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tldr: escorts are not your gf and never will be
I hear this from both side and some people continually don't get it. Escorts provide a service. They aren't your friend, gf, or future wife. Once money transfers from your wallet to their hand, that is what the relationship will always be. Transactional. Their job is to provide a service and convince to come back. Great service alone may be enough to convince of a repeat, but some girls drip the carrot and manipulate you to think you have some special connection that no other client gets. News flash, you are likely one of a dozen guys at least getting that treatment. This might even be followed up with messages of some issue that requires money to solve if you can just send a little right then and there. If a waitress gave you good table service or flirted with you, what's your likelihood of giving a larger than normal tip or returning hoping to get the same waitress? These people work off your money.
From a client's point of view. Always be nice and sincere. Ask about them, their day, and personal lives to get a stronger connection. Are you really trying to have a relationship with that girl? No. Hopefully not anyway. Likely you are hoping to get additional services or repeat dates at ever cheaper rates.
Don't fool yourselves. At the end of the day, it's just a client-provider relationship and nothing more. One of you will be manipulated.
Are you saying that the movie Pretty Woman was not a real story? How about Risky Business?
[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6841902]tldr: escorts are not your gf and never will be
I hear this from both side and some people continually don't get it. Escorts provide a service. They aren't your friend, gf, or future wife. Once money transfers from your wallet to their hand, that is what the relationship will always be. Transactional. Their job is to provide a service and convince to come back. Great service alone may be enough to convince of a repeat, but some girls drip the carrot and manipulate you to think you have some special connection that no other client gets. News flash, you are likely one of a dozen guys at least getting that treatment. This might even be followed up with messages of some issue that requires money to solve if you can just send a little right then and there. If a waitress gave you good table service or flirted with you, what's your likelihood of giving a larger than normal tip or returning hoping to get the same waitress? These people work off your money.
From a client's point of view. Always be nice and sincere. Ask about them, their day, and personal lives to get a stronger connection. Are you really trying to have a relationship with that girl? No. Hopefully not anyway. Likely you are hoping to get additional services or repeat dates at ever cheaper rates.
Don't fool yourselves. At the end of the day, it's just a client-provider relationship and nothing more. One of you will be manipulated.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PlanetEarth;6842098]Are you saying that the movie Pretty Woman was not a real story? How about Risky Business?[/QUOTE]Did you find your Vivian or Lana? LOL.
Tldr don't get attached to escorts and def not to the point of wanting to cause destruction.
In this forum, we help each other out with reviews and warnings about who is out there. Sometimes we share in the open, through DM and even text. I've interfaced with a variety of mongers and escorts with various personal challenges rather it be sex addiction, mental health challenges or even demons. This whole thing should really be a small part of our lives and not consume it.
There is one person on this board that I routinely passed girls back and forth with as many of us do. Unfortunately, this one individual became obsessed with one of the girls that I am associated with. The girl doesn't communicate with him very well to the point that dates that he wants do not happen when he expects them to. Lately he has started making demands that I cannot fulfill. I control no one but myself. I do not traffick any girls. I do not accept money for any girls. What happens between two people is between them. Because I cannot fulfill his demands, he feels it necessary to threaten to blackmail me in hopes that would somehow change my mind. There is no mind to change bc I cannot force a particular girl to see him or handle any of his other related demands.
There is another monger that also tried to burn me with another girl. I don't know how I became a threat to him, but he seemly saw an opportunity to gain supposed points. He had his personal reasons. I've forgiven him.
With that being said, these girls are just escorts. They aren't your gf or future wife. Many of you see them once and pass on by. Do not get attached and certainly do not get obsessed. If you feel it's necessary to burn the house down over an escort, step back, take a deep breath, and ask yourself what went wrong that this one girl became that important to you.
Sorry for my ramble. I mean rant.
Some mongers on here are pretty insecure and will try to cast blame on someone if they aren't able to see the girl they like. And then there are others like you whose reviews cannot be trusted because you're trying to make OF content with the girls you're reviewing. You aren't likely to provide a balanced review with pros and cons because if you do, then the girl is going to strangle you and your hopes of making OF content will be dashed.
[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6852603]Tldr don't get attached to escorts and def not to the point of wanting to cause destruction.
In this forum, we help each other out with reviews and warnings about who is out there. Sometimes we share in the open, through DM and even text. I've interfaced with a variety of mongers and escorts with various personal challenges rather it be sex addiction, mental health challenges or even demons. This whole thing should really be a small part of our lives and not consume it.
There is one person on this board that I routinely passed girls back and forth with as many of us do. Unfortunately, this one individual became obsessed with one of the girls that I am associated with. The girl doesn't communicate with him very well to the point that dates that he wants do not happen when he expects them to. Lately he has started making demands that I cannot fulfill. I control no one but myself. I do not traffick any girls. I do not accept money for any girls. What happens between two people is between them. Because I cannot fulfill his demands, he feels it necessary to threaten to blackmail me in hopes that would somehow change my mind. There is no mind to change bc I cannot force a particular girl to see him or handle any of his other related demands..[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6853058]Some mongers on here are pretty insecure and will try to cast blame on someone if they aren't able to see the girl they like. And then there are others like you whose reviews cannot be trusted because you're trying to make OF content with the girls you're reviewing. You aren't likely to provide a balanced review with pros and cons because if you do, then the girl is going to strangle you and your hopes of making OF content will be dashed.[/QUOTE]Thank you for your feedback, and I can understand the viewpoint of a potential bias on my part. Point taken.
