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[QUOTE=DrDave39;3755801]Ace- same here, no kids but her desire went to zero in her mid 40's at menopause onset. Our relationship is clearly better now that I hobby (not really sure if she knows or not) - I realized for many years I was simply low level angry at her-"You are the reason I don't have a sex life". Now that that is not the case, I am happier and better to her- and to myself.
My $. 02 worth.
The good dr.[/QUOTE]I don't even need to change a single word.
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[QUOTE=AlfReady;3755628]OK, I'm not naming names here; this is advice for all you nubes.
Sending a PM to a senior asking more detail about one of our conquests is fine. Asking for advice is fine. I try to be a helpful monger.
But seriously, I've seen every one of your posts; (and yes it's pretty easy to see every post you made) and all you do is ask how about this girl, or that girl, or who is in Florence, or how can I see so and so if I have no reviews or references.
Dammit man Read the fucking forum. Or learn to use the search feature. See some ladies, and post some reviews (so providers can look you up).
Most of all, quit relying on others to do your homework. And no, I'm not answering that last PM. Figure it out.[/QUOTE]I just had a guy pm me asking all kinds of questions about a provider asked me if I had pictures or where she advertises and if she previously worked at any clubs, and if I was willing to share digits, with a read receipt. First I had no pictures and if I did I wouldn't send them to him, the provider is and was on a few sites he knows her name and knows his way around a computer well enough to get on here and pm me how come he can't just find the info himself? As far as where she works or used to work why do I give a f##k about what she used to do for a living? And giving him a phone number he can find on his own I think not. I'm not going to call dude out by handle but I am going to say dude if you're reading this that's why I didn't help you. HL29.
[QUOTE=AceJohnson;3753944]ProVid is right, on two levels. I'm giving him the edge about me not understanding the difference between primitive sex and love. I still don't 'get it', hell, I just want to have a good time and if I'm lucky a good memory of a session.
On your second point, you've hit the nail on the head. The ability of my wife to have passionate sex left following the birth of our 3rd kid over 25 years ago. Researching the issue, this is common and the desire usually returns in 12 to 18 months. In the case of my wife, it never returned. After 15+ years of frustration, I threw in the towel and looked into this hobby. I love my wife and can't imagine the rest of my life without her, but that part of our life is gone and no sign of it on the horizon. Maybe taking up this hobby is wrong, but no question it saved my marriage. I know this is silly drama that I've not talked about before, but I thought I'd throw it out there. Be safe and have fun, Ace.[/QUOTE]It sounds like you 'get it' better than you think. It took me two years to take the dive. Lust and love, life is better with both. Thanks for your thoughtful post.
My personal experience has been whether married or with a g / f the sex falls off, and in my case drastically. Even as a young man with a constant boner. As the cliche goes, for every beautiful woman there's a man (or woman) bored with her pussy.
I've been single essentially since 98 so the hobby for me is a convenient way to avoid being bitched at and quite honestly, I can be a jerk at times and I hate it when I go there. I had a g / f for a short while in the early 90's and we went to club 440 to spice things up. For you married gents who are lucky enough to wake up to a woman who loves you, you might want to think about gently bringing this up. Great people, a lot of fun, and it might rekindle the passion! And if not, well you both can get laid and see some fun sights!
Just a thought, I know unrealistic for some but might work for some. JJ.
If I troll a post like this does it fall under the useless drama category or the good old fun category? Not here to piss off A2! "Has any one seen her. She answered my message she is 39 and pretty. She's past Amelia. Very quick responce from Her. Her rates for FS are good. She is also a bareback provider. She's Outcall only. I'm going to visit her soon. Any info and one I can share her digits. ".
[QUOTE=JimJaimes;3756225]My personal experience has been whether married or with a g / f the sex falls off, and in my case drastically. Even as a young man with a constant boner. As the cliche goes, for every beautiful woman there's a man (or woman) bored with her pussy.
[/QUOTE]I know what you mean. I'm married. She started to unilaterally change the rules once we had kids and the house in the 'burbs. That crap messed with my head for a while. But one day, I realized I no longer cared. Was kind of easy to not care since I was getting it on in the hobby with young women half my age or less. I would have thought she'd have called me out by now on the lack of action at home, but nope. If she hasn't questioned me by now, she's probably not going to so long as I remain discreet.
[QUOTE=UOnlyLiveOnce;3756371]I know what you mean. I'm married. She started to unilaterally change the rules once we had kids and the house in the 'burbs. That crap messed with my head for a while. But one day, I realized I no longer cared. Was kind of easy to not care since I was getting it on in the hobby with young women half my age or less. I would have thought she'd have called me out by now on the lack of action at home, but nope. If she hasn't questioned me by now, she's probably not going to so long as I remain discreet.[/QUOTE]That could be my story. My wife started to loose interest in her late forties. She turned of the tap because she didn't want to get pregnant and didn't want to use birth control. I figured I could hold out until after she went through the change. That plan worked not at all. After the change she just lost all interest in intimacy. I found this site and have been able to take care of my needs and she is perfectly happy with our platonic relationship. I really believe that the hobby has saved my marriage. Very strange but true. I didn't sign up to lead the life of a monk, so now I have a great relationship, kind of friends without benefits. I just outsource that part of my life.
