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[QUOTE=Smokey163;4677072]Hey guys. Thinking of heading to BC in the early afternoon for some quick fun. But I'm been craving some chocolate. Any info on nikitas? Or any other clubs that would have AA dancers?[/QUOTE]Harry O's has some AA girls. But the rooms suck compared to Bridgeport.
So I ended up going to BC. Since I was told that nikitas was closed until 4 pm.
Same dominicans around one busty dark skin dominican. I went for my typical bbw dominican josephina. Short and super stacked. She did the job but its starting to get boring LOL.
I saw this Puerto rican light skin always wears a one piece nighty outfit black. She seems so friendly and eagar. Did anyone partake? You can tell she one of the few with a natural body.
Also as I was walking out I saw this light skin AA dancer. She was in street clothes but man she was hot. I have to go back for them 2. They seem like a lot of fun. Especially the spanish one. She seemed so eagar to please.
Looking for a good Dominican.
[QUOTE=Gridley;4670882]Something new happened this past visit. I was at Bishops looking for a quick pump and go and I found a willing participant in the form of an older black haired, fair skinned, fake tits and ass Colombiana. I'm usually good at remembering names but this one escaped me. It was a generic Spanish woman's name. She sat next to me at the bar and as soon as she caught my eye she told me how much fun she could be. I inquired how much and to my surprise she replied whatever I had. She wasn't fat so I offered forty and we go. It was still early so not many customers at the time. I also dress down in sweats when I know I'll make a stop there. It makes me look relatively poor and I can quickly change clothes later to get most of the smoke off me. She did not ask for a donation up front which is always a good sign. Good BBBJ cim. I tipped her another ten because she worked as promised and didn't rush. Def would repeat.
So I'm done and texting when a large Dominican woman new to me approached. She backed up her culo and did some standing grinding. I was expecting the "lapdance baby in the back" or at least "drinky for me" and had my reply ready; but no. Instead she said she wanted to be my girlfriend and that I could see her and take her out to dinner! Amused, I asked her where she lived and of course it's The Bronx. I told her that the logistics would be difficult but that wasn't understood. Tough choices. I either get to unload in a dancer mouth for forty or go out dining and shopping for maybe four hundred with my new girlfriend.
What would you guys choose?[/QUOTE]If you're like me I would take her to Popeyes and move her in my place for a week. A lot of these girls only want a secure place to rest your head for a couple weeks so I would go with the dinner option think about it unlimited FS and bb action for a week just don't get her pregnant and you will be fine.
So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.[/QUOTE]Good question and I also would be very interested in an answer.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.[/QUOTE]I have been going to these places for 30 years and never had a problem. I stick out as much as anyone. Most of my visits are in the daytime or early evening. Park close to the club and tip the guy at the door (pm) and you should be fine.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.[/QUOTE]I'm also from eastern CT and a little old white guy and have never felt unsafe inside these clubs. I have been visiting Bridgeport clubs for about 20 years but it has always been late afternoon or early evening. The customers are mixed between white black and Hispanic. I would say PM is more Spanish and it seems Bishop's is more white and black in the afternoon. The dancers are almost all South American. I get more nervous about my vehicle than anything since it is expensive and probably sticks out.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.[/QUOTE]You will not have a problem. The only problem you will have is all the girls rushing up to you hoping fior a new customer. It's that easy.
[QUOTE=OfficeHo;4686138]You will not have a problem. The only problem you will have is all the girls rushing up to you hoping for a new customer. It's that easy.[/QUOTE]I too have been going to BC since it opened with no problems. I don't go to PM because it's too far out of the way, but I used to go there in the 90's and never had a problem. Everybody knows who owns these places, and consequently know that if you start any trouble there you're in for a very serious problem. I only go days, because the selection is just as good and there are fewer customers during the day. Be clean and neat, and be nice. Clean hands are a must; these girls look, too. And they do not like to be fingered at the bar. That's a good way to spread stuff around.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.[/QUOTE]You're fine, bishops is def the sketchier of the two but neither place is run to attract unwanted attention so everyone just behaves. Be cool, relax and you'll prob end up having a decent convo with the other random guy next to you while you pick a girl you click with.
