-26a8-4051-afa8-4bd3a7c7d008[/URL].
This one wants gas money. Gia8997.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f5cf0b7-500a-4613-bb7d-a3fcf5dd624a[/URL]
Same with this. Needs money before meet.
CuteNfun93.
She blocked me so can't post link.
Setup MG next week with these 2. Let me know if any one has any info on them.
Rosecurve.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3065bdce-588d-443a-ad09-0ef08db2146d[/URL]
Carameldelites.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/30878eaa-4c9c-4b40-880b-e41e0bb21818[/URL]
G.
[QUOTE=Gatttaca;5406483]Saw some profiles that I really liked so signed up instinctively.
Found a pro who immediately sent website info. Not sure it's legit. If anyone has info let me know. Rates seem super low.
[URL]https://angelprovider.com/escort/sweetcakes-6-reviews/[/URL]
SA profile [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c15bbebb-26a8-4051-afa8-4bd3a7c7d008[/URL].
This one wants gas money. Gia8997.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f5cf0b7-500a-4613-bb7d-a3fcf5dd624a[/URL]
Same with this. Needs money before meet.
CuteNfun93.
She blocked me so can't post link.
Setup MG next week with these 2. Let me know if any one has any info on them.
Rosecurve.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3065bdce-588d-443a-ad09-0ef08db2146d[/URL]
Carameldelites.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/30878eaa-4c9c-4b40-880b-e41e0bb21818[/URL]
G.[/QUOTE]I always say no to gas money before M&G. Has the potential to be waste of money.
Want to give this a try, set up the site and now do I just get membership to premium or how does it work? Seem a little steep but reading here it can have good results. Is it worth the money?
[QUOTE=WitchDoc99;5409966]Want to give this a try, set up the site and now do I just get membership to premium or how does it work? Seem a little steep but reading here it can have good results. Is it worth the money?[/QUOTE]Don't spend the money at first.
Right click / google image search pics.
Set up a dummy Instagram account that states you are a sugar daddy.
DM the girls you can trace to their IG accounts. Be a gentleman about it and just say Hey. See where that gets you before you spend the money.
Just IMO.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5410906]Don't spend the money at first.
Right click / google image search pics.
Set up a dummy Instagram account that states you are a sugar daddy.
DM the girls you can trace to their IG accounts. Be a gentleman about it and just say Hey. See where that gets you before you spend the money.
Just IMO.[/QUOTE]Hey at least I can start, thank you for making the forum worth being and participating on. Be safe out there.
[QUOTE=WitchDoc99;5409966]Want to give this a try, set up the site and now do I just get membership to premium or how does it work? Seem a little steep but reading here it can have good results. Is it worth the money?[/QUOTE]A few additional pointers, take them or not, it's entirely up to you:
-Determine how 'close' you can allow sugaring to be to your personal life. If you have relationships, business connections, etc. That are important to you, I'd think about only messaging women who don't live near where you frequent in your day to day life.
-Place an emphasis on getting to know her through messaging, texting, and the like. Give her the ability to show if her life is in shambles, she's mentally compromised, or desperate in a manner that could harm you or your personal situation.
-I would never allow anyone into my home.
-Be careful who you share your photos with. Her friends WILL ABSOLUTELY hear everything about you. They'll also see all of the photos that you send her. Keep that in mind.
-It's wise to be kind and respectful. Many women these days DO NOT take sh*t and will expose your business. I can't stress this enough.
-Being friendly, genuine, and considerate goes a lot further than you think.
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5410926]A few additional pointers, take them or not, it's entirely up to you:
-Determine how 'close' you can allow sugaring to be to your personal life. If you have relationships, business connections, etc. That are important to you, I'd think about only messaging women who don't live near where you frequent in your day to day life.
-Place an emphasis on getting to know her through messaging, texting, and the like. Give her the ability to show if her life is in shambles, she's mentally compromised, or desperate in a manner that could harm you or your personal situation.
-I would never allow anyone into my home.
