I think I have a girl crush....
Ms. CameronX,
I don't know you, have never spoke to you, have never met you, but I adore you.
That's all I need to say.
All the best.
Dawn.
[QUOTE=CameronX;2002282]I have been a provider off and on for years. I dropped off the scene when I graduated college and went into the corporate world to put my college degree to use. Only seeing people that I knew on the side. When I dropped off the scene no one that I knew was doing the BBBJ, CIM or "blow and go" specials and sure as hell not BBFS. Since showing back up on this scene, in the last year, I am finding that I am a dying breed. I'm practically being bullied (not by all) and turned away (by some) because by definition (to some) I'm not considered a true GFE because when it comes to BJ covered is as far as I will go. Which, I seriously could careless about a silly definition when it comes to my health and the health of others. However, you would be surprised at the amount of gentlemen out there who are fine with CBJ and who actually prefer it that way, with that being said when it comes to the reality of this site most of them aren't located here. I've accepted what has become the norm for others on this site as far as BBBJ, CIM, and other random acts but anyone who participates in BBFS is putting everyone at risk, everyone. I'm no saint but I do have the sense that god gave me and I tend to use it more times than not. To be clear, I have no business or opinion when it comes to the dealings of others and what they choose to do or not to do. This is my perspective and some insights from my own experiences.
CX.[/QUOTE]
You can always get a room ladies
But no mutual DATY fingers in wholes tongues in holes could be dangerous Kissing optional depending on where your mouths have been before you hook up Two lovely ladies gettin it on or you could invite a man in and make it a feast smorgasbord. Kisses and have a good day to you both.
Protect your hobby info!!
Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.
Geez...
1 photos
Time for someone to Man the fuck up!
[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2016631]Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.
Geez...[/QUOTE]Dawn,
This is not your fault. He didn't cover his tracks and wifey followed it back as far as she could... Your email Addy.
Whoever you are Mr. Monger...Wifey knows! If you know who you are don't let it brew. Man up and get it over with.
If you sir keep running from this wifey might start an investigation of her own!
Better she only knows you saw DD. It will make it worse if she finds the forum.
Last thing you need is her knowing you could have seen more.
IMO...Cut your losses! Protect DD!
Buddah.
Never a good communication to receive...
I've had this scenario play out more times than one. Sadly, once from a guy who was trying to make his wife jealous. It's better to just ignore it the best you can, try blocking her number and emails. Engaging her by answering questions or acknowledging her will only make you feel worse and intensify the situation. Let him handle it, it is his sloppy mess, he can clean it up. It's stressful but more than likely it will smooth over, hopefully sooner than later.
Good luck,
CX.
[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2016631]Gentlemen, please protect what you do from your wives. I have a wife blowing my email up begging me to confirm if I have slept with her husband. She has sent me links to the reviews this guy has left for me. She knows about Indys and TER. She has gave me his real name along with two photos. She says that she is going to do something about this, and she wants me to confirm. I am sure you know who you are. I do NOT like being placed in this position!! It is the first time that I have ever dealt with this.
Geez...[/QUOTE]
You describe her perfectly
[QUOTE=Sgwaboe;2017036]Hi all. Figured this was as good a thread as any to ask this question. Have seen many, many providers in the tristate area over the years, and most have been a pretty good time. But I'm looking for a particular kind of provider to give me that over the top experience that makes me want to empty my account on her, LOL. Most providers in the area are, for the most part, a little reserved or business-like in the way they go about this. Maybe wrong choice of words..more like sweet, but want you to direct the action and tell them what to do. What I'm looking for is the ultimate 'dirty girl' who can take control and be aggressive. Elaborating, the kind of woman who will come right after you, put a liplock on you that gets you going immediately, strips your clothes off, devours you, believes that sloppier and wetter is better, talks filthy, loves hair pulling and ass smacking, doesn't just 'allow' you to cum in her mouth or wherever, but actually demands it..I think you guys are getting the idea of what I'm talking about here. Who, in this area, is the best choice for that? Rhonda and SarahNorwood have been the closest in my experiences, and also Jill Brown from Columbus, if anyone can remember back that far, LOL. And just to be clear, I'm not talking about someone who becomes like this after seeing them for the umpteenth time, I'm talking about first time, from the get-go. Suggestions, guys??[/QUOTE]Sasha Black is everything on your list.