I'd start with pleasants to get your feet wet. Go on a mid week day, mid day if possible. Once your comfortable then try nights because the girls in each shift are different. If you have a nice car try to avoid bishops at night because you'll prob have to park way off on a side street and your car will get broken into. Hide anything in view in your car. The crackheads will literally steal anything, then try to see it to you when your on the way out of the club.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.[/QUOTE]Just act somewhere between a sheep and a wolf, you'll be fine.
Park close to entrance, sometimes a guy is on grassy median at PM's watching vehicles.
Throw him a 5 for looking out for your stuff,. Tell him you'll catch him on way out. When you leave, throw him another 5 and thanks.
It's business, no on wants that ruined.
Now go git that pussy.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me[/QUOTE]I've been going to BC mostly only because it's cheaper. Not sure if PM still charges 5 for the trip to the backroom or not. I haven't been back to PM in ages, perhaps I am due to go back but I don't have a regular girl there. My go to at BC has always been Sandy. . 6 to. 8 is the going rate. PM is perhaps the more user friendly setting, but the girls there are sometimes hit or miss and prone to overcharging.
I know I'm beating a dead horse but this Saturday me and a buddy of mine plan to go down to Bridgeport to check out some of the strip clubs I've never been to a strip club in Bridgeport and I'm looking for advice now I am very cheap I want somewhere where I can get full service for like $60 I like BBWs as well with big asses BBFS is a plus I'ma dirty freak so the nastier the better any advice?
[QUOTE=Tommy13;4688845]I've been going to BC mostly only because it's cheaper. Not sure if PM still charges 5 for the trip to the backroom or not. I haven't been back to PM in ages, perhaps I am due to go back but I don't have a regular girl there. My go to at BC has always been Sandy. . 6 to. 8 is the going rate. PM is perhaps the more user friendly setting, but the girls there are sometimes hit or miss and prone to overcharging.[/QUOTE]PM still charges but the rooms are still better and at least pretty lit. BC room are pitch black so half the time you can't even see what's going on and that's half the fun.
[QUOTE=BigDanBigdan;4685367]So I'm on the otherside of CT and have never been to either, but reading the reviews here make these places sound almost too good to be true (compared to eastern ct). I'm wondering how sketchy these places are for a 30-something white male. Are you the only one or is that the majority of the clients? Also any recommendations on a first visit (place or time of day)? It would be a weekend visit for me.[/QUOTE]Girls: PM will always have younger girls on shift and have alot more girls in general and also have women in their 30's aswell sprinkled in. BC I would say are usually in 30 or so and young girls can be a hit or miss.
Backroom: I honestly prefer bc. You can sit down, get a ride, BJ sitting down and the little table thing is better then a girl trying to fit on a chair.
PM has one high chair and the room is really small except one room. You do get a mirrior you can see from about waist up. If you like to take your time bc is the best option as pm the guy will knock on the door after about 3 songs. Bc have been in the back for 20 plus min multiple times. It really depends on when you finish though not much rushing, also your chemestry with the girl.
Price: PM I want to say many girls try to get. 8 or more alot. I have gotten. 4 so anything is possible but don't bank on that. You can usually get. 6 though. BC is. 6 maybe. 5. I have gone as low as. 3 before, if a girls says. 8 just move on she will def counter offer as she knows everyone else is doing. 6.
Safety: I can't help you on this one. I always feel safe no matter what and never been bothered. Nor has my car or bike been messed with. I also leave my jacket and helmet on my bike at both places. I'm also black so being in the area is not uncomfortable.
Time of day: Alot more girls will be available at nights especially on the weekends. Since you don't live out there do nights. Goin days is ok, but you risk feeling like you wasted your time since less girls. Numbers say go nights.
If you can go to both. There only 5 or 10 min from each other. Entry and one drink at both will cost you 20 total. Don't have to do the two drinks as no one counts. Drink slow and check out the place. I usually keep the same bottle for a while. Do BC first as there are less girls and will be more relaxed. PM at night is crowded and you will most likely be standing against the wall somewhere.
Let me know if anyone disagrees as we all have different experiences out here. I tried to generalize.
[QUOTE=ILuvBubbles;4689643]Girls: PM will always have younger girls on shift and have alot more girls in general and also have women in their 30's aswell sprinkled in. BC I would say are usually in 30 or so and young girls can be a hit or miss.
Backroom: I honestly prefer bc. You can sit down, get a ride, BJ sitting down and the little table thing is better then a girl trying to fit on a chair.