-Be careful who you share your photos with. Her friends WILL ABSOLUTELY hear everything about you. They'll also see all of the photos that you send her. Keep that in mind.
-It's wise to be kind and respectful. Many women these days DO NOT take sh*t and will expose your business. I can't stress this enough.
-Being friendly, genuine, and considerate goes a lot further than you think.[/QUOTE]Your "status" matters. If you are single / divorced and recently sold a tech company for 20 M, you can have a much more IDGAF attitude. And you'll have no shortage of suitors and fun.
If you are middle-management with a wife and / or kids -- play it very close to the vest for awhile until you get a feel for how things operate. Don't let them know your real name, exact occupation, where you live, etc.
I know that sounds scary, but until you REALLY know someone, all that info should be kept to yourself.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5403641]For the kind words. But, I'm not reinventing the wheel here. I honestly like to share these stories b / c there is so much negativity on these boards, these days. Ie: they're all scammers, all GPS, etc.
Just goes to prove if you are willing to be persistent and IF you have the time, there's still plenty of successes to be found. Hell, I'm sure the guys with much larger bankrolls are having all sorts of damn fun I can only dream of.
Speaking of persistence -- I'll share another, kinda crazy, story.
Flash back two plus years when I was heavy into hunting on Instagram for potential SB's and I connected with an NCSU girl. We chatted on and off for almost a year. And, to be honest, she's one of the very few I've ever paid (very small amounts) online for pics / vids / chat because she seemed really genuine and comes from a blue-collar family up North, supports herself a lot, etc. She went to do a semester abroad in Italy in January 2020 - and got sent home in March when all hell broke loose with Covid, but we had remained chat buddies until she started seeing a guy kinda seriously and said she was busy with school and work and whatnot. So, we just lost touch over time, as happens. Keep in mind. We'd never met in person over this whole time!
Flash forward to about 2 weeks ago. My office is downtown Raleigh so I always use Peace and Hillsborough Streets to get out to the beltline to enjoy the view. So many hotties out running, biking, shopping this time of year!
So, I'm stuck in a bit of traffic up near the last traffic circle and I look over and, I'll be damned if this girl isn't walking with a friend in front of Cup O Joe. I immediately texted her at the next light and said "Hey. I think I just drove past you on Hillsborough?
She replied "LOL. Yeah! OMG- you saw me? ". So, we started chatting again a bit and it turns out she just graduated and is kicking around Raleigh until she starts grad school in Philly in August.
Of course, I suggested if she wanted to reconnect over the next couple months until she moves that I'd be willing to help her save some money for her move and grad school, etc. Turns out. Her and the long-distance BF didn't work out (naturally) and she could indeed use some help and has a very free schedule.
I actually got her a part-time job with one of my clients starting this week and she was really happy and thankful. So I convinced her, finally, to come meet me one-on-one, yesterday.
We just hung and chatted for about 90 minutes while I got some work done because she admittedly was really nervous about meeting a "stranger from the internet" in person (smart girl LOL) even though we'd been chatting forever, because, in her words, "you never know what someone will be like in person".
We ended up clicking really well and talked about what would help her out for the next couple months -- and she's definitely a VERY attractive girl (curvy blonde, former high school soccer player. So thick legs and ass but athletic) and really fun to chat and hang with. She's pretty much got a duplex to herself these days because the last of her roommates left here works all the time, so we are going to spend some time at her place next Monday or Tuesday and she seems pretty open to most physical aspects of the sugar scene.
So, yeah. Persistence (keep everyone's digits and don't ever be afraid to send a "how have you been?" text once in a while with anyone you've lost touch with) and a LOT of dumb freaking luck go a long way, sometimes.[/QUOTE]Girl #1 - let's call her Brunette. I guess, decided that the sugar lifestyle isn't for her. Maybe it's the sexual inexperience, maybe I'm just not as charming and handsome as I hoped. She's been radio silent since last Friday when we had discussed getting her some birthday gifts. Texted a "hey, how's your weekend going" on Saturday. No response. Texted a "Hey, just seeing how you are doing and if you want to do your birthday shopping Wednesday, as planned" on Monday. No response. I emailed her yesterday and just told her thanks for spending some time with me and good luck with school and work and if she ever wants to reconnect to feel free.
