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[QUOTE=Mythbuster;5641200]Just in the interest of sharing information. This one told me that she just wanted someone to pay her rent ($1400).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19241bfb-9d8d-4b79-bb9c-a0d580df0c1a[/URL][/QUOTE]That's a pretty penny to pay for no intimate time. Wonder how she would help out for that tidy chunk of change.
Looking for 400. Hosts in Northeast. Wouldn't discuss less.
Too many others to pay that amount.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e7a15249-47c8-462c-ac3d-7d7a235d8440
I noticed it's rare here for someone to post SBs with whom they have had success. People are saying they have a few gems they have seen for while but give no info. [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue]
Why would we give you that information when you have posted, wait for it, wait for it, 2 fucking posts. You have not earned that right yet, at least not from me.
Be Safe.
I noticed it's rare here for someone to post SBs with whom they have had success. People are saying they have a few gems they have seen for while but give no info.
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5643688]Why would we give you that information when you have posted, wait for it, wait for it, 2 fucking posts. You have not earned that right yet, at least not from me.
Be Safe.
I noticed it's rare here for someone to post SBs with whom they have had success. People are saying they have a few gems they have seen for while but give no info.[/QUOTE]I'm not talking about private information. There are plenty of links here to seeking arrangements. But barely any to legit ones. Why not give links to the good ones. People still have to do the work contacting them. The reason I haven't posted is because I never signed in until recently. I was a member but just lurked. And I did bring up a good one but can no longer find her on SA. So if anyone knew about her and posted a link it would have been to a good SB, which, like I said, is rare here. I know of another good one but am waiting for others to post ones they know.
[QUOTE=Mg995;5643733]I'm not talking about private information. There are plenty of links here to seeking arrangements. But barely any to legit ones. Why not give links to the good ones. People still have to do the work contacting them. The reason I haven't posted is because I never signed in until recently. I was a member but just lurked. And I did bring up a good one but can no longer find her on SA. So if anyone knew about her and posted a link it would have been to a good SB, which, like I said, is rare here. I know of another good one but am waiting for others to post ones they know.[/QUOTE]Umm, You have total 3 posts. This one where you complain about getting information, telling us how you would share but are waiting. Your second post about how you want us to share and your first post asking about a SB named Linda.
Do you see the pattern? You ask but you don't give.
There is information given here. If your asking for exact amounts and phone numbers most times you will not get that. A true SB does not think of themselves as a escort or anything close to it and need to be treated as such. They are picky with who they date. Some date only one guy, some may date a couple guys but most aren't a revolving door like you find on STG or list crawler.
I'm not gong to post publicly a SB phone number or exact details of my date with her. I don't know you. You might call her and say "so and so went out with you and did xxx for SSS I want the same deal. " She is now horrified and disappears.
I would suggest you read the pages of the Richmond SB here on USAG and try to get a better understanding.
Good luck,
PH.
[QUOTE=Krott26;5638070]I have had decent success with negotiating once I get there, but I struggle with my first move. How do you cut through the bullshit without scaring them off? Obviously there are some who actively seek ppm (including the high volume ones) and they are easy to talk to. But what about those who are open to it but don't want to admit it right away? I don't have time to pretend to be interested in what they have to say nor is that necessarily effective. FWIW I am relatively young, average looking and only have one pic. Maybe it's one of those factors (and not what I say) that is the problem.[/QUOTE]I always ask them how much they expect once off the site. In the negotiation the first person that throws out a price is at a disadvantage.
[QUOTE=BuffBill75;5644316]I always ask them how much they expect once off the site. In the negotiation the first person that throws out a price is at a disadvantage.[/QUOTE]Hi,
I take each meet individually and not sure I agree here.I try not to talk about the money till we meet. I am always dressed nice and willing to put time into a meet. If it doesn't work out so be it.
If I am meeting with a girl who I am pretty sure is going to ask for more than I am willing to spend I will come out and give a amount maybe 50 less than I will go for, lets say I am OK with 300. I will say 250 At this time she knows where its at. She can counter with a amount that I can accept or walk away from. I will not go back and forth as I feel it isn't conducive to a good arrangement an sets a tone for a transaction relationship. If she says 'oh no, I usually get xxx' I tell her she is very pretty and that she is out of my league. If your not creepy, dressed nice and can hold a good conversation more than likely she will adjust what she is looking for.
Remember she isn't a escort. She wants to think of herself as a nice girl who just needs a bit of help.