PM has one high chair and the room is really small except one room. You do get a mirrior you can see from about waist up. If you like to take your time bc is the best option as pm the guy will knock on the door after about 3 songs. Bc have been in the back for 20 plus min multiple times. It really depends on when you finish though not much rushing, also your chemestry with the girl.
Price: PM I want to say many girls try to get. 8 or more alot. I have gotten. 4 so anything is possible but don't bank on that. You can usually get. 6 though. BC is. 6 maybe. 5. I have gone as low as. 3 before, if a girls says. 8 just move on she will def counter offer as she knows everyone else is doing. 6.
Safety: I can't help you on this one. I always feel safe no matter what and never been bothered. Nor has my car or bike been messed with. I also leave my jacket and helmet on my bike at both places. I'm also black so being in the area is not uncomfortable.
Time of day: Alot more girls will be available at nights especially on the weekends. Since you don't live out there do nights. Goin days is ok, but you risk feeling like you wasted your time since less girls. Numbers say go nights.
If you can go to both. There only 5 or 10 min from each other. Entry and one drink at both will cost you 20 total. Don't have to do the two drinks as no one counts. Drink slow and check out the place. I usually keep the same bottle for a while. Do BC first as there are less girls and will be more relaxed. PM at night is crowded and you will most likely be standing against the wall somewhere.
Let me know if anyone disagrees as we all have different experiences out here. I tried to generalize.[/QUOTE]Nice breakdown. Thank you.
Keep hitting PM when I'm in the area. Been curious about the others, though, especially with the no rush aspect.
Is the back at BP was dark as a previous post mentions? Want to see the girl for sure.
You been to Nikita's? How would that compare?
Also, which is the one that your leave reeking of smoke? Would prefer to avoid that one.
[QUOTE=ThatGuy23;4689718]Nice breakdown. Thank you.
Keep hitting PM when I'm in the area. Been curious about the others, though, especially with the no rush aspect.
Is the back at BP was dark as a previous post mentions? Want to see the girl for sure.
You been to Nikita's? How would that compare?
Also, which is the one that your leave reeking of smoke? Would prefer to avoid that one.[/QUOTE]There are trade offs for all three PM will cost you the most. BC is less. Nikita's is in the middle. As far as back rooms go Nikitas definitely has the best room for size and lighting. But the selection is not so great at Nikita's. Best selection is at Pm followed by BC. They are all relatively safe as long as you use your head and don't do anything stupid. As far as smoke goes, Nikita's is not so busy so fewer people smoking. Based on what these clubs offer, they aren't concerned with smoking rules. At the end of the day it is personal choice. I prefer the bigger well lit room at Nikitas myself, however the lack of selection keeps me from going as often as I would like.
[QUOTE=MadPlaid;4689581]PM still charges but the rooms are still better and at least pretty lit. BC room are pitch black so half the time you can't even see what's going on and that's half the fun.[/QUOTE]Can you describe the room at BC for me and are most the girls their into full service play? I hear it's basically a whorehouse in there if that's the case then this is what I'm looking for but not if it's pricey, how can I ensure I do not get overcharged? What are the standard rates for a cheapskate like me.
[QUOTE=ThatGuy23;4689718]Nice breakdown. Thank you.
Keep hitting PM when I'm in the area. Been curious about the others, though, especially with the no rush aspect.
Is the back at BP was dark as a previous post mentions? Want to see the girl for sure.
You been to Nikita's? How would that compare?
Also, which is the one that your leave reeking of smoke? Would prefer to avoid that one.[/QUOTE]The smoking is bishops.
[QUOTE=DlackDudeDick;4689823]Can you describe the room at BC for me and are most the girls their into full service play? I hear it's basically a whorehouse in there if that's the case then this is what I'm looking for but not if it's pricey, how can I ensure I do not get overcharged? What are the standard rates for a cheapskate like me.[/QUOTE]Basically a bench seat in a dark closet. Standard rate between $40 and $60 for full service. Very simple no need to make it more complicated. Pick your girl and go. Basically only $10 more at pm. 5 to walk in 5 to get closet. But not as many $40 girls. But as many as you want for $60. If they want more than that. Kick aside and move on. Girls who up sell are the worst performers. $60 pm girls are the best for your $.
Enjoy O.
