Non Pro's

[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;7388196]Admittedly not a lot but wanted $100 for a M&G and said she'd take it off the first meet. I told her I don't pay for M&G as a matter of course. She said she'd think about it and then crickets. *shrug*.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/37a52740-58a0-456e-a6ec-d56ebbc98c6a[/URL][/QUOTE]Well, she's good. Far from the smartest given the effort she put into it but she got me after all.

After I initially refused to pay the $ for the m&g she went quiet for a bit and continued the conversation in a believable and natural way and didn't oversell. That last part is what got me. Little head got the better of me and I agreed to meet figuring it was a single benji so fairly small risk. We met and talked in a neutral location for over 2 hrs and agreed to meet again for the main event. Of course, the first meeting didn't happen and there was an excuse the fit with her backstory but I saw the writing on the wall at this point. We agreed to meet another time and it's been full ghost since. Saw her online and sent a message on the site and she immediately blocked me.

So she gets the victory but her hourly rate for this one makes it not very savvy of her. She won't get ahead putting that much work into such a tiny profit. Still, you've been warned

[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;7408149]Well, she's good. Far from the smartest given the effort she put into it but she got me after all.

After I initially refused to pay the $ for the m&g she went quiet for a bit and continued the conversation in a believable and natural way and didn't oversell. That last part is what got me. Little head got the better of me and I agreed to meet figuring it was a single benji so fairly small risk. We met and talked in a neutral location for over 2 hrs and agreed to meet again for the main event. Of course, the first meeting didn't happen and there was an excuse the fit with her backstory but I saw the writing on the wall at this point. We agreed to meet another time and it's been full ghost since. Saw her online and sent a message on the site and she immediately blocked me.

So she gets the victory but her hourly rate for this one makes it not very savvy of her. She won't get ahead putting that much work into such a tiny profit. Still, you've been warned[/QUOTE]TBH, I think we should hard blacklist all these scammers and I'm open to a sticky thread with a link to the longer post explaining why.

We cover a decent net, and once they start failing to pull off their crap -- or get a version of it back themselves -- they go away.

[QUOTE=Markro3000;7408223]TBH, I think we should hard blacklist all these scammers and I'm open to a sticky thread with a link to the longer post explaining why.

We cover a decent net, and once they start failing to pull off their crap -- or get a version of it back themselves -- they go away.[/QUOTE]Started it. Blacklist away.

[QUOTE=Snake93;7401941]Pickings are slim on SDM so far. I was dismissed from Seeking, which sucks and I can say that there are just less people on SDM. Both on the Men and Lady's side. Anyone have any success there? Looking to rebuild the rotation. Looking preferably in the Lynnwood / Everett areas. Had one chick said that she does initial platonic dates for 200. I said, that's nice. I don't do that because there is no way on earth that her time is worth more than mine. This is a tough market, gentlemen! Seems like it's much easier to go back to Tokyo and the massage houses.[/QUOTE]I had great luck on SDM. Did SA for a month, got two leads, had two dates at 300 ppm each. Didn't vibe with either. Went to SDM, had 3 coffee meets, and ended up on a date with two. One says she wants to get to know each other more before oral, and the other became my regular.

[QUOTE=TheOnlyOmni;7406003][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8de41109-609e-45d1-a63f-7107a7b7d845[/URL]

Yeah, saw her. She is hella petite, maybe like a cup boobs? But everything covered, wanted like $800 doesn't really talk about it on the phone or via text. Just said she was "open minded". Came to my place, 30 minutes of talking we got into action.[/QUOTE]She messaged me out of the blue. Never set up a date. How was she, and what was the damage?

This one will waste your time.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2226d6e859fb3a66[/URL]

Made a plan to meet. She asked a lot of questions, made it clear that she wanted to delay intimacy, tried to get a large meet fee.

She agreed to a smaller meet fee of $50-100. We had an explicit plan with a reservation for a restaurant near her home.

She completely flaked / ghosted. Then after ignoring a few texts, responded, "$50-100 isn't enough".

Of course, I blocked her. But trust me, this isn't worth your time. And her horrible attitude makes her a must miss.

[QUOTE=Markro3000;7408712]This one will waste your time.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2226d6e859fb3a66[/URL]

...

Of course, I blocked her. But trust me, this isn't worth your time. And her horrible attitude makes her a must miss.[/QUOTE]There were a lot of red flags in that profile. My own experience is that the odds of a quality result rapidly shrink the younger they are.

I'll usually do a M&G once to suss things out but after that we'd damned well should be hitting the mattress.

A few more updates from the front:

Nala.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1af82bcf-f1c2-4e5a-983b-10331109ccf6[/URL]

I had to laugh out load at my text exchange with her, given reports on this board about her cowgirl skills (and because of her online persona and that she told me she had a SD in Florida). But get this:

"Everyone on here kinda expects physical intimacy really fast. The reason that I don't rush intimacy is because I haven't fully had sex before, ever. I've messed around and done sexual things but I haven't done the whole thing due to being raised strictly Christian. I've been waiting to get married but also not really against waiting either at this point because I'm older and was kind of raised too harshly. "

I mean, looking for a simp much?

