The Woodshed

I think she's referring to the provider blacklists, not actually posting personal information for God and everybody to see. She's discrete.

[QUOTE=RedTalon;2624657]I'm sure she is. But, I focused on when she threatens to publicly shame people that just shows that she is willing to violate the one golden rule of discretion in this "business". Keep in mind I trust no-one but to say you would willingly expose people, I have a huge issue with that. For her to even consider doing that puts her on my permanent shit list. Plus, this is the Wood Shed where anything goes and she appears to have thin skin. Lea, kudos to you for not threatening to expose potential clients!

If it wasn't true she wouldn't have taken such great offense to my comments. I received the exact reaction I thought I would get, hehe.[/QUOTE]

I don't have a horse in this race since I'm no longer a participant. But since I was in the hobby longer than half you guys on this forum have been alive, I think I know what I'm talking about. You want to get your rocks off and have a good time doing it. Providers want to help you do that and make money for their services. It's as simple as that. Now you throw in the variables.

You deal with BP, CL and similar sites and SOMETIMES you'll get what you pay for. Whether it's drugs, alcohol, pimps, BFs or the like, you have about a 50% chance things will go as you hoped. There aren't many rules, but generally the quality of the provider is average at best.

Take the ladies who have posted here over the past 6 months or so, as well as other highly regarded providers. It's very rare you visit them and don't come away totally satisfied. That 50% goes up to at least 90%. They're quality, dependable, gorgeous and talented in meeting your needs. And they're also smarter than the BP type. They're more aware of the risks and potential rewards, and have a plan for dealing with both. Remember the adage: "I have the pussy, I set the rules. " This is a business for them, part-time or otherwise. They have every right to set the boundaries they feel are important to them.

Finally, remember everyone here has a bad day now and then. We all feel we've been cheated, misled, crapped on from time to time. But shit does happen. Move on.

OBG.

[QUOTE=RaeMonroe;2623365]It's nice to see that a client thinks he knows my business.

Newsflash: you don't.

I can and do collect on 90% of my cancelled appointments and those who do not adhere to my policy are given plenty of warning that they will be publicly blacklisted.

When prospective clients contact me they are repeatedly asked and must agree to my cancellation policy before booking. It's that simple.

On another note, please refrain from comparing one provider's policies and practices to another's. This is an intimate business and every service provider is entitled to run her business how she sees fit and that is nobody's business but hers alone.

You don't like it? See someone else. It really is that damn simple.[/QUOTE]Sharing your name, personal address, where you live, etc. I could be wrong. But whatever way providers can let other providers know not to deal with time wasters, she will reveal but I'm not sure if that means our personal info. Again, I could be wrong.

[QUOTE=YoungRestless;2624799]Sharing your name, personal address, where you live, etc. I could be wrong. But whatever way providers can let other providers know not to deal with time wasters, she will reveal but I'm not sure if that means our personal info. Again, I could be wrong.[/QUOTE]All of us providers have places we put men who get on our DNS list. I've only added three men to the national PUBLIC blacklist the entire time I've been a provider and they hands down deserved it.

The golden rule isn't discretion. The golden rule is don't try to kill, rape, or rob us and then we will most certainly be discrete.

The rest of the guys who break the "other" rules and don't adhere to my policy go on a private DNS list and are added to private boards for other PROVIDERS to see. It's just that simple. Play by the rules and YOU have nothing to worry about. I would never "expose, out, or reveal" a prospective client's information to anyone other than other providers unless I considered him violent and dangerous.

And personally, I don't care whose "shit list" I'm on. I guarantee I'm on more "damn I want to fuck her, here is all my information" lists than shit lists. Seriously.

I didn't get to the point I am today by NOT being fucking discrete and having my shit together.

[blue]Thank you, every time chicks write me and yell at me because they can't defend on the forum I remind them that there are "national PUBLIC blacklist" that guys can't even read let alone respond to.

I'm sure that you use them responsibly, but my money says a lot of your contemporaries don't.

A2[/blue]

I know you are addressing an issue we had this week with scheduling. I have seen you multiple times all great visisits and a mutual respect has been had between us. What I don't understand is how you talk about a cancelation policy. I set my appointment up with you via text message and once I realized I could not make it at the scheduled time I then sent a text immediately informing you of the situation and if it were OK to reschedule with no reply from you. I then called the next day to attempt to schedule with you again and you then went on a tirade describing me as wasting your time. How is it wasting your time giving you ample amount of notice of cancelation and then attempting to reschedule?

Got to jump in here. Feel free to argue with this chick as long as you want but the use of shame on sex workers (and yes my friend it's work, not as hard as shoveling shit, but it's work) pisses me off. We fucking love hookers here are the USASG and I will call guys out for **** shaming everytime I see it.

A2.