[QUOTE=OfficeHo;4690126]Basically a bench seat in a dark closet. Standard rate between $40 and $60 for full service. Very simple no need to make it more complicated. Pick your girl and go. Basically only $10 more at pm. 5 to walk in 5 to get closet. But not as many $40 girls. But as many as you want for $60. If they want more than that. Kick aside and move on. Girls who up sell are the worst performers. $60 pm girls are the best for your $.
Enjoy O.[/QUOTE]Seems PM has the best looking girls of the three clubs, or at least that's my impression. How's Bishops though? Will I be glad it's dark in the back room, or are there some there that are close to PM quality?
I'll have to check it out soon. Maybe go to PM first, then Bishops where I'd get (and need, after already being at PM) more time in the back.
And will obviously have to pack a set of clothes to get the smoke off me. Yuck.
[QUOTE=ThatGuy23;4689718]Nice breakdown. Thank you.
Keep hitting PM when I'm in the area. Been curious about the others, though, especially with the no rush aspect.
Is the back at BP was dark as a previous post mentions? Want to see the girl for sure.
You been to Nikita's? How would that compare?
Also, which is the one that your leave reeking of smoke? Would prefer to avoid that one.[/QUOTE]Its darker then the other two places. Its basically a sectioned off part of the club, so from about maybe 7 ft up is open. You get light from what's in the club so yes its darker, but I never had a problem. The section closest to the girls room is darker for sure though so if not busy ask for the bigger room. You can see them just its not like PM is all.
I didn't review nik, because its honestly a waste of time for me. The last few times I have been have been terrible. Only one or two girls working and like 5 or so of us in the place. This is night time aswell. I didn't want to tell the guy traveling out of state to wast 12 dollars to see possibly one girl. I go if I want to watch a game or waste time when I first get out. If you live in the area sure check it out its only 5 dollar charge, and if you see a gem it could be worth it. If you don't live out there don't waste your time, the numbers game says not too. I met one of my favs there, but it was when they would have about 5 or so girls working. She's at bc now, because it got so bad as far as people not being there.
The room at nik is pretty good though. It used to be tied for number one for me with bc. Its just like PM a closet with a light bulb in it and a mirrior just a bit smaller. PM and Nik are run by the sane guy. The last few times I went to the back they had put new chairs in. Similar to the hight of PM, so high and got rid of the regular chairs.
BC will definately leave you smelling like smoke. You can smoke inside which is why. The other two places you have to go outside.
The rushing is more so dependent on the girl also at bc. No guarantee you will be back there long, just it won't be the bouncer rushing you. I don't want people thinking how long I be back there will always happen or is guaranteed. Thats why I like the regular chairs. Get to relax and explore a little bit and cg you can't get at pm or nik.
One more question.
Bishops. Checked it out on Google maps. Any particular streets I should park on, or avoid? How's the area during the day, probably on a weekend?
Also, there's two doors, one looks like a front door and one on the side that has a sign about no drugs, no weapons. Is that the door I want, or the front one? Just don't want to so obviously be a first timer there.
Check the pm bro.
[QUOTE=ThatGuy23;4695136]One more question.
Bishops. Checked it out on Google maps. Any particular streets I should park on, or avoid? How's the area during the day, probably on a weekend?
Also, there's two doors, one looks like a front door and one on the side that has a sign about no drugs, no weapons. Is that the door I want, or the front one? Just don't want to so obviously be a first timer there.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ThatGuy23;4695136]One more question.
Bishops. Checked it out on Google maps. Any particular streets I should park on, or avoid? How's the area during the day, probably on a weekend?
Also, there's two doors, one looks like a front door and one on the side that has a sign about no drugs, no weapons. Is that the door I want, or the front one? Just don't want to so obviously be a first timer there.[/QUOTE]You can go in or out any door. But most people use the side door. Mostly because it's usually more accessible to parking. Most people park on that street the side door is on. It's just human nature to park as close to the entrance as you can. Just like the grocery store. But not necessary. Usually you can get a spot before the first side street comes up. If not, go a few car lengths more or park on that first side street. If that is all full. Which is usually not the case. But if it is. The street directly across the front door always has space. Then you would obviously walk in the front door if you want. Daytime is never a problem. And I have never had a problem at night either. But any place in Bridgeport things change after 11 pm. This not a place you can just walk in without everyone inside noticing you. It's just to small. After you walk in either door you will be immediately within 2 feet of the stage before you take your second step. There is a little more space if you go in the side door and you will be able to look toward either end of the bar which makes it a little easier to decide where you want to sit. If there is any sun outside at all, you will not be able to see a fucking thing when you first walk in. Just stop for a few seconds to let your eyes adjust. Side door has a little more space for this. Don't worry. After you walk in. Just say. I can't see a fucking thing. And everyone will know what you are talking about LOL. You can stand there for a moment. Nobody will care or notice.
