NoVA SugarBabies

[QUOTE=Shier;6022556][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b8aa265a-bd60-4bb2-8362-6b710e6b8338[/URL]

Flake and maybe a scammer. She is real and has the piercings if you like that kind of thing (I do), and she will actually meet up with some work. She doesn't really overflow with communication but she is responsive.

We mutually had to reschedule our first meet up several times, so she was committed to meeting. Set a meetup for coffee and she was late and got lost. At one point she started complaining about the gas money she had spent driving (red flag #1). She had asked for the location more than one time, and how can you not follow GPS navigation? Geez. She finally drives up and asks me to come out to the parking lot (red flag #2). I say what the hell and I do. She gets out of her car and says, "which car is yours? Let's go. " So before I could think I motion to my car and we get in. She just stares straight ahead not saying much. I asked if she wanted coffee, or some dinner, she said she was not hungry. Still just kind of a 1000 yd stare. "Where we goin?" I said I don't know, I thought we would have some time to talk over coffee and possibly dinner. "Nah I don't want to do any of that". I don't know how to describe how bad her attitude and demeanor was.

The conversation didn't go much farther before I realized I was in for an evening of frustration and disappointment. I told her it was best we part ways and we did. I will shamefully admit to offering her some gas money. I consider it "going away quietly" money and that's probably her scam. So I confess I fed the scammer. Hopefully this report will save someone else the trouble. Thinking back another red flag was that she asked me to bring diet coke and a bottle of vodka. That evening would have wound up with me and a drunken poo-butt and possibly a scene in a hotel. Ain't nobody got time for that. See ya later poo-butt.

I am getting discouraged by how many flakes and scams there are on SA.[/QUOTE]Just started using this site because I'm new to all of this sorry, but we met the other day for tapas in dc. She was very polite plus she was wearing a tight dress that I could see her nipple rings through She was kind of standoffish at first but not intolerable, she did not ask me to buy her alcohol like previous people have stated as a concern. We ended up having fun at my place and she looks a lot better than her profile which I wasn't anticipating. She's into a lot of role-play and bdsm type stuff which I'm new to and even pulled out a schoolgirl outfit! She really does have piercings everywhere if you're into that thing. She first said she want 1 k but we talked down to 600.

[QUOTE=Mandane;6028212]OK, being gentle. Some report is better than no report. That said, she hasn't been active on the site in 11 months. Unless you know that she's magically about to resurface I am not sure what we are supposed to make of this. How much did you pay?[/QUOTE]Sorry, she may not be active on SA but she is still responsive to texts. Her visits are 200 for full service at her place.

[QUOTE=Mandane;6028212]OK, being gentle. Some report is better than no report. That said, she hasn't been active on the site in 11 months. Unless you know that she's magically about to resurface I am not sure what we are supposed to make of this. How much did you pay?[/QUOTE]It's possible she has her activity on invisible. Possible. I usually don't reach out unless it says someone is active recently. But now I am questioning this logic. A lot of women get overwhelmed by all the messages and this would surely cut back on that and let them reach out to who they want to 🤔.

[QUOTE=Shier;6026984]I think there's something to that. Subtle shift, but recently it does seem like they're coming out of the woodwork. I'm getting pings from SDs who went quiet long ago. And yeah student loans could change the game.[/QUOTE]Student loans will definitely bring more back but I'm certain they are going to continue deferring payments. I think there's more to it.

1. It's summer, and I think it brings more people out. (Weakest part of my argument).

2. Inflation. Biological daddy isn't filling that gas tank or buying them drinks.

3. Related to 2. These girls sat at home, didn't travel, and didn't live their normal lifestyle for a few years. Now that they are returning to "normal" they need money for cute clothes, concerts, drinks, travel. They can make 300-400 in a couple hours and are finding out that is much easier than making $15 ($12 ish taxed) an hour at a shitty job. In one sugar date at $350 for a couple hours they are making more than the would in 28 hours retail at $12.50.

[QUOTE=UcGuy4534;6029884]Sorry, she may not be active on SA but she is still responsive to texts. Her visits are 200 for full service at her place.[/QUOTE]I can confirm she is real, saw her pre pandemic once. I wasn't that impressed. Also have not seen her in in a while. Pics are Accurate but I would not say she is better in person. Mechanical, not a great head game, had a bf, , but her skills may have improved. Either way she was a cool chick and for 200 hosted I might need to see if I still have her right number.

Never met her but know she has been discussed before.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b93149e7-f83c-4116-a50e-8be95d203393[/URL]

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[QUOTE=GMarts018;6030076]Student loans will definitely bring more back but I'm certain they are going to continue deferring payments. I think there's more to it.

