I think Ledger is an idiot!
He seriously has no conflict management skills. Not saying that I do LOL. Because I'm a hothead too! But to threaten to report everyone, can't remember who that would be, is idiotic! It makes him look like a moron and either he will eventually have to change his user name or will fall off the board altogether, because everyone will likely continue bashing him or ignore him altogether. I think it's best to just ignore him and also his negative reviews. Funny that his reviews are mostly negative but then he overtips. Does that mean he overtips the bad providers or everyone? Has he ever had a good experience with a provider, just one positive review??
I was meaning to address the issue of clients dating escorts. I don't see anything wrong with it at all. Actually I think it could be a perfect match if both people are mature enough to handle an open relationship. I know at least one escort who does and they are swingers. Her boyfriend accompanies her when she's on the road for protection and even has joined in on the sessions. I know another escort who's husband is free to see other escorts, although he was never a client of hers.
I had a client who was staying with his wife in a hotel in Boston when I was escorting there. It was during that snow storm two years ago when all transportation was shut down. Funny that I was busy then, the guys actually walked to me in that shitty weather! LOL. Anyway he told his wife he was going out to buy her a special take out meal each time he saw me, which was twice. After our session he would order her meal from my hotel's restaurant. She was probably thinking that her husband was very thoughtful! Anyway my point is that I do not want to be in that woman's position!
I'd date a client, (I did once and it didn't work out for reasons not related to my escorting) and give him the green light to see as many escorts as he wants. I'd be willing to help him choose one only if he asks me for my advice.(I don't want to interfere in his choices, because I don't want to be co-dependant) and I wouldn't be cool with it just because I feel like I have to to keep him. I honestly wouldn't mind at all! Even if he cheated on me with a non pro or fell in love with someone, if he were honest about it although I wouldn't be particularly happy about it, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Everyone's free to choose their paths in life and I don't want to be responsible for holding anyone back.
And for those who say it can't work, because there are too many hurdles for such an unconventional relationship, let me remind you. The divorce rate is allegedly 50%! I'm assuming most of these marriages are traditional, conventional ones. And many who stay together do it for their children, or convenience.. If conventional / traditional relationships worked out so well escorts wouldn't be as busy as they are!
As far as the admin is concerned when he said he'd be into going to the movies with a provider if she were interested, I say I'd be game just as long as there were a lot of handing holding and pda! And definitely be up for it if there were occasional DFK's I'm not saying this to be a kiss ass, but I think he's cool and has the right attitude, no nonsense and upfront. He doesn't allow anyone to take advantage of him! I think this should always be the case, standing one's ground. Especially with escorts standing your ground is a must! Otherwise you'll be one of those dudes who thinks he's dating an escort, but in reality is her sugar daddy and she's just using him. Escorts are notorious for taking advantage of people. Look at all the bad provider experiences I've read about here and on other forums. I'm an anomaly in this business, because I have no desire whatsoever to take advantage of anyone. I only want what's due me.
Anyway, I'm having a fab time. I wasn't impressed with Myrtle Beach. Too many rowdy kids drinking and acting like asses. As far as Virginia Beach is concerned I stayed in town and didn't even see the beach St Augustine is the best so far! The condo is right on the beach! It's really nice, new and modern. It has two bedrooms, flat screens are a must, I'm sleeping in the master bedroom with it's own bathroom and flat screen tv. There is also a deck on the third floor with tables and chairs where anyone can sit up there and have a full access view of the beach and the ocean. I'm staying here for 10 days visiting an ex stripper friend of mine.
Getting back to the admin. If you are ever in Boston we can hang out and I'll buy you are beer (that is if you like beer!
Ciao.
A2 shut down the Massholes!
A2, I think this was opened with good intentions but in my opinion it really turned into members throwing insults at each other and really took many valuable members away from discussing pussy. This section is really counterproductive and amounts to nothing more then providing an opportunity for members to get pissed off at each other and divide us instead of uniting us over the same goal. Sometimes it reads like if bunch of kids were pointing at each other and screaming "No, you're stupid! "No, you're stupid! I'm sure that it's a source of some amusement for some (and sometimes for myself too) but for the health of the forum I believe it's a bad news.
I think in general if members don't like someone or want to call somebody out on something they should do it in regular pussy-oriented section but do it once or maybe twice but the minute it begins to feel like it's about to get out of hand, with somebody repeating the same shit over and over the moderator should step in and say: "Hey! You said your piece! Move on!" It doesn't happen all that often for the moderator to get overwhelmed with such situations. And if someone seem to think of himself as a self-appointed truth policeman and keeps continuously calling someone out this person should be warned and advised to knock this shit off or get a blog of his own where he can do whatever the fuck he wants!
If you believe that someone (like apparently is Ledger) is so much of an asshole that he needs to be bounced out of the forum, present your arguments to the moderator (A2) why you believe he should be bounced out of the forum. If A2 agrees with you, he'll bounce him out. But continuously going on and on about how much of an asshole he is only facilitates you not writing about your latest pussy experience! And I'm pretty sure that I will speak for the greater majority here when I say that that's what we want to here and not how much of an asshole Ledger or Monger Expert or whoever the fuck else is. We're all adults here. We know there are plenty of assholes on this forum. Pointing fingers and calling people out over and over again is bullshit! Instead of doing that you could've enlightened us with your latest pussy experience that most of us, I guarantee you, would rather read about.
I dealt in the open and via PMs with many on both sides of this crap and I found most of them to be valid and honorable mongers in their own right.
Again I believe that this section is very counterproductive to the health of this forum. It turns hobbyists against one another where otherwise they're wouldn't have been and takes people's minds away from reviewing pussy. Again I'm asking A2 respectfully to shut down The Massholes!
Massholes, a part of my family
[QUOTE=Nrlmus;2076045]A2 shut down the Massholes![/QUOTE]No one is forcing anyone to participate on the site or any of the forums, if you don't like any of the aspects of how or the way it's run you can at the very least sound off about it here without being flagged for it, as A2 has done in the past saying it's not the correct forum in which to contact the Administrator. How is that not better?
Which leads me to ask why post your request to close Massholes here.(rhetorical), I mean you could've pm'ed or sent an email to A2 rather than posting about it here. Also where does it stop (again rhetorical), because some individuals may not like certain aspects of another forum & feels it distracts from some other part of the site or a certain forum does that get closed also, it doesn't make sense to do so.
While the post count on the report & review boards may have gone down a little (hard to say without metrics), the content of the reports & reviews are more focused with info & intel & has less unattributed commentary.
Given that, I would say Massholes has done what it was intended to do, to keep the other boards free from the bullshit. An outlet is needed for those who would use it as best suits them without getting an infraction & Massholes is valid & necessary forum as is evident by the posts. I feel there is room here for all the forums including Massholes.
Perhaps self restraint can be applied by those that do not wish to visit Massholes, as there is nothing compelling anyone to do so, I look forward to your reviews about pussy, but don't fuck with my family!