There is your intro dude. After your eyes adjust sit down, get a drink and pick you girl. If you go before 2 in the afternoon, good chance you will have the place to yourself. Or maybe just a few guys. The place opens at 11:30 everyday, but some girls don't get there til 1 .
Pm has by far, better quality girls. But only one entrance. In there the entrance puts you at the corner of the bar. It has a giant rectangle bar that you can take a lap around to take a look. . Bishop just has a bar that runs the length of the front to the bathroom. Enjoy O.
I'm making a stop in Bridgeport this week, and I'm looking for a girl that provides GFE (kissing, BBJ, etc). Does anyone know which of the clubs (Nikita, Bishops or PM) is more likely to provide this?
[QUOTE=CarnalesAlex;4695412]I'm making a stop in Bridgeport this week, and I'm looking for a girl that provides GFE (kissing, BBJ, etc). Does anyone know which of the clubs (Nikita, Bishops or PM) is more likely to provide this?[/QUOTE]Like in the club? If the girls like you some will. There have been one or two who I've kind of gotten close to that with but tend to avoid that because of the higher and more visible volume of guys before you. Kind of skeeves me out but I'll admit there have been a couple who seem to get me worked up enough. It's tough too because sometimes a girl will try to start getting more personal to during (if she's getting into it) and I just sort of turn my head away LOL. You have to stay safe and remember some guy or 12 were probably in those orifices right before you. Or you can go right at open and hope she just brushed her teeth.
Hi all,
I'm interested in going to PM but I'm not as mobile as I once was. I read one post that indicated PM's has two floors? If so, is the bar and the rooms on separate floors? Not game for hiking up a flight of stairs. Thanks.
[QUOTE=JannonJoe35;4697571]Hi all,
I'm interested in going to PM but I'm not as mobile as I once was. I read one post that indicated PM's has two floors? If so, is the bar and the rooms on separate floors? Not game for hiking up a flight of stairs. Thanks.[/QUOTE]They are on separate levels, maybe 3 or 4 steps up from the bar area to the uper level where the rooms are.
How do you guys ditch a regular during a visit to try someone new? There's this reg I see at BCs and she ALWAYS jumps at me as soon as I come in. Normally I wouldn't mind because I only went there for her because she does it all and is very cool but the last couple times I've just gotten board with her and there's actually a couple other ones there I wouldn't mind trying. It's actually gotten to the point where she'll not only grab me as soon as I step in but stick near me after so no others come by. I don't want to just shoo her off because who knows if I want to go back some time later because she is up for anything. I've jilted a few in the past when I've gotten bored who start to give you real shit when you go back and just won't perform anywhere near as good again. Some build up a GF complex with you and act like you're cheating on them if you go back with someone else.
Tell them how great they are and been but please need to relax and have a drink and if they don't go tell them you have a high fever! You're not married to them have fun.
[QUOTE=MadPlaid;4698895]How do you guys ditch a regular during a visit to try someone new? There's this reg I see at BCs and she ALWAYS jumps at me as soon as I come in. Normally I wouldn't mind because I only went there for her because she does it all and is very cool but the last couple times I've just gotten board with her and there's actually a couple other ones there I wouldn't mind trying. It's actually gotten to the point where she'll not only grab me as soon as I step in but stick near me after so no others come by. I don't want to just shoo her off because who knows if I want to go back some time later because she is up for anything. I've jilted a few in the past when I've gotten bored who start to give you real shit when you go back and just won't perform anywhere near as good again. Some build up a GF complex with you and act like you're cheating on them if you go back with someone else.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MadPlaid;4698895]How do you guys ditch a regular during a visit to try someone new? There's this reg I see at BCs and she ALWAYS jumps at me as soon as I come in. Normally I wouldn't mind because I only went there for her because she does it all and is very cool but the last couple times I've just gotten board with her and there's actually a couple other ones there I wouldn't mind trying. It's actually gotten to the point where she'll not only grab me as soon as I step in but stick near me after so no others come by. I don't want to just shoo her off because who knows if I want to go back some time later because she is up for anything. I've jilted a few in the past when I've gotten bored who start to give you real shit when you go back and just won't perform anywhere near as good again. Some build up a GF complex with you and act like you're cheating on them if you go back with someone else.[/QUOTE]Not that hard really. She is guarding against anyone taking " her money". If you go with another. Then the other has "her money". They seem to have trouble understanding that it is "your money ". And it is "your choice". Just tell her you need a change sometimes. She won't like it because she loses "her money". Not a gf complex. Just let her deal with it. And try another.