1. It's summer, and I think it brings more people out. (Weakest part of my argument).

2. Inflation. Biological daddy isn't filling that gas tank or buying them drinks.

3. Related to 2. These girls sat at home, didn't travel, and didn't live their normal lifestyle for a few years. Now that they are returning to "normal" they need money for cute clothes, concerts, drinks, travel. They can make 300-400 in a couple hours and are finding out that is much easier than making $15 ($12 ish taxed) an hour at a shitty job. In one sugar date at $350 for a couple hours they are making more than the would in 28 hours retail at $12.50.[/QUOTE]This is the DC area, who the fuck still works for $15/ hr here. Fucking Chipotle was offering $200 hiring bonuses the other day when I went to get lunch. Receptionists are getting 45-50 k salary off the bat. This area is expensive and the job market is fuking crazy right now, my secretary left last week because they asked for a 50% raise from $40 k to 60 k cause they found out they were going to have a kid. I told them I could work up to it but no way I can give a 50% raise immediately, it's going to take a couple years. They submitted their 2 week notice 3 days later, showed me an offer letter from Kastle for a customer service position paying $55 k, entry level phone answering role.

[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6030349]This is the DC area, who the fuck still works for $15/ hr here. Fucking Chipotle was offering $200 hiring bonuses the other day when I went to get lunch. Receptionists are getting 45-50 k salary off the bat. This area is expensive and the job market is fuking crazy right now, my secretary left last week because they asked for a 50% raise from $40 k to 60 k cause they found out they were going to have a kid. I told them I could work up to it but no way I can give a 50% raise immediately, it's going to take a couple years. They submitted their 2 week notice 3 days later, showed me an offer letter from Kastle for a customer service position paying $55 k, entry level phone answering role.[/QUOTE]The original post was about student loans. So it's talking about current college students or those just out of college. Not the DC girl making 65 k out of college. I've met SBs off the site working retail, bartending, waitressing, working part time, or unemployed. Next time you go to a restaurant or bar or Walmart or department store or hotel or any blue collar job that isn't likely full time then realize they aren't making that much money. Yes, there are plenty of sugar baby's making good money with good careers but the entire point is that inflation and wanting more money for fun is going to drive some of those people back. On a side not, if your demeanor is any indicator, your secretary probably left your company for more reasons than having a kid.

[QUOTE=GMarts018;6030052]It's possible she has her activity on invisible. Possible. I usually don't reach out unless it says someone is active recently. But now I am questioning this logic. A lot of women get overwhelmed by all the messages and this would surely cut back on that and let them reach out to who they want to 🤔.[/QUOTE]I don't think non-premium members can do that. Some girls are premium. They can get it free if they verify with a college email. She was not premium.

[QUOTE=Mandane;6030978]I don't think non-premium members can do that. Some girls are premium. They can get it free if they verify with a college email. She was not premium.[/QUOTE]That makes sense. I honestly always wondered what premium gets the girls since it's free for them.

Hey, don't post often but a few observations—would really appreciate feedback from others!

Jaibaby21 ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1f97955f-085d-4982-b9ec-3a779192b2f7[/URL]).

- Seems DTF but has a difficult schedule to work around. Working long hours and really only free on weekend nights. Have others met her and had any luck? Worth it? She's been on the site for almost a year but says she just moved to the DC area.

Andi ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b08d98cb-6f60-48fd-b753-d4d49ccf4360[/URL]).

- Cute, can host in DC. Didn't discuss $$ but seems reasonable.

Hey Heather ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a7a94e86-cfa0-4ee5-3652-c9205e5342db[/URL]).

- Quick to go to text and DTF after a drink, she says. But ghosted after a brief bit of texting.

GraceM13 ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a830db8f-6cc2-42cc-b55f-62dd45a6b7f9[/URL]).

- Talking to her now. DTF, reasonable PPM, but I suspect she may be high volume. Can host in DC.

CherryLa (can't find her link; deactivated? Or blocked me?

- Met her. Looks amazing. Pics are real. My experience matches the previous poster. Can be talked down in PPM. Must use condoms and she hosted in her hotel room. She also told me here for a conference but I suspect UTR pro.

Hot girl, 25. Very flaky, GPS, and semi-scam. Had her once, second time left me with a dinner & drinks bill and no show after to FC location, making up an excuse.

Seems I'm getting only one bite at this apple. Which means one of you has her attention, more than likely LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a48e10b-4a1e-42f8-8087-c98c3572078e[/URL]

Tight little spinner / MILF. Very gregarious and fun. Dinner and drinks. Helped loosen things up. Got down and dirty talk wise, fun ride, fucks well and loud. $$ all around open and requested cover, but get feeling could be talked out of it. Have fun!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/96dfac63-4870-44d5-ba2d-a9e3441b2b28[/URL]

Goes on and on. Story after story. Long story about hurting an arm. Not meeting folks for PPM, only allowance now after bad experience. He has some nice vid clips to share. Since I doubt its an actual SB and likely some dude. Basically trying to find someone to bilk out of a substantial allowance amount best guess.

Viewed her profile and she responded that she had just ended a 2 year arrangement. Was ready to start a new one with me ASAP. Didn't even request to see my private pictures. However, she needed me to send $100 upfront to pay for nanny to watch her kid. Told her I would pay her nanny fee in cash at the M&G. Of course, she blocked me.

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