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[QUOTE=UnknownSD;7037311]This scammer will schedule a M&G with you and stand you up for fun. Be cautious.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b95d2814-cc03-4551-88de-1fe74cece68d[/URL][/QUOTE]That's happened to me before, a few times actually. You're texting at the meetup spot and suddenly it dawns on you you've been had.
Honestly I don't understand it. Like why go through the trouble? It's not like it's laugh out loud funny. It's just mean and deepens the girl's cynicism and anger towards the world, I imagine. But it can't honestly feel good, like positive and rewarding, to them. It's just baffling.
FWIW, out of my insistence on always ending things amicably due to asymmetrical power females have in making accusations (regulars here know my stance on this), I always message them and say I can understand this wasn't for you, no hard feelings, best of luck to you.
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New scam
Messaged a / a married MILF profile. After a lot of off-site messaging, asks me to join a website [URL]wetolove.net[/URL] to set up a meet. Of course this isn't real.
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[QUOTE=Murrican;7038229]That's happened to me before, a few times actually. You're texting at the meetup spot and suddenly it dawns on you you've been had.
Honestly I don't understand it. Like why go through the trouble? It's not like it's laugh out loud funny. It's just mean and deepens the girl's cynicism and anger towards the world, I imagine. But it can't honestly feel good, like positive and rewarding, to them. It's just baffling.
FWIW, out of my insistence on always ending things amicably due to asymmetrical power females have in making accusations (regulars here know my stance on this), I always message them and say I can understand this wasn't for you, no hard feelings, best of luck to you.[/QUOTE]It's revenge for wasting their time because they were never able to scam me. They just want to waste my time.
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[QUOTE=Murrican;7038229]FWIW, out of my insistence on always ending things amicably due to asymmetrical power females have in making accusations (regulars here know my stance on this), I always message them and say I can understand this wasn't for you, no hard feelings, best of luck to you.[/QUOTE]Actually, would love to hear more about this. How / when / in what circumstances do you go about this?
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[QUOTE=Murrican;7038229]That's happened to me before, a few times actually. You're texting at the meetup spot and suddenly it dawns on you you've been had.
Honestly I don't understand it. Like why go through the trouble? It's not like it's laugh out loud funny. It's just mean and deepens the girl's cynicism and anger towards the world, I imagine. But it can't honestly feel good, like positive and rewarding, to them. It's just baffling.
FWIW, out of my insistence on always ending things amicably due to asymmetrical power females have in making accusations (regulars here know my stance on this), I always message them and say I can understand this wasn't for you, no hard feelings, best of luck to you.[/QUOTE]I wonder if you've spoken w / a girl by phone before those instances. I always want to do that. I mean, if a girl won't talk to me for 15 minutes, why would I think she would get in her car and drive to meet me.
I related a story recently of a great M&G. However, that was preceded by being stood up, because she overslept. Usually, one failed meetup is enough for me to block a girl, but in that case, I gave her a 2nd chance, it worked to my advantage. I am still struggling to schedule FC w / her, but IK she isn't a catfish.
If I've seen a girl in the FC more than a couple of times, I also think it is essential to formally end the liaison.
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[QUOTE=RanManCan;7038344]Actually, would love to hear more about this. How / when / in what circumstances do you go about this?[/QUOTE]I'm not sure I understand the question. How do I go about doing what?
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7038571]I wonder if you've spoken w / a girl by phone before those instances. I always want to do that. I mean, if a girl won't talk to me for 15 minutes, why would I think she would get in her car and drive to meet me.
I related a story recently of a great M&G. However, that was preceded by being stood up, because she overslept. Usually, one failed meetup is enough for me to block a girl, but in that case, I gave her a 2nd chance, it worked to my advantage. I am still struggling to schedule FC w / her, but IK she isn't a catfish.
If I've seen a girl in the FC more than a couple of times, I also think it is essential to formally end the liaison.[/QUOTE]The amount of flakiness ("oh I forgot we were meeting") is pretty astonishing. I mean it's not super frequent, but it happens more than I would have thought.
And I always think how does this person function in life. This is the reason I have the money to spend on this. Because I know how to manage my life without someone constantly leading me every step. And I was that way at their age too so it's not an age thing. It's just a general apathy thing.
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Opsec for those w / SOs
A couple of recent postings on this topic elsewhere.
The new iPhone has a password function, and it has several different classes. One is for WiFi networks the phone has tried to connect with. Obviously, this can reveal where the phone has been. If it were a hotel you have no other reason to be in, this could be problematic.
My approach to this is more general. I don't have an iPhone for either my burner or IRL phone. But I turn off WiFi on the IRL phone whenever I am not at my home, the only place I use it.
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Stephanie
Here's another scammer who will schedule an M&G with you just to stand you up. Be cautious.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a4c8cbc9-7adb-4687-aadf-d7e9e7076e89[/URL]
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Mikaela
Here's a white girl for you guys. She lives out near Malibu. She's looking for platonic dates only if you guys are interested. Intimacy is not on the table. Unverified.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/09e406b7-c0e3-4d56-b49b-e4ea7bc02a0c[/URL]
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[QUOTE=UnknownSD;7040798]Here's another scammer who will schedule an M&G with you just to stand you up. Be cautious.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a4c8cbc9-7adb-4687-aadf-d7e9e7076e89[/URL][/QUOTE]Is "she" asking for deposits ahead of time? Or just wasting people's time?
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[QUOTE=BerolLoz;7041033]Is "she" asking for deposits ahead of time? Or just wasting people's time?[/QUOTE]No deposit. Just ghost you on the day of M&G.
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This would help.
[QUOTE=UnknownSD;7040798]Here's another scammer who will schedule an M&G with you just to stand you up. Be cautious.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a4c8cbc9-7adb-4687-aadf-d7e9e7076e89[/URL][/QUOTE]What are the last 4 of the phone number this person is using?
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[QUOTE=CouldntBeMe;7041049]What are the last 4 of the phone number this person is using?.[/QUOTE]Last 4 digit is 2977.
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Imjustagirl
Here's a Latino girl for you guys. She lives out in Rancho Cucamonga. She's short but her body is very athletic. She was in the US Army before and currently works as a nurse at a hospice. She can probably kick your ass so don't mess with her. Her photos are accurate. Allowance negotiable.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/96d3b9ec-7ae9-4686-8727-f2e59ace7799[/URL]