[QUOTE=FMichaels4533;3756442]That could be my story. My wife started to loose interest in her late forties. She turned of the tap because she didn't want to get pregnant and didn't want to use birth control. I figured I could hold out until after she went through the change. That plan worked not at all. After the change she just lost all interest in intimacy. I found this site and have been able to take care of my needs and she is perfectly happy with our platonic relationship. I really believe that the hobby has saved my marriage. Very strange but true. I didn't sign up to lead the life of a monk, so now I have a great relationship, kind of friends without benefits. I just outsource that part of my life.[/QUOTE]The hobby only saves a marriage if the wife knows and agrees to it. If she doesn't know and would divorce you if this knowledge came to light then that's not saving anything. Most guys just don't want to pay the price to be free.
Single, attractive women have been giving men Blowjobs, endless sex, and the occasional backdoor to make them fall in love and marry them. As we all know The Blowjobs are the first to stop, we may still get a half hearted blowie or a pump or two into that sweet butt on our birthdays but even those fall off. It's not long before "hurry up" "make it quick" and "are you done yet" is replaced by complete lack of any kind of sexual activity. It's no wonder the "Oldest Profession" has been around for so long, one thing is certain if the wife won't give it up, plenty of others will.
When I submitted my post, I had second thoughts. This has been a fun and light hearted forum. When no one posted anything for a couple of days I really regretted it, thinking I was a 'killjoy' or mood killer. It's nice to know I'm not the only fisherman in the boat.
Sidney Biddle Barrows, aka the Mayflower Madam, was the owner of one of the most successful escort agencies ever (you should take the time to learn about her if you're not familiar). On an interview on William Shatners' talk show, she looked Capt. Kirk in the eye and said, "These men love their wives and families and don't want to leave them, but there are some things that they're not getting at home and don't want to spend their lives without. And the smart ones seek out the services of escorts, as girlfriends tend to blow up their lives and escorts know the deal". Ms. Barrows also pretty much invented GFE, encouraging her escorts to provide 'GFE' service saying these men just want to be loved. Dennis Hof, brothel owner, said on a talk show that if wives would take care of their husbands, you would immediately put me out of business.
Okay, enough of this shit. Let's get back to having a good time! Be safe and have fun, Ace.
Yesterday and today I have reached out to at least 6 different girls both days only to get no response or a garbled text back and then nothing. I really like the ones that say in there ads don't waste my time text when you are ready to come. LOL.
[QUOTE=Gunman2013;3758134]Yesterday and today I have reached out to at least 6 different girls both days only to get no response or a garbled text back and then nothing. I really like the ones that say in there ads don't waste my time text when you are ready to come. LOL.[/QUOTE]Very simply it is too many guys and not enough girls. Supply and demand. When I got into this, it was the other way, but not any more. Plus when I got into this less than half the girls had a habit, now most do. Which means if they have money they are enjoying a high instead of making money,
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[QUOTE=KMaltese;3758489]I'm just having a bad day in the hobby. After no luck with LaceyFoxx I contacted Hannah. She responded quickly and we set a time. She then requested a face photo, which I sent, but she went completely dark after that. Now I know I'm not a great looking guy but I didn't think I was that ugly. Oh well, on to the next attempt.[/QUOTE]So now your photo belongs to a hooker. On her phone no less. Why would anyone send a photo to someone they don't know who makes their living fucking strangers for, cash? What is she loses that phone? What if uncle LEO gets a hold of it? God gave us a brain for a reason, you should use it.
Golfguy, playing through.
[QUOTE=GolfGuy;3758501]So now your photo belongs to a hooker. On her phone no less. Why would anyone send a photo to someone they don't know who makes their living fucking strangers for, cash? What is she loses that phone? What if uncle LEO gets a hold of it? God gave us a brain for a reason, you should use it.
Golfguy, playing through.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't send a photo of myself to a hooker just because either she wants my money or not, if you're a true hooker you're going for the money and what I look like shouldn't matter. I do know that Hannah won't see AA men he doesn't mention if he is AA or not. But Golfguy Uncle LEO having her phone with his picture means and is nothing. Unless they are involved with a felony or something crazy is just another picture. He said he got stood up so if you could explain what Uncle LEO would do with his picture I'd sure like to know. Sometimes I think people believe the police have nothing to do but run down some photo in a hookers phone, now if something grave happened to her that's one thing, but just a photo because they caught her hooking and he wasn't there sorry just another photo. HL29.
[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3758551]I wouldn't send a photo of myself to a hooker just because either she wants my money or not, if you're a true hooker you're going for the money and what I look like shouldn't matter. I do know that Hannah won't see AA men he doesn't mention if he is AA or not. But Golfguy Uncle LEO having her phone with his picture means and is nothing. Unless they are involved with a felony or something crazy is just another picture. He said he got stood up so if you could explain what Uncle LEO would do with his picture I'd sure like to know. Sometimes I think people believe the police have nothing to do but run down some photo in a hookers phone, now if something grave happened to her that's one thing, but just a photo because they caught her hooking and he wasn't there sorry just another photo. HL29.[/QUOTE]If they bust her and find 20 guys photos connected with numbers it would be easy for them to identify him as a known John in any other stings they may run. Especially with all the cameras everywhere (like hotels that have prostitute problems) and with facial recognition technologies well, pretty much anything can happen. I'd they seize her phone they could find you and question you which certainly wouldn't be a pleasant experience, especially if you were married.
Golfguy.