Just telling it like it is. Not judging or shaming anyone either. I was simply stating truths and just because she can't handle the truth about herself doesn't make it any less true. She got offended by me asking how she collects cancellation fees (for whatever reason) and then proceeded to attempt to insult me, which in and of itself, was laughable. Now she has learned. Hey, mess with the bull, get the horns. Her attitude is a reflection of her character, or actually, maybe being a prostitute is.

[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2624465]And that's what I had to say offended you. Clearly someone has very thin skin, which I think most dudes wouldn't find very becoming of a hooker. Yes, that's right. I said hooker, because that's what you are. Keep living your delusional life and keep calling what you do work. Sex work. What a joke. Using the F word too. Wow, you aren't even able to act like a lady on the internet. Keep on selling your vajayjay on the internet and calling it work if you choose too.

[blue]Gotta jump in here. Feel free to argue with this chick as long as you want but the use of shame on sex workers (and yes my friend it's work, not as hard as shoveling shit, but it's work) pisses me off. We fucking love hookers here are the USASG and I will call guys out for **** shaming everytime I see it.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]I got to go with the "it's work. I want to have an enjoyable time, and am willing to pay for it" group. Why some guys feel the need to go for making degrading comments about women who have not done them wrong personally, it's beyond me. If you're making use of their services, moralizing about it seems strange.

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;2625567]I got to go with the "it's work. I want to have an enjoyable time, and am willing to pay for it" group. Why some guys feel the need to go for making degrading comments about women who have not done them wrong personally, it's beyond me. If you're making use of their services, moralizing about it seems strange.[/QUOTE]Please read my previous post. I wrote in it "not judging anyone or shaming anyone" I was questioning her collection of cancellation fees which seems pretty difficult to obtain and she decided to insult me (albeit very poorly). I was simply stating the truth, and just because she was offended by it, that doesn't make it any less than the truth. This isn't work just because money changes hands. Thinking it is so doesn't make it so.

[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2625366]Got to jump in here. Feel free to argue with this chick as long as you want but the use of shame on sex workers (and yes my friend it's work, not as hard as shoveling shit, but it's work) pisses me off. We fucking love hookers here are the USASG and I will call guys out for **** shaming everytime I see it.

A2.

Just telling it like it is. Not judging or shaming anyone either. I was simply stating truths and just because she can't handle the truth about herself doesn't make it any less true. She got offended by me asking how she collects cancellation fees (for whatever reason) and then proceeded to attempt to insult me, which in and of itself, was laughable. Now she has learned. Hey, mess with the bull, get the horns. Her attitude is a reflection of her character, or actually, maybe being a prostitute is.[/QUOTE]Absolute bullshit. This epitomizes the "I'm not saying, I'm just saying" weak character assassination approach.

Paragraph starts with "I'm not judging" and ends with "she's a prostitute, and therefore of weak character. ".

I don't know her, haven't met her. Don't have any skin in this, except I despise hypocrites and. Well, hypocrites. She doesn't appear to be one. You, on the other hand, do.

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;2625876]Absolute bullshit. This epitomizes the "I'm not saying, I'm just saying" weak character assassination approach.

Paragraph starts with "I'm not judging" and ends with "she's a prostitute, and therefore of weak character. ".

I don't know her, haven't met her. Don't have any skin in this, except I despise hypocrites and. Well, hypocrites. She doesn't appear to be one. You, on the other hand, do.[/QUOTE]And believe it or not, so are you. Character assassination? HAHAHAHAHA. I think she took care of that herself. Isn't it funny how the name callers always resort to name calling? I didn't call her anything she isn't. She didn't like what I had to say about her cancellation policy, and then insinuated by her post that I know nothing about her or her business, which she undoubtedly believes. Well she can believe what she wants. Funny thing is?? How does she know I am not someone she has seen before? Answer, she wouldn't.

[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2625783]Please read my previous post. I wrote in it "not judging anyone or shaming anyone" I was questioning her collection of cancellation fees which seems pretty difficult to obtain and she decided to insult me (albeit very poorly). I was simply stating the truth, and just because she was offended by it, that doesn't make it any less than the truth. This isn't work just because money changes hands. Thinking it is so doesn't make it so.[/QUOTE]Not work? So you think EVERY man I see is an adequate lover and enjoy there company? No. While I DO enjoy what I do, some men make me feel awkward and downright uncomfortable, but its my JOB to make this ten percent feel like I'm enjoying there company (don't worry regulars, if I see you more than 3 times that means I really DO enjoy your visit a, cause everyone gets at least 3 chances to let there nervousness die down). I promise you, as someone who has had both physical and mental jobs before, that this is a combo of both. Just because we get paid more per minute than you and can find things we definitely like abou t it, doesn't mean things are always peaches and cream!. Has your job ever landid you in the emergency room getting stitches in your face, getting xolonopin for a panic attack, talking to officers and throwing your entire outfit11 away because it was soaked in your own blood? Not only is it a job, but ifyour not lucky, its the most dangerous one in the world because I'm "just another prostitute that won't be missed".