[QUOTE=GracefulMilf;6286028]Or, just do your research. There are perfectly trustworthy women who have every intention of getting a decent room to do incall out of, but advice like "don't send a deposit" keeps us from getting the rooms. I want to know why I should be expected to put $120 on a room if you can't send $30 to guarantee you'll be there?
Oh, and outcall. I have zero problem driving from my place in NKY to anywhere in the entire tri-state area to you. But, I'm going to shower, primp, dress, and drive there, using loads of my time, energy, and gas to do so. I often have to order a pizza for my kid, too, if it's last minute. Do you have any idea how demoralizing it is to do all that and then get a text saying that oh you forgot about a thing, and can't?[/QUOTE]It's almost as if you have not read very many posts on this forum. I do not doubt that there are many jackass men who behave badly. I have talked with women who experienced the behaviors you describe. That said, for every "perfectly trustworthy" woman who advertise their services, there are 99 (or more) that will take the deposit straight to their dealer and then ghost. It is equally "demoralizing" for men who make an appointment, take a blue pill and drive 30-60 minutes to meet some one only to have the woman nod off, have their phone die, or get a better offer, etc. by the time the man arrives.
Deposits are never going to be a good idea and only rookies (or men with too much money) are going to offer them.
BAM.
