Just To Clear The Air !!!!
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You are right it is nice to be relaxed, not looking over your shoulder, and feeling secure. If you can afford the high end, then as already said, "if you have the cheddar, then do better. " I ain't never going to hate on you for doing what makes you happy. Being you said you are an older man, then you are right to take the easiest way to get your stones off. Bill fanta is an older man too, and he does both streets and escorts, and it works well for him. Bill is one, bold old dude.
But I do know that paying for high end, does't always mean you are getting high-end, and you can still be looking for a pimp/boyfriend, or that you won't get ripped off, or get up sold after arrival and making the first payment. Once she has your money, you will be hard pressed to get any of it back, and you won't create a scene, because most men have too much to loose to bring in the police. And the women involved very well know this.
You can read the horror stories all over the forum. And that is just from member brave enough to even admit they were ripped off.
I am not saying anyone selling service on our board is set to rip people off, but the seem problems that exist on the streets, exist with escorts too, but the money lost is much higher. I can loose 5-20 buck, and not feel that hurt.
But to loose 75. 200. Oh hell yet, I would be in someones ass, including her pimp/boyfriend and herself. "I get mean when you mess with my green. ". Say mongo slade. I won't be afraid to call the police over that. So be it!
I have been ripped off for 5-10, but as of this date not any more, and that has been only a few times.
So if you want an escort, then just do it, as for me I like the streets, and the hunt. It is like when I go hunting, even if I don't shot a deer or whatever, I don't mind the hunt for it.
Sometime hunting when there is no game to hunt can be very frustrating.
Now I do deal with p/t, women who are like escorts. SW is not there main stay for money they have regular jobs, and some have very good jobs, but they know they get get money for what they give away for free. So often I and getting hours of service for only what I think I can afford. I have spent 50 buck on service, and another 25 on food and drinks, and if they have kids, I have brought over 2-3 pizza's w/drinks. It works wonders everytime. Once I am ready to go home, I leave 40-50 buck on the dresser, and then go about my way. They are very grateful to get that, and I am never foolish enough to think I am the only one leaving money on the dresser. I may be one of the few bringing food& drinks, especially for the kids.
What I am saying is that if I wanted to I could get it for free, but that means lying about, feeling & love, and that is not me. I am straight forward about what I want.
I just picked up two nurses assists, just by being forward, and telling them, that I "better not see them naked on pay day. " that saying is so holkie, and been around forever, but it works. They took the bait, and I was in there beds within 16 hours for one, and 32 hours for the other, and it cost me 50 buck a person with drinks & snacks, no real food. One girl is bi, and promises moresomes with me and her friends.
Since they have regular real jobs, & benefits, they can not risk being open about SW work and being extremely selective, in how they deal with men. By the way one girl is 22y/o and the other 25y/o. I am working on a 27y/o who I loaned 5 bucks to at a dooar store when she was short of money. Perfect timing. She quoted 75 for FS, but I got her down to 60. I think I will take that, because she has an awesome body, shapely long legz, is 5'11" and 175lib (thick), and best of all a pretty face to me. No kids, no boyfriend, no problem, and is nicely employed, but wants more for herself.
So I am not against escort, or whatever, but I am saying you need to max out your money, and understand you can get more for it.
It is a lot easier to get free sex, than it is to get free money. So, why not demand a whole lot for spending it on anything especially sex, whether on a streets SW or house escort. It is still all about spending your hard earned dollars, for SEX.
"It's Your Thing .... Do What You Want To Do .... I Can't Tell You ..... Who To Sock It To! "
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[QUOTE=Ezenuf]As always, to each his own. I like the comfort and security of the upper end. Not that there anything wrong with the other end of this business.
Just don't like cruising through the areas to check things out. Probably half is, I'm too old to do it in a car or behind the bushes, LOL.
I've read your reports for a long time now, and always enjoy them!
I will tell you that for one hell of a good time, no surprises, no drama, no looking over your shoulder for a "boyfriend" or leo, the extra money is worth it to me!
Happy Mongering Christmas
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Price and value - another perspective
None of us were born hobbyists; we all bring our pre-hobby ways of relating to women into the hobby world.
I am here because I'm an average looking, middle-aged guy who has a thing for hot young (20~30y.o.) women. Therefore, that is what I seek here: as attractive as possible, and younger. I want cheerleaders and Bay Watch babes.
I absolutely cannot understand the rave reviews for the older, heavier providers. Likewise, I have read the posts about SWs out of curiosity. In my opinion, *most* of the streetwalkers are a little on the rough side.
But then, I am using my *own* preferences as a filter here. And beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder.
I have plenty of non-hobbyist friends who are married to less attractive, overweight women; and many of them are as happy as can be.
When you think about it, a taste for high-end women means that you will have to work harder to be satisfied. In civilian life as well as in the hobby, attractive women are more expensive. (And a man *always* ends up paying for it---one way or the other.)
I have tried the older, less attractive providers, and they just don't do it for me. If you *can* be satisfied with a plainer lady, more power to you.
But I am now in my 40s, and I don't expect that my own preferences will suddenly change.