"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Donwhite;2540368]How do you all deal with potential sbs that ask to see your facebook page or proof of who you are? I had one asked me today and I said that I wasn't comfortable giving out my personal information like where I work and relatives info etc. Then she said for a picture of my driver's license. I said no thank you and good luck to you. It was a shame, because she was hot and I had even video chatted with her. I just don't want anyone coming to my place of work or trying to get in touch with my relatives and coworkers.[/QUOTE]I'd do it but black out all of my information except my picture and first name, which is all they get from my profile and discussions with me anyway. Some of you guys don't do pictures or real names so that wouldn't work for you. Just make sure you follow the usual rules with providing pictures: Remove EXIF data and take a screenshot of the picture you want to use, then use that screenshot as the picture you provide. Prevents someone from photoshopping your blacked out information and getting the real info below it and EXIF data prevents giving anyone information they shouldn't have (phone info, GPS location, picture date / time taken, etc).

[QUOTE=Donwhite;2540368]How do you all deal with potential sbs that ask to see your facebook page or proof of who you are? I had one asked me today and I said that I wasn't comfortable giving out my personal information like where I work and relatives info etc. Then she said for a picture of my driver's license. I said no thank you and good luck to you. It was a shame, because she was hot and I had even video chatted with her. I just don't want anyone coming to my place of work or trying to get in touch with my relatives and coworkers.[/QUOTE]You don't deal with it. You move on to the next one. Think with the big head.

[QUOTE=Donwhite;2540368]How do you all deal with potential sbs that ask to see your facebook page or proof of who you are? I had one asked me today and I said that I wasn't comfortable giving out my personal information like where I work and relatives info etc. Then she said for a picture of my driver's license. I said no thank you and good luck to you. It was a shame, because she was hot and I had even video chatted with her. I just don't want anyone coming to my place of work or trying to get in touch with my relatives and coworkers.[/QUOTE]Given the number of screwballs out there, some women are nervous about going into a hotel alone with someone they don't know. It's a risk for them.

So, the first question would be whether this happens to you a lot? If so, maybe you are giving off some vibrations that are setting them off.

The next question is whether or not the POT asking is someone special or not? If she is, then you may have to spend time enough for her to feel secure with you.

The next question is whether she is prepared to share her information with you. If she wants your details, but won't divulge hers, that's a red flag, if she will, that's probably her nervousness speaking.

I've agreed to do it once, but when it came to the point, she forgot to ask. So, I figure, you can always agree, if she is who you are looking for, have a m&g, most likely she won't ask IF you seem ok, and if she does, you can pull out just like you would if anything else didn't suit you.

Friday. Got flaked on.

Saturday. Saw my ATF for the 65th time. Still in the honeymoon phase after 10 months.

Currently working 5 POTS and 10 pre-POTS.

Which is in the south eastern US. $640 for the procedure + $125 if you opt for pre-op consultation. Shop around brother and get the self-insured / cash price way different from prices quoted to insurance carriers and their patients.

[QUOTE=FTP1999;2536361]Good reminder.

Oh Lord, I wish I were clipped.

I will get so much raw pussy. I have a 19-year old now that I know would give it to me.

Getting clipped without insurance is not cheap, as far as I know. Is it?[/QUOTE]

This almost x porn star just agreed to come visit me. She seems really friendly. Just a soft intro meeting. In the FC but no guarantee of anything more than HJ and some body worship. Still worth it just to see what happens. 33 and 5' 1" latina.

I am planning on getting it when the family is out of town for a few days in the coming weeks and I will be by myself. Hope to not have any sign of it by the time they return. Fingers crossed!

[QUOTE=Jay101;2538709]Thanks for the reports Craig's is a bust, which site is more productive?

Also can one get clipped in secret. Thanks for your time.[/QUOTE]

I will be going to a guy who specializes in it. His practice is solely in vasectomy and its reversal. I think anyone considering it should pick someone who does a lot of these a physician who is otherwise a good urologist / surgeon may perform this procedure only occasionally and hence may not be the best person to do it.

[QUOTE=TravelinSD;2539390]There's been a lot of discussion about vasectomies lately, so I thought I'd relate my recent and on-going experience.

I know this procedure is generally a simple office procedure for the large majority of people. Not to scare anyone, but I'm still going through the vasectomy from hell. I went to the urologist I've been seeing for a few years for my prostrate exams. He has best of the city awards all over the walls. During the procedure he mentioned several doctors who he's done the procedure on. The price was $800.

Things went horribly wrong. A day after the procedure my left scrotum swelled to the size of a grapefruit. By the time I got to his office Monday morning it was more like cantaloupe sized. I had two business trips planned. On his OK I made it through those with much pain and discomfort. When I returned I went through an outpatient surgery where he made an incision in my scrotum to clean out the hemorrhage. A little over a week later I'm down to the size of a nectarine.

The killer is that I had a $6300 deductible on my insurance, so my $800 vasectomy is going to end up costing me over $4 k.

I'm lucky in that I'm divorced, but for you married guys trying to do this on the sly, just be aware that it's not always a simple procedure. The real killer is that I've missed out on 3 pots during this time, LOL.

Good Hunting,

Travelin.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2541229]This almost x porn star just agreed to come visit me. She seems really friendly. Just a soft intro meeting. In the FC but no guarantee of anything more than HJ and some body worship. Still worth it just to see what happens. 33 and 5' 1" latina.[/QUOTE]HG,

If she doesn't want you send her to me LOL.

Hope all is well in Bollywood.

PC out.

Back in 2008 mine was $500.

I'll be in your neck of the woods the first week of August. I hope we don't cross our girls or I guess it doesn't matter. I'm reaching out in Burbank, Glendale, and Pasadena.

Back in the bowl and I've a question.

How does messaging work for non-premium female members?

I keep getting lots of pic requests, and when I reply with "I'd prefer to chat a bit first" I get no response. Are the women limited in the number of messages or something?

[QUOTE=Pcpc1688;2541309]HG,

If she doesn't want you send her to me LOL.

Hope all is well in Bollywood.

PC out.[/QUOTE]We already got a for sure date. I,ll update after the meet.

How much is vasectomy with insurance? Any idea?

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2541074]Which is in the south eastern US. $640 for the procedure + $125 if you opt for pre-op consultation. Shop around brother and get the self-insured / cash price way different from prices quoted to insurance carriers and their patients.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2541288]I will be going to a guy who specializes in it. His practice is solely in vasectomy and its reversal. I think anyone considering it should pick someone who does a lot of these a physician who is otherwise a good urologist / surgeon may perform this procedure only occasionally and hence may not be the best person to do it.[/QUOTE]I second PghGuy's recommendation to see someone who specializes in Vasectomies. I went to my Urologist who, after a painful procedure, confided it had been quite a while since he had done a snip. However I was otherwise quite lucky as I had minimal pain and swelling after the procedure. PghGuy, certainly none of my business but, if there is any way to get the procedure done with your spouses knowledge I would try that avenue. If something goes wrong and she finds out after the fact there may be much worse fallout.