That brings up a good point the drivers behind any particular review or reviewer. Guys could be trying to make a girl look better than they are bc they have a vested interest in the girl whether it more more frequent dates, cheaper dates, or some other reason like you are suggesting. There are also those that post reviews to the other side in potential cases where a guy doesn't get what he wants or a girl throws him out bc he didn't act appropriately, because the demand is so high for a girl a poor review may reduce that demand in order to get an opportunity to see that particular, or other reason. It is true that regardless of the reasons, this forum should be used as a representation of a "dream" or experience that so that it would help others. This is a reason I rarely if ever take a single review to make a determination on a girl.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6853058]Some mongers on here are pretty insecure and will try to cast blame on someone if they aren't able to see the girl they like. [/QUOTE]Some also are dirty and smell, are extremely cheap, treat the girls like dirt, act suspiciously and draw a bunch of unnecessary attention, or have so little game they can't get it on with a hooker or AMP worker.
That's where YMMV is a huge factor.
We have a shortage of quick and easy, quality ladies. With this, we kick, scream, fight over the scraps. Yes, you can be a sugar daddy and pay large but many of us don't have the time to play the game, don't have a love nest, and play to a budget. Jealous of the ones that can fly to the DR or Thailand for a few weeks.
As for monger hygiene, mental well being, and "game", affecting their success. Sure, but you need to find someone viable first.
[QUOTE=Woody50;6854073]Some also are dirty and smell, are extremely cheap, treat the girls like dirt, act suspiciously and draw a bunch of unnecessary attention, or have so little game they can't get it on with a hooker or AMP worker.
That's where YMMV is a huge factor.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PlanetEarth;6854400]We have a shortage of quick and easy, quality ladies. With this, we kick, scream, fight over the scraps. Yes, you can be a sugar daddy and pay large but many of us don't have the time to play the game, don't have a love nest, and play to a budget. [/QUOTE]All totally relative to the time.
What was 2009 was FIFTEEN years ago, In 2000, that would have been 1985,2010 would have been 1995,2014 equals 2009.
"large" is all relative.
Seriously... I'm sorry if your paycheck is the same as 2000. Many of us don't share the same sentiment. Maybe you should have shopped your skills around?
[QUOTE=Woody50;6854656]All totally relative to the time.
What was 2009 was FIFTEEN years ago, In 2000, that would have been 1985,2010 would have been 1995,2014 equals 2009.
"large" is all relative.
Seriously... I'm sorry if your paycheck is the same as 2000. Many of us don't share the same sentiment. Maybe you should have shopped your skills around?[/QUOTE]Not really sure what your point is her. I personally can honestly say I went 15 years without my pay significantly increasing. But the cost of living did go up. In that 15 years I took a promotion at work that moved me from an hourly position to a salaried position that move resulting I about a $10,000 per year pay cut since I was no longer getting paid for overtime.
[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6853842]There are also those that post reviews to the other side in potential cases where a guy doesn't get what he wants or a girl throws him out bc he didn't act appropriately, because the demand is so high for a girl a poor review may reduce that demand in order to get an opportunity to see that particular, or other reason.[/QUOTE]You mean like you did with pink?
I'll admit you generally give good advice on here and are pretty helpful but I find last couple posts you made about not getting attached to these girls incredibly ironic considering all the drama you and pink had. Hope you're taking your own advice still considering how close you seem to get with these girls.
[QUOTE=MeliKey123;6855034]You mean like you did with pink?
I'll admit you generally give good advice on here and are pretty helpful but I find last couple posts you made about not getting attached to these girls incredibly ironic considering all the drama you and pink had. Hope you're taking your own advice still considering how close you seem to get with these girls.[/QUOTE]Yes, PinkSugar for sure. She still pings me once in a while and she's been in Cali about a year and a half. I never tried to turn her into a gf, but we did hang out and go places together "off the clock". Attachment was there, and the drama was maybe a week of all the time I was with her. So yes, reflection and taking lessons. I wouldn't have put this out there if I didn't expect or want criticism and feedback. Thanks buddy.
[QUOTE=DonnnyBravo;6855494]Yes, PinkSugar for sure. She still pings me once in a while and she's been in Cali about a year and a half. I never tried to turn her into a gf, but we did hang out and go places together "off the clock". Attachment was there, and the drama was maybe a week of all the time I was with her. So yes, reflection and taking lessons. I wouldn't have put this out there if I didn't expect or want criticism and feedback. Thanks buddy.[/QUOTE]Genuinely glad to hear that man. Glad you learned and moved on. That's the way to do it!
[QUOTE=LuvrOfWomen;6854611]I'm going to piss a lot of people off here but your comment about 66% of young men not having sex makes me think that you think women owe men sex. Women do not owe men sex. What are these men doing to meet women and possibly have sex with them? That's the typical age range of InCels. The attitude that women owe men sex isn't going to help any man get laid. Maybe if some of these young men turned off the x box and went outside they'd meet people. I know that being single sucks but if you want that to change you need to go out and try to change it yourself. There is no one out there who is going to do it for you.
All that said, prostitution should definitely be legal. If a guy wants to spend his money paying for sex he should be able to. If a woman wants to use her body to make money she should be able to do it legally. I really believe that if prostitution were legalized but regulated like it is in Nevada it would be a lot safer for everyone involved. Unfortunately there are too many evangelical Christians in this country who insist on forcing their beliefs on everyone else and these people have an oversized amount of influence on politicians, especially the republicans. Prostitution is something that it's going to be really hard for the politicians to get behind no matter how many of them are fucking hookers on the side.[/QUOTE]This discussion should be moved to the Rants section as it isn't a review.
BTW, try hitting up girls in Nevada. If guys in CT think rates are outrageous in CT, don't even bother going to a brothel in Nevada with less than 1,500. STG girls in Vegas want much more than girls in CT as well. Legalizing or decriminalizing doesn't necessarily drop rates. Growth in demand could outpace growth in supply. The additional costs of taxes and regulations such as licensing would have to be recouped by raising rates as well.