Or if I remember correctly the well known lady who got pissed
[QUOTE=WarlockKy;2017565]Of a lady down in TN that actually joined the large canine board after finding out her husband was in the hobby.
She would be in chat every night asking questions, not so much as to track down every lady that had seen him but to find out why the rest of us were in the hobby.
After a few nights we found out that one day he had left his blackberry at home and that she being the loving wife had take in to his office.
She dropped it in the cradle, and it immediately lit up that he had a 12:30 appointment at a small notel down the road from the office.
Then she headed over to the notel, got a room key from the desk since it was registered as Mr & Mrs and then walked in the door on his appointment.
Moral of the story is that you need to use some common sense when you're going to play in the hobby unless of course you have permission... .[/QUOTE]At a well known hobbyist also in Tenn and walked into his place of business with her posse and ratted on him at his work place by outting him publicly Yes men take care of your privacy and respect the ladies also.
We don't always agree but on this we are of like mind
[QUOTE=UtrInOhio;2017103]Dawn,
This is not your fault. He didn't cover his tracks and wifey followed it back as far as she could... Your email Addy.
Whoever you are Mr. Monger...Wifey knows! If you know who you are don't let it brew. Man up and get it over with.
If you sir keep running from this wifey might start an investigation of her own!
Better she only knows you saw DD. It will make it worse if she finds the forum.
Last thing you need is her knowing you could have seen more.
IMO...Cut your losses! Protect DD!
Buddah.[/QUOTE]When a man fucks up he needs to own it and take the consequences. Don't bring the lady down because you couldn't get it right. As Buddah said better it be only one than many. Great post and very succinct and to the points. Cut your losses and move on.
It was well known in the Ohio area back in the day
[QUOTE=Glockman;2018225]Yes that was Whitney of Nashville. The incident is well known. I have actually seen and photographed her twice. I don't post her photos any more. As far as I know, she is still around.[/QUOTE]And was one of a few that gave most of us older guys reasons to zip our lips or develop stories if we wanted to put out info to ladies to divert their attention to asking questions. I and my brother were only aware of a what happened through word of mouth on the boards so was agreeing that the guy should own up and keep Dawn out of this and her family and not bring attention to the site in general. JMO. Thanks for who it was. Don't make it to Tenn but know from the BD days they had some seriously HOT women in their area and from your photos, still do.
She did much more than that...
[QUOTE=Glockman;2018225]Yes that was Whitney of Nashville. The incident is well known. I have actually seen and photographed her twice. I don't post her photos any more. As far as I know, she is still around.[/QUOTE]She went so far as to start a bit of a ruckus in the lobby at his office and wouldn't leave until he went to the ATM and gave her $2 k since she believed (wrongly) that he was the one that went out of his way to ruin her social.
What was even worse about that incident was that the posse with her wasn't a few of her ladies, it was several of her regular's that decided to go with her to help the guy make "the right decision".
That little incident pretty much killed the friendly hobby community in TN / KY / AL.
Sounds like living hobby proof that she should have been shunned/Amish term by
[QUOTE=WarlockKy;2018515]She went so far as to start a bit of a ruckus in the lobby at his office and wouldn't leave until he went to the ATM and gave her $2 k since she believed (wrongly) that he was the one that went out of his way to ruin her social.
What was even worse about that incident was that the posse with her wasn't a few of her ladies, it was several of her regular's that decided to go with her to help the guy make "the right decision".
That little incident pretty much killed the friendly hobby community in TN / KY / AL.[/QUOTE]The community for what she did. I believe that is called extortion. Whatever happened to the dude in question? No hobbyist should see any woman who pulls that crap JMO 2 K is a lot of bread if she was wrong and if she was hope she apologized but doubt that happened. Nice post Warlock. Great info.