If the old one gives lackluster service upon returning. Just tell her. That you will spend "her money" on a new one. See how fast her attitude improves LOL. Seen it happen many times. Enjoy O.
You can also tell that her you will just go over to pm and spend "her money" sometimes that works even better. Especially if you follow through with it and actually go somewhere else for a period of time. She will have a much better attitude when you return. Because she knows that if she doesn't. "Her money " will be spent at another club and she can't even get a shot at trying. Has worked for me a few times.
[QUOTE=OfficeHo;4699095]Not that hard really. She is guarding against anyone taking " her money". If you go with another. Then the other has "her money". They seem to have trouble understanding that it is "your money ". And it is "your choice". Just tell her you need a change sometimes. She won't like it because she loses "her money". Not a gf complex. Just let her deal with it. And try another.
If the old one gives lackluster service upon returning. Just tell her. That you will spend "her money" on a new one. See how fast her attitude improves LOL. Seen it happen many times. Enjoy O.[/QUOTE]I had the exact same problem, I solved it by telling her that I will try others in the club, but will save a dance for her before I leave, this worked beautifully without incident.
[QUOTE=MadPlaid;4698895]How do you guys ditch a regular during a visit to try someone new? There's this reg I see at BCs and she ALWAYS jumps at me as soon as I come in. Normally I wouldn't mind because I only went there for her because she does it all and is very cool but the last couple times I've just gotten board with her and there's actually a couple other ones there I wouldn't mind trying. It's actually gotten to the point where she'll not only grab me as soon as I step in but stick near me after so no others come by. I don't want to just shoo her off because who knows if I want to go back some time later because she is up for anything. I've jilted a few in the past when I've gotten bored who start to give you real shit when you go back and just won't perform anywhere near as good again. Some build up a GF complex with you and act like you're cheating on them if you go back with someone else.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't be surprised if we had the same regular since she does "everything!" All bb if that is what you are referring to. She doesn't like it but is fine if you experiment with others. She seems to always order a shot of Patron as soon as I walk through the door. I always end up back with her though since she still puts in a great effort, even after about 15 years.
[QUOTE=MadPlaid;4698895]How do you guys ditch a regular during a visit to try someone new? There's this reg I see at BCs and she ALWAYS jumps at me as soon as I come in. Normally I wouldn't mind because I only went there for her because she does it all and is very cool but the last couple times I've just gotten board with her and there's actually a couple other ones there I wouldn't mind trying. It's actually gotten to the point where she'll not only grab me as soon as I step in but stick near me after so no others come by. I don't want to just shoo her off because who knows if I want to go back some time later because she is up for anything. I've jilted a few in the past when I've gotten bored who start to give you real shit when you go back and just won't perform anywhere near as good again. Some build up a GF complex with you and act like you're cheating on them if you go back with someone else.[/QUOTE]What has worked for me at the clubs and on the street is telling them that if you wanted the same thing over and over, you would stay home.
[QUOTE=DoinItforYears;4699440]What has worked for me at the clubs and on the street is telling them that if you wanted the same thing over and over, you would stay home.[/QUOTE]Oh trust me guys I know it's about money. I doubt it's the same one as Will since no bb except bbj. In PM I stopped using a "regular" a long time ago. I would toggle about 4 or so and they mostly all got that. Like I said though the only reason I'd even go to BC was for this one cause basically anything is on the table but some other ones popped up that seem interesting. Maybe I'll use her to get a gist of the other girls if possible. There's only a couple others I'm interested in there anyway. The rest are pretty ignorable.
I know it sounds dumb but will ask anyway. Is anyone visiting PM or BC lately in the wake of corona. Are they open? If so are there any additional measures being taken? Really bored staying home all day
It looks like the COrona virus did what no one else could. Shut the clubs down. Unless they are operating in stealth mode a quick drive by showed them all closed. It's a sad day.