Kat.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1d009308-cd97-4b1c-826a-c25d32e55c24[/URL]

Was named Cait. Changed name randomly. Bad juju.

Faith.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/78ff1cb6-b0a8-4d8a-88e2-093d3140c892[/URL]

"I'm available virtually if that's what you'd like. "

Paisley.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7efb7429-14b2-4620-8507-17cfb80da1ca[/URL]

Changed text of her profile after we began messaging to a just for fun, kinda fucking with guys vibe. Not serious.

"hi I'm not rlly looking for anything in person right now".

I am a little older now and my memories might not be the best but I swear I been seeing girls changing their locations a lot lately. I only messages local gals only. I noticed after a few messages, their locations would changed to somewhere else. Anyone else seeing this?

Are these AI bots profile?

[QUOTE=Dirk901;7410854]I am a little older now and my memories might not be the best but I swear I been seeing girls changing their locations a lot lately. I only messages local gals only. I noticed after a few messages, their locations would changed to somewhere else. Anyone else seeing this?

Are these AI bots profile?[/QUOTE]Yes they are Scammers.

[QUOTE=Dirk901;7410854]I am a little older now and my memories might not be the best but I swear I been seeing girls changing their locations a lot lately. I only messages local gals only. I noticed after a few messages, their locations would changed to somewhere else. Anyone else seeing this?

Are these AI bots profile?[/QUOTE]These are scammers moving locations to find new targets.

And not in a good way.

She started a convo with me on the site, then she asked me to text her, saying, "Want to text off this platform? It's hard to have a adult convo on this site plus I don't get on here every day. 425. [URL]655.xxx[/URL]x".

We had been exchanging a few texts and I asked her about checking out a taco truck and a get together, and her response was: "I reported you for this sicko text. I'm sick of old creepy men who think sugar dating is prostitution".

In her 30's, blonde straight hair with glasses in some of the pics. I can't share the link because she has blocked me.

Probably boiling bunnies now as I type.

[QUOTE=CameraShy;7410256]A few more updates from the front:

Nala.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1af82bcf-f1c2-4e5a-983b-10331109ccf6[/URL]

I had to laugh out load at my text exchange with her, given reports on this board about her cowgirl skills (and because of her online persona and that she told me she had a SD in Florida). But get this:

"Everyone on here kinda expects physical intimacy really fast. The reason that I don't rush intimacy is because I haven't fully had sex before, ever. I've messed around and done sexual things but I haven't done the whole thing due to being raised strictly Christian. I've been waiting to get married but also not really against waiting either at this point because I'm older and was kind of raised too harshly..[/QUOTE]Nadia. I don't even bother with pics like that. She's not like that at all. Fake pics and I'm out! This whole thing is ridiculous at this point. Simps, and there are plenty of them, have ruined everything!! There are guys paying 500 for platonic dates! One just asked me to pay her expenses, take her shopping, put her 22 yo pink twat was closed for business. She made all these demands NEVER ONCE ASKED WHAT THE MAN WANTED! WTF? As soon as I mentioned penetration of her ****, crickets. Who the hell pays for company of a dumb 22 yo and get no pussy. That's so GD sad!! They all think we are desperate lonely old men!! And many act like it. I just told a 8 yesterday after 3 dates (I only paid for the appetizers) to beat unless we were going to get dirty before I handed over the coin!! You out got to be strong enough to ignore her beauty!! I'm back to my average 22 yo that at least shows up and fucks the crap out of me!! LOL f these GPS types. I do however still think of you hold out and have an abundance mindset, you can win!

Here's my work.

[QUOTE=SharkmanCT;7412028]And not in a good way.

She started a convo with me on the site, then she asked me to text her, saying, "Want to text off this platform? It's hard to have a adult convo on this site plus I don't get on here every day. 425. [URL]655.xxx[/URL]x".

We had been exchanging a few texts and I asked her about checking out a taco truck and a get together, and her response was: "I reported you for this sicko text. I'm sick of old creepy men who think sugar dating is prostitution".

In her 30's, blonde straight hair with glasses in some of the pics. I can't share the link because she has blocked me.

Probably boiling bunnies now as I type.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/08e9f6b9-3723-40b0-a1c8-88b60a2a1967[/URL]

If so, I think she's been slagged before here.

[QUOTE=SharkmanCT;7412028]And not in a good way.

She started a convo with me on the site, then she asked me to text her, saying, "Want to text off this platform? It's hard to have a adult convo on this site plus I don't get on here every day. 425. [URL]655.xxx[/URL]x".

We had been exchanging a few texts and I asked her about checking out a taco truck and a get together, and her response was: "I reported you for this sicko text. I'm sick of old creepy men who think sugar dating is prostitution".

In her 30's, blonde straight hair with glasses in some of the pics. I can't share the link because she has blocked me.

Probably boiling bunnies now as I type.[/QUOTE]LOL, she thought you meant her taco.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/08e9f6b9-3723-40b0-a1c8-88b60a2a1967[/URL]