Girl #2 - Blondie -- she actually came over to my office to assist me with some clerical work, yesterday. Arrived at 1 and I had her do some things for me. It gets to about 3 PM and she was pretty much done with what I needed. So, when I suggested some fun time, she mentioned that she really needed to get home and pack for her trip home for sister's graduation celebration this weekend up North. SMDH. She did say she'll text when she gets back in town after the 4th, so we shall see. But, I'm not overly optimistic at this point.
At least my office looks a hell of a lot better and well-organized.
You win some, you lose some, gentlemen.
Hi,
I am in charlotte and talking to the below babies from Raleigh who are ok coming to charlotte to play, any intel on these? Most are wanting 500-700 for 1 overnight visit.
1) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7cd65ee4-24a6-4fa5-a439-81935cdf53b1[/URL].
2) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6bb8029a-e75c-467a-a971-ffe12ee56504[/URL].
3) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/22a42022-9a15-4a6a-ac20-aefd2d18490a[/URL].
4) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/210a10f6-dd0e-4247-9777-f0aa653b4c6e[/URL].
5) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/669a2236-5c8b-4e6e-92b2-6bedad959750[/URL].
Thanks all.
[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5413507]Hi,
I am in charlotte and talking to the below babies from Raleigh who are ok coming to charlotte to play, any intel on these? Most are wanting 500-700 for 1 overnight visit.
1) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7cd65ee4-24a6-4fa5-a439-81935cdf53b1[/URL].
2) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6bb8029a-e75c-467a-a971-ffe12ee56504[/URL].
3) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/22a42022-9a15-4a6a-ac20-aefd2d18490a[/URL].
4) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/210a10f6-dd0e-4247-9777-f0aa653b4c6e[/URL].
5) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/669a2236-5c8b-4e6e-92b2-6bedad959750[/URL].
Thanks all.[/QUOTE]#2 Wanted 150 for Just M&G. I declined.
#5 Blocked me when I'm sent her a msg. I have multiple logins so when one is blocked, am able to use the other logins.
Kind of an amusing story: I spoke to a girl on Seeking a month or so back, she mentioned she was going to go take her driver's test that evening. Then she would be able to have her permit and when she turned 18 get her license. YIKES.
So I told her not to meet anyone in person, then reported her.
Fast forward to a week ago: I get a message from support that I've been banned for talking to an underage profile. I open a support ticket and point out, "I know, I'm the one who told YOU. " They eventually apologized and credited me back the week I'd been locked out. Yeesh.
[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;5415193]Kind of an amusing story: I spoke to a girl on Seeking a month or so back, she mentioned she was going to go take her driver's test that evening. Then she would be able to have her permit and when she turned 18 get her license. YIKES.
So I told her not to meet anyone in person, then reported her.
Fast forward to a week ago: I get a message from support that I've been banned for talking to an underage profile. I open a support ticket and point out, "I know, I'm the one who told YOU. " They eventually apologized and credited me back the week I'd been locked out. Yeesh.[/QUOTE]I had that happen once. Did a meet and greet and she slipped up and said "I'm moving out when I turn 18. ".
She immediately turned beet red and looked down.
I told her we had to end the date for now but that she could get back in touch after her birthday. To my surprise, she did and we ended up hooking up a couple times before we lost touch.
Not to sound so old but I honestly can't tell the difference, looks-wise, between 17 and 27 sometimes.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;5416158]I had that happen once. Did a meet and greet and she slipped up and said "I'm moving out when I turn 18. ".
She immediately turned beet red and looked down.
I told her we had to end the date for now but that she could get back in touch after her birthday. To my surprise, she did and we ended up hooking up a couple times before we lost touch.
Not to sound so old but I honestly can't tell the difference, looks-wise, between 17 and 27 sometimes.[/QUOTE]Isn't the age of consent 16 in NC. Why would you have to end the date.
G.