The initial amount I offer is all based on how I read her. If she is a bit chubby or what have you I will offer less. The 23 yr old spinner platinum blonde cutie won't give me that wiggle room as she will get the best offers.
In this environment where it seems girls are asking for excess amounts I would rather give a amount than have her lay out some outlandish number like 500 that is just too much to even counter offer.
I just like anyone don't want to spend more than I have to and if I see promise that I want to see her for a while I will discuss a different amount for either multiple dates per week, extended time together or something like that.
PH.
[QUOTE=PinHead11;5644300]Umm, You have total 3 posts. This one where you complain about getting information, telling us how you would share but are waiting. Your second post about how you want us to share and your first post asking about a SB named Linda.
Do you see the pattern? You ask but you don't give.
There is information given here. If your asking for exact amounts and phone numbers most times you will not get that. A true SB does not think of themselves as a escort or anything close to it and need to be treated as such. They are picky with who they date. Some date only one guy, some may date a couple guys but most aren't a revolving door like you find on STG or list crawler.
I'm not gong to post publicly a SB phone number or exact details of my date with her. I don't know you. You might call her and say "so and so went out with you and did xxx for SSS I want the same deal. " She is now horrified and disappears..[/QUOTE]I'm not looking for private information as I stated in the first sentence of my post which you quoted. Since you bring up pattern yes I do see a pattern. The pattern is providing links to SB profiles who for whatever reason do not work out while rarely (note I say rarely, I'm not saying never) providing links to the those who do. That was my only point in my first post on the matter. It had nothing to do with private information. If you want to criticize me for not posting any I know fair enough, but it doesn't disprove what I just said. I don't want to hijack this thread so won't post anymore about it unless what I said is misconstrued.
[QUOTE=Mg995;5646017]I'm not looking for private information as I stated in the first sentence of my post which you quoted. Since you bring up pattern yes I do see a pattern. The pattern is providing links to SB profiles who for whatever reason do not work out while rarely (note I say rarely, I'm not saying never) providing links to the those who do. That was my only point in my first post on the matter. It had nothing to do with private information. If you want to criticize me for not posting any I know fair enough, but it doesn't disprove what I just said. I don't want to hijack this thread so won't post anymore about it unless what I said is misconstrued.[/QUOTE]There are UTR escorts on SA, but genuine SBs are a different than escorts. They date a guy, or maybe a couple of guys, regularly, they don't just do random PPM dates with everyone who messages them. I have been seeing an SB for over a year. If we stop seeing each other and she's back on SA, I'll provide the appropriate recommendation, but there's nothing for me to say about her right now because she's not looking for anyone else.
I have shared offsite some quality SB's to legitimate posters and senior members. In return, they have shared as well. The pattern and lesson here is, if you give to the board and add value, you will get value and intel from the board. It's quite simple. Not sure why mongers don't grasp this concept.
Be Safe.
[QUOTE=SdPhilly;5646152]There are UTR escorts on SA, but genuine SBs are a different than escorts. They date a guy, or maybe a couple of guys, regularly, they don't just do random PPM dates with everyone who messages them. I have been seeing an SB for over a year. If we stop seeing each other and she's back on SA, I'll provide the appropriate recommendation, but there's nothing for me to say about her right now because she's not looking for anyone else.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5646650]I have shared offsite some quality SB's to legitimate posters and senior members. In return, they have shared as well. The pattern and lesson here is, if you give to the board and add value, you will get value and intel from the board. It's quite simple. Not sure why mongers don't grasp this concept.
Be Safe.[/QUOTE][I][color=red]Tongue in Cheek![/color][/I]
Youse just don't get it, do youse? Why should I HAVE TO share anything, the internet is here, it is free and I am [U]entitled[/U] to any answer I want just for asking! That's the way it's suppose to work. FREE information! Anyone who thinks otherwise must be an OG! Enough with this "share and share alike" stuff, just give me the info I want! You're NOT my parents!
And then you act like this is some kind of exclusive "club" or something? I mean I can walk in any place and get free pussy, why do I need to "prove" myself to a bunch of guys who couldn't get laid in a convention of horny women?
[I]I hope the intended humour resonates and those that need to it, see how ridiculous this looks?[/I]
Does vanilla Visa work as payment for site?
Not anymore.
[QUOTE=GuidoPitHair;5649500]Does vanilla Visa work as payment for site?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GuidoPitHair;5649500]Does vanilla Visa work as payment for site?[/QUOTE]You need the One Vanilla Visa Card. Plus you need to wait 24-hrs after loading it before trying it on the SA site. Worked for me recently.