Don't think she was a student
I'm thinking she was a SW because he came into Indy from a different town. The whole thing is kinda sad as far as basketball is concerned. He was one of the better boys basketball coaches in the state and his team is like 17-2. And in this state, basketball is everything. A lot of kids, and parents, looked up to him and he let them down. But things aren't all bad. A former NBA player has been hired as his temporary replacement.
BFDeal
[QUOTE=DavidLinker;1386543]It is if she's a student at the school he coaches at: Indiana Code 35-42-4-7 Child Seduction.[/QUOTE]
The Coach and the HS girl.
The first thing that came to my mind when I heard this story was, I wonder what his screen name is on USA.
You out there Coach? You going to share?
When it gets sunny, Uncle was a thick as flys
Took a swing to the East Side yesterday, saw three ladies walking around, one BSW on 10th and two WSW on Wash.
I saw the skinny blonde WSW get picked up, not within 5 mins, Uncle had them pulled over, her sitting on the bumper and the Old Man driving giving info. Two block down, another Uncle was stopping the other WSW checking her I'd.
They didn't want anyone enjoying the sunny afternoon I suppose.
Be Safe. The East Side is too hot.
Land of Confusion (Disturbed style)
This isn't a review post, just a plea to see if there's a fellow hobbyist that can help me sort out the s*t that's rolling through my head right now. It involves divulging a bit of personal history, so if you're not interested in reading any of that, skip on to the next post.
I've been married (unhappily) for over 20 years, and a casual hobbyist for more than 10."Casual" meaning a FS encounter with a different provider about once every six months. The AMP experiences mostly happen more often than that. For a while when I had the disposable income, it (AMP) was about twice a month.
Anyway, last night I had a 1-night stand with a (married) co-worker. She has been all over me since I started a new job last September, flirting and sending me dirty texts and e-mails. She rented a hotel room this weekend, and begged me relentlessly to stop by "just to talk and have a glass of wine". I did so on the condition that we leave our clothes on. We didn't. I went home afterwards (so not really a 1-night stand then) and didn't sleep. My anxiety level is through the roof. I am at the office now, working OT on a project, and she texted me to ask if I mind if she swings by. But honestly, right now I would rather shell out some hard earned cash for a 1-hour BP GFE than see her.
So the bottom line is, can anyone explain to me why I feel differently with this experience than any of my hobby experiences? For Christ's sake, it's like a LT GFE provider for free! WTF is wrong with me?
BTW, she is 40+, pretty, in decent shape, good but not great bod. On a "meet at the bar" scale she would be a 7, MILF scale a 7. 5, and the GFE was an 8. 5. All at a cost of 5 for a bottle of Sutter Homes Moscato.
Any insight, gentlemen?
Confused Cain
RE: Land of Confusion (Disturbed style)
Cain, since you dared ask the question you have mail.
Free advice, and worth every penny
[QUOTE=Cain88;1401144]Any insight, gentlemen?[/QUOTE]Yeah 1) Office "romances" are dangerous stuff; assuming this won't cost either of you your jobs while it's happening, are you sure it won't when you break it off? (It's a benefit that you're both married; at least each of you has the same stake. 2) Why is this different from your hobbying experiences? Because the woman wants you. No way a monthly AMP visit compares. Twice yearly provider visits? If you found an exceptional provider, maybe. The two of you had that office time to work into a lather. That doesn't happen in the hobby, and nothing quite compares. 3) Sutter Home moscato is a nice choice. Take along some goat cheese. Try the Pine Ridge Chenin blanc-Vigonier and some fresh fruit some time.
Land of Confusion (Disturbed style)
[QUOTE=Cain88;1401144]Any insight, gentlemen?[/QUOTE]I don't know about insight but I have an opinion. I'm posting this rather than PM on purpose.
[QUOTE=Cain88;1401144]I've been married (unhappily) for over 20 years *** last night I had a 1-night stand with a (married) co-worker. She has been all over me since I started a new job last September, flirting and sending me dirty texts and e-mails. She rented a hotel room this weekend, and begged me relentlessly to stop by ***[/QUOTE]Cain, this is unhealthy on so many levels. You are unhappy, been unhappy for a long time and that makes you damaged. This is clearly true of her in spades because she is desperate. A damaged person is not a healthy candidate for a new relationship and two damaged people will be miserable together by a multiplier. You will feed each others' misery.
[QUOTE=Cain88;1401144]My anxiety level is through the roof.[/QUOTE]I think you are proving what I just said.
[QUOTE=Cain88;1401144]So the bottom line is, can anyone explain to me why I feel differently with this experience than any of my hobby experiences?[/QUOTE]It probably has to do with being able to escape all consequences once you leave a hobby encounter, with her you cannot. You are not in control when you can be found. You are not in control when a woman expects something from you that you are unwilling to give or incapable of giving.
[QUOTE=Cain88;1401144]For Christ's sake, it's like a LT GFE provider for free! WTF is wrong with me?[/QUOTE]This is probably part of being damaged, part of not being in control and part of being pressured. And Cain, being free does not mean it comes without a price. The price can be your job. She's a co-worker. You have the zipper.
The modern woman breaks things off cold turkey by not returning the guy's calls. There is no meeting, no explanation, no anything. Had it done to me. It doesn't take long to figure out what is happening. I have to admit that was the best way.
Put her on ice. Give her no attention, no acknowledgment, no explanation. She no longer exists. Stay the course. Each day will be easier than the day before.
Besides, anything you attempt to do will only make matters worse.
Don't get mixed up with an unhealthy woman again.
Don't get mixed up with any woman until you are healthy (happy) yourself.