[QUOTE=Gatttaca;5417003]Isn't the age of consent 16 in NC. Why would you have to end the date.
G.[/QUOTE]But parents of "minors" might not feel the same way. Not worth the risk IMHO.
What do you think, same chick?
Sunny on Glenwood [URL]https://raleigh.skipthegames.com/massage/caucasian_w/sunnyreal-pics/559140066999[/URL].
Shauna on Secret Benefits [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7c61a2d6083ea70f[/URL].
All, I have posted occasionally on the Escort and massage boards, but not frequently enough to be a senior member any time soon, or to be someone the regulars on the board will recognize.
I don't have premiere membership on SA. I saw this posting today [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/25359650-6683-4b9a-8620-771af774031c.[/URL] Folks should do their own thing, but I'm worried that there are some folks out there who could take her post too literally, and she could get hurt. If it is real, and she is truly trying to do something on the DL from her husband, bruises will be tough to explain.
I followed the recommendations why'all provide and google image search didn't kick anything back.
I'm hoping it's just a scam, but if it's not, maybe one of the folks who can message should reach out to her. ProfessorK, VC maybe?
Thanks. VJ.
The link provided goes to a profile that was deactivated. I'm almost positive someone probably said something to her.
Many women are completely unaware of just how many regular guys are privately searching on SA with no profile pictures. It's not uncommon for women to be messaged by men they know in their personal lives, and yes, that includes men who know their husbands.
Personally, I'm not a fan of sugaring while someone's partner is unaware, not just because it opens you up to legal liability in the state of NC, but most importantly, you don't know how people will react. I, for one, am not going to risk someone's husband showing up at my house.
Stay safe, guys. People are both violent and extremely litigious these days.
[QUOTE=Vjjakob;5419979]All, I have posted occasionally on the Escort and massage boards, but not frequently enough to be a senior member any time soon, or to be someone the regulars on the board will recognize.
I don't have premiere membership on SA. I saw this posting today [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/25359650-6683-4b9a-8620-771af774031c.[/URL] Folks should do their own thing, but I'm worried that there are some folks out there who could take her post too literally, and she could get hurt. If it is real, and she is truly trying to do something on the DL from her husband, bruises will be tough to explain.
I followed the recommendations why'all provide and google image search didn't kick anything back.
I'm hoping it's just a scam, but if it's not, maybe one of the folks who can message should reach out to her. ProfessorK, VC maybe?
Thanks. VJ.[/QUOTE]
Maybe but here's the thing. If you offer any girl in any state under 18 money in exchange for sex it falls under child sex trafficking laws. Which means it carries Federal charges and punishment. I know this first hand because someone I know met a 17 yo off Seeking (she told him she would be 18 soon). They had fun and her Mother found out. He is currently awaiting Federal sentencing.
It's just NOT worth it!!
[QUOTE=Gatttaca;5417003]Isn't the age of consent 16 in NC. Why would you have to end the date.
G.[/QUOTE]
I was contacted by a girl on SA. She sent me some hot pics and requested to send a dick pic. I sent to her. Somewhere she did mention she was underage but I did not notice. Now I am getting threatening messages. How far can this go.
Thanks G.
Funny, the link shows "deactivated" but she still shows up for me when I search for her on SA. We can't really know what the real deal is until one of us meets her. She could be a naive woman who is in over her head. It could be a scam or a set up. Someone could have created this profile for her as. Her husband could be into humiliation and is in on it. Who knows?
[QUOTE=DJprofessorK;5420514]The link provided goes to a profile that was deactivated. I'm almost positive someone probably said something to her.
Many women are completely unaware of just how many regular guys are privately searching on SA with no profile pictures. It's not uncommon for women to be messaged by men they know in their personal lives, and yes, that includes men who know their husbands.
Personally, I'm not a fan of sugaring while someone's partner is unaware, not just because it opens you up to legal liability in the state of NC, but most importantly, you don't know how people will react. I, for one, am not going to risk someone's husband showing up at my house.
Stay safe, guys. People are both violent and extremely litigious these days.[/QUOTE]